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@DigiCat Why are you assuming Reze doesn't have equal psychological trauma from her upbringing as Denji? The answer is that Fujimoto doesn't give us insight into Reza's trauma but he does give us insight into Denji's. Also yes I do think being actively tortured, like physically tortured by people who actively seek to harm you, is worse than growing up in poverty, even as horrible as poverty is.

We're talking about the cruelty that the author has towards the characters here. Lelouch sacrifices himself of his own free will to protect Nunnally. He is not maimed or sexually assaulted.

I disagree that Reze and Denji had equally horrific childhoods. And yes dying at 16 is worse than not dying at 16.

The psychological effects thing is more bullshit that these show-writers use to justify themselves. They can pile all sorts of horrible things on women and pretend that none of that has any psychological impact on them, but give all the weight in the world to the psychological trauma that the men have from their suffering. "Yeah Tetsuo's girlfriend got crushed to death by her own boyfriend, but Tetsuo was made insecure by his friend having a cooler bike than him! So really who's to say who had it worse..."
Wyatt said:
The psychological effects thing is more bullshit that these show-writers use to justify themselves. They can pile all sorts of horrible things on women and pretend that none of that has any psychological impact on them, but give all the weight in the world to the psychological trauma that the men have from their suffering. "Yeah Tetsuo's girlfriend got crushed to death by her own boyfriend, but Tetsuo was made insecure by his friend having a cooler bike than him! So really who's to say who had it worse..."

So do anime dwell upon the suffering of males, or do they not? You said before they never experience the trauma females do, and now you're saying they're so weak they can't handle the thought of their friends having better bikes?
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Wyatt said:
The psychological effects thing is more bullshit that these show-writers use to justify themselves. They can pile all sorts of horrible things on women and pretend that none of that has any psychological impact on them, but give all the weight in the world to the psychological trauma that the men have from their suffering. "Yeah Tetsuo's girlfriend got crushed to death by her own boyfriend, but Tetsuo was made insecure by his friend having a cooler bike than him! So really who's to say who had it worse..."

So do anime dwell upon the suffering of males, or do they not? You said before they never experience the trauma females do, and now you're saying they're so weak they can't handle the thought of their friends having better bikes?
@Lucifrost The way anime works is that it treats the psychological experiences of men as inordinately tragic to make them seem noble and heroic. Lelouch’s girlfriend’s horrible death is fodder to make us feel more sympathy for him, as we see all the tragedy he has gone through but still pushes on his journey. Women experience significantly more tragedy and trauma than men in anime, but it’s not depicted as tragedy for them but rather for the men. Their interiority is not depicted or given weight. In Akira (a film I adore, mind you) Tetsuo’s insecurity over Kaneda’s cool bike is given so much empathy by the film, as it should be! It’s worth our empathy. But Kaori’s sickeningly horrible death at the hands of her own boyfriend is given nowhere near as much empathy, and in fact that moment is really there for tetsuo to realize he’s gone out of control. In anime a splinter in a man’s foot is sadder than a tumor in a woman’s head, unless that woman is a man’s girlfriend maybe, in which case her tumor is part of his tragedy and not hers.
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The main ones that come to mind are Amo's past in Gachiakuta and the tragedy of Nina Tucker in Fullmetal Alchemist.
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@Sheol01 Of course, Kite comes in a close 2nd, imagine being repeatedly molested by the killer of your parents, all the while knowing it WAS him. And being trained to kill innocent people. That movie is the definition of Fu**ed Up.

@Sheol01 Kite is the rare truly feminist anime that actually depicts female suffering as worthy of our empathy and outrage. God bless Yasuomi Umetsu for his impassioned subversion of hentai
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@DigiCat Why are you assuming Reze doesn't have equal psychological trauma from her upbringing as Denji? The answer is that Fujimoto doesn't give us insight into Reza's trauma but he does give us insight into Denji's. Also yes I do think being actively tortured, like physically tortured by people who actively seek to harm you, is worse than growing up in poverty, even as horrible as poverty is.

We're talking about the cruelty that the author has towards the characters here. Lelouch sacrifices himself of his own free will to protect Nunnally. He is not maimed or sexually assaulted.

I disagree that Reze and Denji had equally horrific childhoods. And yes dying at 16 is worse than not dying at 16.

