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Aug 16, 2014 12:40 PM

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Revelry said:
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No, please be public about it and lovey dovey in threads so we can all laugh


You laugh at people's love affairs to dig yourself out of the emptiness of your soul. Poor lad.
Or he laughs because it's pitiful?
Aug 16, 2014 12:44 PM

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Women seek alpha males because their evolutionary minds that is linked to their survival instinct thinks they have the best chance to survive and pass down their genes through a real man. Hence attraction is simply a woman discovering a gem and men simply have to be men for women to see value and get attracted. That's why guys usually fail if they try to chase girls, it's a very beta thing to do because they're trying to leech value from the woman instead of being on their purpose, for an alpha male women are inevitable and they don't have to try nor do they prioritize women over their goals.
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Fo-Fai said:
Revelry said:


You laugh at people's love affairs to dig yourself out of the emptiness of your soul. Poor lad.
Or he laughs because it's pitiful?


Do you laugh at people who have friends here on MAL?
Aug 16, 2014 12:49 PM

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Nice reaction thread.
I read 3. like three times and still too lazy to understand it. Is being a trap that interesting?

lul @ all the user commentary by the op
how relentless
Aug 16, 2014 12:50 PM

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Revelry said:
Fo-Fai said:
Or he laughs because it's pitiful?


Do you laugh at people who have friends here on MAL?
No. That's not the same thing.

Flirting and blatant lovey dovey stuff pisses me off and nobody wants to read that shit when it's completely serious. It's awkward.
Aug 16, 2014 1:03 PM

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i used to get excited every time i saw a girl on the internet...however we all know that things are not always as they appear.
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Aug 16, 2014 1:10 PM

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I think there's plenty of potential for these guys to be great BF material. but they have to stop being a bit crazy and sleeping with anime body pillows and get rid of the boob mouse pad.

in other words depending on the anime crazy level determines the likelihood of BF material.
Aug 16, 2014 1:14 PM

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Aug 16, 2014 1:21 PM

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1. Do men on MAL make better boyfriends?
2. How does a girl get a MAL boyfriend?
3. What should a girl do if she finds out her MAL boyfriend is actually a girl who thought that her "girlfriend" was actually a boy masquerading as a girl?
Read more at http://myanimelist.net/forum/?topicid=1251563#s0Jj0OvAfHWAluLk.99


1. doubt it?
2. hang around irc too much, and engage in too many pms
3. hmm if that girl seems like good boyfriend material, why not? its fantasy
Aug 16, 2014 1:25 PM

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Revelry said:
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Who said we were easily obtainable? You're going to need more than "I'm cute female online, message me if you want ^_^" if you want to get me.


What are your requirements, then, hypothetically speaking?

You think I'd tell on a public forum? It'd ruin the mystery, and if I were to put it up, I'm sure it'd come back to haunt me.
Aug 16, 2014 1:28 PM

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Why do people use MAL as a dating site? You can clearly find someone irl. I always have these notifications on saying that there are hot local girls dying to meet me.
Aug 16, 2014 1:29 PM
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ThePimp said:
Revelry said:


What are your requirements, then, hypothetically speaking?

You think I'd tell on a public forum? It'd ruin the mystery, and if I were to put it up, I'm sure it'd come back to haunt me.


Well, it would have been a good tangent to discuss had you not chickened out.
Aug 16, 2014 1:30 PM
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woah... wait... people are dating over here...? ummm

1- Don't Doubt it
2- hmmmm.. by talking to them (god i'm stupid)
3- Punch him right in the nuts (oh plz man shut up, just talking to myself, no need to worry about)
Aug 16, 2014 1:31 PM

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ThePimp said:
Revelry said:


What are your requirements, then, hypothetically speaking?

You think I'd tell on a public forum? It'd ruin the mystery, and if I were to put it up, I'm sure it'd come back to haunt me.
ur name is thepimp and u have makoto as forum avatar

srsly how can it haunt you when youre like the most anonymous?
Aug 16, 2014 1:48 PM

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Tachii said:
ur name is thepimp and u have makoto as forum avatar

srsly how can it haunt you when youre like the most anonymous?

