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Shiratori..serious question. Are you asexual? You can be Herero/Homo/Bi/etc romantic and be asexual. If you loathe sex regardless than this thread isn't for you. I know I'm "new" around here but it seems like some decent dialogue is being washed away with needless claims and accusations.

Either way, I won't judge you for hating sex but don't judge others for absolutely fucking loving enjoying it.

Jun 16, 2014 7:03 AM

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This thread has become so angry.

I will make love to all of you and show you the difference.

Fair?

Jun 16, 2014 7:04 AM

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Feyfray said:
This thread has become so angry.

I will make love to all of you and show you the difference.

Fair?

Deal, but I don't like sharing.

Whoops.

Jun 16, 2014 7:13 AM

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Feyfray said:
This thread has become so angry.

I will make love to all of you and show you the difference.

Fair?

pfft, you wont even brave thorned bushes and dragons. You dont know the true meaning of love!!!

Jun 16, 2014 7:17 AM

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Alright everyone we get it, everybody hates shiratori.

Let this thread die already.

Jun 16, 2014 7:22 AM

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But it's like the only thread people reply to me on. :c

Jun 16, 2014 7:29 AM

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MaiTai said:
But it's like the only thread people reply to me on. :c

:(
The solution is simple! Post in more threads! especially my threads :(

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Jun 16, 2014 7:31 AM

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Elphe said:

Feyfray said:
This thread has become so angry.

I will make love to all of you and show you the difference.

Fair?

pfft, you wont even brave thorned bushes and dragons. You dont know the true meaning of love!!!

Love is great until you end up dead trying to chase it.

Jun 16, 2014 7:35 AM

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dankickyou said:

MaiTai said:
But it's like the only thread people reply to me on. :c

:(
The solution is simple! Post in more threads! especially my threads :(

I thought I was doing good with that! Link me up to them and we'll converse. C:

Jun 16, 2014 7:41 AM

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Hopeless romantic, yes that's me...I suppose sex can be just a kind of "for fun" thing, one night stands, friends with benefits, etc., but I don't really have much of an interest in it like that

But then again I'm still a virgin

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Club!

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Jun 16, 2014 2:54 PM

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Rigix said:
It's not all that, sex is extremely overrated... the act is just tiring in reality.

Uhm, you're probably not doing it right.

Jun 16, 2014 3:28 PM

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Sadly, I've been through it all. From one night stands to passionate love making. My lifestyle of traveling and moving a lot does not allow me to have a stable relationship.

Jun 20, 2014 12:07 AM

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yung-heezy said:

Rigix said:
It's not all that, sex is extremely overrated... the act is just tiring in reality.

Uhm, you're probably not doing it right.

No, I am. Trust me.

Jun 20, 2014 12:08 AM

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Never had sex. Might be fun.

Jun 20, 2014 12:56 AM

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some of y'all are sad individuals

Jun 20, 2014 2:34 AM

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Probably true though I'm marginally happy right now.

Jun 20, 2014 3:04 AM

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Personally, I am unable to love (being insufficiently starved of affection since I was child). I understand the concept of love, but I can never feel it. It's hard for me to even get a boner excluding morningwood. So in my opinion I think sex and any type love is completely disgusting.

"It's our job as normal humans to make sure the potential on those misunderstood one is realized" - No Game No Life, Sora

Jun 20, 2014 3:33 PM

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Interesting.

Jun 20, 2014 3:51 PM

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I've had my fair share of sex adventures as for passionate sex hm... I've done it and it's completely different from having sex or wild sex or *insert here* sex.

Simply putting it you're doing it with the person you love and it's really just a diferent vibe I can't really put it into words.. You'll have to experience it to know what I'm talking about.

Romantic feelings with sexual feelings and sexual experience = Perfection.

Jun 20, 2014 3:58 PM

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Such an informative thread...

Jun 20, 2014 4:30 PM

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Syndiciate said:
Such an informative thread...

Thank you.

Jun 20, 2014 4:32 PM

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It seems to be a lost art form.

Sort of like conversations, between men and women, outside of electronics.

Dr. Sheldon Cooper " It is no way to make new humans. People coming out of people. Some kind of dirty magic show.

