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Jun 22, 2019 1:56 PM

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Stop relying on all your videos and memes to do your arguing for you. It makes you look like you got all your opinions from BuzzFeed and Youtube feminists and you have no original thoughts.

Why would OkCupid girls be wired any differently from your average girl? And from the conversations I've had with girls, that graph seems to be accurate. If you ask a girl how attractive certain guys are. They'll say something like "oh he's like a 6 or 7, he's nothing special." To guys, a 6 or 7 means you're hot. Most guys don't even consider 8+ girls remotely obtainable. The visual element to guys' attraction is so strong that all girls really need to do is not be overweight, and look friendly and most guys will be attracted to them. I've been attracted to girls who have acne in several spots but they still had a cute look to them. Looking, just at a normal looking girl with a healthy BMI showing off some skin is enough to instantly turn a guy on. Girls do not usually experience that instant, visual turn on unless the guy is very attractive.

Where the fuck did I say I have a rape fantasy? This is precisely why a lot of men can't stand feminists. Being a feminist, you should be the first one to believe that there's a sexual assault crisis right? In that case, we actually fucking agree. There's a huge problem of sexual assaults on college campuses. But feminists are responsible for it by pushing for these instant hookup societies when girls are not biologically suited to it. So hookup culture requires "confidence" but what this confidence really looks like is doing things that would be sexual assault if another guy did them. But guys are just supposed to figure out if the girl would be open to that or not, which, naturally, many men can't. So they see what other guys are doing, and imitate them, which has disastrous results. I mean, common sense just says that putting pretty young, half naked girls in a room full of horny, drunk, college guys is a stupid idea.

I'm saying that this culture, is BAD. We need to scrap it entirely. The only reason you think it works is either because you haven't actually gone to the places where this happens so you've been shielded from its effects, or you are new to it, and therefore, all you see are a bunch of attractive guys to have sex with. The only guys benefiting from this are the most attractive looking guys. Most guys are not benefiting from this at all. I know the guys who do benefit, and the vast majority of guys I meet say stuff like "I hardly ever get with girls," or "I just don't get girls" or they don't talk about it but its obvious they're not having any success because they don't have a girlfriend, they are single, and have no interest in going to bars or clubs or using Tinder, which indicates they've pretty much given up. This is what the majority of guys experience with hookup culture, those popular guys you hang out with do not represent the norm.

Yeah, I'd like to see you come down to my strip club and go on your "sex work is rape" rant. A lot of strippers I've met can't stand your type, even if they are feminists themselves.

@Sphinxter

There's 7 categories on there, its a pretty reasonable assumption to make that the middle one is average and that the three above and below are different categories of above and below average. What's incredibly telling is that not a single one of the guys made it into the most attractive category. Guys thought that more girls belonged in the "most attractive" category than girls even thought belonged in the slightly above average category.

I have zero attraction to guys. Heterosexuality is definitely real.
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Well you need to read the whole thing. I was complaining because I hadn't gone in 6 months. So I was irrationally frustrated and easy to make angry.

I can say that strippers satisfy the physical need. For some reason a lot of people don't want to say that sexual intimacy is actually a physical need but as long as you don't satisfy that physical need, your mind is not going to be right. Its like expecting a starving animal to behave normally. Its not gonna happen. I wouldn't be satisfied if I was 35 years old and had no wife and was still relying on strippers. But as a 21 year old guy, its fine for now.


I haven't had sex in 20 years. I fap 5-6 times on average daily. Highest I've ever fapped in a day is 18. During the finals last semester, I had 6 days off before the last exam and you know how many times I beat my meat in those 6 days? 80 times. In fact, right now before logging in I jerked off. The cum stains are still fresh on my shorts. DM me if you want proof. If you don't believe any of what I say, no problem; I'll give you my discord and I'll keep you updated on how many times I fap daily. And don't worry, I'm not a chronic masturbator or addicted to it. I can go without it for weeks when I'm busy with studies or life. When I'm not, well it's easy and cheap entertainment, why the fuck would I deny myself the pleasure?

So, I guess that suffices to establish that I've got a pretty high libido. I don't know if yours is greater than mine and I highly doubt that lest we be treading in the world record territory. And the surprising thing that I wanted to tell you is that ... I haven't gone insane. I don' get angry when I'm sexually frustrated instead I only get horny; and you know what I do? I jerk off. I jerk off until I stop feeling horny or until I feel like this is enough time wasted for today. And I quietly go back to my studies or my training.

