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Mar 3, 2015 3:05 PM

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I guess I'm normal.
Mar 3, 2015 3:06 PM

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Yes, specially when I'm drunk.
Mar 3, 2015 3:08 PM

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yeah sort of, only thing I still struggle a bit with is keeping a conversation alive
Mar 3, 2015 3:26 PM

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Jiischa107 said:
the people always come to me lol



Mar 3, 2015 4:08 PM
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It's part of my job. I travel and move a lot because of it and I will be moving again at the end of this month
Mar 3, 2015 4:10 PM

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I've met many people for the first time and have showed a good first impression.

So Yes I'm excellent at relating and making conversation.

Behold of my awesomeness~
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Mar 3, 2015 4:11 PM

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Mar 3, 2015 4:35 PM

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No, it's they who are bad at meeting me
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Mar 4, 2015 1:46 AM

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traed said:
Its always really awkward for me since i never know what to say and im not comforatable around people i do not know well


awwwwwwww, I find that hard to believe.
Mar 4, 2015 2:46 AM

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I'm talkative and friendly, so I do pretty well, but the lack of common interests is often an hindrance, especially towards male groups, because I have no interest in sports, motors and such.
Mar 4, 2015 2:49 AM
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There's a reason I'm 25 and have a grand total of 10 internet friends that I barely even talk to.
Mar 4, 2015 2:53 AM

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I'm pretty much good at that. Plus I like meeting new people! Get to know people with different interests is fun. As much as it is meeting people with similar ones.


Mar 4, 2015 2:56 AM

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Well, the problem for me is the exact opposite than most people here. I'm a cross between Yuri from Angel Beats and Misaki from Sakurasou, both of which, are crazy and I like to drag random people to random things XD. Hey, if I'm going insane, might as well drag a few with me! ;)
Mar 4, 2015 3:07 AM

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Nope i really suck at this one
Mar 4, 2015 3:23 AM

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Hmm, I guess I am? I can maintain a decent conversation with anyone as long as we both have atleast one common topic to talk about. I'm not that particularly good at small talk, sadly.
Mar 4, 2015 3:25 AM

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It's a learned skill.. You have to be quick and witty and all together fascinating.

Really, if your life is boring AF then you'll be boring AF and there's nothing to talk about.

Live a little, have some adventures, and you'll be cocktail party ready.
Mar 4, 2015 3:50 AM

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It completely depends on the situation and the other people.
I can't explain it, but sometimes I barely can open my mouth and dream of earth swalllowing me, and sometimes I chat like with an old friend. I guess it's the atmosphere or something that makes me either nervous or brave.
Mar 4, 2015 3:50 AM

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quentariel said:
It completely depends on the situation and the other people.
I can't explain it, but sometimes I barely can open my mouth and dream of earth swalllowing me, and sometimes I chat like with an old friend. I guess it's the atmosphere or something that makes me either nervous or brave.


It's called liquid courage, colloquially.
Mar 4, 2015 3:56 AM
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Well, that largely depends on who the person is. If it's someone I have nothing in common with and met randomly, chances are I'll have a hard time to get a proper conversation going. If it's someone I've met through work or common interests, though, then I find it relatively easy, since there's usually something you can build your discussion upon.
Mar 4, 2015 3:57 AM

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aloricg said:
It's called liquid courage, colloquially.
Oh, thanks for comin up a term to explain it!
(although, I first read it as a "liqueur" courage and thought that it fits too, after drinkin a little courage you are definitely in more brave mood)
Mar 4, 2015 4:26 AM
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Actually, I might be. But I suck at keeping them as friends.
Mar 4, 2015 4:32 AM

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I don't have many problems, between university, my yoga classes and the occasional evening at a bar, I have a lot of opportunities to meet new people. I guess I'm pretty selective when it comes to chose which people I want to interact with though. I can't really start small talking or open up with anyone when I'm not really feeling the connection. It's hard to describe.
I try to be polite though when someone comes at me at starts a conversation. I wouldn't want to make the whole situation awkward.
Mar 4, 2015 5:13 AM

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Nope.
Mar 4, 2015 5:19 AM
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Its a skill that can be practiced over time. Personally, i will not take the initiative because the initiator usually expend the most effort in the conversation. Being the usual lazybones i am, i can't be bothered and just sit back while enjoying the blissful silence instead.
Mar 4, 2015 5:25 AM

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Hibiki- said:
Nope.


Ahahahaha XDD, love your bluntness +1
Mar 4, 2015 5:32 AM
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During high school I used to start conversations with random hot girls in the bus every week. It was fun.

I have no problems with it, but now I don't like it anymore.
Actually I hate socializing ...
Mar 4, 2015 5:58 AM

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Nope, I won't talk to you unless you talk to me cause I'm afraid of not getting a response if I started the conversation.
Mar 4, 2015 5:59 AM
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cherushi-chan said:
Nope, I won't talk to you unless you talk to me cause I'm afraid of not getting a response if I started the conversation.

Are we spiritual twins?

Edit: Oh shit, that is the worst insult I've ever laid on someone.
Mar 4, 2015 6:13 AM

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SubaTonic said:
cherushi-chan said:
Nope, I won't talk to you unless you talk to me cause I'm afraid of not getting a response if I started the conversation.

Are we spiritual twins?

Edit: Oh shit, that is the worst insult I've ever laid on someone.
Most people are probably the same unless you're an extrovert.
I don't get why it's an insult though.
Mar 4, 2015 6:36 AM

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cherushi-chan said:
SubaTonic said:

Are we spiritual twins?

