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Jun 27, 2016 10:56 PM
#51
Yumadu-nii said: KaiserNazrin said: Maybe because they avoid terrible women. I prefer a woman who can take care of herself than some doll that need everything provided for them. What are you even good for? ModeratelyHuman said: Uh, my willingness to have children, raise them and take care of the house and my husband's needs?Yumadu-nii said: mochakawaiibear said: If he can't keep a job, that means he'll have to rely on his girlfriend, parents and friends for money. I want a man who's at least responsible with money and can provide. I want to be taken care of, not take care of him.You're looking in the wrong places for the wrong type of guys mane And if you really liked a guy like that it wouldn't matter as much about his keeping occupations Ok and what exactly are you contributing then? many successful men nowadays don't want to have children or marry. why should we? children are an expensive nuisance, a wife will sooner or later cheat at you with her yoga coach, because you are "emotional distant" or "have changed", and after a divorce you lose a lot of YOUR hard earned money - even more if you were dumb enough to father children.... anyway, the only place you maybe find a handsome(?) guy with high income, who wants to marry you, have children and let's you stay at home, is on dating portals. will take you many years... |
Nigami_ShinJun 27, 2016 11:05 PM
Jun 27, 2016 10:57 PM
#52
is it really all about money? I've personally never been rich and experienced some times of hardship, in those times you will see that money won't get you anywhere but people to rely on. I would not care if my partner wouldn't be able to work as long as he/she would put a smile to face everytime we see each other. |
Jun 27, 2016 11:02 PM
#53
You should always check yourself first before pointing fingers. Perhaps the men that you are looking for, see an issue with you? I'm just throwing points out here and I mean no harm, but I also wouldn't want a woman who isn't working, or not attending school. I can understand not working while at school, but if I'm being sucked dry, I'll probably end that relationship if it's bad. |
Jun 27, 2016 11:03 PM
#54
Yumadu-nii said: [Uh, my willingness to have children, raise them and take care of the house and my husband's needs? You can't have children and take care of the house if you proclaim yourself as the one that should be taken care of. Children need both parents, you're not going to be the only one raising them. Any truly acceptable man is there for his children first before anything when not on the job, kids need have morals instilled in them and these come from BOTH the mother and father, not just you. And, if they don't want to be a doctor or a lawyer, you'll have to respect their hopes and dreams and invest all you can to help THEIR lives over your empty, needy one. Also, your prospective husband, if he's oh-so perfect, what exactly will he even need? What YOU want out of him? Please stop the feminist gold digger persona, it's meme tier at this point and even someone who's new to the Internet can detect this troll. |
AqutanJun 27, 2016 11:10 PM
Jun 27, 2016 11:05 PM
#55
Christianmingle.com has all the hot guys with jobs and 13 inch long dicks. |
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Jun 27, 2016 11:12 PM
#57
Elegade said: Christianmingle.com has all the hot guys with jobs and 13 inch long dicks. Farmersonly.com is better because you don't have to be lonely. LMAO PERFECT |
Jun 27, 2016 11:12 PM
#58
Because that's the kind of men you attract? Either grow the fuck up or shut up and deal with it.. |
Jun 27, 2016 11:21 PM
#59
ModeratelyHuman said: Because all of the Supreme Gentlemen, like me, have sequestered ourselves in our humble mother's underground dwellings, to pursue more enlightened deeds. loooooool this man speaks the truth. |
Jun 27, 2016 11:22 PM
#60
so u just want to reproduce your genres? is that |
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Jun 27, 2016 11:23 PM
#61
Babe, head on over to seekingarrangement.com lol and the always date rich guys so at least you'll get something out of it every single time š But IDK OP, you should just surround yourself with better guys, because there are quality younger men out there who are serious about relationships -- trust me. Good luck, OP~ |
Jun 27, 2016 11:30 PM
#62
