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Mar 16, 2015 6:28 PM
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I'm just curious. Why don't you use sites like Tinder, Grindr, or OkCupid to find a date? Is MAL enough of a dating website for you?

Of course there are exceptions. The other day, I accidentally found one MAL member's OkCupid profile. But really, only one?! Where are your dating profiles, MAL? I wanna see them.
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Mar 16, 2015 6:29 PM
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I'm wondering the same.
Mar 16, 2015 6:30 PM
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They are looking for anime girls, not real girls. Your profile picture is you in real life, hence why.
Mar 16, 2015 6:30 PM
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Even MAL users are below the standards of what crawls around on dating sites

Also, dating sites are for 3D, and that turns off a large portion of this sorry horde
Mar 16, 2015 6:32 PM
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MAL is clearly a level above dating sites.

Mar 16, 2015 6:32 PM
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On dating sites I can't hit on 12/f/cali
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Mar 16, 2015 6:35 PM
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Aggra-Dearheart said:
Even MAL users are below the standards of what crawls around on dating sites

Also, dating sites are for 3D, and that turns off a large portion of this sorry horde


I'm not sure about that.

I've met some scary people on dating sites. As bad as some people can be here, there have been confirmed child molesters on some.
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Regicide said:
On dating sites I can't hit on 12/f/cali


The only time and place you can do that is Habbo Hotel circa 2005. It is frowned upon otherwise.
Mar 16, 2015 6:36 PM
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Wait MAL isn't an anime centered dating site? Well crap what have I been doing with my time...*sigh*.
Mar 16, 2015 6:36 PM

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pick one or many:
they're 'lolicons', they prefer circlejerking to productive relationships, they prefer bodypillows to people they need to actually keep happy, they're shy, they're unattractive, they know people who like anime will never be loved, they're younger than they pretend to be, they're not the girls they are pretending to be, they consider themselves above dating sites even if it means they're lonely
or they're not so thirsty

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Mar 16, 2015 6:37 PM

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Kagami_Hiiragi said:
Aggra-Dearheart said:
Even MAL users are below the standards of what crawls around on dating sites

Also, dating sites are for 3D, and that turns off a large portion of this sorry horde


I'm not sure about that.

I've met some scary people on dating sites. As bad as some people can be here, there have been confirmed child molesters on some.


Meh, there have been full on rapists on those sites.


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Aggra-Dearheart said:
Even MAL users are below the standards of what crawls around on dating sites

Also, dating sites are for 3D, and that turns off a large portion of this sorry horde

Seriously, we can't all be that bad!

Kagami_Hiiragi said:
They are looking for anime girls, not real girls. Your profile picture is you in real life, hence why.

I don't know about that. I mean, look at the recent influx of sex threads.
Mar 16, 2015 6:37 PM

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You can't trust people on dating sites.

They all set ridiculous standards, proving that meeting someone in person is still the best way to start a relationship.

Mar 16, 2015 6:38 PM

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Has anyone on MAL ever asked for a date before?
















Exactly
Mar 16, 2015 6:39 PM

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MAL users are in it for the thrill of the hunt, whatever that means.
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Has anyone on MAL ever asked for a date before?
















Exactly


I've had girlfriends before.


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Working_Designs said:
You can't trust people on dating sites.

They all set ridiculous standards, proving that meeting someone in person is still the best way to start a relationship.

Online all the way for me. That way, I know we're highly compatible from the get-go. (And we need to be at least 90% compatible on OkCupid.) Like, I won't tolerate a man who's not as superficial and nerdy as me. So it's best to know beforehand.

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How do you know they aren't?

The lack of threads about dating sites in comparison to other forums. Are you on OkCupid, Daconator?
Mar 16, 2015 6:41 PM

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Welcome to MAL
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Claire said:

Kagami_Hiiragi said:
They are looking for anime girls, not real girls. Your profile picture is you in real life, hence why.

I don't know about that. I mean, look at the recent influx of sex threads.


Look at the recent influx of MAL threads. It's just a trend.
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Claire said:
Your profile picture is you in real life, hence why.

I don't know about that. I mean, look at the recent influx of sex threads.[/quote]

Just a cover up.
Mar 16, 2015 6:43 PM
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Dojourei said:
MAL is clearly a level above dating sites.
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Claire said:
Online all the way for me. That way, I know we're highly compatible from the get-go. (And we need to be at least 90% compatible on OkCupid.) Like, I won't tolerate a man who's not as superficial and nerdy as me. So it's best to know beforehand.

apparently the worst way to get to know someone is online/through texting/chatting/etc online. probably because you can totally fake what kind of person you are. I don't mean appearance-wise, but personality-wise.
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Hoppy said:
Kagami_Hiiragi said:


I'm not sure about that.

