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Nov 7, 2013 4:05 PM

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Mahou_Kony said:
Removed post that was in a series of off-topic posts.
Deleting off topic posts is against the rules? That doesn't make any sense.
As I recall from a... similar incident, yes. Because it's essentially hiding evidence of you breaking rules.

Threatening to report is another matter that I'm not sure where it fits.

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It's also "undoing" your own rule break, though. At least, to the extent that your "bad" posts no longer exist in the thread, which is what the mods would do anyway. I think that we should encourage people to self-moderate.

Also, its sketchy because, at what point does a post officially break the rules? If I write a rule breaking post, am I not allowed to edit it or delete it immediately? How much time does it have to sit in the thread before it's against the rules for me to edit/delete it? 30 seconds, 5 minutes? It's not clear.
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Nov 7, 2013 4:19 PM

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Mahou_Kony said:
It's also "undoing" your own rule break, though. At least, to the extent that your "bad" posts no longer exist in the thread, which is what the mods would do anyway. I think that we should encourage people to self-moderate.

Also, its sketchy because, at what point does a post officially break the rules? If I write a rule breaking post, am I not allowed to edit it or delete it immediately? How much time does it have to sit in the thread before it's against the rules for me to edit/delete it? 30 seconds, 5 minutes? It's not clear.
I think this is off topic, but if you write a whole string of posts like Nidhoeggr did, and then delete your posts an hour later, that doesn't really solve anything. The thread has still been derailed, and people offended and whatnot.

If we encourage people to self-moderate, it should be to self-moderate with the intent to promote constructive discussion rather than to self-moderate with the intent to save their own asses. The distinction may not always be apparent, but it's there. Like the Insult topic, I think this is something that could benefit from being further defined.
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Nov 7, 2013 4:24 PM

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elite-sama said:
I think this is off topic
Yeah, I'm going to leave it at that.
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The best way to prevent the topic from being derailed is to 'discuss' the current topic - but right now the only way I see that happening is with a response from the mods towards the current ideas (which aren't that many) or from new people giving their opinions or new ideas.
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The best way to prevent the topic from being derailed is to 'discuss' the current topic - but right now the only way I see that happening is with a response from the mods towards the current ideas (which aren't that many) or from new people giving their opinions or new ideas.
Well to be clear, we just dug up some really grey area things that are worth elaborating on by mods before we go much further.

And as we've seen in this quickly-heading-to-circle-jerk-thread territory, new ideas/users are getting... "discussed" (in large fault due to the user posting them) into derailment.

But hey, I like this back and forth with the mods (or just Kineta). It keeps us regularly updated, even if progress might be a little slow.
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MellowJello said:
Well to be clear, we just dug up some really grey area things that are worth elaborating on by mods before we go much further.


Well, ideally grey is where it should be. And most people apparently agreed with the policy once it was posted and the issue lied in the inconsistency of the mods' actions so most complaints/comments became off-topic.

MellowJello said:
And as we've seen in this quickly-heading-to-circle-jerk-thread territory, new ideas/users are getting... "discussed" (in large fault due to the user posting them) into derailment.

But hey, I like this back and forth with the mods (or just Kineta). It keeps us regularly updated, even if progress might be a little slow.


Slow progress is better than none at all, I'm perfectly fine with waiting as long as I know that I'm waiting for something.
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I'm kinda confused.

I already got 2 warnings from 2 diff mods.

1st, before this insult policy shit.

2nd, after this insult policy shit. And it was this thread http://myanimelist.net/forum/?topicid=686209 for "guessing" the person above me. Mod linked me this http://myanimelist.net/forum/?topicid=682319&show=260#msg26181677

This is one area we don't have nailed down yet. I'd say after a year the warnings probably are off the radar, within a month it's going to be given full weight. In between that it will probably be a factor of who the second moderator is and what the infraction is. The longer between them, the less weight an existing warning is given.