mochakawaiibear said: ModeratelyHuman said: well It notified me pretty weird HUHmochakawaiibear said: KaiserNazrin said: I'm saying that's what a guy can provided without a job. He and op implied a guy without job is uselessmochakawaiibear said: ModeratelyHuman said: I'm contributing my love,loyalty and our bond. Its one thing to be a bum and another oo have bad employment luckYumadu-nii said: mochakawaiibear said: If he can't keep a job, that means he'll have to rely on his girlfriend, parents and friends for money. I want a man who's at least responsible with money and can provide. I want to be taken care of, not take care of him.You're looking in the wrong places for the wrong type of guys mane And if you really liked a guy like that it wouldn't matter as much about his keeping occupations Ok and what exactly are you contributing then? Are you saying men don't offer that? Some equality. I wasn't talking to you, need a lecture on how quoting comments work? Well here's another notification HUH |
Jun 27, 2016 11:30 PM
#63
But IDK OP, you should just surround yourself with better guys, because there are quality younger men out there who are sadistic about relationships -- trust me. Good luck, OP~ @Nico- Stop wasting your time on troll chicks and get that interview done, dammit. |
Jun 27, 2016 11:37 PM
#64
Yumadu-nii said: Whenever I date a guy, almost every time he turns out to be some immature manchild who can't hold down a stable well-paying job. Why is it so hard to find mature, successful men these days? It's so bad I'm starting to consider dating much older men. I'm in my early 20s in case you're wondering. Yeahhhhh! You know you want to..... |
idk about you but the closer a girl gets to looking like ronald mcdonald, the more aroused i become. CAV where can we cast our eyes to @PoruMairu who thinks of himself a member of the true church. Helion. |
Jun 28, 2016 12:00 AM
#65
Jun 28, 2016 12:25 AM
#66
This is why I might never get married. (most) women these days want to have their cake and eat it too. OP, unless you are an 8 or above, you will need to have some kind of job to demand your partner to have one. It's not the 50's anymore. |
Saber-obsessed Fatestan. Nothing to see here |
Jun 28, 2016 3:59 AM
#67
How many of the guys you know that DO have a stable job are attractive? |
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Jun 28, 2016 4:37 AM
#68
Why you asking why its so hard to find a husband? Theres a difference between a boyfriend and a husband cause their attitudes towards you change after marriage :P p.s. don't date a man who's much older than u just so you can have a stable partner, thats what they call gold digging... (i think u were joking tho, dunno) Anyone got any dank memes? |
3mantheGmanJun 28, 2016 4:41 AM
lame... |
Jun 28, 2016 5:28 AM
#69
A couple of days ago you posted "Why guys are dumb?" and today you just proved who the real dumb is. I really wonder how can people like you live such a meaningless life. And regarding your question there are many successful and independent young people; I'm one of those who started working at young age, I founded my own small biz when I was 20...Many of my ex-work colleagues started working for big corporations also around their 20s and one of them got married soon after. |
Jun 28, 2016 5:37 AM
#70
Yumadu-nii said: Mvsk said: Move to Mexico, marry a high ranking Cartel boss and have him raise my kid as an assassin until the kid's old enough to take revenge :)I kinda wanna get your pregnant now then go on the run just to see what you would do. Give the baby up for adoption? Work? Haha :D I like the way you think. Regardless, The fundamentally broken system is one reason, the other is the same reason its hard to find a good woman. Most people now days simply aren't worth a damn. |
Jun 28, 2016 6:03 AM
#72
Perhaps it's your personal problem to get such difficulty. If you're extremely attractive I bet you'll hook an affluent man in no time. |
Jun 28, 2016 6:51 AM
#73
...is this Claire 2.0??? Seriously this reminds me so much of Claire. |
Jun 28, 2016 6:53 AM
#74
I think that the OP is trolling, but given how many "Why are women [blah..]" thread I've seen on MAL in my brief presence, fair play. I know I wouldn't want a woman who doesn't have more aspirations for herself than to be a housewife. I don't have a problem with it, but it's definitely not for me. I want to split the house work and raise the kids -together-. That said, though the trend is changing, there is still a fair amount of single income family in Japan where the guy earn all the money while the wife looks after the house. And of course, if you are hot enough, you could be some wealthy man's trophy wife. A win-win situation I suppose. |
Jun 28, 2016 10:24 AM
#75
Yumadu-nii said: almost every time he turns out to be some immature manchild who can't hold down a stable well-paying job. Why is it so hard to find mature, successful men these days? It's so bad I'm starting to consider dating much older men. Sounds like the prologue to a saucy netorare hentai |
