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Jul 21, 2022 4:38 PM
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First off, a bit of context.

My brother is slightly younger than me (I am 17, while he is 15, but he turns 16 in November). He is mainly into Marvel and Star Wars, but he also likes animated movies quite a lot, too. However, for whatever reason, he has never gotten into anime. Yeah, he watched Ponyo, Totoro, and a bit of Star Wars: Visions, but aside from that, nothing else.

As stellar as Spirited Away, everytime I suggest it to him, he always says no. Perhaps I am kind of a jerk, because I feel like I am forcing it on him.

However, I really want to show him what a masterpiece of animation it is. Plus, with me going off to college next year, watching movies with my bro won't be as regular as it is.

So, people of the forums, I ask you this question: How can I convince my brother, who isn't much of an anime fan, to watch Spirited Away with me?
Jul 21, 2022 4:53 PM
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You can tell him how good is Spirited away !! And you can show him pictures, make him listen to the music of the movie..
Jul 21, 2022 4:54 PM
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Cestlavie_ said:
Bribe him
tell him you'll buy him something if he watches it with u
Works for my sister

Bribery normally works. That how I get my brother to watch stuff with me. I tell him in exchange I’ll watch one of his favorite shows
Jul 21, 2022 4:56 PM
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Say if he doesnt watch it you’ll reveal his search history to your parents
Jul 21, 2022 5:19 PM
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Show him some pics and give him a brief summary......what a coincidence, i watched it with my sis yesterday.... I'm 17 and she is 10......I had to explain to her almost everything, but she laughed a lot and amused to see pigs, monsters and spirits.

Tell him U will treat him something later if he agrees to watch it with u.



Btw, imo the animation, music, Art and subtle details are mind blowing, as a movie released in 2001, it's way better than Kyoto/Mappa/Ufotable tbf.......and the story is also decent, the magical world was amazing BUT the story was rushed at the end.....ik they can't make it longer, but they could've cut some scenes and made it 15mins longer.......so I don't think it deserve the hype it gets,, just because the story, pacing and ending kinda felt off........but it's a solid 8/10.
Anayan_KashyapJul 21, 2022 5:22 PM
WISHED I COULD ALSO GET TRANSPORTED TO A WORLD FULL OF MAGIC And DUNGEONS, please take me there too if you could (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)⁠
Jul 21, 2022 5:36 PM
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If you can't convince him with "it's good", then tell him "it's bad".
Called reverse treatment.
Jul 21, 2022 6:23 PM
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The film isn't going away. You're still young. You don't have to force it.
Jul 21, 2022 6:23 PM
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i have a sister who I am also slowing showing anime to, first you have to show them a genre that they might like then baby feed them more and more until.... tada
Jul 21, 2022 6:41 PM
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LoudyKaizoku said:
First off, a bit of context.

My brother is slightly younger than me (I am 17, while he is 15, but he turns 16 in November). He is mainly into Marvel and Star Wars, but he also likes animated movies quite a lot, too. However, for whatever reason, he has never gotten into anime. Yeah, he watched Ponyo, Totoro, and a bit of Star Wars: Visions, but aside from that, nothing else.

As stellar as Spirited Away, everytime I suggest it to him, he always says no. Perhaps I am kind of a jerk, because I feel like I am forcing it on him.

However, I really want to show him what a masterpiece of animation it is. Plus, with me going off to college next year, watching movies with my bro won't be as regular as it is.

So, people of the forums, I ask you this question: How can I convince my brother, who isn't much of an anime fan, to watch Spirited Away with me?

Just tell him it would mean a lot to you if you both could watch it together before you go away. Also tell him to pick one of his favorite movies and you’ll watch it with him.
Jul 21, 2022 6:47 PM
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hold him at gun point and threaten to murder him and or his first born.
Jul 21, 2022 7:02 PM
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you can do something like this
watch a movie he wants to and then at some point watch spirited away.
the anime movies he's watched are made by the same studio ha
Jul 21, 2022 7:05 PM
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I decided not to answer what really would guarantee him watching it with you
Jul 21, 2022 7:07 PM
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If he doesn’t want to watch it then mind ur own business jeez
Jul 21, 2022 7:12 PM
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LoudyKaizoku said:
First off, a bit of context.