Sorry I can't be more precise on this. Since I'm aware of the circumstances, I'll keep it in mind, and I tried to provide enough info when logging it to give the maximum potential for leniency since it was forum games and the first day of the tougher enforcement policy.
What does this leave things? Are insult warnings graver than other warnings?
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Are insult warnings graver than other warnings?
If all you got were warnings and you haven't been banned, I don't know why you'd think so. By the way, don't talk about specific mod decisions, they don't like being put on the spot.
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XVIII said:
Are insult warnings graver than other warnings?
If all you got were warnings and you haven't been banned, I don't know why you'd think so. By the way, don't talk about specific mod decisions, they don't like being put on the spot.
Well, no. They're *somewhat* okay with mod decisions being listed, as long as you use them to further your argument.

They don't want mod names. Ever.

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2nd, after this insult policy shit. And it was this thread http://myanimelist.net/forum/?topicid=686209 for "guessing" the person above me. Mod linked me this http://myanimelist.net/forum/?topicid=682319&show=260#msg26181677
Aaaand another grey area to bring up with the mod team. Dandy.

For myself (or anyone, derp):
    Things that need clarification:
    • That forum game lock.
    • That other forum game lock.
    • Self moderation (deleting your own insults).
    • Are insult warnings the same length as other warnings (according to current policy)?
    • Quoting insults that others made.
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@BeyondNero, Your idea is retarded, no no, let's not call it retarded, let's call it exaggerated, you're saying the same things like the others but taking them to the extreme.

You wanna talk shit do it in your home, This an open community and if you make a mistake you should be punished, It seems that you want more lite rules so you can insult people and get away with it.
Giving the fact that you are the guest of honor in the irc.
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Oh, it's no problem for me, I've always been subtle with my insults, I don't need much to get things to work my way, and I don't need to be too colorful to have it my way either. The problem is that with your idea most of the people of MAL would be banned, and I don't think they want to cut off a shitload of the community.
And I don't think you know what a "honer" is, but nonetheless, in the small community of IRC everyone is a guest of "honor".




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Nov 8, 2013 6:20 AM
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Immahnoob said:
Oh, it's no problem for me, I've always been subtle with my insults, I don't need much to get things to work my way, and I don't need to be too colorful to have it my way either. The problem is that with your idea most of the people of MAL would be banned, and I don't think they want to cut off a shitload of the community.
And I don't think you know what a "honer" is, but nonetheless, in the small community of IRC everyone is a guest of "honor".

First of all sorry for the misspell.

Second, Indeed your right about how most of people would be banned if my "Policy" was MAL's, But just because most MAL users take insults lightly and start talking to people with disrespectful attitude it means to be taking lightly of.
Nov 8, 2013 6:33 AM

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As I said before, you don't force the community to fit in a certain system, you fit the system for the community.




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Hitler was good, objectively.
Nov 8, 2013 6:36 AM
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Immahnoob said:
As I said before, you don't force the community to fit in a certain system, you fit the system for the community.

*Community starts posting gore*

ADMIN: Gore is allowed!

What r u using man?
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You're exaggerating again.

And also, gore and insults aren't comparable. As in, gore cannot directly offend somebody and can't really be used to directly offend somebody either. An insult will, most of the times directly offend somebody and can be used as such.

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Thread cleaned.

Four pages cleaned... please try to keep the derails and unproductive arguments to a minimum, guys. The more time I spend cleaning this thread, the less time I have to actually address the content in the remaining posts.
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@XVIII: If you are confused, please reply to the moderator who wrote the PM, asking him the questions that you would like answered. Posting your questions here will lead to further misunderstandings and a public discussion about your offenses, which I don't think you'll want in the end. I am not trying to protect the staff by saying this; I am trying to protect you. If you reply to the moderator saying what you don't understand, I am sure that he will be happy to explain things to you better.
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Since it's somewhat on topic with my cleaning, let me quickly comment on:
  • Self moderation (deleting your own insults).

If a user realises that he has gone too far after having a moment or two to calm down, then I think it is a good thing for him to edit his post and tone it down, rather than saying, "what's done is done" *dusts hands*.

The problem lies in when the insult has already been quoted and replied to. Then editing your post really doesn't solve the problem. What you could do though (if it hasn't progressed too far), is shoot the user a PM/profile comment apologising for the insult and asking him to modify his post as well, so that the thread doesn't derail.

