| So this morning before I went to sleep, I had an unexpected revelation in my life, I kinda fell in love. And I'm not talking about something like a liittle crush or a one night stand, god knows I've moved past that by now. I'm talking full blown infatuation. This is ridiculous. The worst part is this girl is someone I met... On MAL.... Just yesterday, I was thinking to myself how useless and pointless love is, but it's less than 16 hours later and honestly my heart and brain are getting muddled and confused and I'm lost... Let me quote a post I wrote on CD yesterday. Dusk said: The only suitable conclusion is that I should commit Sudoku.... But if you have better suggestions I'm open to hearing them. I'd rather stick shattered glass up my ass than date online again. And no... I'm not kidding. But if it works for you, then go crazy fam. Also, this thread isn't just about my pathetic sappy "ooh I have a heart" story, I want to hear about your experiences with this. Have you ever had an unexpected change in heart regarding relationships? Also, why are you against online dating? (if you are) Why do you think online dating is good? (if you do) |
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| In love. After one day. Are you sure you're in love or is this just a fleeting notion? I find online dating detestable and abhorrent, tbh. |
Toasty_One said: It wasn't after one day, I don't know where you got that from.In love after one day. Are you sure you're in love or is this just a fleeting notion? |
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Dusk said: It wasn't after one day, I don't know where you got that from. Dusk said: The worst part is this girl is someone I met... On MAL.... Just yesterday, ---Edit.--- Ah, shit, soz bro. I read your sentence wrong. Still, sodoku sounds like a good option to me. |
Status_EffectFeb 11, 2016 4:11 AM
Toasty_One said: All good man. :pAh, shit, soz bro. I read your sentence wrong. Still, sodoku sounds like a good option to me. Sodoku is basically my plan at this stage |
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Onii-chan said: I did not, but let's not turn this into a guessing game, lol.That escalated quickly. Do you fall in love with Dawn? |
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| Why...why would you create a thread about online dating, when there's literally THIS thread that was created just yesterday? I'm sure as hell there's even more threads about this subject. God...why do you people feel the need to create a copy, of a copy, of a copy of a thread? Post in the original one, damn it. But I'll answer to your questions, so I wouldn't be off-topic. Have I ever been in a online (long distance) relationship? Yes I was. Twice, once it worked and I actually met the girl, but didn't work out because she expected me to be some rich fuckboy, even though I told her about who I am and what I am... and 2nd one just getting bored of eachother in the end. Would I get in an online relationship again? Maybe? I mean, if I talk with the girl allot, see each other on cam, and such, and plan to meet each other, then yeah! Why wouldn't I? But if it's just a "virtual-only" kind of relationship...fuck that! You're better of having a dog as a company, then that. Is it good online dating? Both good and bad, like how pretty much everyone would tell you (or should). Good, because you can actually think what you want to write/say to a person, it's easier if you have a busy life, and easier once again to find someone with common hobbies as you. Bad, because at times you might talk with some of the creepiest and suspicious people on earth. Caution should be #1 thing to have before venturing in this "realm" |
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so did you meet her IRL or just on MAL? |
fadesFeb 11, 2016 5:39 AM
| That's the worst part. She doesn't even live in the same country as me... Why has this happened to me. >____> |
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| @Dusk I have tried internet dating in the past. She lived in USA and I have lived in Hong Kong. I managed to keep a strong relationship for about 1 year~. I thought it was a great way to get a gf and escape from reality. But now I think about it, I think I was a pathetic loser. Don't internet date, really. The love, the feeling will all feel great but after she moves on, you will realize how pathetic you were to date someone online... I am not saying it's not good to date someone online but make sure she really is a girl not just a fat 80 year old man who is jerking off behind his computer while talking to you. Also falling in love after first meet online is fine, it's natural to have feelings for someone this early but don't get cat fished. In my opinion, internet dating is perfectly fine but it kinda ruins your moral standard. If your friends or parents find out, they really will think you are a loser and trust me you don't want any of your irl to find out that you have a gf on the internet. |
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pLiED said: I have online dated too, my last online relationship lasted 21 months, and we met up and almost got married, before shit went hellbound. I know what it's like to date online, and after my last online relationship, I swore I'd never do it again. But now, this has happened, and I hate myself.@Dusk I have tried internet dating in the past. She lived in USA and I have lived in Hong Kong. I managed to keep a strong relationship for about 1 year~. I thought it was a great way to get a gf and escape from reality. But now I think about it, I think I was a pathetic loser. Don't internet date, really. The love, the feeling will all feel great but after she moves on, you will realize how pathetic you were to date someone online... I am not saying it's not good to date someone online but make sure she really is a girl not just a fat 80 year old man who is jerking off behind his computer while talking to you. Also falling in love after first meet online is fine, it's natural to have feelings for someone this early but don't get cat fished. In my opinion, internet dating is perfectly fine but it kinda ruins your moral standard. If your friends or parents find out, they really will think you are a loser and trust me you don't want any of your irl to find out that you have a gf on the internet. |
