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May 24, 2017 3:52 PM
#101
TheBrainintheJar said: TheDarkLordOtaku said: TheBrainintheJar said: yuliyana29 said: I'm experiencing half of what you stated, OP. To be blunt first, I'm introvert since I know about myself. It's hard for me to deal with people outside my family. Maybe that's why I quit work; but to be very freaking honest, my ex-collegues were such jerks towards me, so I had my limit with them. Secondly, in nature, I'm way too sensitive to people's words. I can easily get emotionally hurt so the only option I see is to stay away, shut my ears and be in my own world. I'm very selective when it comes to friends. I had one in first two years in high school (she's the one that introduced me to anime) and the next two years I had three more friends thanks to her being familiar with them from her junior school years. I enjoyed their company beacuse we all accepted each other but most of all they didn't see me personally with different eyes like many others did which I want to say is I was accepted the way I am. Now I'm just in touch with them, they have other lifes they live. Still, I was only open to my friends back then and no one else besides. So when I look behind, I'm more in to anime and manga now than I was then, although I was still an introvert type. I suppose anime only satisfied my traits as an introvert. What do you do to deal with being easily hurt by people's words? Is that the best way? Why not find a way to shield yourself, to desensitize and deal with these emotions? yuliyana29 said: TheBrainintheJar said: yuliyana29 said: I'm experiencing half of what you stated, OP. To be blunt first, I'm introvert since I know about myself. It's hard for me to deal with people outside my family. Maybe that's why I quit work; but to be very freaking honest, my ex-collegues were such jerks towards me, so I had my limit with them. Secondly, in nature, I'm way too sensitive to people's words. I can easily get emotionally hurt so the only option I see is to stay away, shut my ears and be in my own world. I'm very selective when it comes to friends. I had one in first two years in high school (she's the one that introduced me to anime) and the next two years I had three more friends thanks to her being familiar with them from her junior school years. I enjoyed their company beacuse we all accepted each other but most of all they didn't see me personally with different eyes like many others did which I want to say is I was accepted the way I am. Now I'm just in touch with them, they have other lifes they live. Still, I was only open to my friends back then and no one else besides. So when I look behind, I'm more in to anime and manga now than I was then, although I was still an introvert type. I suppose anime only satisfied my traits as an introvert. What do you do to deal with being easily hurt by people's words? To deal with such situation like fighting back and defending my own attitudes is something I very, very rarely have courage to do so. The most common option I use is just sqeeze my lips and swallow my frustration and tears way down my throat. To be precise, it's the people's rough criticism of words they tend to point towards me whenever I know I'm right and worked my ass off for a ceratin thing. It's more like I'm hurt by not getting the appreciation I'm sure I earned it honorably. How can we not-get-hurt from this? Is there any way to strengthen the armor? One of the most valuable thing I've learn is to not give a fuck to verbal abuse. I've been treated as a joke for few assholes from my school and also my neighbours. I usually ignore the calls, and walked away without any eye contact. Its the best way to deal with idiots, they'll tire themselves and feel foolish.. If they gone physicall, I would shout at them ( I'm a calm type, but I have a very loud voice) and verbally intimidate them. I'll also pour all of my hatred I've been kept for years at them. |
May 24, 2017 4:11 PM
#102
I am sure it helped like having such an outthere thing as my main interest did not made it any easier to make friends but i have been an introvert throught my entire life so no |
May 24, 2017 5:05 PM
#103
TheBrainintheJar said: Yeah, unfortunately bottling up your emotions, and suppressing your rage until you drink too much eggnog at the office holiday party, then show up to the PTA meeting the next day and wind up punching someone else's kid's lights out cause he spilled grape juice on your blazer is the only way to go.TheDarkLordOtaku said: TheBrainintheJar said: yuliyana29 said: I'm experiencing half of what you stated, OP. To be blunt first, I'm introvert since I know about myself. It's hard for me to deal with people outside my family. Maybe that's why I quit work; but to be very freaking honest, my ex-collegues were such jerks towards me, so I had my limit with them. Secondly, in nature, I'm way too sensitive to people's words. I can easily get emotionally hurt so the only option I see is to stay away, shut my ears and be in my own world. I'm very selective when it comes to friends. I had one in first two years in high school (she's the one that introduced me to anime) and the next two years I had three more friends thanks to her being familiar with them from her junior school years. I enjoyed their company beacuse we