I'm actually not as anonymous as you may think
Aug 16, 2014 1:48 PM

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MasterGlyth said:

I find that hard to believe, but you never know.

As a girl you find that you get barraged with random people hitting on you in the comments section or your pms.

Such introductions can start like:
"Hai infinite-chan

First of all i want to add u as friend because i have a thing for british girls lmao"

or other such cringeworthy messages. It's easy to get sick of it and try to avoid this by pretending to be male.
Aug 16, 2014 1:53 PM

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There are no men on MAL.
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no i dont think it will work
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Aug 16, 2014 1:54 PM

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beavis2323 said:
no i dont think it will work
Not with that attitude



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Aug 16, 2014 1:55 PM

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Jennicide said:
There are no men on MAL.


I am secretly a tiny horse.
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Jennicide said:
There are no men on MAL.


Yeah, I'm actually a little girl.
Aug 16, 2014 1:57 PM

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Jennicide said:
There are no men on MAL.


Fuck they know me too well.
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Aug 16, 2014 2:05 PM

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Lime_ said:
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Maybe because I'm not asking for it at all. All my relationships seem to follow that, since I don't believe in sex before marriage...hmm, I've never really thought about that.


Hmm, I don't think I could marry someone without knowing how the sex life was. . .

What do you think holds a good marriage together in the long term? After you have heard every story, after you have fell into an unchanging routine, after you've gone through everything

A good sex life will keep things new and exciting - so how would you expect me to sign on for life with someone without knowing whether the sex is good or bad?


Interesting. Why do a man and a woman marry each other? For sex? You can do that already--without marriage.

If you have sex without marriage, what then is the purpose of marriage? To have kids? To have spouse or kid benefits?

You can do that already--without marriage. So why marry, if not for love? ;)

Sounds cliched, but honestly, why else do we marry?

Love makes sex feel good. I mean, even if you don't love each other and you're a sex god, then its going to feel great.

But if you love each other AND you're a sex god, then it's going to be 10x better. (An exaggeration, but you get the point, right?)

My father (after having the birds and bees talk) taught me how important it was to please a woman. I take it from my parents. They've been married since they were eighteen. And they're 51 already! (They had me late, when my ma was 3X). 33 years of successful, happy marriage cant go wrong. And they're still in love as they had been back when they had me.

He [my father] taught me techniques, teasing, and other forms of...sexually pleasing techniques of which my mother found highly enjoyable.

I remember his famous quote, "If you like head, know how to give it"
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Aug 16, 2014 2:12 PM

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There are no girls on the internet, don't delude yourselves
Aug 16, 2014 2:15 PM

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Revelry said:

Well, it would have been a good tangent to discuss had you not chickened out.

Alright, fine, but I need a better question since I can't think of any requirements in regards to an online user.
Aug 16, 2014 2:15 PM

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ComicConReviews said:
There are no girls on the internet, don't delude yourselves
you posted in purple, you must be a chick

wanna make out bro?
Aug 16, 2014 2:17 PM

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Fo-Fai said:
ComicConReviews said:
There are no girls on the internet, don't delude yourselves
you posted in purple, you must be a chick

wanna make out bro?


You have be an 8 or above to get with me bro. Standards.
Aug 16, 2014 2:19 PM

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GuusWayne said:
Women seek alpha males because their evolutionary minds that is linked to their survival instinct thinks they have the best chance to survive and pass down their genes through a real man. Hence attraction is simply a woman discovering a gem and men simply have to be men for women to see value and get attracted. That's why guys usually fail if they try to chase girls, it's a very beta thing to do because they're trying to leech value from the woman instead of being on their purpose, for an alpha male women are inevitable and they don't have to try nor do they prioritize women over their goals.
Stop repeating this pop psychology bullshit. It might be true for 14 year old girls. Incidentally, it tends to be 14 year old sexually frustrated nerds who have just watched their first pick-up video on YouTube that are obsessed with "alpha males". The irony is that caring whether some exhibited trait is considered good or alpha by some pop psychology handbook makes you herd-ish, or "beta".
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Aug 16, 2014 2:19 PM

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What? You like started to argue my point but then ended up agreeing with me? That's exactly the reason why I think you should have intimate relations before marriage - how would you know whether you both are sexually compatible? Finding out whether you are or aren't after you get married is too late!!

