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Aug 8, 2018 3:14 AM

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this is why i dont fuck with my aunts and cousins and shit

if u didnt grow up side by side then they aint ur family, they just gon use u


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GwaziMagnum said:
Yea... If she barely knows you then I suspect nefarious intent

my other aunt and her kids visited my family as children, much more often than her
her family tended to be often cold and distant at times
which saddens me because her sons are all fairly nice, as is her daughter, even if they're all significantly older than me age wise, and it makes me wish id known them better and seen them more during my childhood

she herself contrarily is quite the self absorbed elitist control freak and for that reason she definitely looks down upon her other siblings, my mother above all else

honestly if my grandma had stayed in state where my mother would probably end up being in control of the trusts, this woudknt have been as complicated, but in hindsight i think my mother would somehow be just as greedy with the trusts and even attempt to take money out of them for herself by claiming that i was too mentally ill to inherit that 20k, so im conflicted

i would prefer if it were stashed in a savings account separate from my checking account without having overly easy access to it. however it'd be under me and in my name as supposed to being under my fuckin aunt, anything is better than my aunt or mother trying to ""manage"" that money

i wish my grandma did not write her will like this
sure she had good intent but i for one don't find my elder aunt trustworthy
Aug 8, 2018 3:19 AM
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wishywoshi said:
this is why i dont fuck with my aunts and cousins and shit

if u didnt grow up side by side then they aint ur family, they just gon use u

my aunt manipulated my grandma into moving down to michigan in the first place honestly
she otherwise probably would've stayed in tx till whenever she died

the problem with trusts and wills is that the inheritor (aka the family member or in some cases the lawyer who'll end up with the majority of the loot) must be within the same state in which the holder of the assets in that respective will resides. otherwise it's basically nigh impossible to be able to communicate how thingsll be divided up one granny bites the dust

and that's exactly why my eldest aunt wanted her to move up there
and convinced her to
bitch wanted the assets
Aug 8, 2018 3:21 AM

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It's usually better to control your own finances than to let others touch it. Better control and care given that way.

That being said, my Dad still technically manages mine. But that's cause I never prodded him otherwise. I don't like spending it if its not for educational needs or emergency situations, so it just never came up for a while.
Aug 8, 2018 3:23 AM

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So your Aunt purposely rigged the will to go towards her? That's just wrong... >.<
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i didn't even realize my grandma had that much money when she died either
her husband died years earlier and he left a substantial amount to her, assuming that most of it was originally his and stashed in savings accounts

somewhat of a reflection on my paternal grandfather and grandmother's deaths is that they were both divorced for years prior to their deaths and had little assets left to give at the end of their lives, paternal grandpa worked until damn near when he died but manhattan rent is not cheap

GwaziMagnum said:
So your Aunt purposely rigged the will to go towards her? That's just wrong... >.<

she's been doing it for years
she doesn't especially always get along with her sisters
my mother is ten years younger than her, they weren't close either, and they feud
my other aunt is always called a coconspriator of the conniving one but honestly i don't think she got much out of the will either, probably because she's pushy but as a person far more modest about material things and had no desire to fight over them like my elder aunt and mom did. plus my grandma had a bias towards my elder aunt bc my younger aunt married a nonwhite (moroccan) man who was 14 years to her senior, and grandma temporarily estranged her for it out of racism… she was honestly still racist towards my uncle towards the end of her life… ironically my mother and elder aunt have both been divorced and my younger aunt is the only one who's stayed married, and happily married at that. so she did presumably get shorted in the will, but materialism and money matter less to her. meanwhile my mother and elder aunt… they like money, they like objects, and most of all, they both like trying to control everything...
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nicethings said:
wishywoshi said:
this is why i dont fuck with my aunts and cousins and shit

if u didnt grow up side by side then they aint ur family, they just gon use u

my aunt manipulated my grandma into moving down to michigan in the first place honestly
she otherwise probably would've stayed in tx till whenever she died

the problem with trusts and wills is that the inheritor (aka the family member or in some cases the lawyer who'll end up with the majority of the loot) must be within the same state in which the holder of the assets in that respective will resides. otherwise it's basically nigh impossible to be able to communicate how thingsll be divided up one granny bites the dust

and that's exactly why my eldest aunt wanted her to move up there
and convinced her to
bitch wanted the assets
how u get people to buy u shit and leave u money anyways i been living alone for 4 years and my mama didnt even buy me a loaf of bread lmao


