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Nov 10, 10:09 PM
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Like they aren't in a relationship but they have a kid.

Or do you think it's cucked to raise another's offspring?
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Nov 10, 10:14 PM
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Yeah, I don't think it would be a big problem.



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Nov 10, 10:34 PM
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Sure, why not? I've seen videos of kids presenting their stepdad with adoption papers etc etc, even wanting the mans last name. I think that's kind of nice.
That would be if I'd raise them in a good way. xD
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Nov 11, 12:54 AM
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If she has a daughter then for sure, gotta wait some years and the oyakodon will be delicious.

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Nov 11, 1:42 AM
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If they are looking to take care of another kid, me, then I'm interested
Nov 11, 1:53 AM
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It depends on how bratty the kid is, I guess.
Nov 11, 2:20 AM
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Absolutely no, never. I don't like giving people false expectations, especially kids.

It's not about "cucking", it's about integrity.
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Nov 11, 6:11 AM
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I'm not really good with kids so maybe not.

vasipi4946 said:
do you think it's cucked to raise another's offspring?
no
Nov 11, 6:19 AM
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Anyone who wants to start a relationship with someone with a ready-made family like the person's significant others - kids and ex-spouse, in-laws, etc - should consider properly. A lot of conflict may begin in long term.

I personally is fine with it. But sometimes kids may not acknowledge you as their new parent.
Nov 11, 7:01 AM

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I think it would depend on the person, the kid and the situation concerning the kid's other parent, any complications or still lingering romance I absolutely wouldn't want, I've plenty of complications already.
I think it's something I wouldn't do eagerly, but perhaps for the right person I would.
Nov 11, 7:12 AM

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I rather continue being a virgin for life than help raise someone elses kid. Chad leaving or getting divorced is a huge red flag. Even if the husband died, no way I would ever pay for some other kid willingly.

It is uber cucked for a man to pay for kids that are not his own.
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Nov 11, 7:37 AM

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There are rare occasions when single mothers with kids are good women (e.g., when they are widows).

...but, pretty much in all other cases, single women with kids is not a good sign.
Nov 11, 7:41 AM

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I rather continue being a virgin for life than help raise someone elses kid. Chad leaving or getting divorced is a huge red flag. Even if the husband died, no way I would ever pay for some other kid willingly.

It is uber cucked for a man to pay for kids that are not his own.
@rohan121

Do you think every or even the majority of divorces are initiated by men? Also sometimes the father dies?



OT: It would be in spite of that status, but it can happen. Kamala Harris's stepdaughter was 15 when she married his husband. 15 is probably old enough that you don't have the expectation the person coming into your family will literally be your father/mother.
Nov 11, 7:43 AM

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Of course, I will make them all mine.

Nov 11, 7:50 AM

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Of course. If I had a son, then we'd both get dates!
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Nov 11, 9:36 AM

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vasipi4946 said:
Like they aren't in a relationship but they have a kid.

Or do you think it's cucked to raise another's offspring?

No it's not cucked to raise a step-kid, and people who think that way probs aren't fit to raise biological kids either
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Anyone who wants to start a relationship with someone with a ready-made family like the person's significant others - kids and ex-spouse, in-laws, etc - should consider properly. A lot of conflict may begin in long term.

I personally is fine with it. But sometimes kids may not acknowledge you as their new parent.
ProGoddess said:
I personally is fine with it. But sometimes kids may not acknowledge you as their new parent

Yes that is true

But as a parent (regardless of if they're biological or step-kids), one should not be looking for acknowledgement from the kids, but they should be there for the kids uncondotionally
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Nov 11, 10:40 AM
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nothing more pathetic and self deprecating for man than to raise another man little bastard
Nov 11, 10:50 AM
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It's an added complication, an added responsibility, not only do you have to make the relationship work with your partner but also with his or her children and then there's probably also that the father or mother of this kid or kids who still gravitates around the life of your partner and his or her children and it's a complication to the complication.
Nov 11, 12:56 PM
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Not even using the slang right, Beta not cuck if they're with the person they're not a cuck.

Yes and No. If they still are in contact with the child other parent absolutely not.

@Auron_ Incel / Red Pill community kids father dying is acceptable situation. Logic double edged sword.
AmityblightNov 11, 12:59 PM
Nov 11, 12:59 PM
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At the moment it is not something I would like, but over time that might change.
Nov 11, 1:01 PM

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Not even using the slang right, Beta not cuck if they're with the person they're not a cuck.

Yes and No. If they still are in contact with the child other parent absolutely not.

@Auron_ Incel / Red Pill community kids father dying is acceptable situation. Logic double edged sword.
Amityblight said:
If they still are in contact with them child other parent absolutely not

So if you fall in love with someone who has a kid, and that kid's mom/dad is still alive, you don't want the kid to have a healthy relationship with their biological mom/dad?
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Nov 11, 1:42 PM
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Amityblight said:
If they still are in contact with them child other parent absolutely not

So if you fall in love with someone who has a kid, and that kid's mom/dad is still alive, you don't want the kid to have a healthy relationship with their biological mom/dad?
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ProGoddess said:
I personally is fine with it. But sometimes kids may not acknowledge you as their new parent

Yes that is true

But as a parent (regardless of if they're biological or step-kids), one should not be looking for acknowledgement from the kids, but they should be there for the kids uncondotionally
@DigiCat

I do agree with you.

For children who are unable to accept their new parent, it does take a lot more effort to "win" over their trust. Hence it is very important that the kids' parent spend some time communicating with his/her kids before even introducing them the new boyfriend/girlfriend. Then gradually through gatherings and spending time together - with much love and care - that through these efforts that the children may get to accept the new relationship their parent is engaging in. It would make the new marriage and family more cordial, harmonious and happier.
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It depends on the person i would be dating and how well i would get along with the kid in that case. If the kids hates you, it's over.
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what the person above me said. if the offspring doesn't think you're a spring, you're off.

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