If you can solve the situation in a reasonable manner before the moderators need to intervene, then I don't see an issue with self-moderation. The moderators are not called to inflict punishments just for the sake of, but to settle disputes and enforce order where it has been lost (or soon will be). If you resolve the issue with the user on your own - and the thread is not disturbed - then I don't see a problem.

The only problems I see right now arise when you:
a) are attempting to be a moderator (i.e. trying to correct someone else's violations that are none of your business); or,
b) delete your own posts without attempting to resolve the situation you created at all.

Then it just looks like you're hiding, not holding yourself accountable. And moderators are here to hold users accountable who won't do this themselves.
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Hi everyone.

I'm curious about this whole topic of insults as some of the things that have been suggested over the course of this thread seem to clash directly with the entire principle of freedom of speech.

1. Isn't the whole idea of an insult purely subjective and based within a specific context?

2. If a person is simply bantering with a friend, is it right that a third party who has nothing to do with their discussion finds what they are saying to each other offensive and thus one or both are banned?

3. Some people find what others have to say insulting - regardless of the language they have used - so what actually counts as an insult in the first place?

4. Personal attacks aren't limited to forum discussions. What about profile comments, private messages, and even reviews?

5. What happens if you give a series a perfectly valid opinion that clashes with the belief of the more rabid elements of the fanbase, and are then subjected to a barrage of abuse on your profile or in messages? Will those guilty of this kind of behaviour be banned?

6. What if a person decides to form a club whose sole purpose is to insult people who are giving their honest opinion in a review or discussion by subjecting them to a barrage of abuse? Will the creators and members of a club like this be banned? What about members who do not take part in any abusive behaviour?

7. I like the idea of self-moderation, but is it actually a feasible policy given that the majority of MAL users are little more than children and thus more subject to emotional upheavals and more prone to "feeling insulted" by relatively innocuous comments?

8. How do your rules apply to things like club discussions?

9. Can you be sure that banning someone for a short time will cause them to change their behaviour towards others?

10. If a person does not behave in a reasonable and mature manner, will you permanently ban them with no change in this decision regardless of personal pleas, petitions or assurances from the person banned that they have changed?

11. What will you be doing about historical insults, some of which may date back several years?

12. What happens if someone simply reacts badly to something said to them, but has no actual intent to cause harm and is doing nothing more than acting out? (Again, I refer to the fact that the majority of MAL users are children)

Apologies if some of those questions have already been answered already -17 pages is a lot to read.

My main purpose in asking those questions to to highlight the fact that what has been discussed here in this thread is little more than a symptom of a greater problem, and those that are more likely to break whatever rules are laid down are actually pretty easy to spot.

While I agree with the principles of what you're trying to achieve in this discussion, I think that the approaches given are more work than they need to be. The suggestion of following Youtube's example (three strikes), is a pretty good one if you combine it with the ability to appeal the decision. This allows for analysis of the context and moderation of the issue as the perpetrator's intent may have been very different to the victim's reaction.

To be honest, if the purpose of this discussion is construct a set of standardized rules of behaviour for MAL users then you need to take into account more than just the discussions in the forums. There are many factors that lead to the insulting or abusive behaviour here on the internet, and while I agree that racist, sexist, homophobic or abusive comments of any sort should not be tolerated the admins and mods also need to consider why that person may be acting or reacting in a certain way.

It may be that they are simply not aware of the rules, or of the fact that many of these types of behaviour are now prosecutable offences in many countries - with punishments ranging from fines to custodial sentences (i.e. prison).

Given that factor, it may actually be a better idea for the admins and mods to simply lay down a set of ground rules for behaviour on the site in general, and then modify these over time and with discussion, reflection, the information gained through the appeals system I mentioned earlier, and whatever other factors may come into play in the future. MAL users may moan and complain about the changes at first, but after a few months it will become the norm and those complaints will generally be forgotten.

In essence it's mirroring how laws are made and modified, and if that system can work for countries then why not here?
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@Archaeon: My goodness, quoting every question would be a pain in the patootie, so I'll just answer it by numbers.



