| Ye, I can relate. Is it to much to ask for people not to move anything ever? I'm not even being facetious. |
| Are they younger? Then you might have not taken the time to pacify them and make them obey to your authority early enough. Otherwise you could just order them to clean it or at least help you clean it. |
Haruka said: Are they younger? Then you might have not taken the time to pacify them and make them obey to your authority early enough. Otherwise you could just order them to clean it or at least help you clean it. I was cleaning up when I was 7 years old, on no authority. And none of my siblings could bat an eye in the literal shit they live in. :/ |
| Not just the kitchen, but everything. I swear, I clean and fix the couch, chair, everything, and an hour later it's chaos! *sigh* I eagerly await for the day where I can live alone. |
| Apparently if I'm bored, I resort to social interaction for entertainment... I'm not sure what to feel about that. Also, I'm starting to hate my username so call me whatever. Literally. |
Ridley_Cruz said: Haruka said: Are they younger? Then you might have not taken the time to pacify them and make them obey to your authority early enough. Otherwise you could just order them to clean it or at least help you clean it. Two are older and four are younger, though one of them is just one year younger than me and apparently he's going through his adolescence phase now, so my mom doesn't let me scold him much and anyways he snaps back at me so men. Him and the eldest brother give me the most trouble, my younger sisters are somewhat obedient. Hmm that's quite a complex family. I understand your predicament then. Perhaps have a reasonable talk with them? |
Ridley_Cruz said: Haruka said: Hmm that's quite a complex family. I understand your predicament then. Perhaps have a reasonable talk with them? I don't think they will listen to me much now? I'm just really tired and I have to take care of grandma too sometimes Well, if I were you I'd try it anyways but I understand. Perhaps just take a rest from time to time. Hopefully things will get better for you, I hope. |
Ridley_Cruz said: Exactly! I make the beds and the couches and assemble the bags and shoes and the next thing you know, all your hardwork gone! Poof Yeah, I mean, how much effort does it take to put your shoes just a fucking meter away than usual? |
| Apparently if I'm bored, I resort to social interaction for entertainment... I'm not sure what to feel about that. Also, I'm starting to hate my username so call me whatever. Literally. |
Ridley_Cruz said: ThatEmoGuy-_-Xen said: Yeah, I mean, how much effort does it take to put your shoes just a fucking meter away than usual? Ugghh yes! The nerve of my brother, he actually said "No offense sister but aren't girls supposed to do this stuff?" And then they all be like "You will be such a good housewife! Oh god, you too huh? My parents keep telling me that I should know how to do housework, and that just because I'm a guy doesn't mean that I should just ignore housework and rely on my future wife/caretaker. I don't even care; hell, I'm the only guy among us 4 siblings, but every one of them just can't be bothered to clean up after themselves. I end up snapping and just clean their shit. I just want to tell my parents off, but they have good intentions, and I don't want to raise my voice against them. |
| Apparently if I'm bored, I resort to social interaction for entertainment... I'm not sure what to feel about that. Also, I'm starting to hate my username so call me whatever. Literally. |
| Uh? Why are your parents not reacting to that? If they don't want you to use authority on them, they should still do something about that since if they let do your siblings will behave worse and think they are allowed anything. Parenting done wrong. Also, why are you the only one cleaning ? It's not right at all. If nobody react to that, either use authority despite what your parents told you or you either tell them not to eat after you cleaned, fuck hunger. |
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| Can totally relate. Tried to do the don't give a fuck route and apart from my space, the place stayed dirty for a month. I had to clean a month's worth of filth in the end. |
| You just have to clean them up too. lololololopopplplololo |
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Ridley_Cruz said: Nyarlathothep said: Uh? Why are your parents not reacting to that? If they don't want you to use authority on them, they should still do something about that since if they let do your siblings will behave worse and think they are allowed anything. Parenting done wrong. Also, why are you the only one cleaning ? It's not right at all. If nobody react to that, either use authority despite what your parents told you or you either tell them not to eat after you cleaned, fuck hunger. Well my dad doesn't really give a damn, he's a doctor so he doesn't pay much attention. My mom has just stopped saying anything mostly because she's too stressed with other stuff. Plus she's suffered a lot in her life so I try not to bother her. My authority doesn't work much now, the kids are in their rebellious age lol. Nothing I do seems to work. Its like I'm their second mother "Rebellious age" my ass, it's not excuse for them to do shit. Ask your dad to talk to them like once and tell them to listen to what you say or they could get any punishment you want. I don't like arguments like that, and use of authority, but one does not anger me. As a teacher, I had to use some authority before. But even if it's annoying, you should do something to force them to obey you. You can talk to your older siblings, hopefully they'll be mature enough to listen to you. |
