Horimiya Chapter 37 Discussion

Yondy375 said:
The only thing bad about this or forced is the Souta conversation. I may be in the minority on this, but I lost my virginity in High school. It wasn't frilly, cutesy or planned it was raw and deeply passionate. How is it not making love, if you Love the person? I was 16 going on 17 my junior year with a girl I dated since Freshman year. I'm not advocating it, but im not such a prude to deny people their LIFE DECISIONS. No way was I smooth or the man. I never asked for sex, although I wanted to and had friends who talked about it often (usually those without gfs, guys who have a lot of sex don't bring it up because it is normal to them), but I was willing to wait until she wanted to and it was right which I thought would be sometime after HS graduation since we were going to different colleges. We did it the first time after her sister got in a car crash. Just like in the manga, she was having doubts I liked her. It was mainly due to her friends because according to them "Boys only think about sex and if he isn't doing/having it with you he must be doing it with someone else since he never asks you" coupled with the stress from not knowing if her sister would be fine she basically called me over and tried to break up. I got mad and wanted to know why. She blamed it on her sisters accident, saying how we wouldn't be able to spend time together outside the house but I knew that couldn't be the real reason. She said she felt I was cheating with tears welling up in her eyes. She felt that I didn't like her or think she was sexy. She said I never tried to go to far with her on the few chances we were alone, how almost all her friends had lose their virginity an she felt ugly. I told her I wanted it to be special and I was waiting til she was ready I wasn't having sex with someone else. I got more mad and voiced my feelings, how many times a day my jacking off increased just thinking about her, how with the slightest little caresses, or when she kissed me on my neck, how it sent me into overdrive and how badly I wanted her. How I couldn't sleep some nights thinking if maybe she actually liked some other guy and how it pained me to even think it. She cupped my mouth and was no longer crying, but smiling the widest most beautiful smile I ever saw her muster. Then her smile went from beautiful to sensual, and she had the hottest most daring look I ever saw her make as she pulled off her top, then mine and we made out on the couch for what seemed like hours. We hungrily attacked each other's mouths. Then she broke her lips off of mine gave me another wide smile, and said she was ready as she led me to her room. Sex isn't all fairy tales an perfect timing, just like anything in dating it's based off emotions, we are emotional creatures. You can plan your whole life, but is it all going to happen exactly every detail you plan? No. Sex is a part of life, life is a real thing that you can't always predict. As long as you're having sex with the person you care about and love it is making love. Sex is only just sex when it's casual with a random, not when you he genuinely care about the other person. Those who commented otherwise sound like children to me.
To those who actually read it all: Her sister was fine she had to get a cast for 8 weeks on her arm, but she passed out from the crash so everyone assumed the worst, it came from her being really small and the airbag and shock hitting her at the same time.