Jun 20, 2014 4:36 PM

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Sex should be intimate but who am I kidding some people would fuck anything that breathes.

great sex is great sex
But sex with someone you love/have strong feelings for is always better.

Jun 20, 2014 5:28 PM

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Anal sex is very passionate.

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Jun 21, 2014 5:51 AM

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I see sex as an act between two people that are meant for each other. I don't see it as much more since I consider it a 'sacred' activity.

Jun 22, 2014 8:19 PM

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Farthest I've gone with a girl is giving her a hug. I would assume, besides procreating, sex is mainly just for pleasure.

You want to throw down?

Feb 11, 2015 1:44 PM

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Shiratori99 said:

Trebel said:

Wow, just... wow.

I'm a virgin because I loathe sex. I don't want to have it with someone I hate, I especially don't want to have it with someone I love, I don't want to have it with anybody.

Sex is just a primitive mating ritual that has nothing to do with love. This unabashed, outright romanticization of sex is simply disgusting. Yes, disgusting. People like you that confuse the highest emotion a human being can experience with the mechanical act of thrusting one's dirty penis into some orifice make me puke. Now go crouch back into your corner please and leave my pure soul alone with your filth.

Well said, Shiratori99. I joined this forum, just to make this comment.

I've been reading in the thread, and I am devastated to see a great and lovefull guy like Shiratori99 being told that he is wrong and that everybody hate him. I've read every reply he made, and agreed fully to it.

The thing is, I know exactly what you mean, when you say that "sex feels so much better and meaningful, when you do it with someone you're in love with"

That may be true. Why? Because the best things in life are illegal. That's why sex feels better with someone you're in love with. It's not illegal (which is unbelieveble), but it's pretty much the most anti-loving act you can do to someone. Love is not a physical pleasure. Love is not an adrenalin kick. Love is not that ticklish feeling in your genitals and body you get when having sex. Love is that little and sweet, yet amazing feeling of peace and warmth in your body, that you get when thinking about a meaningful person. That other thing is called LUST. LUST LUST LUST LUST LUST.

The problem here is, that people have their own subjective idea of what love is. When I say "love", I'm talking about a feeling that is anti-sexual. That means, the more you're into it, and the more in love you are, the less you think about sex, and the more meaningless the idea of sex will become. I've been in love before. And yes, I know what sex feels like. If I compare these two things, they have NO relation to eachother. Actually sexual attraction, and romantic attraction are the two opposite kinds of attractions. And then people think they relate, because they're both a kind of attraction. They got the wrong idea...

We humans feel love before we even know what sex is. Already here, we have the proof, that love is 0% sexual. As said before, if you feel like everything gets more amazing when you are having sex with your romantic partner, then it's because of lust... not love. Love is the thing you feel, AFTER you had sex. When you're all relaxed, not interested in sex, not horny... just relaxed, and clear in your mind.

So listen carefully... When you truly love someone, like I do... and the thought of them makes your heart smile, then love takes over! That means, there is less space in your body for sexual attraction... all until you're filled with love, and you couldn't care less about sex. The more love you feel, the less sexual attraction you feel. That's just the way it is folks! Love is an anti-sexual feeling.

Think of romantic attraction and sexual attraction as opponents. The more power one have, the weaker the other is. It can be hard to truly have feelings for someone, if they're extremely sexy, because you're being distracted all the time - and vice versa.

Love is a distraction from sex. Sex is a distraction from love. Choose one, and that'll be your destination. I chose love.

Shiratori99 is an amazing person, with a great knowledge... He's got a point. You fools should listen to him.

mrdavidwright2Feb 11, 2015 1:48 PM

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Sex isn't love. Sex is just the way to get your energy and hormone level lower.

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Feb 11, 2015 1:51 PM

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Catchthefox said:
Sex isn't love. Sex is just the way to get your energy and hormone level lower.

Sex isn't love. I think most people get that one. What people lack to understand is that not only does it not equal love. It's the opposite of love in the category of attraction. The more sexual attraction you feel, the less love you feel. The more love you feel, the less sexual attraction you feel.

We should not worship sex as some kind of a beautiful thing. It's terrible that it can be interpreted in such a way. Thank you!

I don't know why some people think about sex as a beautiful thing. Do I really have to demonstrate the topic with pictures?

