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Sep 16, 2015 9:16 PM
#51
Sep 16, 2015 9:17 PM
#52
| Go to an event that interests you, a friend's party, talk to a female coworker or classmate on break, a bar, etc. There's lots of different ways to find female companionship. As long as you don't come off as a creep, it shouldn't be hard to start a conversation with someone. |
Sep 16, 2015 9:28 PM
#53
Silverstorm said: when I mean standards I'm not talking about physical appearance if that's what you think Talk to the girls not on your "standards"? ...it might be great practice. |
Sep 16, 2015 9:29 PM
#54
Red_Keys said: Eylandos said: Sounds kinkyThis country is fucked. You're as perverted as HaX. |
Sep 17, 2015 3:41 AM
#55
| Best thread in a long time. |
Sep 17, 2015 4:32 AM
#56
| stare at them then quickly look away when we make eye contact. Gets my heart racing everytime |
Sep 17, 2015 4:44 AM
#57
| According to your profile, you're only a year older than me. If you're in uni, join a club! At my Uni, there's an Anime Society. There's bound to be a girl in that group. Make a female friend! I'm pretty sure you're a nice guy, I'm just sorry that girls most girls are hard to approach. It's like a defense mechanism for girls. |
Sep 17, 2015 5:27 AM
#62
Sep 17, 2015 5:53 AM
#63
Red_Keys said: I talk to my femal friends, which I have plenty of. Most likely because I treat women as people, not some sort of other-worldly angelic goddess rare supernatural phenomenon princess bestowed upon us from Venus. Maybe if you weren't a genuinely repugnant person for women to be around, you wouldn't have this problem. This. Females generally like to be treated like people, not aliens. Being put on a pedestal just because of my gender is as off-putting as someone treating me like I'm less human because of my gender. It just feels like you're talking to me as if I'm some kind of rare animal that you're in awe of. We're not fucking unicorns... |
Sep 17, 2015 5:59 AM
#64
Cthru said: Dont be a creep. Period. im not a creep but they see me as one cus im not rich mayukachan said: Complain on MAL that girls are living an easier life because all they want is money and height/length. thats what i mostly do but they end up hating instead giving attention Tylaen said: I cry. the best option Anna_Cats said: if you want female attention you can always claim that you've been stalking them for years and if they don't give you what you want you'll release their nudes. or just start talking to them. most girls will at the very least indulge you in a bit of conversation. i have been stalking you for months and anna is one of my favorite names, i also have a cat Kagami_Hiiragi said: You: Hello, I'm _ _ _ Them: Hi, nice to meet you! Carry on. You: Hello, I'm ___ Them: what car do you drive or You: Hello, I'm _ _ _ Them: never heard of you, get away from me unknown creep You: Hello Them: Hi 5 minutes later them: i actually dont like you because you're sexist pig and (insert 150 other random false accusations) |
Sep 17, 2015 6:02 AM
#65
Oxalias said: Unicorns get better treatment then women on mal True. Maybe being a unicorn ain't so bad. I don't think I'd be able to deal with the lack of hands though. Unless I could magically manipulate things through the power of my horn or something... |
Sep 17, 2015 6:02 AM
#66
| Obviously cats in heat. It's must be super hard down there. |
Sep 17, 2015 6:14 AM
#67
Solos said: Talk to them naturally and be yourself (but try not to be creepy). Women are just as human as you are. Search for a common interest and hopefully it sparks something. |
Sep 17, 2015 6:18 AM
#68
emxutaxmine said: According to your profile, you're only a year older than me. If you're in uni, join a club! At my Uni, there's an Anime Society. There's bound to be a girl in that group. Make a female friend! I'm pretty sure you're a nice guy, I'm just sorry that girls most girls are hard to approach. It's like a defense mechanism for girls. But whatever you must not do, don't befriend one with the intention of getting into their pants. Then complain once they reject you. |
Sep 17, 2015 6:20 AM
#69
| I go on Goodreads because I actually made heaps of online girlfriends there. It also has a nice cosy vibe. |
Sep 17, 2015 6:22 AM
#70
Echokill94 said: Solos said: Talk to them naturally and be yourself (but try not to be creepy). Women are just as human as you are. Search for a common interest and hopefully it sparks something. |
Sep 17, 2015 6:22 AM
#71