all accepted each other but most of all they didn't see me personally with different eyes like many others did which I want to say is I was accepted the way I am. Now I'm just in touch with them, they have other lifes they live. Still, I was only open to my friends back then and no one else besides. So when I look behind, I'm more in to anime and manga now than I was then, although I was still an introvert type. I suppose anime only satisfied my traits as an introvert. What do you do to deal with being easily hurt by people's words? Is that the best way? Why not find a way to shield yourself, to desensitize and deal with these emotions? yuliyana29 said: TheBrainintheJar said: yuliyana29 said: I'm experiencing half of what you stated, OP. To be blunt first, I'm introvert since I know about myself. It's hard for me to deal with people outside my family. Maybe that's why I quit work; but to be very freaking honest, my ex-collegues were such jerks towards me, so I had my limit with them. Secondly, in nature, I'm way too sensitive to people's words. I can easily get emotionally hurt so the only option I see is to stay away, shut my ears and be in my own world. I'm very selective when it comes to friends. I had one in first two years in high school (she's the one that introduced me to anime) and the next two years I had three more friends thanks to her being familiar with them from her junior school years. I enjoyed their company beacuse we all accepted each other but most of all they didn't see me personally with different eyes like many others did which I want to say is I was accepted the way I am. Now I'm just in touch with them, they have other lifes they live. Still, I was only open to my friends back then and no one else besides. So when I look behind, I'm more in to anime and manga now than I was then, although I was still an introvert type. I suppose anime only satisfied my traits as an introvert. What do you do to deal with being easily hurt by people's words? To deal with such situation like fighting back and defending my own attitudes is something I very, very rarely have courage to do so. The most common option I use is just sqeeze my lips and swallow my frustration and tears way down my throat. To be precise, it's the people's rough criticism of words they tend to point towards me whenever I know I'm right and worked my ass off for a ceratin thing. It's more like I'm hurt by not getting the appreciation I'm sure I earned it honorably. How can we not-get-hurt from this? Is there any way to strengthen the armor? |
May 24, 2017 5:51 PM
#104
I bet it can make you shy, but introverts and extroverts are born that way. It's an orientation, not an afternoon club. |
May 25, 2017 1:04 AM
#105
nope, it has nothing to do with it, not at all I enjoy things the way they are |
May 25, 2017 1:07 AM
#106
Well, I have always been a hikikomori sooooo... |
May 25, 2017 1:54 AM
#107
Almost did make me an introvert but I've been an extrovert right from time?.. so once I clocked 200 watched anime that rush to watch anime every hour of the day was gone so I had time to go back to my old self |
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May 25, 2017 2:29 AM
#108
Ehh kinda i made alot of friends due to anime but i also stayed home alot more so maybe? |
May 25, 2017 3:53 AM
#109
yuliyana29 said: TheBrainintheJar said: yuliyana29 said: TheBrainintheJar said: yuliyana29 said: I'm experiencing half of what you stated, OP. To be blunt first, I'm introvert since I know about myself. It's hard for me to deal with people outside my family. Maybe that's why I quit work; but to be very freaking honest, my ex-collegues were such jerks towards me, so I had my limit with them. Secondly, in nature, I'm way too sensitive to people's words. I can easily get emotionally hurt so the only option I see is to stay away, shut my ears and be in my own world. I'm very selective when it comes to friends. I had one in first two years in high school (she's the one that introduced me to anime) and the next two years I had three more friends thanks to her being familiar with them from her junior school years. I enjoyed their company beacuse we all accepted each other but most of all they didn't see me personally with different eyes like many others did which I want to say is I was accepted the way I am. Now I'm just in touch with them, they have other lifes they live. Still, I was only open to my friends back then and no one else besides. So when I look behind, I'm more in to anime and manga now than I was then, although I was still an introvert type. I suppose anime only satisfied my traits as an introvert. What do you do to deal with being easily hurt by people's words? To deal with such situation like fighting back and defending my own attitudes is something I very, very rarely have courage to do so. The most common option I use is just sqeeze my lips and swallow my frustration and tears way down my throat. To be precise, it's the people's rough criticism of words they tend to point towards me whenever I know I'm right and worked my ass off for a ceratin thing. It's more like I'm hurt by not getting the appreciation I'm sure I earned it honorably. How can we not-get-hurt from this? Is there any way to strengthen the armor? The Experience I guess. The more one's around people, learns about how a human