The psychological effects thing is more bullshit that these show-writers use to justify themselves. They can pile all sorts of horrible things on women and pretend that none of that has any psychological impact on them, but give all the weight in the world to the psychological trauma that the men have from their suffering. "Yeah Tetsuo's girlfriend got crushed to death by her own boyfriend, but Tetsuo was made insecure by his friend having a cooler bike than him! So really who's to say who had it worse..."
Wyatt said:
Why are you assuming Reze doesn't have equal psychological trauma from her upbringing as Denji?

So you interpreted "when both [Reze and Denji] have had just as horrific childhoods" as Reze doesn't have equal psychological trauma as Denji? I guess or that or you are projecting your own attitude of minimizing Denji's trauma over Reze's (based on your OG statement "And as far as Chainsaw Man goes Reze was tortured her entire childhood and then died at 16 so yes I think she has it worse than Denji")

Wyatt said:
Also yes I do think being actively tortured, like physically tortured by people who actively seek to harm you, is worse than growing up in poverty, even as horrible as poverty is

And i also guess no surprise you interpret Denji's situation as simple "growing up in poverty"

Wyatt said:
The psychological effects thing is more bullshit that these show-writers use to justify themselves. They can pile all sorts of horrible things on women and pretend that none of that has any psychological impact on them, but give all the weight in the world to the psychological trauma that the men have from their suffering

Wait lemme get this straight... in one breath, you say the psychological effects is bullshit to justify i assume the "horrible things piled on women", then you say they don't even show said psychological effects, and to top it all off only men are shown to suffer psychological trauma... May i also remind you that one of your OG examples was Berserk, in which Casca, a woman, is shown to have the most severe psychological impact out of the main 3?

I don't know where you got that idea, but i can 100% say it is very false

To put things simply, there are good writers and there are bad writers

A good writer can convey a character's trauma, be it explored in depth or using subtlety

A bad writer writes misery porn

And there is no miracle potion that makes one magically able to write male characters well but not female (or vice versa for that matter)

Wyatt said:
The way anime works is that it treats the psychological experiences of men as inordinately tragic to make them seem noble and heroic. Lelouch’s girlfriend’s horrible death is fodder to make us feel more sympathy for him, as we see all the tragedy he has gone through but still pushes on his journey. Women experience significantly more tragedy and trauma than men in anime, but it’s not depicted as tragedy for them but rather for the men

I think i'll add this to the it's absolute 🐂💩 too ^^
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Wyatt said:
Why are you assuming Reze doesn't have equal psychological trauma from her upbringing as Denji?

So you interpreted "when both [Reze and Denji] have had just as horrific childhoods" as Reze doesn't have equal psychological trauma as Denji? I guess or that or you are projecting your own attitude of minimizing Denji's trauma over Reze's (based on your OG statement "And as far as Chainsaw Man goes Reze was tortured her entire childhood and then died at 16 so yes I think she has it worse than Denji")

Wyatt said:
Also yes I do think being actively tortured, like physically tortured by people who actively seek to harm you, is worse than growing up in poverty, even as horrible as poverty is

And i also guess no surprise you interpret Denji's situation as simple "growing up in poverty"

Wyatt said:
The psychological effects thing is more bullshit that these show-writers use to justify themselves. They can pile all sorts of horrible things on women and pretend that none of that has any psychological impact on them, but give all the weight in the world to the psychological trauma that the men have from their suffering

Wait lemme get this straight... in one breath, you say the psychological effects is bullshit to justify i assume the "horrible things piled on women", then you say they don't even show said psychological effects, and to top it all off only men are shown to suffer psychological trauma... May i also remind you that one of your OG examples was Berserk, in which Casca, a woman, is shown to have the most severe psychological impact out of the main 3?