As for your the lower portion, yes. There is a large problem that needs to be fixed, and it's super evident with all the users banned for some of the weirdest things, while the ones responsible (Usually the thread makers) appear to get away free. I know it's everyone's responsibility to not post at all, when "bait" occurs, but... yeah no, that's not gonna happen with this age group.

You have it wrong. We're not constructing a set of rules, we're only changing what's already there. So for now, we can't particularly tackle that larger "meta" problem. Instead we can only make a stop-gap solution that'll make some (but not everyone) happy.

And for everything else, let me try to explain. This is the first time in memory that we've ever had a discussion like this. I'm not even kidding. Read Kineta's first post. They're opening themselves up to have this discussion. And they're doing something new by trying it. As described before, they would just handle policy changes internally, rather than with the userbase. I might've demanded a lot in the beginning (removing bans on insults entirely), but the goal is to make compromises on what can and can't be changed. And depending on how this thread turns out, it might be a stepping stone for something bigger, or just a lost cause. We'll find out soon.

edit: added spoiler tags because it was a major eyesore.
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I wonder if My warning about 1 year ago for posting in a suggestions thread older than 2 weeks is gone.
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I wonder if My warning about 1 year ago for posting in a suggestions thread older than 2 weeks is gone.
That's a good question. Although this is in Support...
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@MelloJello

Thanks for answering. You've clarified a lot of things for me. I hope the admins and mods find a good compromise that works.
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@Archaeon

Here's my answer to some of your questions, although I'm not a moderator so I'm not sure if you'll find them adequate.



Here's my answer to your closing thoughts:
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Um Kineta, I doubt this:

Kineta said:
I am sure that he will be happy to explain things to you better.
He hasn't replied to me...

I wasn't insulting anyone, I was just guessing aka playing the game but ok.
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XVIII said:
Um Kineta, I doubt this:

Kineta said:
I am sure that he will be happy to explain things to you better.
He hasn't replied to me...

I wasn't insulting anyone, I was just guessing aka playing the game but ok.
If you're using the Mibbit client, it doesn't tell you that mods are on "away" status and won't reply back. On that note, since they might've been unable to reply back to you after you logged out, perhaps let them know that they can pm you.

Also, I would assume the nature of your posts according to "playing" the game were offensive enough to warrant a 1) report from another user and 2) bad enough that they were deleted.
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Yeah which is weird cus I've said more offensive thangs before but only got an insult warning in the Forum Games section.

Srry for going kinda off-topic.
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Yeah which is weird cus I've said more offensive thangs before but only got an insult warning in the Forum Games section.

Srry for going kinda off-topic.
...So you admitted you were insulting :/

No problem. Discussion's been slow since everything's been said. I guess now we wait for another mod response.
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But it was all in the spirit of fun.
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XVIII said:
But it was all in the spirit of fun.
Perhaps not to the users who you insulted.

Aaand problem spotted. If the insulter was intending to have fun, but the receiver was offended, who exactly is at fault here? *sigh*
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XVIII said:
But it was all in the spirit of fun.
Perhaps not to the users who you insulted.

Aaand problem spotted. If the insulter was intending to have fun, but the receiver was offended, who exactly is at fault here? *sigh*
It's subjective unless you specifically define "insult" making it unnecessary to interpret. Which is why I typed out long posts asking for it a few pages back. Oh well, doesn't seem like anyone gets it. A discussion about insults without defining "insults" is exactly the same in structure as a discussion about any other metaphysical proposition that is undefined (e.g. God, souls, truth, freedom, justice, morality): you'll either accept that subjective psychology, in this case on the part of the mods, plays a large part, or you won't get anywhere.
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elite-sama said:
MellowJello said:
XVIII said:
But it was all in the spirit of fun.
Perhaps not to the users who you insulted.

