| Like they aren't in a relationship but they have a kid. Or do you think it's cucked to raise another's offspring? |
Mao said: If you have to shit, shit! If you have to fart, fart!  |
Yeah, I don't think it would be a big problem. |
SerafosNov 11, 1:49 AM
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| Sure, why not? I've seen videos of kids presenting their stepdad with adoption papers etc etc, even wanting the mans last name. I think that's kind of nice. That would be if I'd raise them in a good way. xD |
| "You only realize the real value of something you discarded when you get the chance to pick it up again." - Rudeus Greyrat |
| If she has a daughter then for sure, gotta wait some years and the oyakodon will be delicious. |
ZarutakuNov 11, 8:58 AM
No, this isn't my signature. |
| If they are looking to take care of another kid, me, then I'm interested |
| It depends on how bratty the kid is, I guess. |
| Absolutely no, never. I don't like giving people false expectations, especially kids. It's not about "cucking", it's about integrity. |
LoveYourSmileNov 11, 2:23 AM
| Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. |
| I'm not really good with kids so maybe not. vasipi4946 said: nodo you think it's cucked to raise another's offspring? |
| Anyone who wants to start a relationship with someone with a ready-made family like the person's significant others - kids and ex-spouse, in-laws, etc - should consider properly. A lot of conflict may begin in long term. I personally is fine with it. But sometimes kids may not acknowledge you as their new parent. |
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| I think it would depend on the person, the kid and the situation concerning the kid's other parent, any complications or still lingering romance I absolutely wouldn't want, I've plenty of complications already. I think it's something I wouldn't do eagerly, but perhaps for the right person I would. |
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| I rather continue being a virgin for life than help raise someone elses kid. Chad leaving or getting divorced is a huge red flag. Even if the husband died, no way I would ever pay for some other kid willingly. It is uber cucked for a man to pay for kids that are not his own. |
rohan121Nov 11, 2:05 PM
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I rather continue being a virgin for life than help raise someone elses kid. Chad leaving or getting divorced is a huge red flag. Even if the husband died, no way I would ever pay for some other kid willingly.
It is uber cucked for a man to pay for kids that are not his own.
It is uber cucked for a man to pay for kids that are not his own.
| @rohan121 Do you think every or even the majority of divorces are initiated by men? Also sometimes the father dies? OT: It would be in spite of that status, but it can happen. Kamala Harris's stepdaughter was 15 when she married his husband. 15 is probably old enough that you don't have the expectation the person coming into your family will literally be your father/mother. |
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| Of course, I will make them all mine. |
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| Of course. If I had a son, then we'd both get dates! |
| Auroraloose's Aurorasimp |
vasipi4946 said: Like they aren't in a relationship but they have a kid. Or do you think it's cucked to raise another's offspring? No it's not cucked to raise a step-kid, and people who think that way probs aren't fit to raise biological kids either |
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Reply to ProGoddess
Anyone who wants to start a relationship with someone with a ready-made family like the person's significant others - kids and ex-spouse, in-laws, etc - should consider properly. A lot of conflict may begin in long term.
I personally is fine with it. But sometimes kids may not acknowledge you as their new parent.
I personally is fine with it. But sometimes kids may not acknowledge you as their new parent.
ProGoddess said: I personally is fine with it. But sometimes kids may not acknowledge you as their new parent Yes that is true But as a parent (regardless of if they're biological or step-kids), one should not be looking for acknowledgement from the kids, but they should be there for the kids uncondotionally |
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| Not even using the slang right, Beta not cuck if they're with the person they're not a cuck. Yes and No. If they still are in contact with the child other parent absolutely not. @Auron_ Incel / Red Pill community kids father dying is acceptable situation. Logic double edged sword. |
AmityblightNov 11, 12:59 PM
| At the moment it is not something I would like, but over time that might change. |
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Not even using the slang right, Beta not cuck if they're with the person they're not a cuck.
Yes and No. If they still are in contact with the child other parent absolutely not.
@Auron_ Incel / Red Pill community kids father dying is acceptable situation. Logic double edged sword.
Yes and No. If they still are in contact with the child other parent absolutely not.
@Auron_ Incel / Red Pill community kids father dying is acceptable situation. Logic double edged sword.
Amityblight said: If they still are in contact with them child other parent absolutely not So if you fall in love with someone who has a kid, and that kid's mom/dad is still alive, you don't want the kid to have a healthy relationship with their biological mom/dad? |
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Amityblight said:
If they still are in contact with them child other parent absolutely not
If they still are in contact with them child other parent absolutely not
So if you fall in love with someone who has a kid, and that kid's mom/dad is still alive, you don't want the kid to have a healthy relationship with their biological mom/dad?