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wishywoshi said:
nicethings said:

my aunt manipulated my grandma into moving down to michigan in the first place honestly
she otherwise probably would've stayed in tx till whenever she died

the problem with trusts and wills is that the inheritor (aka the family member or in some cases the lawyer who'll end up with the majority of the loot) must be within the same state in which the holder of the assets in that respective will resides. otherwise it's basically nigh impossible to be able to communicate how thingsll be divided up one granny bites the dust

and that's exactly why my eldest aunt wanted her to move up there
and convinced her to
bitch wanted the assets
how u get people to buy u shit and leave u money anyways i been living alone for 4 years and my mama didnt even buy me a loaf of bread lmao

bc my grandma was far more filthy stinkin rich than i predicted
and i mean she didn't move away ridiculously long ago
so proximity wise me and my sister were close to her as kids
while my cousins weren't so close
my sister and i are the only remaining grandkids who hadn't graduated college during what she predicted would be her death time
she mainly wanted us to use it on education
when it comes to uni level education (luckily im at community college) 20k isnt very much given how ridiculously expensive a semester at uni is
but every bit helps
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nicethings said:
wishywoshi said:
how u get people to buy u shit and leave u money anyways i been living alone for 4 years and my mama didnt even buy me a loaf of bread lmao

bc my grandma was far more filthy stinkin rich than i predicted
rip granma


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Aug 8, 2018 3:34 AM
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wishywoshi said:
nicethings said:

bc my grandma was far more filthy stinkin rich than i predicted
rip granma

she was my last living biological grandparent
have a step grandmother that's my paternal grandpas remarriage
her son looks like a miniature version of my dad, both him and his half brother look a lot like my grandpa despite having different mothers
i think it'd be interesting to see that side of my family more than i do, they're fun people who enjoy good food, like to party and drink
my aunts can be stiff a f esp the bitchy one, the other one is far looser but can still be hella uptight
i would rather hang out with my dads relatives bc at least i can get drunk and pretend i'm having fun
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So basically most of the family are materialistic pricks one way or another, as well as having some racism mixed in? Resulting in a feud that can then be best described as "Game of Wills"
Aug 8, 2018 3:39 AM
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well my grandma was hugely racist there's no doubting that
my elder aunt, idk how she feels

my younger aunt married a nonwhite guy which in the 70s-80s whenever they married can't remember exactly what decade it was... was considered "scandalous", she's the most liberal of them and definitely not racist

my mom does show traces of at least casual racism through making crude assumptions about nonwhite people - although i think she definitely fits more into the "ignorant racist" category - aka someone who's never really stepped outside of her wonderbread loaf and bothered to befriend people that aren't white, so she follows assumptions and stereotypes because she's never actually fully befriended a lot of nonwhite people… even so I can't say I like hearing some of her bs
Aug 8, 2018 3:49 AM

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I'm amazed how prevalent racists still are in the world honestly. We're so interconnected now with the Internet and Globalization that you'd think people would stop caring about a persons skin pigmentation.
Aug 8, 2018 3:55 AM

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it goes a lot deeper than that, prejudice and bigotry are deeply wired in human dna

also does anyone know why the mal forums were down for so long anyways? ive barely been online these past 6 months


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Aug 8, 2018 4:09 AM

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"Security issues" is all were told.
Aug 8, 2018 4:18 AM

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weeee wooii zziinngg zapputyy


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So many dark days I can’t explain"

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Aug 8, 2018 4:18 AM

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i made an account on https://www.personalitycafe.com/forum/ while mal was down

Aug 8, 2018 4:48 AM

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i dont get it brah but i really just want to know when the sequel for your small pee pee is gonna come out

mah brah has been looking forward to dat cake for a while now

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Aug 8, 2018 4:50 AM

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Please don't encourage him T_T
Aug 8, 2018 4:51 AM

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smother my face with ur hairy ass ipe


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Aug 8, 2018 4:52 AM

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@asuperiorgamer its a forum about mbti
Aug 8, 2018 4:54 AM

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you seem to be rather into the mbti stuff


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Aug 8, 2018 4:55 AM
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whats mbti?
Aug 8, 2018 4:56 AM

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my big tight item


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Aug 8, 2018 4:56 AM

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Maelstrom said:
whats mbti?

the estp in my signature is my myers briggs type indicator (mbti)
Aug 8, 2018 4:57 AM
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seems like astrology v2
Aug 8, 2018 4:58 AM

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i cant fathom why theres a whole forum based around that
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whatever mbti even is
mah brah is looking for dat cake though so you mind sending him a sequel?