I've met some scary people on dating sites. As bad as some people can be here, there have been confirmed child molesters on some.


Meh, there have been full on rapists on those sites.


MAL has both of these
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LOAD said:
Claire said:
Online all the way for me. That way, I know we're highly compatible from the get-go. (And we need to be at least 90% compatible on OkCupid.) Like, I won't tolerate a man who's not as superficial and nerdy as me. So it's best to know beforehand.

apparently the worst way to get to know someone is online/through texting/chatting/etc online. probably because you can totally fake what kind of person you are. I don't mean appearance-wise, but personality-wise.

That's why you meet ASAP and spend some time together.
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I don't know. The only girls I've talked to on here are lesbians. No good reason, they just so happened to be the only ones I felt like talking to. I'm just messing around on here. Not looking for a date, just some internet fun.

Mar 16, 2015 6:46 PM

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I know. Its kind of sad that some of the guys jump on the girls like a dog after a fresh cut of meat. Similar applies to some girls too. Everyone here is a person, ya know. Its normal to be attracted to someone but show some decency.
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traed said:
I know. Its kind of sad that some of the guys jump on the girls like a dog after a fresh cut of meat. Similar applies to some girls too. Everyone here is a person, ya know. Its normal to be attracted to someone but show some decency.

I haven't noticed guys "jumping on the girls like a dog after a fresh cut of meat" on MAL though. Or maybe I'm just oblivious.

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Claire said:

The lack of threads about dating sites in comparison to other forums. Are you on OkCupid, Daconator?

Many people seem to use MAL as a dating site though, and no.

Oh, so you must be in a relationship IRL then.
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Claire said:
LOAD said:
apparently the worst way to get to know someone is online/through texting/chatting/etc online. probably because you can totally fake what kind of person you are. I don't mean appearance-wise, but personality-wise.

That's why you meet ASAP and spend some time together.

Hoppy said:
Meh, there have been full on rapists on those sites.

+ as long as you stay cautious and watch over your drink I suppose it's fine, but still seems fairly dangerous.
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Daconator said:
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Oh, so you must be in a relationship IRL then.

That was a big jump.

Then tell us how you pick up girls on MAL!
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Because they are uncomfortable with talking to society people and because they have similar interests to the people around here?


seriously how obvious is this?

Have you even been on a dating site? I registered there and the people are weird as fuck and they are not culturally educated, they have no clue about many things that i care about and are not internet people and are completely opposite and different, we'd have very little topics to talk to each other about. Also they are much different than i am and possess different skillsets and personalities and even if we had common topics it would still be kinda weird

still , a love can bloom in there but its much harder and i assume most of MAL users dont have the drive to make it happen so it has to come from the other half, from the social people, and they are .. very different.. in a bad way.. not saying that MAL is good or different in a good way either

but yeah

tl;dr

because similar interests and that should be common sense
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Why would anyone want to date someone? what a troublesome effort.
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Daconator said:
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but show some decency.
Oh come on, for how long have you been here to know better.

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Oh, so you must be in a relationship IRL then.

That was a big jump.
I know. Most are chill.
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incisorr said:
Because they are uncomfortable with talking to society people and because they have similar interests to the people around here?

There should be a dating site specifically for otakus, then. I wonder how profitable it can be.

Have you even been on a dating site?

Ever since I turned legal.

I registered there and the people are weird as fuck and they are not culturally educated, they have no clue about many things that i care about and are not internet people and are completely opposite and different, we'd have very little topics to talk to each other about. Also they are much different than i am and possess different skillsets and personalities and even if we had common topics it would still be kinda weird because we would be very distant

What dating site did you use? LOL. The men I've been matched on OkCupid are mostly driven and intellectual at their core.

still , a love can bloom in there but its much harder and i assume most of MAL users dont have the drive to make it happen so it has to come from the other half, from the social people, and they are .. very different.. in a bad way..

How are they different from you...in a bad way?
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Claire said:
incisorr said:
Because they are uncomfortable with talking to society people and because they have similar interests to the people around here?

There should be a dating site specifically for otakus, then. I wonder how profitable it can be.


Not very because only incisorr would get messages.

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I don't use dating sites because I just come in like

and girls get up and go run to get their sisters so they too can smear their she-juices all over this mad python
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Meh, I don't know I'm not even looking to date anyone.
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Dojourei said:
MAL is clearly a level above dating sites.
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I do find dating sites to be places that only work for people who are inclined to go to them. I mean people not into it who normally wouldnt do it wont be as likely to find someone lse who normally wouldnt since their personalities may be different quite a bit. Just a theory though.
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Mar 16, 2015 7:08 PM

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Spooky_Love said:
Why would anyone want to date someone? what a troublesome effort.

