| What do you mean by submissive or dominant? Be more specific. |
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| Do you mean you would prefer her to ask you out? |
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| Sorry dude but I wouldn't exactly call that being "submissive" that's being a bitch and I don't like that word |
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| if someone doesn't wanna make out I'm pretty sure its not them being submissive or dominant. Maybe tired, stressed or want to be alone. |
| Dominant ofc , males should be dominant always and that's what girls like too |
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| with a girl, i want to be dominant. although if i was with a guy, submissive. but i guess the right person could reverse that. |
| Do I get to pour candle wax on her and tie her up to the ceiling? Or is she gonna tie me up and wip me and yell at me? |
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| Dominant but the girl needs to be dominant too. Subduing other sadists is my greatest pleasure, there's no fun in an easy catch. |
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 Seriously, why not both? Why not a little variety in a relationship? |
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| During sex? Submissive. Come at me MAL Because you're a cuck otherwise, duhhhhhh |
The_Nico said: That's only because you're asian..During sex? Submissive. |
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| Can I choose both :)? Its always fun to be submissive one time then dominant the other time that way both parties can have fun in the role reversal. I always enjoyed being thrown around and used like a ragdoll by my girlfriends, but also on other times I like the girl to be the submissive ragdoll that has to submit to my will. Its the best way to play out both parties fantasies I believe as long as both parties know what they are and aren't against anything beforehand. Although there was this one time where my ex-GF wanted me to choke her really hard and I didn't want to in case I killed her by accident lmao. I like scratching, slapping, spanking, hair-pulling, biting, and light choking though both giving it and receiving it. |
CejaraMay 29, 2016 11:19 PM
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| I want her to be submissive but in sex surely dominant |
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| dominant af hell yeah, hoe better have my orange juice xD |
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| During sex? Depends entirely on my mood as well as hers.. In real life? Depends on the situation and who's better at handling said situation. The_Nico said: KEEP YOUR HATE SPEECH OFF MAL KEEP YOUR HATE SPEECH OFF MAL KEEP YOUR HATE SPEECH OFF MAL You forgot the triggling.. |
| Neither actually would be my choice. Not really sure what the word would be but I'm just gonna say "lenient". I don't want to be dominant nor do I want my partner to be that way towards me. I'd rather it'd be more "casual". For example, if I wanted my partner's company for a minute and wanted to talk about my day-- I want to be able to just simply sit by them and ask if we could talk for a couple of minutes rather than just come in and start talking away. Same thing with them if they wanted the same. Another example being, maybe I want to "play around" (get a bit intimate) I'd have a pretty similar approach and I can be lenient, because they could be busy and ask for an hour to finish up their stuff. I don't mind. So, another way of putting it is I'd prefer "Give and Take" versus being outright dominant or submissive. |
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| i would prefer my boyfriend to be dominating....... not in the sexual way...... not that i have a boyfriend |
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| a woman can only be dominant if the man lets her. it's feels like fighting with a little child. they have nothing to back up their dominance. though i think it's important to respect your partner and try to find compromises if you have different opinions. "shut up and obey" is the wrong type of dominance |
Nigami_ShinMay 30, 2016 12:47 AM
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| ...how about being an equal with them? What do you mean 'submissive' or 'dominant' if it's non-sexual? Nobody rules over the other in a relationship. |
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| For a relationship, I think it's better to strike a balance between the two. A good relationship can work when one person's strength can help with the other's weakness, and the other way around. I find having one partner to be outright dominant and the other submissive to be unhealthy. |
| switch SaMeYeahs said: This is not sexual, by the way. oh. can't it just be balanced? + that shifts in any relationship, sometimes one is better at handling the situation than the other. people who are constantly domineering are annoying and i can't take them seriously. people who are constantly 'submissive' are exhausting and make me nervous cause i always feel like i need to double check if they're really ok with whatever's going on. so i mean, some middle ground would be nice. |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
| Oh, I don't really care to be honest. If my girlfriend wants something and it's reasonable, I don't mind getting it for her. That being said, I don't like being talked down to. I don't like to control the girls I'm with, but if she tries to be dominant I'll put her in her place. Last time a girlfriend got angry at me and started talking to me like filth I said "ok" packed my stuff and left without saying a word. She didn't stop calling me for weeks but that's not my problem. |
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| Being in a relationship is not that simple. |
| I'm definitely the main decision maker in my relationship, but my partner also makes decisions sometimes too. It depends on the situation. I can say that I have the more dominant personality between of the two of us though. Although people who know us would expect the complete opposite based on our behavior lol. |
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| Neither. I want us to be partners. I want us both to contribute and make the relationship uniquely ours. If I only follow or lead, what's the point? |
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| Mostly submissive because my gf can be pretty dominant and bossy, and it's my goal to be a push over which she takes advantage of sometimes. Painting her nails is a favourite thing for me to do because she kept mentioning I should try painting them, now she expects it lol. However I do switch it up a bit since I can be dominant many times. |
Trance said: I'm a guy and I can imagine buttfucking another guy. I don't find the thought repulsive, and I can even imagine kissing another man. |
| I would rather be equal. I don't want either of us to have too much control over the relationship. |
| I think a balance of the two would be best! |
SaMeYeahs said: i completely missed your age in the whole thing. honestly you shouldn't worry about it too much. you'll see what makes you most comfortable once you start dating and then you'll adjust based on experience.I think the best opinions in this are the ones that want equality so... I am probably going to think more about those opinions. I may be young, but maybe getting in a relationship can help me through the future. if you are dating other 13/14 year olds then everyone else is also just starting to get into actual non-platonic stuff and no one really knows what they're doing, so you're pretty good to go with.. pretty much whatever course of action |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
| Ehh tbh it really depends on the girl, otherwise if you're always dominant the sex may not be as good as it should. Personally I'm a fan of being submissive at first then after a few session switch to dominant because it spices up the sex life. |
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| I think that in a relationship it's better to not have distinct parts, but at the same time there are moments where someone in tha couple has to take the lead. In that case i think that i would want to be the one strangely for me |
| These are preferences. Generally you would choose a partner that has the quality that is lacking, if you are submissive, you generally choose a more dominant by nature, if you are effeminate by nature, you would generally choose someone less feminine as a partner. This works well, as long as there is respect. Once there is no respect, there is no relationship. |
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| Shift between submissive and dominant. Full submissive or dominant is boring IMO. |
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| You're thirteen... don't take your relationship seriously and just have fun. |
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| Okay yayyy, you finally were more specific. OQ: I don't want to more dominant or submissive with my boyfriend because A) I don't want to be a lil bitch and I don't want him to a be a lil bitch. |
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