Aaand problem spotted. If the insulter was intending to have fun, but the receiver was offended, who exactly is at fault here? *sigh*
It's subjective unless you specifically define "insult" making it unnecessary to interpret. Which is why I typed out long posts asking for it a few pages back. Oh well, doesn't seem like anyone gets it. A discussion about insults without defining "insults" is exactly the same in structure as a discussion about any other metaphysical proposition that is undefined (e.g. God, souls, truth, freedom, justice, morality): you'll either accept that subjective psychology, in this case on the part of the mods, plays a large part, or you won't get anywhere.
Yeah, no one gets it :/ Sorry.
And while the mod post "defined" what they think of as an insult, weird situations like this slip through, which is why it'd be better we have a mod respond to it, rather than discussing amongst ourselves.
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Kineta said all this:

"Insulting a user is an offense, but insulting an idea is not.
Direct insults are all rule violations; e.g. "<username> is a cunt".
Indirect insults are taken in context; e.g. "anyone who thinks that is a dumbass".

Yes, "you're dumb/stupid/an idiot" are insults.
Even if you use them colloquially, other users do not.
Threads have ended in flamewars over a simple "you're an idiot" post - sometimes even by users who weren't the target."

But you can't define an insult better than this. It's the same shit. Certain words that are used as insults remain insults.




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elite-sama said:
It's subjective unless you specifically define "insult" making it unnecessary to interpret. Which is why I typed out long posts asking for it a few pages back. Oh well, doesn't seem like anyone gets it. A discussion about insults without defining "insults" is exactly the same in structure as a discussion about any other metaphysical proposition that is undefined (e.g. God, souls, truth, freedom, justice, morality): you'll either accept that subjective psychology, in this case on the part of the mods, plays a large part, or you won't get anywhere.


Hmmm, I think what Kineta was trying to get at is that we should be discussing what to do after a post has been recognized as an insult, everybody has different ways of defining ''insult'' but it doesn't really matter when the statement deeming the post an insult can't be questioned to begin with.

Basically, we need to (try to) discuss what should be done in terms of moderation for a post that regardless of content and maybe even context has already been deemed an insult.
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elite-sama said:
It's subjective unless you specifically define "insult" making it unnecessary to interpret. Which is why I typed out long posts asking for it a few pages back. Oh well, doesn't seem like anyone gets it. A discussion about insults without defining "insults" is exactly the same in structure as a discussion about any other metaphysical proposition that is undefined (e.g. God, souls, truth, freedom, justice, morality): you'll either accept that subjective psychology, in this case on the part of the mods, plays a large part, or you won't get anywhere.


Hmmm, I think what Kineta was trying to get at is that we should be discussing what to do after a post has been recognized as an insult, everybody has different ways of defining ''insult'' but it doesn't really matter when the statement deeming the post an insult can't be questioned to begin with.

Basically, we need to (try to) discuss what should be done in terms of moderation for a post that regardless of content and maybe even context has already been deemed an insult.
Well, we already discussed that. Heck, I even asked what katsu thinks, and it turns out he has nothing to add. Anyway, that whole thing above us was mostly just a small slip of what an "insult" is, just drop the topic and wait for a mod to answer.

And katsu, if you do have something to add, for the love of thighhighs please do. There's like, what, 4 people who actually suggested something? WE NEED MORE SUGGESTIONS ON POLICY CHANGES.

Guh, which reminds me to update my sig...
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Well, we already discussed that. Heck, I even asked what katsu thinks, and it turns out he has nothing to add. Anyway, that whole thing above us was mostly just a small slip of what an "insult" is, just drop the topic and wait for a mod to answer.

And katsu, if you do have something to add, for the love of thighhighs please do. There's like, what, 4 people who actually suggested something? WE NEED MORE SUGGESTIONS ON POLICY CHANGES.
Most problems and complaints were more whining than anything (or cases that need to be brought up with certain mods) there wasn't really anything against the actual policy and it seems pretty reasonable, it's natural that people won't come up with anything.
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How is this 18 pages. If you can't say anything nice, don't say it at all.
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I've read Kineta's post when it was first posted. But people continue to ask about ambiguities regarding intentionality and other issues. If Kineta's post can be taken literally and definitively, then it shouldn't be an issue anymore whether any specific action counts as a violation or not.
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Iasuru said:
How is this 18 pages. If you can't say anything nice, don't say it at all.
Because if you haven't been reading, we're suggesting what to change when a large amount of people disagree with what you've just said.

