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How Do You Know If You're Special To Anyone Around You? And prove it?

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Jun 24, 2015 9:32 PM
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No, I'm not talking about you telling to yourself that you're special, because at the end of the day it's just you and your mind saying that just so you feel better for yourself.

What I'm talking about is how do you PROVE to the person next to you, or the girl you want to impress, or even that group that thinks you're no worth of their level, that you are as special as they are?

For goodness sake, when it comes to things you always wanted to be, you'd always have to find a way to earn it, even the ones with the hardest methods. Let's say I'd wish I could become a mod of any website like MAL for example, or look you got friends over there and all of them have a pass to a club but you.

Because it never helps to think that you could prove that you're special to those you want them to know, instead you're sitting in your room waiting in a loophole hoping someone would open the door to any of these opportunities of what you want to be and who you want to be with.

NO

THAT IS WHY YOU MUST TAKE ACTION TO YOURSELF, WHICH IS WHY IM ASKING YOU PEOPLE

HOW DO PROVE THAT YOU ARE SPECIAL? HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE SPECIAL? AND IF YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN BE SPECIAL BY DOING SOMETHING.

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Aside all of the motivation, in true words: we all deserve to be special and prove our accomplishment for what we can be capable of, for what we love and those who we love.

A Thread Sincerely Made By

Crzy Minus
Crzy_MinusJun 24, 2015 9:35 PM
Jun 24, 2015 9:32 PM
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Nobody

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I just presume
Jun 24, 2015 9:34 PM
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No one is special, so you don't need to prove you're on someones level when its the same as yours.
Jun 24, 2015 9:35 PM
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Personalized gifts are a good indicator if they/you care.
Jun 24, 2015 9:35 PM
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Nothing special. We are just human.
Jun 24, 2015 9:38 PM
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_Charl said:
Nothing special. We are just human.

^ Yup

If I can do something that others can't, like fixing the economy and global warming, I'd think I'm special.

That's not gonna happen anytime soon.
Jun 24, 2015 9:39 PM
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If you need to prove your worth to anyone, then I suggest finding new people who are more accepting of you.

This may be hard for many as most people out there are bigots, but the people who really are special are the people that just see you eye to eye the moment you meet
Jun 24, 2015 9:52 PM
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That's a lot of work, and why would I care what other people think
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Jun 24, 2015 10:05 PM
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Snarkian said:
If you need to prove your worth to anyone, then I suggest finding new people who are more accepting of you.

This may be hard for many as most people out there are bigots, but the people who really are special are the people that just see you eye to eye the moment you meet
Have you ever met people like this before?
Jun 24, 2015 10:06 PM
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Do something idiotic/"judgeable" and if you receive a positive, nurturing reaction from such a person, it means you're sth. Not saying if they don't it means you aren't.
Jun 24, 2015 10:07 PM

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Im special to the mods. They always scold me after I troll every now and then.
Jun 24, 2015 10:08 PM
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ooo333 said:
Im special to the mods. They always scold me after I troll every now and then.

That's not exactly a positive reaction.
Jun 24, 2015 10:09 PM

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You leave and if they begin to miss you, it's probably because you are special to them.
Jun 24, 2015 10:11 PM
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devinder said:
You leave and if they begin to miss you, it's probably because you are special to them.

This won't work is such a person is too proud to pursue and say he/she misses you. It's more likely he/she keeps quiet and resents you yet pretend nothing's on.
Jun 24, 2015 10:13 PM
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ooo333 said:
Im special to the mods. They always scold me after I troll every now and then.


don't worry
they love you
Jun 24, 2015 10:14 PM

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It's often hard to tell cause people can be pretty good at guarding their true emotions. Just keep giving your all on your part. Keep your expectations low.
Jun 24, 2015 10:14 PM

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Math-chan said:
devinder said:
You leave and if they begin to miss you, it's probably because you are special to them.

This won't work is such a person is too proud to pursue and say he/she misses you. It's more likely he/she keeps quiet and resents you yet pretend nothing's on.


Yeah, that's true. I didn't think of the possibility of the person you're leaving to be a tsundere.
Jun 24, 2015 10:35 PM

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Shironeko- said:
It's often hard to tell cause people can be pretty good at guarding their true emotions. Just keep giving your all on your part. Keep your expectations low.
You don't think there could be key to uncover a little piece of their true emotions if they're guarding it, right?
Aug 4, 2015 1:46 PM

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Bump, threads needs more tips on how to be special.
Aug 4, 2015 1:54 PM

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don't know because i'm not special to anyone.
Aug 4, 2015 1:56 PM

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Honestly, I don't know. That's up to the person to decide if I'm special to them or not.

Aug 4, 2015 2:25 PM
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I don't think I am special, but my family seems to care about me. They push me to succeed and get out of the house so I can fulfill myself rather than become a 40-year old mooching failure.
Aug 4, 2015 3:18 PM

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Bruh, you're being too Histrionic. Chill~...

When it comes to being special, Modesty is the best policy.
Aug 5, 2015 3:18 AM
Aug 5, 2015 3:29 AM

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I am not a beautiful and unique snowflake.

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Aug 5, 2015 3:43 AM

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I am a beautiful and unique snowflake.
Aug 5, 2015 4:02 AM

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I'm probably special to some nub in aoe 3.
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Aug 5, 2015 4:11 AM

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I don't care enough to go out of my way to prove how I'm supposedly special.

If I am then I am, if I'm not I'm not, do people really lose sleep wondering if they are a unique snowflake?
Christ, I suppose this is what is called 1st world problems.
Aug 5, 2015 4:22 AM

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The more emotional a person's reaction is, the more special you are to them. People who note your absence are people you're special to.
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Aug 5, 2015 8:05 AM

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I know I am special to my parents
Aug 5, 2015 8:51 AM

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Kronie said:
I don't care enough to go out of my way to prove how I'm supposedly special.

If I am then I am, if I'm not I'm not, do people really lose sleep wondering if they are a unique snowflake?
Christ, I suppose this is what is called 1st world problems.

These arent first world problems. Everyone has relationships with humans. Except mal users.

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