| Note: Changed the topic title. How do you feel when a person you like/respect doesn't notice you, or just seemingly ignores you? There may be no ill intent behind it, they just simply don't converse with you as much as they do with their other friends/peers/people. Do you try to attract their attention somehow, or just let things carry on as they are? Discuss. |
NonaryGamesOct 16, 2015 5:00 AM
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| I completely forgot about my 1st crush after like 2 years. I still remember my 2nd crush from time to time for 4 years and counting... And how? Idk, I just think about them less and less with time. |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: ... what are you me?I swear I'm not asking this question because it relates to myself.... I also know I already have about 5-6 of my threads currently on the first page of the CD section, so I'll take a break from thread creation for the time being, lest I spam the forum with 10+ topics of my shit. OT: I just let the memories fade, there's nothing else you can do. You just have to slowly replace the memories of them with memories of other people and things. |
 I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
| date new ppl |
DisdainMatto said: ... what are you me? Yes, I was cloned from your shadow, and have been born into the world to exact chaos and vengeance... ...Nah, I don't know you well enough to say that. Yet. Coitus said: And how? Idk, I just think about them less and less with time. But what if you see them all the time? |
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| I just let it go. |
SnugglyWhuggly said: Coitus said: And how? Idk, I just think about them less and less with time. But what if you see them all the time? Then you're fucked... Getting a crush on someone else would probably fix that though. |
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Coitus said: Then you're fucked... Getting a crush on someone else would probably fix that though. Sure, if only it didn't take me months - a year to get over my current one... MrMagnificent said: lol "crush" what is this, high school? Anyway, if I like a girl and it doesn't work out, I cut all ties with her. It's just easier that way. I'm not the type of guy that sulks over women. Okay, just taking a liking to someone else then, if "crush" is such a cringe-worthy word for you. |
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| Stop thinking about them... and cutting off contact with them helps too. |
 "The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." -Friedrich Nietzsche |
BakastreetBoys said: je just fapMy go to answer for anything is fap it out. |
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| Rambly story time! I had gotten over my crush of about 3-4 years, 1 year and a half after highschool. Our friendship ended on an incredibly sour note for a number of reasons and she ended up dating my friend instead :P I successfully stopped thinking about her for most of a year, until I got a job and a payday every Wednesday. Little did I know is that this girl has a shift at the local grocery store on that day, after(or before) the end of my shift, and the store is on my way home. And I need to feed my cat.. And myself.. At first I just ignored her, pretended not to notice her at all like artificially looking in the other direction and what not. And then one day she assertively says "Hi Objurgo!" when I was at the self checkout, I quickly became flustered, grimaced at her and left the store with my stuff. About a week or two go by and I go to the store again. This is a self checkout section, and she monitors it. Again, she tries to say 'hi' to me again whilst I'm scanning my items, I decide to be a jerk and ignore her, pretending not to her words. Months of this repeated. She's stand next to me, pretend to be interested in what ever I'm buying, by this time I just gave in and acknowledged her with a 'hello' and/or a quick smile. I honestly thought at the time that it didn't mean much to me. Now, 2 months ago, A mate of mine invited me over for drinks and what not. Neglecting to tell me that he invited some of our old high school colleagues too, who also decided to invite 'Ms ex-crush' of mine. We're all talking, hanging about. I'm trying to avoid conversation with her, even though she tried to converse with me. And went as far as sitting next to me and stayed there, even though I tried to visually imply that I wanted nothing to do with her. Now this is the lame part. My mate had me go outside with him so he could have a smoke, and as we were sitting there, whilst he was talking about something, in the back of my mind I felt a slight longing to go back inside. I found myself repeatedly looking back inside, pretending to engage in the current conversation.. Weeks and a bit later, I find my self gunning for Wednesdays, holding back on my shopping, just to get a tid bid of conversation with her. She playfully teases me and I her. And not too long a go it finally hit me.. My crush for her had resurfaced. And I very much dislike that this is the case. TL;DR |
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DisdainMatto said: I just let the memories fade, there's nothing else you can do. You just have to slowly replace the memories of them with memories of other people and things. |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
| It doesn't even have to be a crush necessarily, just someone you respect who doesn't notice you or hardly ever speaks with you, even though you'd like to have conversations with them. I think that's more of what I had in mind what I created this thread, so I think I'll change the thread title to match. There's one too many relationship related threads on MAL anyhow. |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: Okay now you're just asking for the memes.notice you |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