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| Well, that's certainly something. I don't see anything wrong with Online dating, though don't you need to wait for the girl to accept first or are you both already past that bit? Either way, I bid you good luck lol. |
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Dusk said: pLiED said: I have online dated too, my last online relationship lasted 21 months, and we met up and almost got married, before shit went hellbound. I know what it's like to date online, and after my last online relationship, I swore I'd never do it again. But now, this has happened, and I hate myself.@Dusk I have tried internet dating in the past. She lived in USA and I have lived in Hong Kong. I managed to keep a strong relationship for about 1 year~. I thought it was a great way to get a gf and escape from reality. But now I think about it, I think I was a pathetic loser. Don't internet date, really. The love, the feeling will all feel great but after she moves on, you will realize how pathetic you were to date someone online... I am not saying it's not good to date someone online but make sure she really is a girl not just a fat 80 year old man who is jerking off behind his computer while talking to you. Also falling in love after first meet online is fine, it's natural to have feelings for someone this early but don't get cat fished. In my opinion, internet dating is perfectly fine but it kinda ruins your moral standard. If your friends or parents find out, they really will think you are a loser and trust me you don't want any of your irl to find out that you have a gf on the internet. Nice to hear that I am not the only one who almost fell into another online relationship! Just think about all the hawt girls in your class who you can date! Think what you can get for them for there valentines! That should really take your minds off from internet dating. OR IF THAT DOESN'T WORK, then just imagine the girl who you fell in love with recently as to be a fat ugly girl or super old pedo man. That should really put you off from internet dating. |
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Sexymofo said: You're asking a question that I wish I could answer myself, Sexymofo, sir. And of course I know what she looks like, don't be silly.How can you love someone who you've never met in real life? Do you even know what she looks like? |
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| I think love just happens. Actively searching in the forefront of your daily life mostly ends up in discontent or an untrue relationship. Doesn't matter where it happens but I would find online dating (dating sites specifically) to be quiet forced relationships, and with the average online dating site user spending something like $250, it aint worth it. If its something like eHarmony then yeah I don't like it. But anywhere else is like a social gathering but digital, so I don't mind that. |
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| OP, you were subconsciously looking for someone on MAL. If you look closely, you most likely only talk to girls on MAL. Now that you have found someone on MAL you are confused because you thought your ideals were set in stone. Good luck though with that, one of you will get bored eventually. |
| Vishnu was trying to persuade the prince to do his duty, so to impress him he took on his multi armed form and said now I become death, the destroyer of worlds. |
TakeTheL said: I've never started a conversation on MAL sir. All my conversations have been started by someone else. Sorry but your theory is blown out the window.OP, you were subconsciously looking for someone on MAL. If you look closely, you most likely only talk to girls on MAL. Now that you have found someone on MAL you are confused because you thought your ideals were set in stone. Good luck though with that, one of you will get bored eventually. Sexymofo said: ... *ahem* ....Dusk said: You're asking a question that I wish I could answer myself, Sexymofo, sir. And of course I know what she looks like, don't be silly. I hope you two live in the same country at least |
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| First and foremost, is this girl aware of your fweelings or not OP? Dusk said: Also, why are you against online dating? (if you are) I'm not, never have been. I've never been interested in "dating sites" or actively trying to find a partner online before mind you. But love can happen anywhere, even when you aren't actively seeking it. Why do you think online dating is good? (if you do) Like everything else, it can have its pros and cons; there's always still that caution you need to remain aware of when it comes to meeting peoples online, but as long as you aren't an idiot and use common sense, there isn't really that much more danger in "online dating" than "regular/offline dating". One of the main "pros" is having a higher chance of meeting like-minded people since the internet is a much vaster community. But that can also be a "con" in itself since there's a good chance the person will be from a different country to your own. That's not to say it can't work with time, effort and dedication, and I honestly think relationships such as that have a much better chance of actually lasting if distance isn't a concern to either party. Initially falling for personality rather than physical appearance is another bonus, but of course, many people exhibit different "personas" to the one they have in real life. If someone falls for a façade, then as cynical as it may sound, it's pretty much 100% guaranteed to fall apart. |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: Nope. Is that a bad thing? : IzzzzzzzzFirst and foremost, is this girl aware of your fweelings or not OP? |
