She only talks to me when she needs something. But when I talk to her about casual stuff, she takes a long time to reply and replies with short answers.
Here-Hear said: She doesn't seem interested |
| Sounds like you're been used. Stop been beta op drop that shit like its hot. |
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Drugs said: honestly - move on. I know that's easier said than done, but she isn't interested Drugs said: honestly - move on. I know that's easier said than done, but she isn't interested Drugs said: honestly - move on. I know that's easier said than done, but she isn't interested Drugs said: honestly - move on. I know that's easier said than done, but she isn't interested |
| Everyone, after thinking it over, I have just decided to ignore her texts, avoid her in person if possible, and just move on. Sure, shes gonna give me something like ¨Wow, some friend you are for not helping me. I guess youre not that good a person as I thought¨. Also, I have seen her text other people casually with a smile and all. I just wanted casual texts as well, but I guess thats too much. |
| Oh she's just a friend then. Well maybe Mayuka is right (sorry to you Mayuka). You must be pretty close with her as a friend if you have her number or social media. Just help her out wtf man. Maybe you'll have a normal conversation when you're actually face to face doing stuff together. I'm sure she'll find it comfortable to talk while you're there instead of just sitting in silence. Anime forums man, sheesh. |
Trance said: I'm a guy and I can imagine buttfucking another guy. I don't find the thought repulsive, and I can even imagine kissing another man. |
Dick_Dawkins said: Oh she's just a friend then. Well maybe Mayuka is right (sorry to you Mayuka). You must be pretty close with her as a friend if you have her number or social media. Just help her out wtf man. Maybe you'll have a normal conversation when you're actually face to face doing stuff together. I'm sure she'll find it comfortable to talk while you're there instead of just sitting in silence. Anime forums man, sheesh. a friend wouldn't treat you this way either. only having time for when they need you, but never having time when you need them if you're going out of your way like this, time and again, without any sort of response, then it's best to cut ties. |
| But I am attracted to her. I wanna be more than friends. Obviuosly, if I cant even have casual conversations with her, then this is going nowhere. She asking for my help over and over makes it feel like if im just there for that, only called for when im needed and not for the fun stuff. If she has a party, I probably wont be invited, etc. |
cause said: Dick_Dawkins said: Oh she's just a friend then. Well maybe Mayuka is right (sorry to you Mayuka). You must be pretty close with her as a friend if you have her number or social media. Just help her out wtf man. Maybe you'll have a normal conversation when you're actually face to face doing stuff together. I'm sure she'll find it comfortable to talk while you're there instead of just sitting in silence. Anime forums man, sheesh. a friend wouldn't treat you this way either. only having time for when they need you, but never having time when you need them if you're going out of your way like this, time and again, without any sort of response, then it's best to cut ties. that type of shit is common tbh. lots of people are pretty solipsistic that way |
Mayuka said: did you call holier than thou bitch right here last.fm |
ooo333 said: But I am attracted to her. I wanna be more than friends. Obviuosly, if I cant even have casual conversations with her, then this is going nowhere and she asking for my help over and over makes it feel like if im just there for that, only called for when im needed. If she has a party, I probably wont be invited, etc. then don't bother this is like worse then a friendzone you're like the dude she asks when she needs her printer fixed. |
cause said: ooo333 said: But I am attracted to her. I wanna be more than friends. Obviuosly, if I cant even have casual conversations with her, then this is going nowhere and she asking for my help over and over makes it feel like if im just there for that, only called for when im needed. If she has a party, I probably wont be invited, etc. then don't bother this is like worse then a friendzone you're like the dude she asks when she needs her printer fixed. I was thinking that. I was wondering if there existed a zone between the stranger zone and the friendzone. |
| Yeah but this is just basic interaction 101. The time you want with her is to have casual chat over texts. If you actually go to see her she won't ignore you, nor will she talk about work the whole time. You'll bond and then have casual chat naturally. Go once and see what you talk about. Or you can keep wanting to try and ask her casual things on the phone. |
Trance said: I'm a guy and I can imagine buttfucking another guy. I don't find the thought repulsive, and I can even imagine kissing another man. |
Dick_Dawkins said: Yeah but this is just basic interaction 101. The time you want with her is to have casual chat over texts. If you actually go to see her she won't ignore you, nor will she talk about work the whole time. You'll bond and then have casual chat naturally. Go once and see what you talk about. Or you can keep wanting to try and ask her casual things on the phone. naw I doubt it. worth trying before giving up but I doubt it'll be anything besides closure |
Mayuka said: did you call holier than thou bitch right here last.fm |
| *pulls out wooden paddle* Cucks get spanked, stop acting like one |
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ooo333 said: cause said: then don't bother this is like worse then a friendzone you're like the dude she asks when she needs her printer fixed. I was thinking that. I was wondering if there existed a zone between the stranger zone and the friendzone. yeah its the guy she asks to fix the printer at the end of the day, you're just there to fix the printer if she's not interested, she's not interested bro it happens the best thing you can do as a person is keep living your life and moving forward. and who even knows, maybe that kind of thing will entice her towards you. it happens sometimes. a girl that wants independent men, isn't going to date a guy that is basically on a leash. and vice versa. but don't get hung up on her. just keep your head high and don't look back. you can keep her around, but don't make her your priority. |