Your problem is not sexual frustration. It's envy, jealousy, whatever. You're not satisfied with simply jerking off because you are angry that others have girlfriends and you've got only your hand. You deliberately immerse yourself in media which regurgitates your loneliness to your face every damn minute, and that exacerbates your discomfort. But that's partly not your fault. I live in a third world Muslim country and 20+ virgins here are the majority. Even though many people get into relationships before 20 here too, it's just not prevalent enough to be constantly on our minds. It's not a pressure I feel, even though in my inner circle we love to tease each other with these taunts. But I know people from US too who've learned how to focus on the right thing. If it troubles you so much, you can learn to focus on the right thing too. Here's a bro tip: focusing starts with reducing the bullshit noise around the thing you want to focus on. So, log out of MAL, reddit, 4chan, youtube, whatever, and get to the things that you won't be ashamed to remember in your 30s or 40s. Man up.


Go without fapping for weeks? That pretty much establishes what it is. You're fapping a lot because you're bored and just feel like it. You're not jerking off a lot because you need to. I actually find it seriously difficult to not jerk off less than 4 times a day. Sometimes my libido is a little lower and I can do two or three times a day but I physically can't go lower than that.

If I even skip one day of jerking off, my libido comes back with a vengeance the next day. I will jerk off, remain hard, like nothing happened basically, and jerk off again in a matter of five minutes and then feel the need to jerk off again an hour later. I haven't gone a week without jerking off since I was like, 12 years old. Back in high school, I jerked off 6 times a day too, now its more like 4, but 4 is really the bare minimum. I don't ever take breaks, when I say I jerk off this number of times a day, that's every day of the year for years. Its like saying you eat two meals a day. You don't ever just casually take a few weeks off from eating.

Just because we jerk off about the same amount doesn't mean that the same thing is going on in our dicks. Your dick is just very accommodating to whatever you feel like doing. The longest I ever went was five days without jerking off because my family went on vacation and I couldn't find a time to do so and I almost threw my computer against the wall for loading the screen too slowly (no I wasn't about to watch porn). Eventually, I literally told my mom she had to leave the room and let me jerk off because I was going to lose it if I didn't. I can assure you, I didn't want to have that conversation, I tried as hard as I could to last and it drove me insane. After I jerked off a couple times, I felt so much better. It was like popping a pill, everything was gone. Did I also mention, I had a wet dream on the third day in this five day span?

Its not just about ejaculation though. That's one need. I need to touch a girl and have her rub up on me and stuff like that. That's why a simple lap dance at a strip club can eliminate the sexual frustration. There's two, almost separate needs that have to get satisfied. If they get satisfied together, great, but its usually easier to treat them separately.
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We can debate over various things but you yourself agree that the incel and MGTOW communities are full of anger. Many of the MGTOW guys especially do have friends, but they are still angry. And the major theme in common here is that these guys are sexually frustrated. I've told you that in my personal experience, sexual frustration absolutely can cause irrational anger. Many guys in these communities would probably tell you that sexual frustration is why they are angry. To me it looks like a simple cause and effect situation.
On the MGTOW guys it's important to note that a good bit of them had been married and didn't like how the court nor the person they previously loved treated them. Based on this a lot of those guys held the beliefs that girls are manipulative and the society is sexist, against guys specifically. It isn't really anything sexual they got to that belief based on past experiences and there are MGTOWs like
AncapAnimeGod who do get laid. As for incels, that might be the case, but their problem that they cite is with girls having higher standards in which they and several other guys can't meet(i.e 80/20 rule). Is it sexual? Maybe, but not feeling good enough and thinking you will never live up to standards is frustrating regardless.


It would be frustrating, but if it was just rejection, then people aren't as likely to focus on it as they would to just give up. It would be like not being good at a certain sport, it wouldn't seem as important. The reason why so much of their brain-power is still put into that subject is because their mind is being aggravated. Ancap may be saying he "pumps and dumps girls" but I wonder how often that actually happens. Even if he hooks up with 10 girls a year, which, is a lot, I imagine its probably lower than that. That's still not even once a month, which, from what I've seen, is definitely enough time for it to get noticeably bad.
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Ryuk9428 said:
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On the MGTOW guys it's important to note that a good bit of them had been married and didn't like how the court nor the person they previously loved treated them. Based on this a lot of those guys held the beliefs that girls are manipulative and the society is sexist, against guys specifically. It isn't really anything sexual they got to that belief based on past experiences and there are MGTOWs like
AncapAnimeGod who do get laid. As for incels, that might be the case, but their problem that they cite is with girls having higher standards in which they and several other guys can't meet(i.e 80/20 rule). Is it sexual? Maybe, but not feeling good enough and thinking you will never live up to standards is frustrating regardless.


