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i don't think so, more like they're self-aware which is good imo

don't ever read books
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I don’t give half a damn if they do or do not (green)


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We all hate it when you forget about your deadline until last minute
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literally @iHateAnimeBro


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Really??? 😭
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What?
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Not red

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Yup

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.. are you for real mitsuki? Why you think thats ok?

Red.. ofc depends in what way and why

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"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities"

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//This was quoted in the year of 2009
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🛑

Always thinks the worse of people till proven wrong

"Darkness and light are always right next to each other.
Show a little fear or a drop of a tear...
and the darkness will grow and start to attack...
Consuming the light."
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red red red 🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑

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Kinda red

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^^ you have. A murder. Basement.

*Baby giggle* ... 🗿


Ot: mmm 🤔 i think theres a middleway in that but if you go in extremes like black white for certain like without any way of accessing behaviour and actions ar all. Like ofc there can be some thinking patterns and behaviours that can be more likely cause reasons but from nothing its pretty odd and delusional. Theres also different ways and causes for this so... And if its a red for me or for their mental state or both and to what degree also differ depending on things.

If they fully go black on all people and are unable to see the complexities and brings everyone around them down with it for no reason too or situational or selfawareness. And saying all people be like this for certain AND get treated as such that can be a red. But theres also the fact that past experiences can have reinforced this belief. Like if you get beat up or torn to pieces or almost killed through years cause abusers and manipulators gets attracted to traits with you it makes perfect sense to have an attitude like that. Its just sad. If they treat others abusively and controlling them with manipulation etc because of that thats a red to me. If they wont do therapy and harms others because of it without caring or say sorry and actually MEAN IT when they act wrong thats a red to me. If they self isolate from healthy relations and people cause of it thats a red for them and it makes me sad... unless they one of the "naw people" folk... without it being no treatment or support to realise otherwise reason.... AND if they want you to isolate as well because of this tendency / selfprotection view / or conviction cause they themself “lag”, “didnt develop”, “experienced” something that makes "good people" not real ever thats a red to me if they not getting treatment, bans all other views and drag me down with them, cause personally im not strong enough for the emotional labor and role id have to do there. I cant build myself up if others keep dragging down what im trying to rebuild and create in my head.

Its odd mindset unless you were brought up with it or had surroundings where you had to adapt to that belief. Perhaps based of experiences or what youve convinced yourself to believe if you have a certain personality and unawareness of how you yourself act perhaps. Then if people didnt do or behave like you thought to be right or kiss the ground you walk on you judge them as SO BAD too… like there can be many reasons why people get like that it really depends on the person, their makings and life.

Its usually a sign of underlying issues and happenings probably. How they access and deal with that and the amount of selfawareness theyre able to have and how to like deal with things would be where id do my "final" / "temp" / atm judgement from. Like whats their actions, behaviour, what they say, are they able to tell when theyre not correct, effected by stuff from the past or when they do mistakes and how they handle it. Then again im not all knowing or zhe god so in some cases i probably cant be fully correct too depending on things. *Makes fun voice* Even tho im always right . *Bats eyes*

Lmao

... If you judge red or green probably depends on your own experiences ... Like its pretty healthy and reasonable to like access people for red flags too unless you live in a fairy tale no?... Some people also need to watch out more than others if they have a tedency to get attracted to or attract "bad" people and unhealthy dynamics... Maybe cause of who they are and for others cause thats what they grew up with or are used to so it then automatically has a tedency to feel "this is right" to them even when its not...

Id say red or green depending on how they deal with the world around them and their actions and other thoughts.

Edit: dear god wtf 😭 shut up

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"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities"

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//This was quoted in the year of 2009
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"Always"
red red 🛑🛑


Even if it’s a legal case, much depends on the conviction. Labeling someone based on “intentional thinking and prejudice” is a red flag. You’ve got to focus on the source/data and avoid making personal assumptions without sufficient proof, IMHO.

In some cases, we already know if the person is guilty or not. But even then, complicating the issue just for personal satisfaction is another red flag.

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yup

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Idk yellow

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Yes

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As they should

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yes lol

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I guess I'll never encounter them in the wild

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Nop

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depends…r u gross and old too

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If theyre called suckypop its red yes

Jk lol

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not a problem. i just hope theyre eating a balanced diet that meets all their metabolic needs

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I dont like to deal with sobs.. but i get having a certain want for alright hygienic practises if thats fancy for ya.

It sounds like red to me if they ridgid about it and cant compromise for no reason.

It can be rude if they dont take other peoples wallets into consideration if thats an issue.

If its by themself they do them thats not red if they can afford it. Just a quirk pff.

Refusing to ever compromise and go to "a fancy" restaurant can also be a red .. it all depeeeendS.

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DostojevskijApr 20, 5:56 AM
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities"

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It’s not a huge issue, but I’d really like to be with someone who appreciates the little things now and then. When that’s missing, it can turn into a difference in outlook that takes the fun out of things for both of us
So for me, it’s a bit of a red flag
but I get that others might not see it as a big deal


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^^ exactly

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nop

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I've had to deal with this bullshit, they don't care if they hurt you or others, they just want free reign to be a piece of shit and do what they want and if you call them out on it then they'd rather cast you out of their life than try to even marginally change themselves


changes their opinion on things depending on who they're with

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No, that's understandable but annoying

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Yes

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a bit out of place, especially since ppl are allowed to be very weird here, but don't take ppl here seriously

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What kind of shit? Like what have you done? Stuff that isnt true? And to manipulate and harm out of misguided delusional malice and to gain a group feeling, stroke their own inflated ego or popularity? Red

People that talk trash behind other peoples backs are ugly as fck to me unless they ofc have sound reason to. Like people are allowed to say fcking pig to their rapist no? People that lie about others are 100% red. People are allowed to vent but theres venting and then theres lying and being manipulative for illegitimate reasons and gains. Cause you lag felt empathy, skills to communicate with people, like yourself and other stuff.

But what i define as shit then yeah. Either you say it to their face or you dont say it at all unless its a manipulative scumbag that hurts others and you and wont or cant do better and theyve shown you what theyre made of. Like dont give a shit rapists and really bad people that dont understand "NO.". Then gloves the fck off. Some types dont get "nice" they use "nice".

But yeah its a red flag with me and i dont let anyone do that. Theyre either immature or dont care enough about you and others to not do that if its the ill intent stuff. We either communicate and treat eachother in a healthy way or its bye.


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DostojevskijApr 21, 11:45 PM
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probably says more about me than them that i am happy to oblige

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green...

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GREEN.

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kinda green~

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ehh depends

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