Unrealistic portrayal of Bocchi's issues & family

Sorvarin said:

and also @Yeagah - I specifically said "people like Bocchi" so why are trying to make something different out of this, I'm not sure.

@Gween_Gween I thought it was a good idea to start a conversation about real life "Bocchis", but looking at the responses I guess I was wrong and it'd be better to delete this thread. I assume I worded it in an especially triggering way too - not intentionally of course. Good job, I healed too. So you think it was your fault you got this way? This is not what a person should decide for themselves... that there was no reason. And what's the only implication? - that it was your own fault, is it not? I've never heard a specialist saying anything like that, ever. I don't think it's beneficial to think like that. to say the least... Anyways thank you for your chill response.

Sorvarin said:
Except for the episode where the girls visit Bocchi and her parents make a ton of toxic comments, her family is shown as a cool and loving one. It's as unrealistic as it could be. When you have a loving family, you don't become an anxious, depressed trainwreck of a person. It's always, and I mean always, a product of shit upbringing.
If you're like Bocchi, I'm sorry this show propagates the toxic idea that "this all is in your head", that this all is your own fault, that you're just some defective being that got this way for no reason except for... you know, you being you (an eyeroll). It's not your fault and you're not defective, you're not "damaged goods". You were mistreated growing up and as a result got brainwashed into subconsciously believing that you're just not worthy of any better. And it's not true, you deserve better and you are worthy. Start therapy if you can instead of thinking "if I'm supposed to find a band and become a star in order to heal then I'm doomed because that's never going to happen". If you can't start therapy, just start changing your life by believing for even 1% that you can heal... because you can. As someone who walked the walk, that 1% is all you need.
Thanks for reading, much love

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