^^ you have. A murder. Basement.
*Baby giggle* ... 🗿
Ot: mmm 🤔 i think theres a middleway in that but if you go in extremes like black white for certain like without any way of accessing behaviour and actions ar all. Like ofc there can be some thinking patterns and behaviours that can be more likely cause reasons but from nothing its pretty odd and delusional. Theres also different ways and causes for this so... And if its a red for me or for their mental state or both and to what degree also differ depending on things.
If they fully go black on all people and are unable to see the complexities and brings everyone around them down with it for no reason too or situational or selfawareness. And saying all people be like this for certain AND get treated as such that can be a red. But theres also the fact that past experiences can have reinforced this belief. Like if you get beat up or torn to pieces or almost killed through years cause abusers and manipulators gets attracted to traits with you it makes perfect sense to have an attitude like that. Its just sad. If they treat others abusively and controlling them with manipulation etc because of that thats a red to me. If they wont do therapy and harms others because of it without caring or say sorry and actually MEAN IT when they act wrong thats a red to me. If they self isolate from healthy relations and people cause of it thats a red for them and it makes me sad... unless they one of the "naw people" folk... without it being no treatment or support to realise otherwise reason.... AND if they want you to isolate as well because of this tendency / selfprotection view / or conviction cause they themself “lag”, “didnt develop”, “experienced” something that makes "good people" not real ever thats a red to me if they not getting treatment, bans all other views and drag me down with them, cause personally im not strong enough for the emotional labor and role id have to do there. I cant build myself up if others keep dragging down what im trying to rebuild and create in my head.
Its odd mindset unless you were brought up with it or had surroundings where you had to adapt to that belief. Perhaps based of experiences or what youve convinced yourself to believe if you have a certain personality and unawareness of how you yourself act perhaps. Then if people didnt do or behave like you thought to be right or kiss the ground you walk on you judge them as SO BAD too… like there can be many reasons why people get like that it really depends on the person, their makings and life.
Its usually a sign of underlying issues and happenings probably. How they access and deal with that and the amount of selfawareness theyre able to have and how to like deal with things would be where id do my "final" / "temp" / atm judgement from. Like whats their actions, behaviour, what they say, are they able to tell when theyre not correct, effected by stuff from the past or when they do mistakes and how they handle it. Then again im not all knowing or zhe god so in some cases i probably cant be fully correct too depending on things. *Makes fun voice* Even tho im always right . *Bats eyes*
Lmao
... If you judge red or green probably depends on your own experiences ... Like its pretty healthy and reasonable to like access people for red flags too unless you live in a fairy tale no?... Some people also need to watch out more than others if they have a tedency to get attracted to or attract "bad" people and unhealthy dynamics... Maybe cause of who they are and for others cause thats what they grew up with or are used to so it then automatically has a tedency to feel "this is right" to them even when its not...
Id say red or green depending on how they deal with the world around them and their actions and other thoughts.
Edit: dear god wtf 😭 shut up
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DostojevskijApr 15, 12:09 PM
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