| @DigiCat Not me. I am talking Rohan red pill |
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ProGoddess said:
I personally is fine with it. But sometimes kids may not acknowledge you as their new parent
I personally is fine with it. But sometimes kids may not acknowledge you as their new parent
Yes that is true
But as a parent (regardless of if they're biological or step-kids), one should not be looking for acknowledgement from the kids, but they should be there for the kids uncondotionally
| @DigiCat I do agree with you. For children who are unable to accept their new parent, it does take a lot more effort to "win" over their trust. Hence it is very important that the kids' parent spend some time communicating with his/her kids before even introducing them the new boyfriend/girlfriend. Then gradually through gatherings and spending time together - with much love and care - that through these efforts that the children may get to accept the new relationship their parent is engaging in. It would make the new marriage and family more cordial, harmonious and happier. |
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| It depends on the person i would be dating and how well i would get along with the kid in that case. If the kids hates you, it's over. |
| what the person above me said. if the offspring doesn't think you're a spring, you're off. |
| I cannot and will not categorically rule it out, but it's not an attractive thought because: a) it misses the "it's the child that comes from both of us" feeling, so the part of every partner in a genetic sense (regardless of looks or behavior) b) there will always be the tragic wound that someone else was either forcefully evicted of the father's role or left on his own term c) the child would have to accept a new father figure and me as his father figure for it to work |
Reply to Zarutaku
If she has a daughter then for sure, gotta wait some years and the oyakodon will be delicious.
| @Zarutaku You're a bad person, and so am I for laughing uncontrollably at your post 😂 On-topic: Don't see why not, most women my age have a kid anyway... Kids are fun, plus I can kick their asses at videogames or wrestling >:3 But I'm out if the mother refuses to let me take part in their education, I'm not dealing with a useless brat teen down the line. |
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Reply to Zarutaku
If she has a daughter then for sure, gotta wait some years and the oyakodon will be delicious.
| Have you watched Oyakodon? It's a hentai and it's great. |
Reply to BigBoyAdvance
Have you watched Oyakodon? It's a hentai and it's great.
| @BigBoyAdvance This one? https://myanimelist.net/anime/15409/Oyakodon__Oppai_Tokumori_Bonyuu_Tsuyudaku_de Watched it some time ago, it's ok but the boobs are kinda oversized. |
No, this isn't my signature. |
| If I didn't have to deal with drama from the previous relationship, then yes. Otherwise, nope. |
| Married woman maybe, but single moms absolutely not. |
| Cucumber ice cream is the best! |
| Well the cuckoo bird kind of leaves their eggs to be raised by someone else So yes, that would, quite literally, be cucking Although of course I understand that the kid did not ask to be born, so in that situation I would not be mean but I would not be his friend either |
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| I'd be more comfortable if the kid was a teenager. Then I will just pretend they do not exist. Maybe be friends or friendly, but not much more than that. |
| Auroraloose's Aurorasimp |
| I have a son so the question does not apply (?). But I still separate things. My current girlfriend, who we have been together for about 4 years, has not met my son in person yet. |
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| Depends on the circumstances. If we get along nicely, why not. |
 I respect your opinion as long as you respect mine. |
| I would have loved to, especially babies and toddlers because they could grow up with you. |
| I would say a concrete no, if the other parent was still present in that childs life, or there was potential they (or unhinged family members) might be in the future. If they were also a risky unknown (such as someone in debt) I'd also say no because it really might come back in a bad way. Also a no if there was any sort of religious undercurrent to that relationship. Really the child is not the issue at all, it's the unknown of that other parent (and their family) and what kind of turmoil they could cause. The friends I've had growing up in this situation always seemed to have some terrible tension/conflict in their families due to it, so I feel like it would be better to avoid it. If the other parent was totally out of the picture with no potential of re-appearing, it would be down to the individual circumstances really. I don't have any issues with it in principle (child from another parent), but I have a lot of issues with the potential of that other parent. I suppose there's also the circumstances as to why they are separated, and whether there is potential for repair there. Having a child together is a very big thing. I think it's difficult to come between unless there is a very strong disconnection. |
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| I'm sorry, but no, it's my definitive red flag |
| Ideally not but not a dealbreaker since if I love someone I dont really have a choice in loving them. I just dont like the possibility it isn't even me being loved but just being used to help raise her kid out of desperation and I dont like how kids could interfere with intimacy. I'm not opposed to kids in general just certain relationship dynamics. |
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| if i can yes why not there is my simple answer |
| it would depend on the person, i think it instantly makes the nature of the relationship more serious (assuming they arent the type that frequently goes through partners despite being a single parent). but if someone meant enough to me then naturally i would support them anyway i could. definitely would make for a complicated relationship at the beginning though |
| "I can fix her". Patron Saint of Lost Causes. Psych Ward-maxxing. without love it cannot be seen |
| Are they* hot and or rich? If so, then I'd consider it! *"they" as in the parent. Who cares about the little cretin? |
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| I'm not interested in dating at all right now, so the answer is no. |
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| To be honest such relationships are complicated, depended on the case and the people. If the children are fine, the relationship is not toxic and you have same goals with your partner, it can happen yeap... In my case I actually had flirt time with a man whom I met quite often recently and he actually told me that he was single/divorced and has a daughter few years younger than me.(not a child) Well he was straight forward about his feelings and his intention to have relationship, but it didn't happen. He doen't intent to have other children and this is a big no for me actually. Other than that he really was caring and had good feelings! In conclusion, if there are no problems with the other parent and their children and you have same goals and good chemistry, well go for it! If not, i would not risk this kind of relationship... be aware of traps! lol |
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| a lot depends. how old are the kids? do the kids even like me? how involved is the bio father in their lives? what was the reason for her split from the bio dad? how do the kids feel about the divorce? my answer isn't inherently a no, i don't think i would shy away from being whatever father figure the kids need me to be, but it's still a very slippery slope with many variables in play so it's hard to be optimistic |
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