mayukachan said: But whatever you must not do, don't befriend one with the intention of getting into their pants. Then complain once they reject you. Never completely grasped the concept. I mean, I don't want to bang all my friends but strangers>friends>lovers doesn't seem that unreasonnable to me. Apparently I'm the only one :p. |
Prophetess of the Golden Era |
Sep 17, 2015 6:33 AM
#72
| I spend 5 seconds hating women, then 5 seconds hating myself, then 5 seconds hating hot guys, then I'm reminded there are girls I actively dislike and the cognitive dissonance causes a system meltdown. Mostly, I just hate myself. |
| WEAPONS - My blog, for reviews of music, anime, books, and other things |
Sep 17, 2015 6:36 AM
#73
| You can't wait for a Girl to talk to you. You have to be the one to approach them. Based on your age, I assume you're still in school. No better place out there with so many girls everywhere than school. So you have it easy. Just walk to any girl that's alone and talk to her. Be ready to have a conversation, don't just walk to her and greet her, then leave. Talk about anything, can be the weather, classes, etc. Make sure to look confident. Walk straight, chest out, shoulder slithly back, chin labeled while looking relaxed not like a damn robot, but most importantly, don't think too much about it or you'll be nervous. Always look them straight in the eyes when talking to girls and smile, makes you look more confident. Just approach them, don't worry about the outcome. A girl not wanting to talk to you is not the end of the world. |
For the depressed: You're living. You occupy space. And you have a mass. Do you know what that means?? You Matter. ~Science motivational puns ftw~ |
Sep 17, 2015 6:38 AM
#74
No1sy_B0y said: Make sure to look confident. Walk straight, chest out, shoulder slithly back, chin labeled while looking relaxed not like a damn robot, but most importantly, don't think too much about it or you'll be nervous. Always look them straight in the eyes when talking to girls and smile, makes you look more confident. Just approach them, don't worry about the outcome. A girl not wanting to talk to you is not the end of the world. yeah. pretty much the reason why I need to emigrate to Canada (where apparently women are the one approaching men, the opposite is badly received from what I heard). Can't do half the shit you wrote, ESPECIALLY look in some stranger's eyes :p. |
Prophetess of the Golden Era |
Sep 17, 2015 6:41 AM
#75
Bambi_ said: k.I go on Goodreads because I actually made heaps of online girlfriends there. It also has a nice cosy vibe. TheBrainintheJar said: I spend 5 seconds hating women, then 5 seconds hating myself, then 5 seconds hating hot guys, then I'm reminded there are girls I actively dislike and the cognitive dissonance causes a system meltdown. Mostly, I just hate myself. You can just pretend you're a cool and nice guy, go somewhere like G+ where retarded kids post, pretend you've fallen in love, spam sentimental bs with them and then troll them back telling you just used her because of "insert reason here lol". I did it once or twice. It was hilarious. |
Sep 17, 2015 6:44 AM
#76
mayukachan said: emxutaxmine said: According to your profile, you're only a year older than me. If you're in uni, join a club! At my Uni, there's an Anime Society. There's bound to be a girl in that group. Make a female friend! I'm pretty sure you're a nice guy, I'm just sorry that girls most girls are hard to approach. It's like a defense mechanism for girls. But whatever you must not do, don't befriend one with the intention of getting into their pants. Then complain once they reject you. I forgot to add that. Using impure intentions as a reason to get to know anyone, is a big no no. |
Sep 17, 2015 6:55 AM
#77
emxutaxmine said: thanks I'll try that it should go smoothly = )According to your profile, you're only a year older than me. If you're in uni, join a club! At my Uni, there's an Anime Society. There's bound to be a girl in that group. Make a female friend! I'm pretty sure you're a nice guy, I'm just sorry that girls most girls are hard to approach. It's like a defense mechanism for girls. |
Sep 17, 2015 6:57 AM
#78
| Go to gathering with a lot of people, be polite usually people respond nicely to polite people. Listen to females talk, ask them about things they said. Really attracting attention from a girl isn't much from attracting attention from a regular person. When you're a bit confident and think you're close enough you can flirt around see how she reacts. lmao I am way too young to be giving advice |
Sep 17, 2015 6:57 AM
#79
