helping others to feel good is it bad? because anime thinks its bad
| this is too common in anime that helping others to feel good is bad they say like what is hedonism or pleasure principle or ethical egoism so do you think its bad like anime says it is?  |
| I don't think it's bad to help others as long as the help is appreciated and you're not too helpful to the point that it causes you more harm than good. |
| Something a character says in a single episode of a show has somehow been taken to represent what 'anime' as a whole supposedly 'thinks'? This doesn’t even take into account that the show in question, from which you've shared a screenshot, might not support this message at all. |
| If it's to the point where you're neglecting yourself or being taken advantage of, I guess that's bad. I don't see how helping others feel good could be bad. |
Reply to Fluffygreygrass
Something a character says in a single episode of a show has somehow been taken to represent what 'anime' as a whole supposedly 'thinks'? This doesn’t even take into account that the show in question, from which you've shared a screenshot, might not support this message at all.
| @Fluffygreygrass nah its just an example screenshot i can provide but i observe this a lot in other anime shows too |
| I don't think this particular element is that much common in anime, but yeah, you can hear it from time to time in various contexts, including the one mentioned in the original post. Helping others is good, even if the one who's helping might do it to please themselves by feeling better in any way. After all, egoism and altruism are two sides of the same coin of pleasure. |
| I don't think this line of thinking is specific to anime... but maybe Japanese culture is more sensitive to and aware of the idea, compared to where I live where the culture is extremely individualistic. It would be interesting to see some specific examples, preferably stories that take this to an extreme. |
Reply to perseii
I don't think this line of thinking is specific to anime... but maybe Japanese culture is more sensitive to and aware of the idea, compared to where I live where the culture is extremely individualistic.
It would be interesting to see some specific examples, preferably stories that take this to an extreme.
It would be interesting to see some specific examples, preferably stories that take this to an extreme.
| @perseii ye it might be part of the collectivist culture of japan |
| When motivation is only one's self instead of others it means often doing what you want not what they want so it doesn't even effectively help them rather it is imposing one's will onto others which may harm them. Calling it "bad" is overly simplistic, more like infective and potentially harmful but it still can sometimes do good. |
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| I mean I'm sure there can be exceptions where this is a bad thing, but otherwise it's completely harmless. I hold doors open for people, help grannies load up their groceries, and give other [signaling] drivers the right of way because I wouldn't like myself so much if I didn't... is that egoism and not compassion? maybe. but who's to judge? |
can't yuck my yum  |
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