acts, the more one knows how to deal with tough situation people are causing. Do you do this? Do you constantly put yourself out there? TheDarkLordOtaku said: TheBrainintheJar said: Yeah, unfortunately bottling up your emotions, and suppressing your rage until you drink too much eggnog at the office holiday party, then show up to the PTA meeting the next day and wind up punching someone else's kid's lights out cause he spilled grape juice on your blazer is the only way to go.TheDarkLordOtaku said: TheBrainintheJar said: Every time someone says something hurtful, you suppress your anger and laugh it off. Then, later, you push that rage deep down within you remarking how "...you'll show them one of these days..." under your breath. You proceed with life as normal and continue bottling up your anger. Then, 20 years later, Jen from accounting turns you down, and your boss tells you that your sales figures are the worst in the department. Like always, you bottle up your anger, and silently walk back to your desk. Then, you grab your desk lamp, and head directly for Jen's office bashing in the heads of your coworkers along the way. You kick in Jen's door, throw her computer out the window, and throw your lighter on the company tax returns, engulfing the room in flames. As smoke fills the office, cries of terror can be heard throughout the building as you pace down the hallway chasing after coworkers in a blood drenched blazer, a grin, and a crazed gleam to your eyes. Witnesses will remark how you were always a quiet person, who plugged away at the company for decades without any signs.yuliyana29 said: I'm experiencing half of what you stated, OP. To be blunt first, I'm introvert since I know about myself. It's hard for me to deal with people outside my family. Maybe that's why I quit work; but to be very freaking honest, my ex-collegues were such jerks towards me, so I had my limit with them. Secondly, in nature, I'm way too sensitive to people's words. I can easily get emotionally hurt so the only option I see is to stay away, shut my ears and be in my own world. I'm very selective when it comes to friends. I had one in first two years in high school (she's the one that introduced me to anime) and the next two years I had three more friends thanks to her being familiar with them from her junior school years. I enjoyed their company beacuse we all accepted each other but most of all they didn't see me personally with different eyes like many others did which I want to say is I was accepted the way I am. Now I'm just in touch with them, they have other lifes they live. Still, I was only open to my friends back then and no one else besides. So when I look behind, I'm more in to anime and manga now than I was then, although I was still an introvert type. I suppose anime only satisfied my traits as an introvert. What do you do to deal with being easily hurt by people's words? Is that the best way? Why not find a way to shield yourself, to desensitize and deal with these emotions? yuliyana29 said: TheBrainintheJar said: yuliyana29 said: I'm experiencing half of what you stated, OP. To be blunt first, I'm introvert since I know about myself. It's hard for me to deal with people outside my family. Maybe that's why I quit work; but to be very freaking honest, my ex-collegues were such jerks towards me, so I had my limit with them. Secondly, in nature, I'm way too sensitive to people's words. I can easily get emotionally hurt so the only option I see is to stay away, shut my ears and be in my own world. I'm very selective when it comes to friends. I had one in first two years in high school (she's the one that introduced me to anime) and the next two years I had three more friends thanks to her being familiar with them from her junior school years. I enjoyed their company beacuse we all accepted each other but most of all they didn't see me personally with different eyes like many others did which I want to say is I was accepted the way I am. Now I'm just in touch with them, they have other lifes they live. Still, I was only open to my friends back then and no one else besides. So when I look behind, I'm more in to anime and manga now than I was then, although I was still an introvert type. I suppose anime only satisfied my traits as an introvert. What do you do to deal with being easily hurt by people's words? To deal with such situation like fighting back and defending my own attitudes is something I very, very rarely have courage to do so. The most common option I use is just sqeeze my lips and swallow my frustration and tears way down my throat. To be precise, it's the people's rough criticism of words they tend to point towards me whenever I know I'm right and worked my ass off for a ceratin thing. It's more like I'm hurt by not getting the appreciation I'm sure I earned it honorably. How can we not-get-hurt from this? Is there any way to strengthen the armor? Sounds to me like you're in need of therapy. |
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May 25, 2017 5:02 AM
#110