It would be frustrating, but if it was just rejection, then people aren't as likely to focus on it as they would to just give up. It would be like not being good at a certain sport, it wouldn't seem as important. The reason why so much of their brain-power is still put into that subject is because their mind is being aggravated. Ancap may be saying he "pumps and dumps girls" but I wonder how often that actually happens. Even if he hooks up with 10 girls a year, which, is a lot, I imagine its probably lower than that. That's still not even once a month, which, from what I've seen, is definitely enough time for it to get noticeably bad.
Saying " just rejection" is simplifying matters, they had a whole logical process and experiences on how those things happened to them that lead to the said belief. The rejection part may have got it started, but it certainly, isn't why they are keeping said belief.
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Peaceful_Critic said:
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It would be frustrating, but if it was just rejection, then people aren't as likely to focus on it as they would to just give up. It would be like not being good at a certain sport, it wouldn't seem as important. The reason why so much of their brain-power is still put into that subject is because their mind is being aggravated. Ancap may be saying he "pumps and dumps girls" but I wonder how often that actually happens. Even if he hooks up with 10 girls a year, which, is a lot, I imagine its probably lower than that. That's still not even once a month, which, from what I've seen, is definitely enough time for it to get noticeably bad.
Saying " just rejection" is simplifying matters, they had a whole logical process and experiences on how those things happened to them that lead to the said belief. The rejection part may have got it started, but it certainly, isn't why they are keeping said belief.


I think at the moment, you're saying "rejection is part of it too," and I'm saying "sexual frustration is part of it too."

I think we may actually be in agreement though, at least to a certain extent.

If you were to put it into percentages, what percentage do you think is caused by the feeling of rejection and what percentage do you think is caused by the symptoms of sexual frustration?
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Ryuk9428 said:
Peaceful_Critic said:
Saying " just rejection" is simplifying matters, they had a whole logical process and experiences on how those things happened to them that lead to the said belief. The rejection part may have got it started, but it certainly, isn't why they are keeping said belief.


I think at the moment, you're saying "rejection is part of it too," and I'm saying "sexual frustration is part of it too."

I think we may actually be in agreement though, at least to a certain extent.

If you were to put it into percentages, what percentage do you think is caused by the feeling of rejection and what percentage do you think is caused by the symptoms of sexual frustration?
Sorry, I didn't clarify, what's keeping that belief and why they are angry is because they had a whole logical process and experiences on how those things happened to them.

To answer the question:
85% rejection
15% sexual frustration
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Peaceful_Critic said:
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I think at the moment, you're saying "rejection is part of it too," and I'm saying "sexual frustration is part of it too."

I think we may actually be in agreement though, at least to a certain extent.

If you were to put it into percentages, what percentage do you think is caused by the feeling of rejection and what percentage do you think is caused by the symptoms of sexual frustration?
Sorry, I didn't clarify, what's keeping that belief and why they are angry is because they had a whole logical process and experiences on how those things happened to them.

To answer the question:
85% rejection
15% sexual frustration


Okay, if I were to give a percentage, I'd probably split it up between the high libido guys and the low-medium libido guys. For high libido guys I'd say about...

70% sexual frustration.
30% rejection.

For the medium-low libido guys I'd say its more like...

60-70% rejection.
30-40% sexual frustration.

Overall coming out to around 50-60% sexual frustration and 40-50% rejection.

I maintain that sexual frustration is probably slightly more because actually physically feeling the symptoms of something hurts more than a conscious mental process. I'm not sure to what extent the physical symptoms appear in people with low-medium libidos though so for them it might be more about rejection.
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This thread escalated fast lol.

Genuine question: Is male prostitution a rarity? From what I read a bit, everyone only refer to female prostitute in prostitution.