Jun 28, 2016 10:30 AM
#76
Op the 1950s is over with, get with the times already. |
Jun 28, 2016 10:32 AM
#77
I don't know it seems nowadays especially Young people don't want marriage , they only like quick relationship. |
Jun 28, 2016 12:35 PM
#78
I thought this was going to be another boring thread to read, but this post gave me hope; hope for comedy, reality, and common sense. Thank You. --And lmfao, damn! |
"In the end the World really doesn't need a Superman. Just a Brave one" |
Jun 28, 2016 12:42 PM
#79
Go for older guys if that's all you're looking for. All you need to do is suck their crusty, wrinkly pp every now and then. |
Jun 28, 2016 12:59 PM
#80
katsucats said: You are who you attract. Your immature, judgmental attitude tell the entire picture. Why is no one paying attention to the obvious lol this ^ Probably 10 times out of 10 when people complain about their relationships, the pattern starts with themselves. But if all you're after is someone well off and "mature," sure, date older guys. For any of us that paid any attention to our peers in high school that dated older people, I think we can all remember how that all ended. GGGGG |
Jun 28, 2016 9:08 PM
#82
Because most guys are only into sex and having side hoes and sleeping around at clubs and the genuinely nice guys are too shy and stay at home lurking at MAL, and in some cases are not up to your physical standards. |
Jun 29, 2016 1:20 AM
#83
AllenVonStein said: I don't know it seems nowadays especially Young people don't want marriage , they only like quick relationship. What's wrong with that? Marriages are bound to end and children are difficult to raise. It's better to just have a lot of sex. |
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Jun 29, 2016 1:26 AM
#84
TheBrainintheJar said: AllenVonStein said: I don't know it seems nowadays especially Young people don't want marriage , they only like quick relationship. What's wrong with that? Marriages are bound to end and children are difficult to raise. It's better to just have a lot of sex. Probably because some people aren't fit to do either and actually do these things unconsciously. But hey, if you want STDs to be on the rise and make abortion legal worldwide, I don't see why you shouldn't be an advocate for these things #ResistMarriage #EndChildren |
AqutanJun 29, 2016 1:36 AM
Jun 29, 2016 1:30 AM
#85
TheBrainintheJar said: Spread of STDs, unwanted pregnancies and therefor unwanted children being brought into this world without a fighting chance... but you wouldn't want that, now would you? I mean, you're an anti-natalist, might aswell be celibate too, every sperm is sacred.AllenVonStein said: I don't know it seems nowadays especially Young people don't want marriage , they only like quick relationship. What's wrong with that? Marriages are bound to end and children are difficult to raise. It's better to just have a lot of sex. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
Jun 29, 2016 1:43 AM
#86
'cause boys behave like girls and girls behave lime boys, we have changed our roles in society |
Jun 29, 2016 2:03 AM
#87
you need to aim higher than house wife......as a fellow lady this thread is depressing lol i'd like to rely on my husband but contribute just as much money as him |
Jun 29, 2016 2:40 AM
#88
Cause I am too lazy to work and I hate society (not single humans! but the society and group psychological stuff that makes people be stupig sometimes) and politicians. If that were different I surely would work and have tons of money and then I would be the perfect husband since besides from that my personality is the best and I am the best human alive. Edit: And if you are in early 20s then go work until 30 - still not too old (at least in my country a lot of females go for career first and start family and kids at that age) to marry. Okay maybe a bit earlier so you can get to know the guy and have kids then you are 30 (and then having known him a bit already). Maybe 27-28 start looking? If you don't find a guy that is working just get some loser and turn him into a house husband and slave. But that would require you to be dominant a bit and like submissive loser guys ha ha. :D Edit2: Oh and that reminds me of the 98 (or 101 or 102 ... he gets older every day) guy that always makes new accounts here to complain that he still is virgin. Maybe you should ask him - if you want older guys. :D |
LuthandoriusJun 29, 2016 2:53 AM
Jun 29, 2016 2:53 AM
#89
because we live in a world where happy relationships don't exist and sex is priority |