My brother is slightly younger than me (I am 17, while he is 15, but he turns 16 in November). He is mainly into Marvel and Star Wars, but he also likes animated movies quite a lot, too. However, for whatever reason, he has never gotten into anime. Yeah, he watched Ponyo, Totoro, and a bit of Star Wars: Visions, but aside from that, nothing else.

As stellar as Spirited Away, everytime I suggest it to him, he always says no. Perhaps I am kind of a jerk, because I feel like I am forcing it on him.

However, I really want to show him what a masterpiece of animation it is. Plus, with me going off to college next year, watching movies with my bro won't be as regular as it is.

So, people of the forums, I ask you this question: How can I convince my brother, who isn't much of an anime fan, to watch Spirited Away with me?

if he really don't wanna watch it so let him go even if you convince him somehow he will watch it with 0 or 5% concentration because he is forced, not curious to watch it.
Jul 21, 2022 7:17 PM

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I think if he's not already interested in Spirited Away, he probably won't like it. That's the kind of movie it is.

Jay_Brief said:
Bribery normally works. That how I get my brother to watch stuff with me. I tell him in exchange I’ll watch one of his favorite shows

That doesn't work with my brother.
LucifrostJul 21, 2022 7:22 PM
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Jul 21, 2022 7:17 PM

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Have you tried breaking down and crying in order to guilt trip him into watching it? If that doesn't work you could always get a parent involved or threaten to take away something he loves.

If these options seem kind of mean to you maybe its best to respect the fact that he doesn't want to watch anime with you.
-insert NGE meme here-
Jul 21, 2022 7:19 PM

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i get where you’re coming from, maybe ask him and try to tell him why, but if he says no then thats ok. he can have his preferences, im not sure why he refuses but it’s fine, he won’t die
Jul 21, 2022 7:22 PM
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1. Move away from home
2. Go into a tunnel
3. Eat food and become a pig
The right mindset when watching an anime is hoping that it will break your top 10
Jul 21, 2022 7:22 PM

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@Cestlavie_
Sorry, I didn't read your suggestion carefully enough. I saw what Jay_Brief said and thought that you also watch your sister's favorites. I try it all the time, but it never works.
I never bought my brother a bribe. That sort of thing isn't in my nature.
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Jul 21, 2022 7:23 PM
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tie him up and make him sit and watch.
tAAAA dAaaa
Jul 21, 2022 7:39 PM
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Tell him there’s a dragon in it
Jul 21, 2022 7:44 PM

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Just say "Eyy.. got new movie! Wanna watch it with me?"

I always used those words to invite my sister to watch a movie or anime together. And it usually works.
Jul 21, 2022 8:42 PM
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Just tell him you'll beat his ass.
8===D lol
Jul 22, 2022 12:01 AM
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Blackmail him 👀
Jul 22, 2022 1:17 AM

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If he says no then I think the best thing is to be respectful and not force him :) it’s okay if he doesn’t have the same interests

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Jul 22, 2022 1:52 AM

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let me tell u my way of convincing people to watch smth , instead of telling them , in my case i will use my laptop or phone and with speakers on , watch near him with loud sound and place the screen where he can also see this , even tho he is not watching with you he might check what ur watching , ( remember to play the beautiful scenes like no face getting bigger that scene might attract him to know abt what that black thing is ) ,then he might come and ask u to play from start and watch together 🤝🏼
Jul 22, 2022 2:42 AM
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Telling them it's good and if it does not work, then it won't matter what you do.