TohyaHachijo said: that might get my address and other personal things leaked. I might get blackballed with every sjwSay that genderfluid isn't a gender on Tumblr. |
Sep 17, 2015 6:58 AM
#80
TheBrainintheJar said: I spend 5 seconds hating women, then 5 seconds hating myself, then 5 seconds hating hot guys, then I'm reminded there are girls I actively dislike and the cognitive dissonance causes a system meltdown. Mostly, I just hate myself. At least you recognise that, a lot of guys just seem to obstinately believe it's women who are the problem, and never themselves, which in turn seems to lead to entitlement complexes in some cases. Having self-awareness and some humility is always a good thing. I spend plenty of time hating other people as well, but I'm pretty sure it all just boils down to self-loathing at the root of things. |
Sep 17, 2015 7:14 AM
#81
| don't know exactly, because every female perceives the world in her own way but no matter what I would do I'll make sure to be polite and considerate. |
Sep 17, 2015 7:18 AM
#82
SnugglyWhuggly said: TheBrainintheJar said: I spend 5 seconds hating women, then 5 seconds hating myself, then 5 seconds hating hot guys, then I'm reminded there are girls I actively dislike and the cognitive dissonance causes a system meltdown. Mostly, I just hate myself. At least you recognise that, a lot of guys just seem to obstinately believe it's women who are the problem, and never themselves, which in turn seems to lead to entitlement complexes in some cases. Having self-awareness and some humility is always a good thing. I spend plenty of time hating other people as well, but I'm pretty sure it all just boils down to self-loathing at the root of things. and you're just judging by the surface as usual what people say isn't always the whole story and im pretty sure almost all these guys that you talk about in your post, that "hate women" mostly hate themselves for being able to get what they want in their life without heavily going against their own will and morals to a point where they just pretend. Plus you should learn to respect guys like these , because at least they are decent enough not to trick you and to pretend they are something else until you're in their lap and then show their real identity ... .. which is the reason why there are so many divorces, because women judge so much by the surface and because their logic is just not right when compared to the reality of things, if it was right then there wouldn't be so many problematic marriges. |
Sep 17, 2015 7:25 AM
#83
| Dude you're beyond redemption. It would honestly be better for everybody including yourself if you stopped stigmatizing half the MAL user base. (Says the guy who rages at the first sign of bigotry) |
Prophetess of the Golden Era |
Sep 17, 2015 8:00 AM
#84
Sep 17, 2015 8:01 AM
#85
| I would call my mom if I ever want another attention from another girl, or just hug my friends at school. Most of the friends I have are taller and I'm like at their chest level so it's soft and comforting. |
| save all the cute girls from ntr manga |
Sep 17, 2015 3:15 PM
#86
SnugglyWhuggly said: TheBrainintheJar said: I spend 5 seconds hating women, then 5 seconds hating myself, then 5 seconds hating hot guys, then I'm reminded there are girls I actively dislike and the cognitive dissonance causes a system meltdown. Mostly, I just hate myself. At least you recognise that, a lot of guys just seem to obstinately believe it's women who are the problem, and never themselves, which in turn seems to lead to entitlement complexes in some cases. Having self-awareness and some humility is always a good thing. I spend plenty of time hating other people as well, but I'm pretty sure it all just boils down to self-loathing at the root of things. Some people I would dislike regardless of how I feel about myself. People who speak like sexual harassers are a big no. Nowadays, I'm past getting angry at hot guys for having fun and at girls for rejecting me. I just accept my position and go do something else. |
| WEAPONS - My blog, for reviews of music, anime, books, and other things |
Sep 17, 2015 7:19 PM
#87
| Not sure if the OP meant to say "Thrusting" or "thirsting" in the thread name... both can be used interchangeably... |
| ***** ***** ***** *** Slightly Dangerous |
Sep 17, 2015 7:22 PM
#88
Red_Keys said: I talk to my femal friends, which I have plenty of. Most likely because I treat women as people, not some sort of other-worldly angelic goddess rare supernatural phenomenon princess bestowed upon us from Venus. Maybe if you weren't a genuinely repugnant person for women to be around, you wouldn't have this problem. This really, just try to make a conversation with them. They're just another human being. Just go with the flow. |