Edit: Oh shit, that is the worst insult I've ever laid on someone.
Most people are probably the same unless you're an extrovert.
I don't get why it's an insult though.


Lol, there's also people who are in-between introverts and extroverts
probably most of the population XD
Mar 4, 2015 8:31 AM

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KyubeySensei said:
cherushi-chan said:
Most people are probably the same unless you're an extrovert.
I don't get why it's an insult though.


Lol, there's also people who are in-between introverts and extroverts
probably most of the population XD
I know that O_o when I said extrovert I meant those 51-100% extroverted people so that they would only fall to one category unless they're exactly 50 IV-50 EV (now, this is what I consider in-between). Do you get what I mean? sorry, I'm not good at explaining.
Mar 4, 2015 8:33 AM

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Somewhat?

I stopped counting the number of first dates and my job involves one-on-one meetings with people I've never met

So at the very least I have a degree of experience, no idea if I'm good at it
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Mar 4, 2015 8:48 AM

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cherushi-chan said:
KyubeySensei said:


Lol, there's also people who are in-between introverts and extroverts
probably most of the population XD
I know that O_o when I said extrovert I meant those 51-100% extroverted people so that they would only fall to one category unless they're exactly 50 IV-50 EV (now, this is what I consider in-between). Do you get what I mean? sorry, I'm not good at explaining.


Np, I got the idea. I guess I just don't like to categorize people like that cuz it feels too black and white :/ It's mostly gray, you know 50 shades of them XDD so basically I believe in proportion rather than categorization ;)
Mar 4, 2015 9:05 AM

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KyubeySensei said:

Np, I got the idea. I guess I just don't like to categorize people like that cuz it feels too black and white :/ It's mostly gray, you know 50 shades of them XDD so basically I believe in proportion rather than categorization ;)
I kinda get what you mean cause lumping them in just one category won't probably be hundred percent true. I just thought there are things that can only be answered with yes or no and why/how will only follow after. And most of the time you won't have the chance to explain so you'll just resort to saying a single word or phrase. Ahhh..nvm me T_T
Mar 4, 2015 9:05 AM

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It's holding the conversation that is difficult for me. I really hate that awkward silence that happen after a little chat. My mind would think hard about what to say and most if not all the time, I couldn't think of anything.
Mar 4, 2015 10:08 AM

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cherushi-chan said:
KyubeySensei said:

Np, I got the idea. I guess I just don't like to categorize people like that cuz it feels too black and white :/ It's mostly gray, you know 50 shades of them XDD so basically I believe in proportion rather than categorization ;)
I kinda get what you mean cause lumping them in just one category won't probably be hundred percent true. I just thought there are things that can only be answered with yes or no and why/how will only follow after. And most of the time you won't have the chance to explain so you'll just resort to saying a single word or phrase. Ahhh..nvm me T_T

Nah, I know I am being difficult and stubborn and you do have a point, but I guess I just enjoy the world for its complexity rather than simplicity ;)
Mar 4, 2015 10:24 AM

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Pretty good I guess. I'm able to act like a normal person at least x)
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Mar 4, 2015 12:21 PM
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I'm good at tolerating and hiding my discomfort when annoying guys try to get along with me XD
Mar 5, 2015 6:02 AM

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KyubeySensei said:

Nah, I know I am being difficult and stubborn and you do have a point, but I guess I just enjoy the world for its complexity rather than simplicity ;)
Same, I'm just being stubborn. I don't like being misunderstood as much as losing in a conversation so pardon my blabbing haha (and yeah, I have this habit of answering every post that are for me. I feel like I must answer them no matter what haha)
Mar 5, 2015 6:10 AM
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Buuh
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Mar 5, 2015 6:26 AM

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Yeah, I can be an extrovert if I get interested in someone or if they're rich.
Mar 5, 2015 6:29 AM

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I get pretty shy when it comes to meeting new people.
Mar 5, 2015 7:37 AM

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Maybe
Mar 5, 2015 8:04 AM

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HAHAHA nope
Mar 5, 2015 8:10 AM

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No, not at all...

I'm like this

and then I start crying (true story. First day of school this year.)

I don't know how to deal with people or how to react whenever I talk to them.
I think I'm autistic... Not entirely sure but it looks like it from reading what autistic people do and how they are....
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Ha. Ha. HA. HA. HA. HA. HA. HA.
I'm laughing because you got hurt.
Mar 5, 2015 8:29 AM

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Just get them talking about themselves by asking questions n putting ur input once in a while n y'all click eventually
Mar 5, 2015 8:41 AM

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I'm pretty terrible at this. I get really intimidated when I'm trying to talk to someone new, and often worry about what to say obsessively.

I'm also a bit stiff with people until I get to know them better.
I find it impossible to relax and "be myself" around people unless I feel comfortable with their presence first.
Mar 5, 2015 8:44 AM

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Pretty bad most of the time.

I can make a good first impression if I try hard enough, but that's not often.
Mar 5, 2015 8:46 AM

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cherushi-chan said:
SubaTonic said:

Are we spiritual twins?

Edit: Oh shit, that is the worst insult I've ever laid on someone.
Most people are probably the same unless you're an extrovert.
I don't get why it's an insult though.


extroversion doesn't mean you can't be shy/socially awkward

but yea i don't initiate conversations for the same reason too. triplets it seems?
Mar 5, 2015 9:28 AM

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