My bother has watched a few anime and I recomment similar Anime to him all the time, but he does not and probably never will watch them.
But I don't think that's a big deal.
Jul 22, 2022 3:14 AM
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imo, I think I would have made a deal, if he takes his time to watch my favorite movie, I would promise him to watch his movie too. If he says yes, at the same time I'll tell him what I like about it and what he likes or not to find out about his tastes and suggest other animated films that look like him.
After all, if he really isn't interested, I won't force him, of course.
Jul 22, 2022 4:39 AM
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If people don't like it you cant make them and even if you do you will probably ruin it for them and they won't like it. I say don't try to make him watch spirited away introduce some anime ideas you think he will like and hey maybe if he liked One Punch man or something. He might ask you if you know any other good anime, then say spirited away or grave of the fireflies.
Jul 22, 2022 7:34 AM

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annoy the hell out of him & keep asking for 3 days straight to watch Spirited Away with you. if it didn't work then stop asking him and just wish for him to feel guilty about refusing. also start reminding him that you'll go to college next year and will be much more busy to the point where you won't even have the time to watch a single show with him anymore hahaha

all jokes btw (unless 😂). anyway if he doesn't want to watch it, I think it's much better if you just let him be and mind your own business :))
Jul 22, 2022 7:48 AM

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if you can't convince him, coax him. or do a movie marathon of at least three films, so you could include Spirited Away. preferably in-between, since you would want him to get immersed with a film he likes first, and end it with something he wouldn't tire of watching.
Jul 22, 2022 8:36 AM
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Bribery is how i got my 3yr old to watch it with me
Jul 22, 2022 9:32 AM
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Kaonashi. When I first watched the movie, I was surprised to see him there, as I had definitely seen him somewhere on the internet before that. He seems to be a fairly well-known figure even outside of anime world. So your brother would maybe want to actually get to know his origin too?
Jul 22, 2022 2:15 PM

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I had to convince my boyfriend to watch it lol I had him watch Totoro and Princess Mononoke with me, and he really hated them 😆 but he did enjoy Spirited Away!

Bribery might work best for a 15 year old lol
Jul 22, 2022 2:21 PM
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pick a better movie? or better than that pick a good series
if he likes star wars im thinking he might like bebop too.

you can always trade too (i will watch X and you watch Y and then we compare which one was better)

and if none of those work . . . it's bribe time lol
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Jul 22, 2022 2:29 PM
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Tell him it’s really good
Jul 22, 2022 5:17 PM
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if your brother watches marvel you need to give him a good spanking
Jul 23, 2022 4:06 AM

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My older sister also forced me to watch it with her and I didn't regret it
Jul 28, 2022 7:26 AM
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Memes, art from the film, trailers/clips, and music. That gets me into a lot of anime I would overlook or missed out on. I didn’t like Spirited away when I first watched it. I had to watch more anime to learn about Japanese culture and gain a newfound appreciation. It might take other Studio Ghibli films as a nice Disneyesque approach to introducing people to wide audience anime films/franchises. Studio ghibli feels like the Disney of anime/japan.

I gave up on getting my sisters into anime. I think my older sister might pick up manga. I’m not even a hardcore ghibli fan. I passively collect anime films not exclusive to any one studio or franchise.

I own and still haven’t watched
My Neighbor Totoro
Ponyo

I find it harder to get invested in a lot of films since 2-3 hours pails in comparison to the runtime of a 12 eps anime. I know its my opinion but maybe Princess Mononoke or another more action driven Ghibli film might get him to naturally watch Spirited Away. People don’t like being forced to think or watch a series. I think I’ve avoided shows out of spite or I was annoyed to point of losing interest.
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Jay_Brief said:
Cestlavie_ said:
Bribe him
tell him you'll buy him something if he watches it with u
Works for my sister

Bribery normally works. That how I get my brother to watch stuff with me. I tell him in exchange I’ll watch one of his favorite shows
Literally this. I found it difficult to convince my friend to watch something outside his niche, so when I wanted him to watch BNHA beyond the first season, I told him that in exchange for watching all of BNHA together, we would also watch his favorite anime, Bleach. The result, we're caught up on both series and both hyped to watch BNHA S6 and Bleach: TYBW this upcoming season.

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