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Dusk said: TakeTheL said: I've never started a conversation on MAL sir. All my conversations have been started by someone else. Sorry but your theory is blown out the window.OP, you were subconsciously looking for someone on MAL. If you look closely, you most likely only talk to girls on MAL. Now that you have found someone on MAL you are confused because you thought your ideals were set in stone. Good luck though with that, one of you will get bored eventually. ... *ahem* .... You just started this thread as a means of conversation.... are you an idiot? |
| Vishnu was trying to persuade the prince to do his duty, so to impress him he took on his multi armed form and said now I become death, the destroyer of worlds. |
Dusk said: SnugglyWhuggly said: Nope. Is that a bad thing? : IzzzzzzzzFirst and foremost, is this girl aware of your fweelings or not OP? Not necessarily... But she's going to figure it out now anyhow if she comes across this thread. |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: It could be any one of the people I talk to though heheNot necessarily... But she's going to figure it out now anyhow if she comes across this thread. |
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Dusk said: SnugglyWhuggly said: It could be any one of the people I talk to though heheNot necessarily... But she's going to figure it out now anyhow if she comes across this thread. Well your comments seem to be split between two people and you already said one of them wasnt it so uh..doesnt take a genius to figure it out. Ot; As for online dating, I barely have interest in real life dating so eh, I want to be able to do what I'm interested in like film and have fun, dating feels like a compromise. |
| I've been here way too long... |
| I don't see what's wrong with online dating, especially if you have troubles meeting someone on street or in nightclubs or wherever. |
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TheConquerer said: Well your comments seem to be split between two people and you already said one of them wasnt it so uh..doesnt take a genius to figure it out. A quick look at his profile and you already have 2 major "suspects" lol Anyway...it will be pretty awkward once the girl you like, sees this thread. Good luck though! Break the ice, and tell baby girl how you feel about it. Who knows...maybe she likes you as well. |
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TheConquerer said: That's funny, since it's neither of those people and it's pretty vain to think I only talk to people from MAL on MALDusk said: It could be any one of the people I talk to though hehe Well your comments seem to be split between two people and you already said one of them wasnt it so uh..doesnt take a genius to figure it out. So much conclusion jumping going on here. To put into perspective, 30 of my Skype contacts are people from MAL, and I just counted that 19 of them are females, not to mention the amount of MAL users there are on Discord, which I also use, and about 10 people I talk to on PM. Plus there are 3 MAL Skype groups I use. Please don't point fingers, lol. |
psilencedFeb 11, 2016 8:31 AM
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| Amazing. Incredible. Where's that guy who makes youtube videos out of ridiculous threads? We need to get him in here, this is a gold mine. |
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NasalShark said: I saw those videos, they're actually really shit, and he should be ashamed. But I'm always open to any kind of fame. ;DAmazing. Incredible. Where's that guy who makes youtube videos out of ridiculous threads? We need to get him in here, this is a gold mine. |
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Dusk said: I saw those videos, they're actually really shit, and he should be ashamed. But I'm always open to any kind of fame. ;D I have three questions and a request. Question 1. How much do you love them, on a scale of 1 to 10? Question 2. How long have you known this person before you fell in love with them? Question 3. Have they shown any feelings towards you or returned any advances in any way? Request. Pls don't fall in love with me. |
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Dusk said: TheConquerer said: That's funny, since it's neither of those people and it's pretty vain to think I only talk to people from MAL on MALWell your comments seem to be split between two people and you already said one of them wasnt it so uh..doesnt take a genius to figure it out. I was thinking more along the lines of it being the most logical approach to make but alrighty I wont rustle your jimmies pal |
| I've been here way too long... |
NasalShark said: Dusk said: I saw those videos, they're actually really shit, and he should be ashamed. But I'm always open to any kind of fame. ;D I have three questions and a request. Question 1. How much do you love them, on a scale of 1 to 10? Question 2. How long have you known this person before you fell in love with them? Question 3. Have they shown any feelings towards you or returned any advances in any way? Request. Pls don't fall in love with me. Q1: Hmm, it's not too deep, but it was enough to catch me by surprise. I'm an emotional person in general, so I kinda "love" all my friends, so for this person in particular, I'd say I love her on about a 7/10, keeping in mind it's only newfound. Q2: Let's see.... If memory serves correctly, we have been exchanging messages and having calls for the past 2 months. I don't know what happened to make me suddenly change how I feel. Q3: Yes. Request: Sorry bby, too late. I'm coming for that booty. |