THIS, is what you perverts are worshipping as something beautiful...

http://kvalitet.weebly.com/uploads/3/2/2/3/32236821/761362848.jpg?273

http://kvalitet.weebly.com/uploads/3/2/2/3/32236821/557432804.jpg?217

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Lost_Future said:

mrdavidwright2 said:
It's the opposite of love in the category of attraction. The more sexual attraction you feel, the less love you feel. The more love you feel, the less sexual attraction you feel.

Source?

Feb 11, 2015 1:58 PM

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sex is pathetic. it's a primitive desire experienced by the mindless sheep.

Feb 11, 2015 1:59 PM

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Why just don't make a new thread?

People wouldn't think of me that way, but I have to admit I'm a romanticist even in this matter. I don't see the point of sex if there's just the act. I'm not the kind of guy that waits "for the one and only"

, as long as it feels right and you like and care for the other person, it's fine.

People do as they please, as long as they let me do the same.

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mrdavidwright2 said:

Catchthefox said:
Sex isn't love. Sex is just the way to get your energy and hormone level lower.

Sex isn't love. I think most people get that one. What people lack to understand is that not only does it not equal love. It's the opposite of love in the category of attraction. The more sexual attraction you feel, the less love you feel. The more love you feel, the less sexual attraction you feel.

We should not worship sex as some kind of a beautiful thing. It's terrible that it can be interpreted in such a way. Thank you!

I don't know why some people think about sex as a beautiful thing. Do I really have to demonstrate the topic with pictures?

THIS, is what you perverts are worshipping as something beautiful...

http://kvalitet.weebly.com/uploads/3/2/2/3/32236821/761362848.jpg?273

http://kvalitet.weebly.com/uploads/3/2/2/3/32236821/557432804.jpg?217

You are right but it's not completely opposite. The thing it's like triangle. 1)Love of other person thoughts, 2) Love for someones body, 3) Love of the persons aura/ heart/soul(the most difficult and most beautiful feeling you can have). I hope you will get what I mean :)

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Feb 11, 2015 2:17 PM

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Catchthefox said:

mrdavidwright2 said:

Sex isn't love. I think most people get that one. What people lack to understand is that not only does it not equal love. It's the opposite of love in the category of attraction. The more sexual attraction you feel, the less love you feel. The more love you feel, the less sexual attraction you feel.

We should not worship sex as some kind of a beautiful thing. It's terrible that it can be interpreted in such a way. Thank you!

I don't know why some people think about sex as a beautiful thing. Do I really have to demonstrate the topic with pictures?

THIS, is what you perverts are worshipping as something beautiful...

http://kvalitet.weebly.com/uploads/3/2/2/3/32236821/761362848.jpg?273

http://kvalitet.weebly.com/uploads/3/2/2/3/32236821/557432804.jpg?217

You are right but it's not completely opposite. The thing it's like triangle. 1)Love of other person thoughts, 2) Love for someones body, 3) Love of the persons aura/ heart/soul(the most difficult and most beautiful feeling you can have). I hope you will get what I mean :)

I get it, and I agree. Love can have many subcategories. One of them is romantic love, which will NEVER lead to sex. Another is more animalistic, and lusty, which is what leads to sex, and what most relationships (sadly) are made of.

Before anyone gets the wrong idea of me, let me just say, kissing is not sexual. Neither is intimacy. All that is great examples of how you share your love with someone. But as the great shiratori99 said: "the mechanical act of thrusting one's dirty penis into some orifice" is obviously nothing but an act of hornyness. That's where people forget how to be intimate. I shouldn't even have to explain this. It's should be a built-in knowledge for everyone. What the fuck went wrong, when humanity was created?

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Feb 11, 2015 2:22 PM

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Lost_Future said:
@mrdavidwright2

You forgot to post the source we asked for a few posts earlier.

The source? Logic...

Yes you CAN fuck someone you love. But are you then taking love seriously? No...

Feb 11, 2015 2:34 PM

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OCEANS said:

great sex is great sex
But sex with someone you love/have strong feelings for is always better.

Think of sex as a fire, and love as gasoline. If you throw gasoline at it, the fire will become bigger. If you're having sex with someone you love, the sex becomes better, as you say. I won't deny that. But will the love and the strong feelings you have for that person become greater? No. They will be weakened if you have sex with them. And that's the problem.