As for OP, you should gently tell your friend to not use tinder. As his friend, you have to try giving him what he needs. Emotional support. Invite him to go out. Hang out in cafe and such, introduce him to your other friends. If his appearance is unattractive, you can encourage him to take care of himself more, I mean, appearance is not everything. If he wants a partner, he should actively look for someone similar to him, so he can relate and connect to her emotionally. This is the most important part. Physical intimacy can follow later. What matter is help him find someone he can connect with emotionally.
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I'am pretty sure not a single women when she was a child wished to be a stipper or a hooker on some dark corner giving BJs to FAT OBESE MISOGYNISTIC FEDORA WEARING NECK BEARDS for 20$.
The only reason they are doing it is because they are economically coerced into doing it.
Prostitution is OUTLAWED in many countries for a reason. It promotes SEXUAL EXPLOITATION of women and treats them as DISPOSABLE SEX OBJECTS.

You can apply that logic to everyone anywhere anywhen, honestly.
I'm pretty sure not a single human when they were a child wished to be a wage slave on some lifeless office making fortunes for other people for a minimum wage. The only reason they are doing it is because they are economically coerced into it.
See? Are you against 'normal' work as well? Also, not every country makes prostitution illegal. Most secular countries legislate over those profiting over sex workers (pimping), not over sex workers.

Stop pretending to know what's better for other people who never asked for your input on their lives. You're just another SWERF craving for attention on an anime forum who's not even able to write a full post without resorting to videos of people more articulate than you. You're even worse than the so-called 'religious fundamentalists' you are so vehemently against. At least they are coherent regarding their views on sexuality.
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The only reason they are doing it is because they are economically coerced into doing it.
Like every single other profession on the planet? An employer performs labor against financial compensation because he needs the money to live — that is nothing new.

Also, consider using italics for emphasis; it makes one look less hysterical.


It is obvious that "obscenity" is not a term capable of exact legal definition; in the practice of the courts, it means "anything that shocks the magistrate".

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@Crzy_Minus Your friend needs to
>workout
>get haircuts, regularly
>smile more
>maybe cosplay
>a good profile picture for tinder
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EvilUnicorn said:
I'am pretty sure not a single women when she was a child wished to be a stipper or a hooker on some dark corner giving BJs to FAT OBESE MISOGYNISTIC FEDORA WEARING NECK BEARDS for 20$.
The only reason they are doing it is because they are economically coerced into doing it.
Prostitution is OUTLAWED in many countries for a reason. It promotes SEXUAL EXPLOITATION of women and treats them as DISPOSABLE SEX OBJECTS.

You can apply that logic to everyone anywhere anywhen, honestly.
I'm pretty sure not a single human when they were a child wished to be a wage slave on some lifeless office making fortunes for other people for a minimum wage. The only reason they are doing it is because they are economically coerced into it.
See? Are you against 'normal' work as well? Also, not every country makes prostitution illegal. Most secular countries legislate over those profiting over sex workers (pimping), not over sex workers.

Stop pretending to know what's better for other people who never asked for your input on their lives. You're just another SWERF craving for attention on an anime forum who's not even able to write a full post without resorting to videos of people more articulate than you. You're even worse than the so-called 'religious fundamentalists' you are so vehemently against. At least they are coherent regarding their views on sexuality.
In fairness, many Scandinavian countries are fairly secular (but also horrible moralfags) and also have absurd anti-prostitution laws. I don't think moralfaggotry is per se as tied to religion as it is often claimed to. Consider that the "SWERF" you're talking to is also a nonreligious moralfag.

Also making pimping and brothels illegal is foolish; a pimp is essentially to be seen as an agent; prostitution is of course a form of entertainment and it is typically in the interest of the entertainer to commission the services of an agent.

Brothels also naturally enhance the security of prostitutes; it's harder for violent outbursts to lead to serious damage if there are others in rooms next to one that can either inform authorities or help out themselves.

The local law here in the Netherlands is that pimping is completely legal but the employment structure must be that the prostitute employs the pimp and not in reverse — I suppose I can see some merit in that idea. Prostitutes in general cannot be employed; every prostitute must be self-employed legally speaking. They may collectively employ a pimp and rent or own a brothel for reasons mentioned afore.


It is obvious that "obscenity" is not a term capable of exact legal definition; in the practice of the courts, it means "anything that shocks the magistrate".

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Sphinxter said:
Aastra343 said:

You can apply that logic to everyone anywhere anywhen, honestly.
I'm pretty sure not a single human when they were a child wished to be a wage slave on some lifeless office making fortunes for other people for a minimum wage. The only reason they are doing it is because they are economically coerced into it.
See? Are you against 'normal' work as well? Also, not every country makes prostitution illegal. Most secular countries legislate over those profiting over sex workers (pimping), not over sex workers.

