Lesley_Roberta said: Now as for a reason to NOT get married. Well accidental parenting happens eh. If you can't keep the dna to yourself and you ge her pregnant, get over it, you both screwed up. Give it up for adoption to one of so many couples that CAN'T have kids. Because getting married just because she got pregnant is idiotic. You get married because you plan to get old and ugly with her after a long enjoyable marriage of many years. Not because you fucked up and had a kid accidentally. That's not really a reason to avoid getting married. That's just a bad reason to get married (in your opinion). |
Lesley_Roberta said: You sound like an angry person.Several pictures of women getting wider, and not one picture of a beer gut fat assed middle aged man who never had to carry a kid for 9 months. Are there not any other women on this pathetic thread? I sit in a Tim Horton's during the day watching the working class come and go. Just a steady stream of typical humanity. And no shortage of guys that can't dress worth shit, can't use a belt properly even when they have one and likely don't like the fact that you can't usually use a belt decently with a beer gut at any rate. Which likely explains why most older men prefer to wear the belt under the gut, because around the waist would make them realize that they are actually a 50 inch waist and not what they are pretending to have. Now as for a reason to NOT get married. Well accidental parenting happens eh. If you can't keep the dna to yourself and you ge her pregnant, get over it, you both screwed up. Give it up for adoption to one of so many couples that CAN'T have kids. Because getting married just because she got pregnant is idiotic. You get married because you plan to get old and ugly with her after a long enjoyable marriage of many years. Not because you fucked up and had a kid accidentally. And that's saying something, coming from me. |
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Z-flame said: When you love your partner/ significant other, it's a nice thing to be able to express your feelings for that person. Marriage is one of the ultimate forms of expressing love.(Not that all people think the same though) I wonder - do you think marriage would hold the same value if it didn't have all those legal 'benefits' tied to it? |
| I have a feeling that many married couples would laugh at the conceptions of marriage in this thread. I think that some sort of formal commitment can be very important, especially if children are involved. And before anyone says "but if you need formal commitment should you really be marrying that person", no, stop. It's not that you "need" it, so much as it changes the dynamics of the relationship in a positive way. It solidifies your mutual agreement that you are in this together, and that you shouldn't feel like you can just walk out because you had a bad day. It promotes getting over hardships, not running away from them. #2deep |
LoneWolf said: @Josh makes me sad to call myself Canadian. |
Z-flame said: kanjiphobe said: The true value of marriage lies on the people that get married, not on legal 'benefits' or how most of society views the subject.Z-flame said: When you love your partner/ significant other, it's a nice thing to be able to express your feelings for that person. Marriage is one of the ultimate forms of expressing love.(Not that all people think the same though) I wonder - do you think marriage would hold the same value if it didn't have all those legal 'benefits' tied to it? So yes, it will still have value. At least for me and dozens of people I know. Without the legal benefits, though, how is a married couple any different from a couple that isn't married? |
Post-Josh said: Fixed.I have a feeling that many married couples would laugh at the conceptions of marriage in this thread. I think that some sort of formal commitment can be very important, especially if children are involved. And before anyone says "but if you need formal commitment should you really be marrying that person", no, stop. It's not that you "need" it, so much as it changes the dynamics of the relationship in a positive way. It solidifies your mutual agreement that you are in this together, and that you shouldn't feel like you can just walk out because you had a bad day. It promotes getting over hardships, not running away from them. #in2deep |
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| #protectthesanctityofmarraige |
LoneWolf said: @Josh makes me sad to call myself Canadian. |
Post-Josh said: #protectthesanctityofmarraige That doesn't exist anymore. |
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Red_Keys said: Lesley_Roberta said: You sound like an angry person.Several pictures of women getting wider, and not one picture of a beer gut fat assed middle aged man who never had to carry a kid for 9 months. Are there not any other women on this pathetic thread? I sit in a Tim Horton's during the day watching the working class come and go. Just a steady stream of typical humanity. And no shortage of guys that can't dress worth shit, can't use a belt properly even when they have one and likely don't like the fact that you can't usually use a belt decently with a beer gut at any rate. Which likely explains why most older men prefer to wear the belt under the gut, because around the waist would make them realize that they are actually a 50 inch waist and not what they are pretending to have. Now as for a reason to NOT get married. Well accidental parenting happens eh. If you can't keep the dna to yourself and you ge her pregnant, get over it, you both screwed up. Give it up for adoption to one of so many couples that CAN'T have kids. Because getting married just because she got pregnant is idiotic. You get married because you plan to get old and ugly with her after a long enjoyable marriage of many years. Not because you fucked up and had a kid accidentally. And that's saying something, coming from me. Well I was annoyed at all the atypical comments from males raging on female appearances as if they look any different to women. Most of you guys are nothing to drool over after a couple of years of married life. |
