| For high divorce rates, I mean. What I think is that, it's not that early marriages are the ubiquitous 'bad' out there. The real issue is that, people in their 30s are just fed up of jumping from one partner to another and so they settle for just one; no matter how much they may have to punish themselves for it, or have to lower their expectations etc. A mentality is on the rise: The grass is always greener on the other side. As soon as the relationship's spark wears off (which means the partners should settle down), both partners start looking for something new only to repeat the procedure till they've had enough of prancing around. I'm not going to compare marriages of the past with the marriages of present; because let's admit it, the women were severely at a disadvantage back then (well, now men are). I'm only going to compare the mentalities. I've never heard someone talking of 'growing up together' or fixing their partner's flaws. In a relationship, partners are also teachers of each other. Yet that role is rarely assumed by anyone these days. Often, teaching your partner is confused with 'invading their space' like for fuck's sake, what fucking private space exists anymore within you and your partner?! are you even in a relationship? Obsession is a far off thing. But, nowadays, even asking your partner to fix his dressing at home is considered an 'invasion on privacy' - okay, it was exaggerated but ye get the point. Nitpick. |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
| Shit thread. You ain't getting married anytime soon boy don't worry. |
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Izumii said: Shit thread. You ain't getting married anytime soon boy don't worry. You ain't getting any pussy beta cuck. |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
geniobastardo said: Izumii said: Shit thread. You ain't getting married anytime soon boy don't worry. You ain't getting any pussy beta cuck. Lol. If you were anywhere but Pakistan I would take you seriously. Who even taught you english boy. |
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| Fuck marriage. I don't need a piece of paper from the government to validate me or my relationship. It's just a social construct designed to promote monogamy anyway. |
LoneWolfNov 22, 2015 5:24 PM
 "The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." -Friedrich Nietzsche |
Izumii said: geniobastardo said: You ain't getting any pussy beta cuck. Lol. If you were anywhere but Pakistan I would take you seriously. Who even taught you english boy. your mom She remember every vein on my brown dick by heart |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
geniobastardo said: Izumii said: Lol. If you were anywhere but Pakistan I would take you seriously. Who even taught you english boy. your mom She remember every vein on my brown dick by heart nice comeback dude. you crusty lol lying about dating some chick from germany dude I don't usually pity people but I actually feel bad for you. |
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Izumii said: geniobastardo said: your mom She remember every vein on my brown dick by heart nice comeback dude. you crusty lol lying about dating some chick from germany dude I don't usually pity people but I actually feel bad for you. It's okay. I felt bad for your mom too when I left her single and pregnant. |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
| wtf happened to this thread why is there childish banter OT: i agree with the points OP made |
mayukachan said: wtf happened to this thread why is there childish banter OT: i agree with the points OP made Sorry for my strong faith in 'an eye for an eye', but these kids (Izumii is an alt btw) need to be taught a lesson. |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
geniobastardo said: Izumii said: nice comeback dude. you crusty lol lying about dating some chick from germany dude I don't usually pity people but I actually feel bad for you. It's okay. I felt bad for your mom too when I left her single and pregnant. I would make a lame comeback about your mom also but since shes from pakistan shes probably hairier than me lmaoo so I wouldn't touch her with a stick. Keep dreaming of your german chick... Oh was it "swagqueen" yeah dude you definitely dated a chick that you never met in real life.... this poor guy |
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mayukachan said: wtf happened to this thread why is there childish banter OT: i agree with the points OP made there is childish banter because I am bored and I always see this annoying guys threads so just decided to put him in his place. |
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| Is there any evidence that shows early marriages suffer more from high divorce? |
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| This thread is so edgy even my mouse started bleeding. |
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Izumii said: geniobastardo said: It's okay. I felt bad for your mom too when I left her single and pregnant. I would make a lame comeback about your mom also but since shes from pakistan shes probably hairier than me lmaoo so I wouldn't touch her with a stick. Keep dreaming of your german chick... Oh was it "swagqueen" yeah dude you definitely dated a chick that you never met in real life.... this poor guy Figure your mom always shaved before we went on with it. How does it feel like to be a son of a thot? And you're still salty for not even getting an online girl fall for you. Boy, you are not just ugly as fuck but your personality sucks also. |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
| It's the perfect storm. Helicopter parenting, education coddling, dysfunctional gender dynamics disincentivizing long-term marriage, a lack of social skills caused by near constant immersion in online communities, a lack of participation in civil society, unions, politics, and business by young people who don't understand how it relates to them. We have romanticized relationships to the point that we have forgotten that they entail hardship and growth in equal measure to their other components. |
geniobastardo said: who is he an alt of?? o_oSorry for my strong faith in 'an eye for an eye', but these kids (Izumii is an alt btw) need to be taught a lesson. |