Stop pretending to know what's better for other people who never asked for your input on their lives. You're just another SWERF craving for attention on an anime forum who's not even able to write a full post without resorting to videos of people more articulate than you. You're even worse than the so-called 'religious fundamentalists' you are so vehemently against. At least they are coherent regarding their views on sexuality.
In fairness, many Scandinavian countries are fairly secular (but also horrible moralfags) and also have absurd anti-prostitution laws. I don't think moralfaggotry is per se as tied to religion as it is often claimed to. Consider that the "SWERF" you're talking to is also a nonreligious moralfag.

Also making pimping and brothels illegal is foolish; a pimp is essentially to be seen as an agent; prostitution is of course a form of entertainment and it is typically in the interest of the entertainer to commission the services of an agent.

Brothels also naturally enhance the security of prostitutes; it's harder for violent outbursts to lead to serious damage if there are others in rooms next to one that can either inform authorities or help out themselves.

The local law here in the Netherlands is that pimping is completely legal but the employment structure must be that the prostitute employs the pimp and not in reverse — I suppose I can see some merit in that idea. Prostitutes in general cannot be employed; every prostitute must be self-employed legally speaking. They may collectively employ a pimp and rent or own a brothel for reasons mentioned afore.

Yes, I do understand it's foolish to outlaw pimping, I was just alluding to how it is in some western countries, because she claims prostitution is outlawed, when in fact, it's mostly pimping that is so. I understand as well why this happens, as lawmakers think that banning pimping will put a break on sex trafficing, even if I really don't agree with them. For example, Brazil and other South American countries ban pimping, but they're still one of the biggest centres of sex trafficing in the world. That's why I think Netherlands' system is closer to being adequate, because it puts the "power" on the hands of the prostitutes, so they can seek the protection brothels offer and still not be subject to abuse and extortion from pimps.

I suppose you're right regarding what you called "moralfaggotry" not being tied to religion. I just tend to use secular as a definition when talking about these things to make clear I'm not talking about openly religious governments, but I suppose a religious government is not necessary for having moralist laws.
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EvilUnicorn said:
Aastra343 said:
You can apply that logic to everyone anywhere anywhen, honestly.
I'm pretty sure not a single human when they were a child wished to be a wage slave on some lifeless office making fortunes for other people for a minimum wage. The only reason they are doing it is because they are economically coerced into it.
See? Are you against 'normal' work as well?


Yes I'am against worker exploitation and wage slavery as well
I believe in voluntary systems like natural law resource based economy.
So like... prostitution? Where — you know — the prostitute has the option to decide for himself whether he wants to be a prostitute or any other profession?

"wage slavery" only exists if a slave receive some stipend somehow like in some forms of conscription; be the employee free to leave the employ (naturally conditioned upon the termination of the supply of the wage, duh) then there is no slavery, but paid labor.
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It is obvious that "obscenity" is not a term capable of exact legal definition; in the practice of the courts, it means "anything that shocks the magistrate".

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EvilUnicorn said:
Aastra343 said:
You can apply that logic to everyone anywhere anywhen, honestly.
I'm pretty sure not a single human when they were a child wished to be a wage slave on some lifeless office making fortunes for other people for a minimum wage. The only reason they are doing it is because they are economically coerced into it.
See? Are you against 'normal' work as well?


Yes I'am against worker exploitation and wage slavery as well
I believe in voluntary systems like natural law resource based economy.

You can believe in an utopia all you want, it still doesn't change it's an utopia.

I don't see how WORKER EXPLOITATION justifies SEXUAL EXPLOITATION of women( it's like saying slavery justifies rape). And it is sexual exploitation since women don't VOLUNTARY consent instead they are ECONOMICALLY COERCED into it.

And who told you that? Have you talked to sex workers and got that feedback from them? Or did you just hear an youtuber tell you that, therefore it must be like that? It's really condescending to women thinking they can't voluntarily consent to sex work, actually it's really patronizing. Society believed women couldn't make their own decisions decades ago, now you think the same.

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Also, not every country makes prostitution illegal.

