| Unfortunately SOMEONE is usually the shy one in the relationship. SO no, men don't, but they can't be with a shy girl. They'd need to be with someone extroverted/not afraid to make moves. I'm a shy girl unfortunately, and I'm pretty sure i'm going to go through life alone because a lot of guys just don't like to ask people out due to shyness. Regarding being shy, it doesn't make you less than dirt. You're just introverted, society puts a damper on introverts when we still make up half of humans. Which is pretty silly. But introverts are all usually behind the scenes, so people won't see us on TV, or on stage, so why would they remember that we exist unless they are ones themselves? People who initiate every thing are confident sure, but that usually starts to make them border on narcissism/arrogance. |
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ThrashMatto said: TheBrainintheJar said: Finally! Embrace your inner homosexual Brain. Go get the man of your dreams, girl.Every relationship should be either 2 men or 2 women. Heterosexuality is obsolete. All that sex and no risk of forcing a child into the world. I wish I could have. Sadly I'm straight so I don't have the ability to enjoy gay sex. Oh well, that's life! |
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Holmbrah said: Seijurou said: Unfortunately yes. Girls are too timid to make the first move... On anything. So as a guy you have to initiate, while risking a bitch-fit from stuck up whores. It's our sad destiny. You haven't talked to a lot of women during your lifetime, have you? Many more than the years you have been alive, kid. |
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A5IAN said: Interrrrrpetgyu said: Well, yeah, since every relationship should involve two men. ^^^^^ The dick only makes it better :S Is that what your dad told you? space |
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| I don't think so, because f gender roles Equality for everyone, I think girls should be able to take initiative too! :) |
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| The last thing someone would call me in a relationship is timid, so I do appreciate a guy who enjoys taking the reins. It's refreshing, and displays to me that he does take action to get what he wants, which is a turn on. |
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| the gist of it all is this: 1. if you like someone and that someone is not making a move then you should initiate regardless of your gender. fuck social constructs that dictate that a certain gender should be the one to initiate - if both parties have an equal (relatively) amount of interest in each other then eventually it won't even matter who makes the first move. sadly though, on online dating platforms - it's seen as more socially acceptable for a male to make the first move. this is harder to get around because at least when it's a face-to-face interaction, a woman can charm a man into thinking that her confidence is attractive and charming but online, men start spiraling and the idea that this woman seems "weirdly into me" or that "she seems a little desperate" starts to overwhelm the brain and then the whole conversation goes to shit. i am no expert in this but it seems the case is as such. anyway, at least you all haven't seen sad (read: courageous) folks doing barn yard dances in the centre of a school dance whilst you silently curse yourself and drift even further into the corner of the room. good luck, brave souls ~ |
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