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| It's time to find a job and start living on their own. They'll find out for themselves they can't just continue on living like that when there's no one there to clean up their mess. |
Ridley_Cruz said: Nyarlathothep said: "Rebellious age" my ass, it's not excuse for them to do shit. Ask your dad to talk to them like once and tell them to listen to what you say or they could get any punishment you want. I don't like arguments like that, and use of authority, but one does not anger me. As a teacher, I had to use some authority before. But even if it's annoying, you should do something to force them to obey you. You can talk to your older siblings, hopefully they'll be mature enough to listen to you. Listen bro, my dad is usually very tired and even when I try to tell him, he brushes it off or just scolds them casually. Older siblings? My two older brothers give me the most trouble honestly. I'm the eldest daughter so naturally all these responsibilities fall on me. I scold them time to time but they o ly listen once and ignore me most of the time. Its hopeless they're not gonna get better and in the end when Im gone, they'll learn their lesson. Thank you for the support btw! I am sorry for that. I honestly think it's your parents' fault =/ |
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Lia said: Ridley_Cruz said: Listen bro, my dad is usually very tired and even when I try to tell him, he brushes it off or just scolds them casually. Older siblings? My two older brothers give me the most trouble honestly. I'm the eldest daughter so naturally all these responsibilities fall on me. I scold them time to time but they o ly listen once and ignore me most of the time. Its hopeless they're not gonna get better and in the end when Im gone, they'll learn their lesson. Thank you for the support btw! Your best option is not cleaning at all. I mean, nobody's forcing you, right? Oh, that's terrible advice. I know cause I did it. When you live with people who won't clean, they pretty much can also live with the filth. |
| I feel you. But I also make the mess sometimes, so I only half feel u |
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Lia said: Ridley_Cruz said: Listen bro, my dad is usually very tired and even when I try to tell him, he brushes it off or just scolds them casually. Older siblings? My two older brothers give me the most trouble honestly. I'm the eldest daughter so naturally all these responsibilities fall on me. I scold them time to time but they o ly listen once and ignore me most of the time. Its hopeless they're not gonna get better and in the end when Im gone, they'll learn their lesson. Thank you for the support btw! Your best option is not cleaning at all. I mean, nobody's forcing you, right? Best idea here, problem solved. You can just clean your stuffs then let others in their filth. |
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Ridley_Cruz said: Nyarlathothep said: I am sorry for that. I honestly think it's your parents' fault =/ I know, I can only hope that I'll find myself a good husband soon and that hopefully he would be considerate. Why would you need a husband to go away? Become a strong and independant woman, men are more problems believe me. |
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Ridley_Cruz said: Nyarlathothep said: Why would you need a husband to go away? Become a strong and independant woman, men are more problems believe me. Not happening in my society, or at least in my family. And I wouldn't want to be independent anyway. I was suggesting an alternative, since finding a good husband material is so difficult =/ |
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| Wait til you have kids and a man, it's a million times worse lol. Or cats, dear god I could murder my one cat for constantly scratching the fluff out of our rug in the living room. |
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| omg everytime!! I wanna live alone already ;-; Whenever I clean he kitchen, the bed, and especially my room, my younger bro has to come it, jump around on the bed for 15 mins, then take out my drawer, textbooks, normal books, and and make a frickin mess all over! Also noise....just why? And don't forget when you're trying to watch anime in peace, and then he comes in to make more noise. |
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Ridley_Cruz said: Mayumi said: omg everytime!! I wanna live alone already ;-; Whenever I clean he kitchen, the bed, and especially my room, my younger bro has to come it, jump around on the bed for 15 mins, then take out my drawer, textbooks, normal books, and and make a frickin mess all over! Also noise....just why? And don't forget when you're trying to watch anime in peace, and then he comes in to make more noise. Oh God, the noise is the worst, the ruckus my brothers make is just terrible! I know right?? I usually just hit them when they disturb my anime, there is no mercy for those who disturb my anime Oh and when I'm on the phone, he makes such weird noises! The noises got worse today, he got a toy gun that fucking makes the loudest ass noises, so I just locked the door, and he keeps kicking it. >_> I'm gonna hit him when I get my hands on him. when he puts the cursed gun down |
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| I can definitely relate. I don't mind cleaning but it's awful when I do clean and my sister makes it a mess once again. Especially dishes, it takes a while to wash them all but then they're all dirty and in the sink in like 6 hours... |
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