I don't know where you got that idea, but i can 100% say it is very false

To put things simply, there are good writers and there are bad writers

A good writer can convey a character's trauma, be it explored in depth or using subtlety

A bad writer writes misery porn

And there is no miracle potion that makes one magically able to write male characters well but not female (or vice versa for that matter)

Wyatt said:
The way anime works is that it treats the psychological experiences of men as inordinately tragic to make them seem noble and heroic. Lelouch’s girlfriend’s horrible death is fodder to make us feel more sympathy for him, as we see all the tragedy he has gone through but still pushes on his journey. Women experience significantly more tragedy and trauma than men in anime, but it’s not depicted as tragedy for them but rather for the men

I think i'll add this to the it's absolute 🐂💩 too ^^
@DigiCat Psychological impact is extremely important and I care a lot about it. My point is that to say a splinter in Tetsuo’s toe hurts more than a tumor in Kaori’s head because the splinter in Tetsuo’s toe hurt him more psychologically is an unbalanced reading. That reading only exists because the author chose to depict Tetsuo’s psychological instability but not Kaori’s. Same for Reze and Denji. Denji gets all sorts of inner monologues that dramatize his desire for acceptance and emotional/sexual fulfillment. Aki as well gets the same treatment. Reze does not. This is all coming from the perspective that chainsaw man is one of the LEAST sexist manga in jump but even it deserves criticism.

I just dont agree that there are simply good writers and bad writers. DW Griffith is one of the greatest and most influential film directors of all time but he was also a horrible racist who supported the KKK openly and all his black characters are rapists and savages. His white characters show an astonishing psychological and emotional depth however, especially for the time. He’s a great artist but his biases led to weaknesses in his films because he was unwilling to write complex black characters.

There is no miracle potion. There are many great writers in this world who are also extremely sexist. This limits their ability to write female characters.

Casca’s trauma is given way less interiority than Guts. We know very little about how Casca actually feels or thinks. Her rape is dramatized for how horrible it was for Guts, not how horrible it was for her.
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Wyatt said:
Why are you assuming Reze doesn't have equal psychological trauma from her upbringing as Denji?

So you interpreted "when both [Reze and Denji] have had just as horrific childhoods" as Reze doesn't have equal psychological trauma as Denji? I guess or that or you are projecting your own attitude of minimizing Denji's trauma over Reze's (based on your OG statement "And as far as Chainsaw Man goes Reze was tortured her entire childhood and then died at 16 so yes I think she has it worse than Denji")

Wyatt said:
Also yes I do think being actively tortured, like physically tortured by people who actively seek to harm you, is worse than growing up in poverty, even as horrible as poverty is

And i also guess no surprise you interpret Denji's situation as simple "growing up in poverty"

Wyatt said:
The psychological effects thing is more bullshit that these show-writers use to justify themselves. They can pile all sorts of horrible things on women and pretend that none of that has any psychological impact on them, but give all the weight in the world to the psychological trauma that the men have from their suffering

Wait lemme get this straight... in one breath, you say the psychological effects is bullshit to justify i assume the "horrible things piled on women", then you say they don't even show said psychological effects, and to top it all off only men are shown to suffer psychological trauma... May i also remind you that one of your OG examples was Berserk, in which Casca, a woman, is shown to have the most severe psychological impact out of the main 3?

I don't know where you got that idea, but i can 100% say it is very false

To put things simply, there are good writers and there are bad writers

A good writer can convey a character's trauma, be it explored in depth or using subtlety

A bad writer writes misery porn

And there is no miracle potion that makes one magically able to write male characters well but not female (or vice versa for that matter)

Wyatt said:
The way anime works is that it treats the psychological experiences of men as inordinately tragic to make them seem noble and heroic. Lelouch’s girlfriend’s horrible death is fodder to make us feel more sympathy for him, as we see all the tragedy he has gone through but still pushes on his journey. Women experience significantly more tragedy and trauma than men in anime, but it’s not depicted as tragedy for them but rather for the men

I think i'll add this to the it's absolute 🐂💩 too ^^
DigiCat said:
And there is no miracle potion that makes one magically able to write male characters well but not female (or vice versa for that matter)

I think some people are better at writing males and others are better at writing females, but that is an extension of your point that there are good and bad writers.
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@ComeInReiAsuka Yeah, no. When I say disgusting monster, I mean it. They erased every trace of beauty from the girl but left her the ability to see & her mind intact. Oh, yeah, and proceeded to do that to some of her surviving subjects. They had blown up her ENTIRE home world earlier in a cruel double cross. So just her personal bodyguards & handmaids were left.

@Sheol01 Sounds like a dream. I am downloading it right now.
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