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I've read Kineta's post when it was first posted. But people continue to ask about ambiguities regarding intentionality and other issues. If Kineta's post can be taken literally and definitively, then it shouldn't be an issue anymore whether any specific action counts as a violation or not.
I would rather have weird things cleared up rather than just left open. Mods and their consistency are still in question.
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Iasuru said:
How is this 18 pages. If you can't say anything nice, don't say it at all.

This is one of the moments you shouldn't be saying anything at all.

And I think we've already talked enough about changes, there aren't any... It's only about the warnings and clarification on what is rule breaking and what is not.




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Immahnoob said:
Iasuru said:
How is this 18 pages. If you can't say anything nice, don't say it at all.

This is one of the moments you shouldn't be saying anything at all.

And I think we've already talked enough about changes, there aren't any... It's only about the warnings and clarification on what is rule breaking and what is not.
Then all that's left is a verdict from the mod team.
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Iasuru said:
How is this 18 pages. If you can't say anything nice, don't say it at all.


Since this came up, is calling someone conceited, pretentious, arrogant, bigoted, uniformed, irrelevant etc. an insult?

I mean calling someone conceited is an insult, but I don't think you can get banned for that.

Also is expressing the fact that you dislike someone an insult? If I said "I don't like you" that isn't strictly speaking an insult is it? Then again strictly speaking it is in the same way "in my opinion you're a conceited asshole, but that's just my opinion" is probably an insult.
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Iasuru said:
How is this 18 pages. If you can't say anything nice, don't say it at all.


Since this came up, is calling someone conceited, pretentious, arrogant, bigoted, uniformed, irrelevant etc. an insult?

I mean calling someone conceited is an insult, but I don't think you can get banned for that.

Also is expressing the fact that you dislike someone an insult? If I said "I don't like you" that isn't strictly speaking an insult is it? Then again strictly speaking it is in the same way "in my opinion you're a conceited asshole, but that's just my opinion" is probably an insult.



Strictly speaking, calling someone (A MAL user) conceited, pretentious, arrogant, bigoted, uniformed, irrelevant, etc. has no place in any discussion. That should only be your opinions towards anyone other than MAL users - celebrity, figure-heads, fictional characters.

":I don't like you" is an insult but it's not a personal attack. This isn't about insulting words. This is about personal attack. Once you say something directly to a person, it's automatically a personal attack. (Unless if it's a friend, knows your joking, whatever but still these shouldn't be done in any discussion threads in MAL unless if it's a spam discussion such as the chat threads)


"That's pretty pathetic" Isn't a personal attack. You are citing an opinion on whatever they said
"That's pretty pathetic for a guy like you". Key word here is YOU. This is automatic personal attack.
"I don't like you" Not a personal attack even if there's a you. You are not attacking them. You are posing your opinion that you do not like them but it doesn't show any negative connotation. Simply speaking, this is not a specific statement. There could be many reason why you do not like them..


ETC. I don't really care about insulting words. People can find words insulting. Hey someone could find "penis" and insulting word but unless you say, "your opinion is invalid because you have a small penis huehue" then I do not see any problems with insulting words by themselves.
Nov 13, 2013 5:06 AM

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Is this thread still up, honestly long as you're not trying to violently jam your dick in their throat whilst screaming profanity at them, if you're not doing that and they're being shitty

Send them this: http://i.imgur.com/foFbor8.jpg



Nov 13, 2013 8:19 AM

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Turnipsia said:
Is this thread still up, honestly long as you're not trying to violently jam your dick in their throat whilst screaming profanity at them, if you're not doing that and they're being shitty

Send them this: http://i.imgur.com/foFbor8.jpg
You didn't even read my signature did you.

Maybe contribute to the thread and suggest a change to the policy instead of debating what you're complaining about.
Nov 13, 2013 1:32 PM

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MellowJello said:
Turnipsia said:
Is this thread still up, honestly long as you're not trying to violently jam your dick in their throat whilst screaming profanity at them, if you're not doing that and they're being shitty

Send them this: http://i.imgur.com/foFbor8.jpg
You didn't even read my signature did you.