Sep 17, 2015 10:52 PM
#89
| I talk to a girl everyday but I don't always hold meaningful conversation or talk about things that interest me all the time but that's usually because they're girls I don't know. I really try my best to never look thirsty in front of anyone. It just seems pathetic, funny or humiliating if you ask me. |
Sep 17, 2015 10:58 PM
#91
| I watch their anime or play their visual novel. I'll even buy all volumes of their manga if I really like them. |
Sep 17, 2015 11:00 PM
#92
| I'll make a club and have her join me. And so our slice of life/romance/comedy anime begins. Loljk Thirsting for female attention? I say hi. |
Sep 17, 2015 11:39 PM
#93
Clebardman said: Well apparently hurting yourself while cooking and making a thread about it works. BTW my skin peeled off :(. I think I need some compassion again but I want to avoid having two threads deleted in 2 days :p. Lol Clebardman got his dick wet |
Sep 17, 2015 11:40 PM
#94
| Usually, I use the proper spelling of the word "Thirsty". Bitches love grammar. |
Sep 18, 2015 12:30 AM
#95
TheBrainintheJar said: Some people I would dislike regardless of how I feel about myself. People who speak like sexual harassers are a big no. Nowadays, I'm past getting angry at hot guys for having fun and at girls for rejecting me. I just accept my position and go do something else. Ditto, there's just some people who are generally unpleasant in some way or other. I can respect that, but at the same time, that sounds a bit sad. I don't like the thought of "accepting your position". I know that's basically how it is in society, we're all at different positions on the social ladder, but there's no reason why we can't make attempts to climb higher. |
Sep 18, 2015 12:35 AM
#96
| >''Women want to be treated as people''. The most redundant, useless, and impractical statement of this century. |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
Sep 18, 2015 1:37 AM
#98
| Run outside dangling your balls in a school zone. Chances are you will run into a woman while going through the court system. |
| "Make it flashier!" -Maid Chou Anime List |
Sep 18, 2015 12:14 PM
#99
SnugglyWhuggly said: TheBrainintheJar said: Some people I would dislike regardless of how I feel about myself. People who speak like sexual harassers are a big no. Nowadays, I'm past getting angry at hot guys for having fun and at girls for rejecting me. I just accept my position and go do something else. Ditto, there's just some people who are generally unpleasant in some way or other. I can respect that, but at the same time, that sounds a bit sad. I don't like the thought of "accepting your position". I know that's basically how it is in society, we're all at different positions on the social ladder, but there's no reason why we can't make attempts to climb higher. The guys who are with the girls do stuff I'm too neurotic to do, and I wouldn't enjoy doing anyway. I'm not a teaser. There isn't much in the ways of moving in this ladder. That's okay. My value as a human being has nothing to do with how sexually attractive I am. Risara said: Red_Keys said: I talk to my femal friends, which I have plenty of. Most likely because I treat women as people, not some sort of other-worldly angelic goddess rare supernatural phenomenon princess bestowed upon us from Venus. Maybe if you weren't a genuinely repugnant person for women to be around, you wouldn't have this problem. This really, just try to make a conversation with them. They're just another human being. Just go with the flow. This never worked for me with women, for some reason. I think the difference in sex makes us expect something else in the interaction. |
| WEAPONS - My blog, for reviews of music, anime, books, and other things |
Sep 18, 2015 1:58 PM
#100
TheBrainintheJar said: This never worked for me with women, for some reason. I think the difference in sex makes us expect something else in the interaction. It depends on what you say. What do you say? incisorr said: .. which is the reason why there are so many divorces, because women judge so much by the surface and because their logic is just not right when compared to the reality of things, if it was right then there wouldn't be so many problematic marriges. You do realize that divorce doesn't happen simply because of the wife, right? It's like this entire forum is anti-women........ |
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