TheBrainintheJar said: yuliyana29 said: TheBrainintheJar said: yuliyana29 said: TheBrainintheJar said: yuliyana29 said: I'm experiencing half of what you stated, OP. To be blunt first, I'm introvert since I know about myself. It's hard for me to deal with people outside my family. Maybe that's why I quit work; but to be very freaking honest, my ex-collegues were such jerks towards me, so I had my limit with them. Secondly, in nature, I'm way too sensitive to people's words. I can easily get emotionally hurt so the only option I see is to stay away, shut my ears and be in my own world. I'm very selective when it comes to friends. I had one in first two years in high school (she's the one that introduced me to anime) and the next two years I had three more friends thanks to her being familiar with them from her junior school years. I enjoyed their company beacuse we all accepted each other but most of all they didn't see me personally with different eyes like many others did which I want to say is I was accepted the way I am. Now I'm just in touch with them, they have other lifes they live. Still, I was only open to my friends back then and no one else besides. So when I look behind, I'm more in to anime and manga now than I was then, although I was still an introvert type. I suppose anime only satisfied my traits as an introvert. What do you do to deal with being easily hurt by people's words? To deal with such situation like fighting back and defending my own attitudes is something I very, very rarely have courage to do so. The most common option I use is just sqeeze my lips and swallow my frustration and tears way down my throat. To be precise, it's the people's rough criticism of words they tend to point towards me whenever I know I'm right and worked my ass off for a ceratin thing. It's more like I'm hurt by not getting the appreciation I'm sure I earned it honorably. How can we not-get-hurt from this? Is there any way to strengthen the armor? The Experience I guess. The more one's around people, learns about how a human acts, the more one knows how to deal with tough situation people are causing. Do you do this? Do you constantly put yourself out there? Eh, not really. My parents are the push-overs and I tend to avoid putting myself out there. On the other hand, most of the time, I lack motivation to even make a step. It's just feels bothersome to me. I prefer to be chill & all. |
May 25, 2017 5:07 AM
#111
It might have nurtured that part of me but I wouldn't say it made me an introvert. Besides, video games probably played a part in that. I needed shelter from people perhaps. |
May 25, 2017 6:41 AM
#112
yuliyana29 said: TheBrainintheJar said: yuliyana29 said: TheBrainintheJar said: yuliyana29 said: TheBrainintheJar said: yuliyana29 said: I'm experiencing half of what you stated, OP. To be blunt first, I'm introvert since I know about myself. It's hard for me to deal with people outside my family. Maybe that's why I quit work; but to be very freaking honest, my ex-collegues were such jerks towards me, so I had my limit with them. Secondly, in nature, I'm way too sensitive to people's words. I can easily get emotionally hurt so the only option I see is to stay away, shut my ears and be in my own world. I'm very selective when it comes to friends. I had one in first two years in high school (she's the one that introduced me to anime) and the next two years I had three more friends thanks to her being familiar with them from her junior school years. I enjoyed their company beacuse we all accepted each other but most of all they didn't see me personally with different eyes like many others did which I want to say is I was accepted the way I am. Now I'm just in touch with them, they have other lifes they live. Still, I was only open to my friends back then and no one else besides. So when I look behind, I'm more in to anime and manga now than I was then, although I was still an introvert type. I suppose anime only satisfied my traits as an introvert. What do you do to deal with being easily hurt by people's words? To deal with such situation like fighting back and defending my own attitudes is something I very, very rarely have courage to do so. The most common option I use is just sqeeze my lips and swallow my frustration and tears way down my throat. To be precise, it's the people's rough criticism of words they tend to point towards me whenever I know I'm right and worked my ass off for a ceratin thing. It's more like I'm hurt by not getting the appreciation I'm sure I earned it honorably. How can we not-get-hurt from this? Is there any way to strengthen the armor? The Experience I guess. The more one's around people, learns about how a human acts, the more one knows how to deal with tough situation people are causing. Do you do this? Do you constantly put yourself out there? Eh, not really. My parents are the push-overs and I tend to avoid putting myself out there. On the other hand, most of the time, I lack motivation to even make a step. It's just feels bothersome to me. I prefer to be chill & all. I think you'll have to put yourself out there if you want to improve this. Else it'll haunt you. I was an introvert and until I pushed myself outside, it never improved. |
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May 25, 2017 6:54 AM
#113
May 25, 2017 10:11 AM
#114
I'm pretty much an Introvert before watching Anime. But after getting fond of Anime cultures, I'm more sociable irl now. I still shy sometimes, but I Think anime can make you getting socialize more irl than makes you an introvert... |
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