Maybe contribute to the thread and suggest a change to the policy instead of debating what you're complaining about.
I'll fix that statement then

Unless the user isn't trying to violently jam his dick in someone else's throat whilst screaming profanity at them, a small insult is just a friendly reminder that they aren't top shit and it helps reduce the overall shittiness of the users due to the fact it keeps them in line and know they're being disagreed in an argument because they cannot understand what "I didn't watch it, I didn't like it, it was boring" is. Making the site more better and reaches the target audience of this site (12-15).



Nov 13, 2013 2:44 PM

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Turnipsia said:
MellowJello said:
Turnipsia said:
Is this thread still up, honestly long as you're not trying to violently jam your dick in their throat whilst screaming profanity at them, if you're not doing that and they're being shitty

Send them this: http://i.imgur.com/foFbor8.jpg
You didn't even read my signature did you.

Maybe contribute to the thread and suggest a change to the policy instead of debating what you're complaining about.
I'll fix that statement then

Unless the user isn't trying to violently jam his dick in someone else's throat whilst screaming profanity at them, a small insult is just a friendly reminder that they aren't top shit and it helps reduce the overall shittiness of the users due to the fact it keeps them in line and know they're being disagreed in an argument because they cannot understand what "I didn't watch it, I didn't like it, it was boring" is. Making the site more better and reaches the target audience of this site (12-15).
While I'm still agreeing with what you said, you should really check out the policy (in my sig) and tell us what you think could be changed.

MAL's definition of an insult isn't particularly one of them, sadly.
Nov 13, 2013 9:19 PM

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MellowJello said:
Turnipsia said:
MellowJello said:
Turnipsia said:
Is this thread still up, honestly long as you're not trying to violently jam your dick in their throat whilst screaming profanity at them, if you're not doing that and they're being shitty

Send them this: http://i.imgur.com/foFbor8.jpg
You didn't even read my signature did you.

Maybe contribute to the thread and suggest a change to the policy instead of debating what you're complaining about.
I'll fix that statement then

Unless the user isn't trying to violently jam his dick in someone else's throat whilst screaming profanity at them, a small insult is just a friendly reminder that they aren't top shit and it helps reduce the overall shittiness of the users due to the fact it keeps them in line and know they're being disagreed in an argument because they cannot understand what "I didn't watch it, I didn't like it, it was boring" is. Making the site more better and reaches the target audience of this site (12-15).
While I'm still agreeing with what you said, you should really check out the policy (in my sig) and tell us what you think could be changed.

MAL's definition of an insult isn't particularly one of them, sadly.
Most of what kineta said are correct, a bit of the rules are too extreme since you can be banned for saying "You're a prick/idiot" that just means "You are being annoying/bad/idiotic", there isn't much of an insult there, if they don't like it well they need to learn not everyone in the world agrees/likes them.

But also the MAL users need to learn to shut the fuck up and not be a total cunt as well, there are wrongs on both sides and the majority is MAL users, just remember not stretch your line too thin because I don't want another month of threads going on about mods being shit... The CD was really shit last month



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MAL users are such pussies. "ZOMG he called me an asshole, mod please ban him before I cry myself to sleep".

If they're sending you death threats and that type of shit, than it's an issue.
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Nov 14, 2013 12:33 PM

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MajinSaga said:
MAL users are such pussies. "ZOMG he called me an asshole, mod please ban him before I cry myself to sleep".

If they're sending you death threats and that type of shit, than it's an issue.
Thanks for your opinion! Now on the topic of opinions, feel free to to contribute and suggest a change to MAL's insult policy.
Nov 15, 2013 7:53 PM

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epbsb said:
Insulting Level 5:
Personal attack stalking, harassment, abuse.
Sending messages like "I wanna fuck you b***"
PM's like "Stupid assh*le, I wish you to get rollover by a car"

>Punishment: Permanent ban


Come man, that's the best though



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