Instead of seeing 100% love and meaningfullness, you will now only see 80% love and meaningfullness, and 20% sexy body that you want to fuck. If you keep doing it, you'll end up having a girlfriend that you can't be serious about, because all you see is a sexual object. Don't fuck someone you love. It's going to weaken your feelings for them.

Love is like a cardhouse. It takes patience to build it, and the more work you put into, the more you are tempted to give it a push, and watch it collapse. Sex is like that push. The more love you have built up in the first place, the more tempted you are to ruin it with sex. But if you do it, BOOM... your work is gone.

Then there will be a moment, where you realise that giving your cardhouse a push is not worth it, because you value your creation more, than the fun of seeing it collapse. Then you will be more excited about the large construction that you made, than watching it collapse. Same goes for love. There will be a point, where the temptations for sex will disappear, and you forget all about sex, because love takes over.

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mrdavidwright2 said:

Lost_Future said:
@mrdavidwright2

You forgot to post the source we asked for a few posts earlier.

The source? Logic...

Yes you CAN fuck someone you love. But are you then taking love seriously? No...

I beg to differ on this. Mainly because what if you put the other person above yourself. What if your only goal with sex is to please your partner and make them feel good. Without any regard to your own pleasure, what would you categorize that as?

Feb 11, 2015 2:42 PM

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Astros477 said:

mrdavidwright2 said:

The source? Logic...

Yes you CAN fuck someone you love. But are you then taking love seriously? No...

I beg to differ on this. Mainly because what if you put the other person above yourself. What if your only goal with sex is to please your partner and make them feel good. Without any regard to your own pleasure, what would you categorize that as?

Read my reply from above. If you truly love someone, and you want to put them above you, that means you want to help build their cardhouse too.

Lost Future: I don't need to fall off a bike to know that it hurts. I can watch a clip on youtube, and feel the pain as well. I don't have to have sex to know that it's not related to love. I can touch myself, and feel it as well, and use my imagination.

I might as well repeat myself. I can't be too wrong when I say this:

Think of sex as a fire, and love as gasoline. If you throw gasoline at it, the fire will become bigger. If you're having sex with someone you love, the sex becomes better, as you say. I won't deny that. But will the love and the strong feelings you have for that person become greater? No. They will be weakened if you have sex with them. Like the gasoline evaporates in the fire. And that's the problem.

Instead of seeing 100% love and meaningfullness, you will now only see 80% love and meaningfullness, and 20% sexy body that you want to fuck. If you keep doing it, you'll end up having a girlfriend that you can't be serious about, because all you see is a sexual object. Don't fuck someone you love. It's going to weaken your feelings for them.

Love is like a cardhouse. It takes patience to build it, and the more work you put into, the more you are tempted to give it a push, and watch it collapse. Sex is like that push. The more love you have built up in the first place, the more tempted you are to ruin it with sex. But if you do it, BOOM... your work is gone.

Then there will be a moment, where you realise that giving your cardhouse a push is not worth it, because you value your creation more, than the fun of seeing it collapse. Then you will be more excited about the large construction that you made, than watching it collapse. Same goes for love. There will be a point, where the temptations for sex will disappear, and you forget all about sex, because love takes over.

Again, let me just say, shiratori99, I wish you were here to see that your thread made a success... You're a damn hero, man

mrdavidwright2Feb 11, 2015 2:59 PM

Feb 11, 2015 2:56 PM

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mrdavidwright2 said:
Read my reply from above. If you truly love someone, and you want to put them above you, that means you want them help build their cardhouse too.

I've read it, but I don't understand the analogy or point. Perhaps because it has flawed reasoning or something I'm missing. Either way you stated sex diminishes love and destroys the card house.

mrdavidwright2 said:

If you're having sex with someone you love, the sex becomes better, as you say. I won't deny that. But will the love and the strong feelings you have for that person become greater? No. They will be weakened if you have sex with them. And that's the problem.

Which I disagree with because if the only reason for sex is out of love for your partner and to make them happy, then how does it diminish? You base this fact on the assumption everyone is subject to the will of sexual pleasure. Though what if someone recognizes love as the greater of the two?

Feb 11, 2015 3:01 PM

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