Wannabiteme said:@Taroon in my opinion your approach is wrong.
I mean, look, you are good with internet/pc stuffs, right? Or you at least know how to google things?
Then you should know that kid will find what he or she wants.
And internet is everywhere:
- pc/laptop at home
- smartphones
- friends' with internet
- school
- library
- internet café
If the kid is "smart enough" he will delete all the evidences (eg. an internet history)
I'm not necessarily looking for what he wants (I have a son) but rather what he wants that is also age appropriate. It's about empowerment through information. Some parents--usually the good ones--will assess whether content is acceptable for their child to watch or read (it may be so as "this movie is rated PG-13 so my teenage child can watch it", for example). Many parents use imdb to help them with new or unfamiliar media. I wanted something similar to that but for manga.
I found my answer and am in the process of writing up my results--a guide--for other parents and adults. I think you misunderstood my post but I appreciate your response, nevertheless. Also, while I agree with you about "if there's a will, there's a way", a computer-savvy parent (or one that simply cares enough to devote a little bit of time) will be able to guard against any unwanted content. I'm not going to delve in to the ethics or the degree in which a child should be protected. My point is threefold: 1) there's ways and tools to still protect a curious, smart, and computer-savvy child from age-inappropriate content, 2) I think you misunderstood the purpose of my original post, and 3) I have found my answer.
Oh, completely off-topic but I feel obligated to mention: While I don't know your age or location, It's against the law in the US to view inappropriate content in most internet cafes and any/all public library. I could cite the law if you're curious enough (I simply need which state law you want me to cite). Similarly, it's against the law to do the same on school-grounds. Thankfully, schools, libraries, and internet cafes tend to be fairly lax with these laws and will generally penalize the person without involving the law. I'm mentioning this because, if you are school-age or know someone who is school-age that is viewing age-inappropriate content in such areas, do have such activity cease. I don't want to see you or any one else get kicked out of school or in trouble because of one's recreational (or sexual) interests. This is me having a platonic love and caring about another's future.
(Edit: Deleting history does not prevent the history to be completely deleted. There are apps for phones and programs for computers that will store that history elsewhere. Additionally, the search engine stores the searches and the identity of the searcher in case they are issued a subpoena. Internet cafes, libraries, and/or schools (and a person's workplace) will sometimes even store all internet and computer activity in their network--something that can't be deleted within the user's local computer--and will even use key-loggers sometimes.)
(Edit #2: I got to thinking, the Internet fails at expressing tone. I want to clarify my tone. I'm literally pleading with since you wouldn't have said what you said in your post unless you have some sort of experience of doing such in some form or another. I'm not trying to tell you what to do or not do but, rather, pleading with you that if you are or you know someone who is viewing questionable content in libraries, Internet cafes, or school[s] to cease doing such. It can open up a can of worms once such activity is undertaken in the pubic domain. I'm not advocating for or against you (or someone you know) viewing any specific content. I am saying if it's inappropriate (or rated M, R, or 18+) it would be the lesser evil to do so in private or at home, regardless age, because it can have serious and permanent consequences if done in the public domain. Again, I'm pleading to you or any reader, if it's applicable please, please heed my words.) |