Prostitution legality varies from country to country, but mostly remains a gray area.
And even if it was legal all around the world that wouldn't make it ok. There are countries in middle east that stone women to death or throw gay people from roof of the buildings.Does that mean that it is justified because it is legal there.
Slavery was also legal once does that mean that slavery was justified.
Source:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_by_region

You're contradicting yourself. Now you argue that laws don't mean anything, since they change over time and are susceptible to societal beliefs, which I agree with, but before you were mentioning that prostitution was outlawed in most countries as if it proved your point right.
Prostitution is OUTLAWED in many countries for a reason.

So make up your mind: either you use law as an argument, either you don't. You can't choose both sides as long as it backs up your claim.

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write a full post without resorting to videos of people more articulate than you

Since your ignorant Let me EDUCATE you.
Those things are called SOURCES if you ever debated someone or written an essay or research paper you would knew.
They can also serve as a source of additional information and it's used in order to keep content presentable and more compact.

Well, you talk as if you have plenty of experience with scientific essays, but clearly you don't. If you did, you'd know that providing sources is not the same as letting those sources do the reasoning for you, as you do. Essay is transformative work. It's basing your claims on sources (respected ones at that, not youtube videos; if I could've used any shitty person's opinion as a source, my life would've been much easier), but you doing the work of clarifying what you mean to the reader.

I can't just say "I disagree with X idea" on a paper and just put a reference to someone's book afterwards, as if it said all there is. If that were the case, why would I have written my work? If someone can just read another work to get my points, my work is meaningless. I must say why I disagree with such idea, which are my bases for doing so and how I got to that conclusion. Linking youtube videos after some capslock catchprases is not an essay, nor is it a research paper.

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Stop pretending to know what's better for other people who never asked for your input on their lives.


Then why are you telling me what to do? Doesn't that make you a hypocrite.

No. Unilke you, I'm not arguing for you to be silenced as if you are unable to make decisions for yourself and as if you should be protected from your own choices, because I know what's best for you because I read it in a book.


You're just another SWERF craving for attention on an anime forum who's not even able to write a full post without resorting to videos of people more articulate than you. You're even worse than the so-called 'religious fundamentalists' you are so vehemently against. At least they are coherent regarding their views on sexuality.


Yea yea I get it Your just another angry edgy misogynistic incel online that is relaying on insults.
I dealt with your kind before and let me tell you at least incels on reddit and twitter had more creative insults, yours are boring by comparison you need to step up your game.

I didn't resort to insults, be them creative or 'boring', unlike you, who has been harassing users and calling them misogynistic incels in all your posts on this thread. Since your first post, you're throwing buzzwords at people you don't agree with, now you wanna pose as someone better than that?
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Sorry, I didn't clarify, what's keeping that belief and why they are angry is because they had a whole logical process and experiences on how those things happened to them.

To answer the question:
85% rejection
15% sexual frustration


Okay, if I were to give a percentage, I'd probably split it up between the high libido guys and the low-medium libido guys. For high libido guys I'd say about...

70% sexual frustration.
30% rejection.

For the medium-low libido guys I'd say its more like...

60-70% rejection.
30-40% sexual frustration.

Overall coming out to around 50-60% sexual frustration and 40-50% rejection.

I maintain that sexual frustration is probably slightly more because actually physically feeling the symptoms of something hurts more than a conscious mental process. I'm not sure to what extent the physical symptoms appear in people with low-medium libidos though so for them it might be more about rejection.
If you are feeling physically hurt by it I think that's an extreme most people don't experience. Then again, I am not a guy, so it could be the case for some, you are just the first person I heard who suffers from it. I do still strongly feel it's mostly rejection as that's what those guys keep citing as their problem, and I saw no one had mention sexual frustration(especially with the MGTOW guys who want to be independent).
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In order for action to be voluntary no harm can come to you if you refuse to do said action.
For example: If worker refused to work he would starve to death.
So there for working isn't voluntary it is mandatory under capitalism.
Then again this applies to every single occupation and prostitution is no different.

Apart from that I live in a place that — de facto — has universal basic income.

So again, what does this have to with prostitution? It's the same as any other profession in this regard that indeed have one no profession then one will receive no payment.


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Jun 23, 2019 11:16 AM

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Wow your yet to debunk a single argument I said.
Your post is nothing but a mixture of incoherent rambling and straw men arguments and insults.

I am just gonna leave this video right here, it sums up your entire post quite nicely



Have a nice day.
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Jun 23, 2019 11:38 AM

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Lmao! Speaking of straw-man arguments. You are the queen of strawman arguments. You deliberately misinterpret people's arguments in every post you make.

