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What are some things in romance anime that should never be attempted in real life dating?

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Jan 28, 2023 7:33 PM
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Things in romance anime that probably wouldn't help you in a real relationship. Things like big dramatic confessions or some of the things that could be considered borderline stalking?
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Jan 28, 2023 7:36 PM
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pretty much the entire of plot of school days is a no no.

Jan 28, 2023 10:15 PM
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- Getting jealous and beating the shit out of your love interest just because they looked at someone.
- Tolerating an abusive relationship thinking that things will get better with time.
Jan 28, 2023 10:28 PM
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Having a good relationship with no character limit.
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Jan 28, 2023 10:44 PM
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Scavendgarr said:
Having a good relationship with no character limit.

Do you mean having a good relationship with multiple characters at once? MAL prefers at least 30 characters as the minimum limit.
Jan 28, 2023 11:10 PM
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Ishitateso said:
Scavendgarr said:
Having a good relationship with no character limit.

Do you mean having a good relationship with multiple characters at once? MAL prefers at least 30 characters as the minimum limit.

I actually mean the 30 character limit but yeah having a good relationship with 30 characters at once is also impossible.
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Jan 28, 2023 11:13 PM
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The hand slam on the wall. Very unlikely that would turn out well IRL lol.
Jan 28, 2023 11:20 PM
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Jan 29, 2023 12:41 AM
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Being able to categorize you into any dere would be a huge red flag in real life.
Jan 29, 2023 12:50 AM

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any kind of sibling or relative relationship should never be attempted, ecchi and hentai are pretty much the perfect guides on every line and action you should never consider taking
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Jan 29, 2023 12:58 AM

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since rent a girlfriend has the romance tag, I would like to say

don't fall in love with a rental girlfriend, preferably dont rent a girlfriend in the first place
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don't waste your money on multiple rental girlfriends simultaneously 

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Jan 29, 2023 1:06 AM

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In shoujo/josei anime everything female MC does should not be attempted IRL
In contrast what male MC of shoujo does, would work.

In seinen harems everything male MC does should not be attempted IRL
In contrast what female harem members do, would work. Though you need to find out which harem girl the guy in question likes, then imitate just her.

It is simple really.

There are some exceptions here and there, but that would be unusual shows like Utena.

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Jan 29, 2023 1:08 AM

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It might be only great in the anime, but never date to your related brother/sister irl.
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Jan 29, 2023 5:54 PM

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Randomly pinning someone up against a wall- especially in a public setting.

Jan 29, 2023 6:03 PM

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plantdaddyry said:
The hand slam on the wall. Very unlikely that would turn out well IRL lol.
Definitely this was what I would post. Most frame it as being pretty cringe for the most part for there credit.
Jan 29, 2023 6:47 PM

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All of it! Romance, dating, sex and all things relating to it should be illegal!
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Jan 29, 2023 6:53 PM

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obsession. Like what Usui does in Maid Sama is a no no
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Jan 30, 2023 1:51 PM

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"Accidentally" groping someone. If you do that to me be prepared to be sent to the Shadow Realm Jimbo
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Jan 31, 2023 3:59 PM
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Age gaps of 4+ years are fine in fiction (not the best, but I can excuse it because it's fiction), but a DEFINITE no in real life. (I live in an area where age gaps of 1-3 years are pretty common, so those kind of age gaps don't gross me out. I do know a couple who has a 10 or so-year age difference and I...yuck). 
Also, just unhealthy behaviors like obsession, jealousy, and not communicating.
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Jan 31, 2023 4:06 PM
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don't be a loser and try to get with some hot girl. i swear, it doesn't actually work in real life. trust me, i've tried.
Jan 31, 2023 4:07 PM
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AzureWeeb said:
Age gaps of 4+ years are fine in fiction (not the best, but I can excuse it because it's fiction), but a DEFINITE no in real life. (I live in an area where age gaps of 1-3 years are pretty common, so those kind of age gaps don't gross me out. I do know a couple who has a 10 or so-year age difference and I...yuck). 
Also, just unhealthy behaviors like obsession, jealousy, and not communicating.

my grandparents have an age gap of 10 years... 😳
Jan 31, 2023 4:23 PM
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timeforproblems said:
AzureWeeb said:
Age gaps of 4+ years are fine in fiction (not the best, but I can excuse it because it's fiction), but a DEFINITE no in real life. (I live in an area where age gaps of 1-3 years are pretty common, so those kind of age gaps don't gross me out. I do know a couple who has a 10 or so-year age difference and I...yuck). 
Also, just unhealthy behaviors like obsession, jealousy, and not communicating.

my grandparents have an age gap of 10 years... 😳
Large age gaps were somewhat common and more acceptable in the past, so I'm not surprised that your grandparents are that far apart. But, this couple got married in the 90s. I'm surprised nobody objected (as far as I know).
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Jan 31, 2023 5:01 PM
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Anything tsunderes do lol Also, don't confess in loud places.

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Jan 31, 2023 5:35 PM
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Unexpectedly kissing them. People will consider it assault if you do it to someone out of the blue in a public setting (especially if they don't like you back and are trying to push you away).
Jan 31, 2023 6:10 PM

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LSSJ_Gaming said:
"Accidentally" groping someone. If you do that to me be prepared to be sent to the Shadow Realm Jimbo
You think so? I dunno, it might be different elsewhere, but when I was at school over 10 years ago now, I accidentally touched or brushed a girls breasts/ass probably 2-3 times, and a quick apology is all that it needed, not making a big deal out of it. Sure, it's not full on groping, but it's close. 

Might be different if you don't exactly have the best reputation at school.
Jan 31, 2023 6:13 PM

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EndlessMaria said:
All of it! Romance, dating, sex and all things relating to it should be illegal!
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Jan 31, 2023 6:27 PM
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Anything that dude from Maid sama does lmao
Jan 31, 2023 7:38 PM

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Zoopiez said:
plantdaddyry said:
The hand slam on the wall. Very unlikely that would turn out well IRL lol.
Definitely this was what I would post. Most frame it as being pretty cringe for the most part for there credit.

An even worse thing to do would be the "FOOT SLAM!" from "Chio's School Road". Not only would it likely be tagged as sexual harassment dealing with someone who is not remotely into you but it would look ridiculous too. lol 






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