suna said: They basically say fuck it (see what I did there) and decide to go on with their relationship, without even informing the parents. If you can't even tell your parents about it, how do you expect to have a healthy relationship? Everything before that was done very well, even the sadder moments, but their mentality in the last episode(s) just killed it for me. I bet it was just done to make a statement and shock the viewers. It could be that I forgot something. It's been a while since I saw it.
danz said: what's wrong with not telling anyone? it isn't the healthiest relationship in the first place lol. the reason why they especially didn't want to tell their parents is that they don't want to disappoint them. the show emphasized their relationship with their parents a lot and made that pretty clear.
i find it pretty hard to judge their mentality just like that. they are in an extreme situation and they certainly need more time to figure out where the relationship will head so i'm completely fine with what they chose to do.
suna said:How can they have a good relationship together if they want nobody to find out? I know that they were scared to tell their parents, but what would be more disappointing to them? A. I'm attracted to my sister. or B. I'm having sex with my sister. It's not really that hard (or maybe it is for him ;) ) The reason why I'm so disappointed with the ending is exactly because of your last sentence:
they are in an extreme situation and they certainly need more time to figure out where the relationship will head
Why don't they wait longer before escalating the relationship? See if the butterflies go away after a month or two just being with each other instead of going full 'love conquers all' on us.
danz said: but they have waited long enough. they waited most of the series lol and they came to the conclusion that they really are in love with each other and want to take the next step. that was what most of the show was about...
i really don't understand your first point. what is the better choice: A. telling your parents that you fuck each other or B. telling them nothing? pretty sure most people would go for B because it is way easier and doesn't come with nasty problems. their relationship definitely stays healthier if nobody knows about it.
suna said: Maybe I don't think a few weeks is a long time. I don't remember how much time passes between the first and the last episode.
And yeah, of course it's easier to tell them nothing, but that doesn't make it the best thing to do. They can never show their love outside of their home. That seems like an incomplete relationship to me. To think they can go on with this much longer than a few months seems incredibly unrealistic to me and when they do finally decide to tell everyone, the reactions and consequences will only be much worse.
suna said: And yeah, of course it's easier to tell them nothing, but that doesn't make it the best thing to do. They can never show their love outside of their home. That seems like an incomplete relationship to me. To think they can go on with this much longer than a few months seems incredibly unrealistic to me and when they do finally decide to tell everyone, the reactions and consequences will only be much worse.
i don't really think what it feels like to us matters. it's their choice. it's what they thought about and concluded. if you agree with it or not shouldn't be of importance. will it work out for them their way? we don't know, but what we do know is everything that happened up to this point and this is what we are judging. |