I say that I'm pretty attracted to average looking girls, even if they have acne in several spots on their face I still find a lot of them cute.

Your response: YOU HAVE UNREALISTIC BEAUTY STANDARDS!

I tell you that there is in-fact, a sexual assault crisis on college campuses, that its being fueled by cultural factors and something needs to be done about it so that girls feel safer having sex again. Something I would think, you, as a feminist, would eat up. But no... Your response is...

YOU'RE A SICKO WHO THINKS ITS OKAY TO RAPE AND NEEDS TO GET CHEMICALLY CASTRATED!

You're a living example of why so many people hate feminism.
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Jun 23, 2019 11:53 AM

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Ryuk9428 said:


Okay, if I were to give a percentage, I'd probably split it up between the high libido guys and the low-medium libido guys. For high libido guys I'd say about...

70% sexual frustration.
30% rejection.

For the medium-low libido guys I'd say its more like...

60-70% rejection.
30-40% sexual frustration.

Overall coming out to around 50-60% sexual frustration and 40-50% rejection.

I maintain that sexual frustration is probably slightly more because actually physically feeling the symptoms of something hurts more than a conscious mental process. I'm not sure to what extent the physical symptoms appear in people with low-medium libidos though so for them it might be more about rejection.
If you are feeling physically hurt by it I think that's an extreme most people don't experience. Then again, I am not a guy, so it could be the case for some, you are just the first person I heard who suffers from it. I do still strongly feel it's mostly rejection as that's what those guys keep citing as their problem, and I saw no one had mention sexual frustration(especially with the MGTOW guys who want to be independent).


By physically hurt, its not the kind of pain you experience bumping into an object or being cut by something.

Its more like what you feel when you're getting really hungry. But it manifests itself mostly on my skin. There's a pressure that builds in-between your crotch and stomach as well that's unpleasant. Its really weird because I'll be lying in bed, and the sheets are soft so they feel kind of nice but the hunger on my skin is still there even if I actually try to rub on the sheets.
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@Ryuk9428

So your admitting that Aastra343 is your alt account.
I thought so. You two have a similar style of debate and are arguing over same points. Although I still don't understand why did you feel a need to respond from your alt account and not your main.
Do you lack balls to respond to from your main account or have you taken that castration advice that I gave you and lose them in the process.


You did it again. Another strawman argument, and an ad-hominem argument. And no Aastra is not my alt account.
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@Aastra343
Wow your yet to debunk a single argument I said.
Your post is nothing but a mixture of incoherent rambling and straw men arguments and insults.

I am just gonna leave this video right here, it sums up your entire post quite nicely

Have a nice day.

Lady, what arguments? You haven't made a single argument anywhere aside from linking youtube videos and spewing nonsense. Talking about fallacies while engaging in zero dialectic discourse is quite appalling if I do say so myself.

Alt accounts? I was trying to not say anything about you as a person, but let's just say you give feminism a bad, bad name.
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Some folks are really lacking in the selfconsciousness department.. And to think this all started because some dude couldn't get matches on tinder.. I feel sorry for him now..



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Ryuk9428 said:
Peaceful_Critic said:
If you are feeling physically hurt by it I think that's an extreme most people don't experience. Then again, I am not a guy, so it could be the case for some, you are just the first person I heard who suffers from it. I do still strongly feel it's mostly rejection as that's what those guys keep citing as their problem, and I saw no one had mention sexual frustration(especially with the MGTOW guys who want to be independent).


By physically hurt, its not the kind of pain you experience bumping into an object or being cut by something.

Its more like what you feel when you're getting really hungry. But it manifests itself mostly on my skin. There's a pressure that builds in-between your crotch and stomach as well that's unpleasant. Its really weird because I'll be lying in bed, and the sheets are soft so they feel kind of nice but the hunger on my skin is still there even if I actually try to rub on the sheets.
Oh, okay, that still seems extreme though. I think for most people it'll be less similar to actual hunger pains and more of a craving type feel. Then again, I lack knowledge on this subject, this just seems alien to me.
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My advice for him would be to get off of Tinder. It is a horrible place to find a girlfriend. It’s primarily a hookup app and is based almost all on your looks. I’m not saying your friend is ugly (which that might be the case), but him not getting any matches could be for a number of reasons. A lack of a bio or a shitty one, bad pictures, or his location. Which idk why I am even giving advice on this topic. I get matches on Tinder, but they never go anywhere.
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