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Aug 8, 2018 4:59 AM

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that forum also has a sex and relationships board (you must be logged in to see it)
Aug 8, 2018 5:00 AM

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Lessa said:
i cant fathom why theres a whole forum based around that


Places hire and fire people based on it.
The quiz has almost a cult following.
Aug 8, 2018 5:00 AM

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brah i aint about dat life

im really just interested in knowing about the unboxing 3

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Aug 8, 2018 5:00 AM

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OFC it does. SMFH ipe


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Aug 8, 2018 5:01 AM

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what the heck

idk why im surprised actually this is the internet
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@asuperiorgamer you put your mbti in your profile did you forget

intj
Aug 8, 2018 5:03 AM

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Does it mean that much tho?


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Aug 8, 2018 5:03 AM

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short answer no
Aug 8, 2018 5:04 AM

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oh so that's what it is
i didnt even care about that tbh

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Aug 8, 2018 5:05 AM

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also im still interested in knowing about the 3rd unboxing so when are you gonna link it?
@IpreferEcchi

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aSuperiorGamer said:
also im still interested in knowing about the 3rd unboxing so when are you gonna link it?
@IpreferEcchi

i already told you that ardanaz told me i cant post more on the forum

phatmamba said:
Does it mean that much tho?

its your cognitive preferences

i would say its important
Aug 8, 2018 5:06 AM

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i like it tbh the tests are cute, even if they dont hold weight they can be kinda informative and fun to compare with frens


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Aug 8, 2018 5:07 AM

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but they do hold weight

its your cognitive preferences
Aug 8, 2018 5:08 AM

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Is there any studies that show its importance? I am curious. To me it just seems like wishy said fun to compare w/ mates but probably not that much weight to em other than that.


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dem brah i meant like posting it in your profile with like a lot of warning and stuff before people click on it

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Aug 8, 2018 5:10 AM

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@asuperiorgamer i have no more figurines to unbox because im getting manga exclusively now

phatmamba said:
Is there any studies that show its importance? I am curious. To me it just seems like wishy said fun to compare w/ mates but probably not that much weight to em other than that.


its what makes you tick so how is that not important

e = energized by crowds / i = energised by one-on-one interactions
n = likes theoretical stuff / s = likes hands on stuff
f = makes decisions based on emotion / t = makes decision based on pros/cons
j = orderly / p = scatterbrained
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there goes the complete trilogy :(

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Aug 8, 2018 5:13 AM

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The original creator of the quiz was upfront about it holding no accuracy and it just being for fun.

But it got popularised by two women who doubled the categories based on their own subjective views (they had no science background) and then started pedalling it as accurate.

So yeah... It's kinda pointless.
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IpreferEcchi said:


its what makes you tick so how is that not important

e = energized by crowds / i = energised by one-on-one interactions
n = likes theoretical stuff / s = likes hands on stuff
f = makes decisions based on emotion / t = makes decision based on pros/cons
j = orderly / p = scatterbrained


but one can be all those things sometimes. ie You can both like hands on stuff and theoretical stuff.


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phatmamba said:
IpreferEcchi said:


its what makes you tick so how is that not important

e = energized by crowds / i = energised by one-on-one interactions
n = likes theoretical stuff / s = likes hands on stuff
f = makes decisions based on emotion / t = makes decision based on pros/cons
j = orderly / p = scatterbrained


but one can be all those things sometimes. ie You can both like hands on stuff and theoretical stuff.


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i think its mostly just a bell-curve, for example, on the tests you can be 49% extroverted and 51% introverted like me, meaning u tend to fall into the more introverted category more times than than the other

but i think most of the weight is invalidated, because we change with our moods, sometimes we're more extroverted than introverted and vice versa, its not practical to apply those tests to everything in life


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phatmamba said:
IpreferEcchi said:


its what makes you tick so how is that not important

e = energized by crowds / i = energised by one-on-one interactions
n = likes theoretical stuff / s = likes hands on stuff
f = makes decisions based on emotion / t = makes decision based on pros/cons
j = orderly / p = scatterbrained


but one can be all those things sometimes. ie You can both like hands on stuff and theoretical stuff.

let me put it another way

if you're an s, you attack your enemy head-on
if you're an n, you taunt your enemy
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