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Lesley_Roberta said: You miss one important fact though, men stay virile and generally fit for longer, while women declines much faster and ditch their fertility to be able to live longer in a energy-saving mode, so to speak.Well I was annoyed at all the atypical comments from males raging on female appearances as if they look any different to women. Most of you guys are nothing to drool over after a couple of years of married life. But other than fertility, I suppose the difference isn't too big. |
| I wouldn't want anyone drooling over me. Go drool somewhere else. |
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| 10 girls are better than one. just sayin. |
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Ponpokopii said: 10 girls are better than one. just sayin. You read my mind... Yea the tons of responsibility that comes after getting married sucks, and your spouse is gonna eventually get old... though Benjamin Franklin might disagree Some would say that love overcomes all, well, maybe i'll change if i ever find a true love |
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Baman said: Lesley_Roberta said: You miss one important fact though, men stay virile and generally fit for longer, while women declines much faster and ditch their fertility to be able to live longer in a energy-saving mode, so to speak.Well I was annoyed at all the atypical comments from males raging on female appearances as if they look any different to women. Most of you guys are nothing to drool over after a couple of years of married life. But other than fertility, I suppose the difference isn't too big. No what he truly misses is that is almost irrelevant how not as good a man might look, he probably wasn't much from the time she married him anyway, because men see looks while women see your car, your house and your bank account. Your handsome looks never where much part of the equation anyway. |
Monad said: Looks are actually a huge part of the initial attraction, but once they find out he's poor they'll drop him in a second, just like you say.Baman said: Lesley_Roberta said: You miss one important fact though, men stay virile and generally fit for longer, while women declines much faster and ditch their fertility to be able to live longer in a energy-saving mode, so to speak.Well I was annoyed at all the atypical comments from males raging on female appearances as if they look any different to women. Most of you guys are nothing to drool over after a couple of years of married life. But other than fertility, I suppose the difference isn't too big. No what he truly misses is that is almost irrelevant how not as good a man might look, he probably wasn't much from the time she married him anyway, because men see looks while women see your car, your house and your bank account. Your handsome looks never where much part of the equation anyway. |
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Hoppy said: I was joking.Post-Josh said: That doesn't exist anymore.#protectthesanctityofmarraige |
LoneWolf said: @Josh makes me sad to call myself Canadian. |
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| I don't want kids. I don't want my house dirty every 5 minutes. I can't cook (there goes my wife quality) Oh and I'm antisocial + asexual (mostly. But me finding love = finding Slenderman in the woods). |
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Amadyeus said: Are you Slenderman?Itermin8rX said: Would you marry me?I don't want kids. I don't want my house dirty every 5 minutes. I can't cook (there goes my wife quality) Oh and I'm antisocial + asexual (mostly. But me finding love = finding Slenderman in the woods). |
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| If you're religious or you want tax breaks. Those are the only reasons to get married. You also set yourself up for the very real possibility that you will lose the house and a substantial portion of your money if there ends up being a divorce, which is more likely than for there to not be one. |
| 1. You'd have to break up with your waifu in order to get married. Or 2. Your waifu would get jealous/your wife would get jealous of your waifu |
| The truth is that people lack the self-sacrifice, responsibility, maturity, and commitment. Sorry guys, it's not about love and finding personal happiness; you don't have to get married for that. |
| “Suppose, gentlemen, that man is not stupid.” |
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lolipanic said: Think one of them would end up killing the other?1. You'd have to break up with your waifu in order to get married. Or 2. Your waifu would get jealous/your wife would get jealous of your waifu As far as losing half your shit and money and so on, you could always plan for a scaled-down SHTF scenario and write up a prenup/keep separate bank accounts/etc. If she outright refuses, my guess is she's looking to get half your shit. |
Negative-TravisJan 19, 2013 11:45 AM
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Negative-Travis said: lolipanic said: Think one of them would end up killing the other?1. You'd have to break up with your waifu in order to get married. Or 2. Your waifu would get jealous/your wife would get jealous of your waifu As far as losing half your shit and money and so on, you could always plan for a scaled-down SHTF scenario and write up a prenup/keep seperate bank accounts/etc. If she outright refuses, my guess is she's looking to get half you shit. Or there is a fundamental lack of trust between you two and perhaps you two shouldn't get married. |
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