Jun 29, 2016 3:36 AM
#90
Heh is this topic for real??? Maybe you should switch to 2D pally :P |
Jun 29, 2016 8:23 AM
#91
TheBrainintheJar said: t's better to just have a lot of sex. lol yeah that way u gonna die pretty young , i guess u have np with aids man porn is screwing people . PORNOGRAPHY AS A SECRET WEAPON We corrupt in order to rule.” — Italian Freemason Giuseppe Mazzini Jews use pornography “to destroy gentile morals” Who are the richest and most successful entrepreneurs of the $100 billion year porn industry? [1] The peddlers of pornography belong to all races, but one race above all stands out as preeminent in this field. Selling sex, like slave trafficking and moneylending, has always been a Jewish speciality. god bless everyone . |
Jun 29, 2016 8:56 AM
#92
Yumadu-nii said: I'm in my early 20s in case you're wondering. Then why are you even looking for marriage? |
Jun 29, 2016 9:04 AM
#93
Given the thread you created the other day, I can only presume this is another troll. |
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Jun 30, 2016 12:28 AM
#94
AllenVonStein said: TheBrainintheJar said: t's better to just have a lot of sex. lol yeah that way u gonna die pretty young , i guess u have np with aids man porn is screwing people . PORNOGRAPHY AS A SECRET WEAPON We corrupt in order to rule.” — Italian Freemason Giuseppe Mazzini Jews use pornography “to destroy gentile morals” Who are the richest and most successful entrepreneurs of the $100 billion year porn industry? [1] The peddlers of pornography belong to all races, but one race above all stands out as preeminent in this field. Selling sex, like slave trafficking and moneylending, has always been a Jewish speciality. god bless everyone . Because families are foolproof, and completely aren't abusive or constraining to those inside them right? ThrashMatto said: TheBrainintheJar said: Spread of STDs, unwanted pregnancies and therefor unwanted children being brought into this world without a fighting chance... but you wouldn't want that, now would you? I mean, you're an anti-natalist, might aswell be celibate too, every sperm is sacred.AllenVonStein said: I don't know it seems nowadays especially Young people don't want marriage , they only like quick relationship. What's wrong with that? Marriages are bound to end and children are difficult to raise. It's better to just have a lot of sex. You can abort the baby. You can use protection. Sex doesn't automatically leads to these. Drugs don't automatically lead to addiction. Cars don't automatically lead to crashes. Nico- said: TheBrainintheJar said: AllenVonStein said: I don't know it seems nowadays especially Young people don't want marriage , they only like quick relationship. What's wrong with that? Marriages are bound to end and children are difficult to raise. It's better to just have a lot of sex. Probably because some people aren't fit to do either and actually do these things unconsciously. But hey, if you want STDs to be on the rise and make abortion legal worldwide, I don't see why you shouldn't be an advocate for these things #ResistMarriage #EndChildren If you think lots of sex automatically means lots of STD's then, I don't know, fear-mongering isn't so fun? |
TheBrainintheJarJun 30, 2016 12:31 AM
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Jun 30, 2016 1:20 PM
#95
TheBrainintheJar said: ThrashMatto said: TheBrainintheJar said: AllenVonStein said: I don't know it seems nowadays especially Young people don't want marriage , they only like quick relationship. What's wrong with that? Marriages are bound to end and children are difficult to raise. It's better to just have a lot of sex. You can abort the baby. You can use protection. Sex doesn't automatically leads to these. Drugs don't automatically lead to addiction. Cars don't automatically lead to crashes. Nico- said: TheBrainintheJar said: AllenVonStein said: I don't know it seems nowadays especially Young people don't want marriage , they only like quick relationship. What's wrong with that? Marriages are bound to end and children are difficult to raise. It's better to just have a lot of sex. Probably because some people aren't fit to do either and actually do these things unconsciously. But hey, if you want STDs to be on the rise and make abortion legal worldwide, I don't see why you shouldn't be an advocate for these things #ResistMarriage #EndChildren If you think lots of sex automatically means lots of STD's then, I don't know, fear-mongering isn't so fun? hmm... http://money.cnn.com/2015/05/26/technology/rhode-island-tinder-stds/ |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
Jun 30, 2016 1:24 PM