I never said the only reason to get married is for sex, just that after you're out of that lovey dovey stage, after you've told all the stories, after you've been together for 33 years of successful marriage like your parents - what's left that can still bring fire and passion? Sex



What if you marry and find out that she has Vaginismus? Or any other issues that could potentially make you guys sexually incompatible? Divorce is expensive x.x;



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Aug 16, 2014 2:22 PM
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Lime_ said:
No, think men on MAL are too obsessed with their chinese cartoons, waifus and, 2d > 3d to care about us

Men IRL are more like Guus and can give me what I really want, IF you know what I mean~

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Wait... people online date over MAL? ._.


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Aug 16, 2014 2:24 PM

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Jayex said:
Interesting. Why do a man and a woman marry each other? For sex? You can do that already--without marriage.

If you have sex without marriage, what then is the purpose of marriage? To have kids? To have spouse or kid benefits?

If you can love before marriage, what then is the purpose of marriage? You can do that already--without marriage. If you can only love after marriage, then why would you want to get married in the first place to someone you do not yet love?

So why marry, if not for retardation? ;)

Sounds cliched, but honestly, why else do we marry?
Fixed. Actually, the true purpose of marriage is social commitment, maintaining tribal hierarchy, preventing STDs through monogamy, all very relevant in the Antiquity.
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Aug 16, 2014 2:26 PM

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Lime_ said:


What? You like started to argue my point but then ended up agreeing with me? That's exactly the reason why I think you should have intimate relations before marriage - how would you know whether you both are sexually compatible? Finding out whether you are or aren't after you get married is too late!!

I never said the only reason to get married is for sex, just that after you're out of that lovey dovey stage, after you've told all the stories, after you've been together for 33 years of successful marriage like your parents - what's left that can still bring fire and passion? Sex



What if you marry and find out that she has Vaginismus? Or any other issues that could potentially make you guys sexually incompatible? Divorce is expensive x.x;


If I married a woman, only to find out she has some disease...I think I could live without sex, if I loved her. We could even adopt a child if she wanted, because although I want children, if it just isn't possible, fine, I get it.

I'm not arguing your point necessarily. Love is why we get married, sex is a result of marriage. Sex before, ruins marriage.

Think about it. You're in a relationship with someone, you do everything, you have sex, then the only thing you haven't done is get married.

So you get married. What now do you do? Kinky stuff? What happens when your sex life runs dry? You can always hope to spice it up, but honestly, without love, any relationship fails. ))
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Aug 16, 2014 2:29 PM
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lol date who ever the duck you want.

you can't judge a person without knowing him or her in person.
Aug 16, 2014 2:31 PM

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Lime_ said:

What if you marry and find out that she has Vaginismus? Or any other issues that could potentially make you guys sexually incompatible? Divorce is expensive x.x;


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Aug 16, 2014 4:37 PM

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Yes, that's the point, by the time you get married it should change nothing other than the benefits and the title

You should know you're compatible in every way, marriage is just a check-box. Marriage does not fix relationships, it doesn't open new doors, it shouldn't be a surprise, it's a very real and very serious commitment that is expensive to fix if you act hastily

I respect your decision but I feel you're wrong, you say you could understand and live with her the rest of your life with no sex, or with a poor sex life, but I doubt you've actually grasped the words you're typing.