Some people are thirsty for affection and sex, ofc.

Daconator said:
Claire said:

Then tell us how you pick up girls on MAL!

I don't pick up girls on MAL.

I'll pick you up, oh mysterious Daconator. ;)
But you won't like it.

Involtus said:
Claire said:

There should be a dating site specifically for otakus, then. I wonder how profitable it can be.


Not very because only incisorr would get messages.

Haha, so mean.

Aggra-Dearheart said:
I don't use dating sites because I just come in like

and girls get up and go run to get their sisters so they too can smear their she-juices all over this mad python

You'll be fine if you offer girls money to go on dates with you.
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*pretends not to immediately swoon over me*

lmao
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Claire said:
Involtus said:


Not very because only incisorr would get messages.

Haha, so mean.


I'm not mean; I'm realistic.
He's great.
You should be into him, if you're not already ;)

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Claire said:

What dating site did you use? LOL. The men I've been matched on OkCupid are mostly driven and intellectual at their core.

don't just go around assuming everyone is from the US or something. I tried some sites for my country and then i saw people's pictures and i imagined them because i know how my country is.


Claire said:

How are they different from you...in a bad way?


social/normal people are incredibly narrowminded and sheep and don't use their brain at all and just do whatever other tells them or try to scam/cheat you in a way and its so obvious. i dont know theres a type, its hard to explain but social people are scumbags in general. They live like 50 years in the past
for them the point of living is to work and they ridicule you if you dont fit in and i dont want to bother to fit in and talk about topics i couldnt care less for like what engine a car has or politics or some irrelevant crap that social people talk about

but thats how it is around here, i doubt its the case over at the US
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I use multiple dating websites, and I even use Fetlife, but just to hook up, with lots of success.

Some of these websites I even have two accounts ;)

I've lost interest in dating people at this point in my life though, my standards are really high from a previous relationship and I very rarely meet someone who meets them, and then when I do meet someone who meets them it's this twisted situation where I can't use my silver-tongue to force them to like me like I usually can with people because they're too awesome to fall for my gold-leaf painted words of aluminum.

So casual sex for yeeears
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Claire said:
Spooky_Love said:
Why would anyone want to date someone? what a troublesome effort.

Some people are thirsty for affection and sex, ofc.


I don't see the point.
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Space-Wizard said:
I've lost interest in dating people at this point in my life though


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So casual sex for yeeears


*daps*
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Spooky_Love said:
Claire said:

Some people are thirsty for affection and sex, ofc.


I don't see the point.


This, though I don't know if spooky meant it in the way that I do. You can have affection without a relationship, and sex the same.

I'm never going to fake a relationship so somebody gives me affection and sex on a regular basis, that would be cruel.

I've only ever met three people that I want these things from. Got engaged to one before she dumped me at a young age, got rejected by another, working slowly on the third to try and make it work over a course of multiple years if necessary.
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Involtus said:
I'm not mean; I'm realistic.
He's great.
You should be into him, if you're not already ;)

It depends if he's hot or wealthy.

incisorr said:
social/normal people are incredibly narrowminded and sheep and don't use their brain at all and just do whatever other tells them or try to scam/cheat you in a way and its so obvious. i dont know theres a type, its hard to explain but social people are scumbags in general. They live like 50 years in the past

I know what you mean. That's why I ignore 95% of the messages I receive on OkCupid.

incisorr said:
for them the point of living is to work and they ridicule you if you dont fit in and i dont want to bother to fit in and talk about topics i couldnt care less for like what engine a car has or politics or some irrelevant crap that social people talk about

What's the point of living then, in your opinion? Personally, I couldn't stand people who are into sports and outdoor activities. (How dull!) If they're into those things, then I know we're not a match.

incisorr said:
but thats how it is around here, i doubt its the case over at the US

Come visit the US when you get a chance!
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Anyone have a cup of water?
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Space said:
I use multiple dating websites, and I even use Fetlife, but just to hook up, with lots of success.

Dude, I really hate Fetlife's interface. It's so messy and old school. I made a profile, but the majority of members nearby are fat and unappealing! I'd rather find a guy on Tinder who's into BDSM than use Fetlife. (Not that I've ever had a one night stand with someone from a dating site.)

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I've lost interest in dating people at this point in my life though, my standards are really high from a previous relationship and I very rarely meet someone who meets them.

Why? What are your standards like?
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Realtalkpostsincereirlpost: People who use dating sites are exactly the type of people who will never be worth dating, that's why they have to resort to each other
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