#96
In the game of marriage there are no winners. Kinda sounds like you're just looking for a sugar-daddy rather than a husband though. Or maybe all the "good men" are just avoiding you :P |
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." -Friedrich Nietzsche |
Jun 30, 2016 2:34 PM
#97
Aixsha said: Because most guys are only into sex and having side hoes and sleeping around at clubs and the genuinely nice guys are too shy and stay at home lurking at MAL, and in some cases are not up to your physical standards. How many secret proposals did you get after this? lmao SnugglyWhuggly said: They're hard to find because I already have the best one: @ThrashMatto You know what they say, men are like parking spaces. All the best ones are taken, and the only ones left available are handicapped. c: If TrashMatto had some spine, then you'd be licking my feet like the submissive hoes all ye women are. |
Jun 30, 2016 2:36 PM
#98
Nigami_Shin said: many successful men nowadays don't want to have children or marry. why should we? children are an expensive nuisance, a wife will sooner or later cheat at you with her yoga coach, because you are "emotional distant" or "have changed", and after a divorce you lose a lot of YOUR hard earned money - even more if you were dumb enough to father children.... This just about sums it up. I know several professionals (most of whom are hitting upper-level management at this point) who went through with a wedding-style ceremony, bought rings, have children, etc., but they don't actually have a record of marriage. Pretty much all around I've been told that marriage is difficult. However they still have the benefit of two sources of income in their household (and holy shit, we're talking about people who live in homes worth over $2 million). They even told me that should they decide to separate (not that it ever crossed their minds, right...?) they wouldn't have to give up half their assets or talk about child custody and all that. So pretty much, don't get a husband. Go through with the traditional marriage (if that matters to you) without putting it on paper, so get married in the Philippines or Indonesia (if you're my older brother LOL) and don't transfer the records. Keep your money, and if you ever decide to separate, you can do just that. |
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Jun 30, 2016 2:45 PM
#99
Yumadu-nii said: Whenever I date a guy, almost every time he turns out to be some immature manchild who can't hold down a stable well-paying job. Why is it so hard to find mature, successful men these days? It's so bad I'm starting to consider dating much older men. I'm in my early 20s in case you're wondering. Why is it so hard to also find a good wife? Also you'd be surprised at how little age actually makes a difference, it's not men (or women) our age these days that are idiots. It's that everyone in general has become retarded. /thread |
Jul 1, 2016 8:37 AM
#100
ThrashMatto said: TheBrainintheJar said: ThrashMatto said: TheBrainintheJar said: Spread of STDs, unwanted pregnancies and therefor unwanted children being brought into this world without a fighting chance... but you wouldn't want that, now would you? I mean, you're an anti-natalist, might aswell be celibate too, every sperm is sacred.AllenVonStein said: I don't know it seems nowadays especially Young people don't want marriage , they only like quick relationship. What's wrong with that? Marriages are bound to end and children are difficult to raise. It's better to just have a lot of sex. You can abort the baby. You can use protection. Sex doesn't automatically leads to these. Drugs don't automatically lead to addiction. Cars don't automatically lead to crashes. Nico- said: TheBrainintheJar said: AllenVonStein said: I don't know it seems nowadays especially Young people don't want marriage , they only like quick relationship. What's wrong with that? Marriages are bound to end and children are difficult to raise. It's better to just have a lot of sex. Probably because some people aren't fit to do either and actually do these things unconsciously. But hey, if you want STDs to be on the rise and make abortion legal worldwide, I don't see why you shouldn't be an advocate for these things #ResistMarriage #EndChildren If you think lots of sex automatically means lots of STD's then, I don't know, fear-mongering isn't so fun? hmm... http://money.cnn.com/2015/05/26/technology/rhode-island-tinder-stds/ Too bad for them for not using protection. I don't blame casual sex. I don't blame guns for killing people but whoever pulled the trigger. |
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