Resentment will begin to grow every time you hear in passing either online, or through coworkers or friends, every time someone brings up sex talk and you realize you're missing out on something that could be amazing

((and please don't misunderstand, I'm not saying it'll survive on sex alone with no love, I'm saying both are equally important - missing either will slowly erode and destroy a relationship))



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Aug 16, 2014 4:43 PM

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Lime_ said:

you should have intimate relations before marriage - how would you know whether you both are sexually compatible? Finding out whether you are or aren't after you get married is too late!!



lie. it's never too late. you can divorce anytime and try again with new female.
please sell me the condom, mister
I would like to fuck my sister!
condoms really worth to keep
I will fuck her very deep!
could you be my condom keeper?
so I could try to fuck her deeper!

please think I m stupid but please dont think I m a troll.
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Siscon2000 said:
Lime_ said:

you should have intimate relations before marriage - how would you know whether you both are sexually compatible? Finding out whether you are or aren't after you get married is too late!!



lie. it's never too late. you can divorce anytime and try again with new female.


Yeah great, and money also grows on trees



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Aug 16, 2014 4:46 PM
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I think there is a legit couple who met on mal. Forgot their names tho, i think it was lowkey and some other
Aug 16, 2014 4:49 PM

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Bruh the boys here are kinda crusty, tbh. I mean I guess it's possible, but I'm not about dat lyfe.

1. They don't make worse boyfriends, wouldn't say better. I mean yeah the bishounen avy but wtf man then they send you selfies.
2. She sends n00ds.
3. That was complicated. I don't know.
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1. Pfft no, most of us dudes lie chronically about ourselves on MAL or try to be so alpha to the point that they look like pompous jackass's. Keep in mind that that large majority of MAL do only come on to kill time and not take anything seriously. You might find that diamond in the rough if you give everyone the time of day.
2. Attempting to talk more intimately about relevant topics/characteristics you find important in a partner, if they someone take it seriously try skyping them or something along those lines to see their face etc.
3. Well a lot of people say, "you love who you love" if you want to give an asexual relationship a go take a shot at it, what's the worst that could happen?
Aug 16, 2014 4:58 PM
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1. lolno
2. She would simply have to state on her profile that she was a girl.
3. This would make a good anime. I'll add it to my list of "light novels I'll write when I move to teh glorious Nippon"
Aug 16, 2014 5:41 PM
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Dude wat

I'm drunk and even so I sense that all this is bullcrap. Everyone's different, there are men who try to act like they're all innocent just to befirend females, and there are men who just are like they are in real life.

If anyone quotes this and wants to ask something , the hungover me will respond. Proabably.
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I guess it depends on what you're looking for, if you just want to have fun and lulz, yeah, it's cool to play with someone's feelings, but if you're looking for your "soulmate" and trying to find what you're lacking in real life, then the answer might be ambiguous, because unless the other person wants exactly the same as you and there are high chances to meet in real life, the outcome could be very disappointing and you might end up either frustrated or hurt. It always depends on what you're looking for.



Damn, why do I answer so seriously? WTF is going on with me?
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The takeaway is do not date over the internet boys and girls.
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1. Indifferent.
2. N00des.
NSFW

3. It'd be awkward but I'm okay with yuri.

Any takers?
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Aug 16, 2014 6:52 PM

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Damn, why do I answer so seriously? WTF is going on with me?


We lost the world cup, that's what happened.
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1. Indifferent.
2. N00des.
NSFW

3. It'd be awkward but I'm okay with yuri.

Any takers?
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Jaguer91 said:
I guess it depends on what you're looking for, if you just want to have fun and lulz, yeah, it's cool to play with someone's feelings, but if you're looking for your "soulmate" and trying to find what you're lacking in real life, then the answer might be ambiguous, because unless the other person wants exactly the same as you and there are high chances to meet in real life, the outcome could be very disappointing and you might end up either frustrated or hurt. It always depends on what you're looking for.



Damn, why do I answer so seriously? WTF is going on with me?
it shows u can love again m8
keep it up
Aug 16, 2014 7:00 PM

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Can't believe in the amount of 'yes' here
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Why am I a Berserk fan? All I ever experience is pain.

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Aug 16, 2014 7:15 PM

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men on MAL = pedophiles
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marriage said:
men on MAL = pedophiles
i can't deny that
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