| I move on. |
DisdainMatto said: SnugglyWhuggly said: Okay now you're just asking for the memes.notice you Yeah, I expect this thread to be swamped in "notice me senpai!" memes pretty quickly now. I apologise for even creating this thread, I'm just going through one of my emofag "no bwody likes me :c" moments right now. This is my new theme song: Just kill me, please. |
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| For you, OP. |
mayukachan said: For you, OP. [yt]bMpFmHSgC4Q[/ yt] I hate you... :c |
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| ignore him right back :/ |
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| I regret replying to this thread |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
SnugglyWhuggly said: It's okay, I'm older than you and I have taken notice of your existence, so by the laws of physics, senpai has noticed you.DisdainMatto said: Okay now you're just asking for the memes. Yeah, I expect this thread to be swamped in "notice me senpai!" memes pretty quickly now. I apologise for even creating this thread, I'm just going through one of my emofag "no bwody likes me :c" moments right now. This is my new theme song: Just kill me, please. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
geniobastardo said: I regret replying to this thread Don't worry, there's still time to delete your posts and pretend it never happened. DisdainMatto said: It's okay, I'm older than you and I have taken notice of your existence, so by the laws of physics, senpai has noticed you. Thanks. :) Unfortunately though, you aren't my senpai. |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: geniobastardo said: I regret replying to this thread Don't worry, there's still time to delete your posts and pretend it never happened. For the sake of your emo phase, I guess I'd rather not delete my post. It's okay snuggly, we all have our weaknesses. We all are fragile. |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
| I don't really respect anyone |
SnugglyWhuggly said: While technically not true, I am happy about that.geniobastardo said: I regret replying to this thread Don't worry, there's still time to delete your posts and pretend it never happened. DisdainMatto said: It's okay, I'm older than you and I have taken notice of your existence, so by the laws of physics, senpai has noticed you. Thanks. :) Unfortunately though, you aren't my senpai. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
geniobastardo said: SnugglyWhuggly said: Don't worry, there's still time to delete your posts and pretend it never happened. For the sake of your emo phase, I guess I'd rather not delete my post. It's okay snuggly, we all have our weaknesses. We all are fragile. It's okay, I don't blame you. I even hate myself right now, so everyone else is free to hate me as well. I regret making this thread... DisdainMatto said: While technically not true, I am happy about that. ...What is this supposed to mean? |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: It's okay, I don't blame you. I even hate myself right now, so everyone else is free to hate me as well. I regret making this thread... Hate is too hard an emotion for me to bear but can I stop loving you? |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
geniobastardo said: Hate is too hard an emotion for me to bear but can I stop loving you? Yes, you are welcome to. |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: geniobastardo said: Hate is too hard an emotion for me to bear but can I stop loving you? Yes, you are welcome to. shit...didn't work.... I'll show myself out. |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
JD2411 said: I don't really respect anyone What about your parents, or other family members? geniobastardo said: shit...didn't work.... I'll show myself out. How could it not work? It should be easy, I don't understand...? |
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| yes..you dont understand |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
| I dislike... sometimes try to call their attention. (pretty expected lol) |
| Today they say you're crazy, tomorrow they will say you're a genious. |
| I just beg them to love me. |
geniobastardo said: yes..you dont understand Yeah, I really don't I'm afraid. Feel free to explain your reasonings though. mafia_princess said: I don't hate you, you're one of the users who seem to bring up alot of well and proper topics to discuss. :c OT: Well, that doesn't happen often with me. Though I'd get annoyed. But usually I forget about it because mostly it's unintentional from them or either they're trying to joke and make me laugh which vexes me alot. Thank you. c: I think it's unintentional in my case well, but for whatever reason, it seems to be making me depressed more than it probably should. Bambi said: I just beg them to love me. Does it work? |
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| I feel like spamming anime forums. I just get this overwhelming desire that must be satisfied. |
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FloatingIdiot said: I feel like spamming anime forums. I just get this overwhelming desire that must be satisfied. Whoa, you too? |
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Bambi said: I just beg them to love me. Like this?  _ Come on guys. Surely, no one just 'gets over' it like that. |
dissipatedOct 16, 2015 5:59 AM
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