TheBrainintheJar said: Is there any evidence that shows early marriages suffer more from high divorce? A quick google search : http://www.maselliwarren.com/2014/03/20/divorce-rates-increase-youre-25/ and some more. |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
geniobastardo said: Izumii said: I would make a lame comeback about your mom also but since shes from pakistan shes probably hairier than me lmaoo so I wouldn't touch her with a stick. Keep dreaming of your german chick... Oh was it "swagqueen" yeah dude you definitely dated a chick that you never met in real life.... this poor guy Figure your mom always shaved before we went on with it. How does it feel like to be a son of a thot? And you're still salty for not even getting an online girl fall for you. Boy, you are not just ugly as fuck but your personality sucks also. Dang dude I wish I was from pakistan so I could be aesthetic like you. I know you get all the girls right? You know you are a failure of a person. I'm sorry for calling you out I honestly feel bad about it since you actually have nothing true/worthwhile to say. And I'm not an alt.... mayuka should know that |
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Izumii said: I don't think you are?? At least, I don't have any proof against you lmaoAnd I'm not an alt.... mayuka should know that |
Latent said: It's the perfect storm. Helicopter parenting, education coddling, dysfunctional gender dynamics disincentivizing long-term marriage, a lack of social skills caused by near constant immersion in online communities, a lack of participation in civil society, unions, politics, and business by young people who don't understand how it relates to them. We have romanticized relationships to the point that we have forgotten that they entail hardship and growth in equal measure to their other components. Good point. But can we blame the dating culture for it? mayukachan said: geniobastardo said: who is he an alt of?? o_oSorry for my strong faith in 'an eye for an eye', but these kids (Izumii is an alt btw) need to be taught a lesson. Don't know. But the fact that he's familiar with Battosai and knows about me only points me that he's someone's alt. Remember which MAL member got banned before May.. |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
Izumii said: Dang dude I wish I was from pakistan so I could be aesthetic like you. I know you get all the girls right? You know you are a failure of a person. I'm sorry for calling you out I honestly feel bad about it since you actually have nothing true/worthwhile to say. And I'm not an alt.... mayuka should know that LMAO faggot chickened out |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
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geniobastardo said: Latent said: It's the perfect storm. Helicopter parenting, education coddling, dysfunctional gender dynamics disincentivizing long-term marriage, a lack of social skills caused by near constant immersion in online communities, a lack of participation in civil society, unions, politics, and business by young people who don't understand how it relates to them. We have romanticized relationships to the point that we have forgotten that they entail hardship and growth in equal measure to their other components. Good point. But can we blame the dating culture for it? mayukachan said: who is he an alt of?? o_o Don't know. But the fact that he's familiar with Battosai and knows about me only points me that he's someone's alt. Remember which MAL member got banned before May.. you can ask the guy.... first time I commented on his profile damm you did a whole database search lmao |
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geniobastardo said: Izumii said: Dang dude I wish I was from pakistan so I could be aesthetic like you. I know you get all the girls right? You know you are a failure of a person. I'm sorry for calling you out I honestly feel bad about it since you actually have nothing true/worthwhile to say. And I'm not an alt.... mayuka should know that LMAO faggot chickened out yeah I don't want to get banned for messing with a sad boys emotions |
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Exowave said: This thread is so edgy even my mouse started bleeding. I lol'd |
| *checking profile pages* Oh it's okay they're not even 20. |
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| Actual response people should go for marriege only when they are 110% sure that life with their partner works out for quite some period, and even then it is not guaranteed that things will not turn into shit after awhile. It is just way to please family members really, otherwise it is pointless in my eyes to marry esp if 2 of people were in relationship for extremely short time, rushing it is retarded. But marriege may not even be cause for people change in first place, many couples just find it easy to blame on it, for sudden changes while in reality things may as well stopped working out way earlier then that. |
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| Blame children, they make marriages miserable. |
| Everyone knows marriage is the last attempt at saving a failing couple. People fall in love, and when things turn stale they make children, buy a house and get married in that order. Once they did all that there's nothing left to try and fix their relationship, they divorce. |
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geniobastardo said: Good point. But can we blame the dating culture for it? "Dating culture." Lol, do you mean the offhanded refrains of “Tinder sucks!" followed by more furious swiping? We don't want to admit it to ourselves, but we are turning our thumbs into some kind of spiritually numbed executioner. What a disaster. |
| I certainly don't think it's just early marriages that are to blame for divorcees. I think you made some good points in your OP. It often feels like we're living in an age where we're scared to offend other people, and as a result, we tend to be less honest, especially with those we're close to because we're worried it might affect the relationship. Whereas, a lot of the time, not being open and honest is the thing that tends to lead to a relationship's downfall. |
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| The problem isn't when couples get married, it's why they get married. |
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