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Dusk said: Q1: Hmm, it's not too deep, but it was enough to catch me by surprise. I'm an emotional person in general, so I kinda "love" all my friends, so for this person in particular, I'd say I love her on about a 7/10, keeping in mind it's only newfound. Q2: Let's see.... If memory serves correctly, we have been exchanging messages and having calls for the past 2 months. I don't know what happened to make me suddenly change how I feel. Q3: Yes. Request: Sorry bby, too late. I'm coming for that booty. Considering 10 is the most love a person can love 7 is alot and if she's recipricating then I don't see what the issue is. Infact you've probably created a problem, your feelings towards me are going to get inbetween you and your new love. Curse my attractiveness! |
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NasalShark said: The problem is probably that I really don't want to date anyone, but I'm probably going to end up doing so anyway, I let my cold heart slip and fall for someone. Considering 10 is the most love a person can love 7 is alot and if she's recipricating then I don't see what the issue is. Infact you've probably created a problem, your feelings towards me are going to get inbetween you and your new love. Curse my attractiveness! But... I mean, if you're willing then I think we can arrange something. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) |
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Dusk said: The problem is probably that I really don't want to date anyone, but I'm probably going to end up doing so anyway, I let my cold heart slip and fall for someone. But... I mean, if you're willing then I think we can arrange something. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) No Dusk, it's wrong. We can never be together, you know that. Not as long as you feel this way about another. I can't get between you and the mystery woman. I'm sorry. But seriously though where does she live? Is it out of the question to turn an online relationship into something more? |
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| Online dating isn't necessarily good or bad. If you actually form a meaningful relationship with the person it should be fine. The problem is a lot of the time the relationship is one sided or rushed. It's easy to convince yourself you are in love, that's for sure. |
NasalShark said: I can't answer that it's too specific. But seriously though where does she live? Is it out of the question to turn an online relationship into something more? The thing is even recently in real life, I had a great girl who I really liked (to some degree) approach me and directly ask me to be her boyfriend, and I turned her down, because I simply do not want to be in a relationship because I'm so over them, but for that reason I've always kept my guard up around girls, but somehow in this instance, it must have slipped. :x |
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Dusk said: NasalShark said: I can't answer that it's too specific. But seriously though where does she live? Is it out of the question to turn an online relationship into something more? The thing is even recently in real life, I had a great girl who I really liked (to some degree) approach me and directly ask me to be her boyfriend, and I turned her down, because I simply do not want to be in a relationship because I'm so over them, but for that reason I've always kept my guard up around girls, but somehow in this instance, it must have slipped. :x ...Turned down a great girl you liked... because you're "over" relationships...  |
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Dusk said: I can do the honours for you, if you want. It'll only hurt at first though. I'd rather stick shattered glass up my ass than date online again. And no... I'm not kidding. But if it works for you, then go crazy fam. OT: Like I said in another thread, I'm not against online dating though extra caution is necessary because of the risks that come with it. Long distance relationships carry that issue in particular because commitment from either party can also be questionable. Assuming that they can remain faithful despite all the physical barriers, the two genuinely like each other and aren't hiding things from each other, then I have nothing against them at all. I'm no expert in relationships or anything but if love like that does happen then you're powerless against it. Unless you're a cold-blooded shape shifting lizard like me, that is. codephat said: This basically sums up my thoughts in a more coherent manner. Online dating isn't necessarily good or bad. If you actually form a meaningful relationship with the person it should be fine. The problem is a lot of the time the relationship is one sided or rushed. It's easy to convince yourself you are in love, that's for sure. |
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| It only works because you're Australian, this site is full of thirsty Aussies. |
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Cat said: I think you covered a whole lot of nothing there, but thanks for your contribution. PS. I'm a kawaii gamer girl. c:Hello, I am from OnlineDatingServices.org and after hearing many requests, I have decided to come to the aid. As someone who strongly promotes online dating (づ-🐽-)づ(づ-🐽-)づ There are SO MANY perks of being involved in this type of relationship! I strongly advise that YOU, OP to man the fuck up and take control of your own destiny. Do NOT let anyone else besides you decide YOUR LOVE life. You, my friend, need to be in full control. The KEY 🔑 to MORE SUCCESS. The DOORS to love were CLOSED, but you need to take this GODDAMN KEY 🔑 and OPEN that door. RIP those fucking HINGES OFF, and put them in the FUCCBOIS hands. (づ-🐽-)づ🔑(づ-🐽-)づ Solos said: It would be my greatest honour. Where do I sign up? I can do the honours for you, if you want. It'll only hurt at first though. Lue said: Did someone spill the salt?It only works because you're Australian, this site is full of thirsty Aussies. |
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