ooo333 said: if she's giving you this treatment there is nothing you can do - the mindset that there are some magic words or some action you can take to make a girl that is completely uninterested suddenly interested in you is wrong almost every timeBut I am attracted to her. I wanna be more than friends. Obviuosly, if I cant even have casual conversations with her, then this is going nowhere. She asking for my help over and over makes it feel like if im just there for that, only called for when im needed and not for the fun stuff. If she has a party, I probably wont be invited, etc. I know it sucks, but it's a fact of life - you're only setting yourself up for more disappointment by playing those "what if I do x" scenarios in your head |
| Op you say she asks for your help over and over. Have you actually taken her up once on an offer and gone? Details are critical. Example: It's kind of rude if she's constantly inviting you round to study or something and all you want to do is talk about new films that have come out. |
Trance said: I'm a guy and I can imagine buttfucking another guy. I don't find the thought repulsive, and I can even imagine kissing another man. |
Rarusu_ said: damn, I guess everybody is having printer problemsNext time she needs you for something, you could always text back that you are busy with another girl. Hur, hur, hur, hur |
Drugs said: Rarusu_ said: damn, I guess everybody is having printer problemsNext time she needs you for something, you could always text back that you are busy with another girl. Hur, hur, hur, hur im here to fix your printer ma'am ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) |
Ravioli_Ravioli said: dump her for Stacy's mom. STACY'S MOM HAS GOT IT GOING ONNNNNN |
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| But yeah everyone. Im finally moving on. But she is going to be really ticked because she will need my help alot in the next couple of months, but im done. |
| yeah tell her to fix her own printer |
Dick_Dawkins said: Op you say she asks for your help over and over. Have you actually taken her up once on an offer and gone? Details are critical. Example: It's kind of rude if she's constantly inviting you round to study or something and all you want to do is talk about new films that have come out. She asks me for help with school paper. She has a class where the proffessor asks for many paper. She was averaging a D plus , and now because of me, shes averaging an A minus, plus me sacrificing my schedule for her |
Wensbane said: There's a 99% chance she'll give you the old "I only see you as a friend" at which point you just say "I can tell. That's why I'm cutting ties. Peace!" and instantly delete her contact. Have fun. This is just so so so so so so much win. OP you should definitely do that, it'll either teach her a lesson or make her apologize in which case YOU will have the last laugh by not even replying back |
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| HAHAHAHAAH, you guys give the best advices xD Another dilemma. Theres only one month left. If I stop helping her, I think that would look bad on me, somewhat irresponsible. So should I cut my ties or just bite the wound and finish the job? |
ooo333 said: Dick_Dawkins said: Op you say she asks for your help over and over. Have you actually taken her up once on an offer and gone? Details are critical. Example: It's kind of rude if she's constantly inviting you round to study or something and all you want to do is talk about new films that have come out. She asks me for help with school paper. She has a class where the proffessor asks for many paper. She was averaging a D plus , and now because of me, shes averaging an A minus, plus me sacrificing my schedule for her ooo333 said: lol fair enough. Dick_Dawkins said: Op you say she asks for your help over and over. Have you actually taken her up once on an offer and gone? Details are critical. Example: It's kind of rude if she's constantly inviting you round to study or something and all you want to do is talk about new films that have come out. She asks me for help with school paper. She has a class where the proffessor asks for many paper. She was averaging a D plus , and now because of me, shes averaging an A minus, plus me sacrificing my schedule for her That wouldn't happen to me because before I go I'd ask if we can hang out a bit more, and what to do tommorow, stuff like that. You should have seen if she didn't even want you as a friend. But if she did want to date and she's not a hoe she wouldn't have went out guns blazing offering you out to dinner and shit, she still would have started with an innocent school study where she can bail if you turn her down. |
Trance said: I'm a guy and I can imagine buttfucking another guy. I don't find the thought repulsive, and I can even imagine kissing another man. |
| Bail, you're supposed to teach her a lesson. |
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ooo333 said: you don't owe her anythingHAHAHAHAAH, you guys give the best advices xD Another dilemma. Theres only one month left. If I stop helping her, I think that would look bad on me, somewhat irresponsible. So should I cut my ties or just bite the wound and finish the job? |
ooo333 said: She asks me for help with school paper. She has a class where the proffessor asks for many paper. She was averaging a D plus , and now because of me, shes averaging an A minus, plus me sacrificing my schedule for her I'm feeling physical pain over how men allow themselves to be used by women. I think me and you op gonna need to take a drive, show you how to regain some of that manhood |
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| Maybe she isnt a very chatty person, but if she only acts that way towards you then she might just not be that interested or just busy. |
| She wants to touch me woah oh |
| When this happens to me, I wait for when they need something and talk to me next. Then I make sure I only reply with "ok" , "yeah" , "yes" , and "no." |
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| It kinda sounds like you expect her to like you for helping her with her homework.;; Why don't you call her instead of texting her? Personally, I can only talk to someone casually through texts and such after I know I'm comfortable hanging with them in person. I'll try a little harder if I only know them online, but it's hard. If I'm not comfy with you in person, then I'll probably only type something long if I need something or I can think long about what I want to say and am on my own time. If someone tries to talk to me casually and I don't know them well enough in person, then yeah, I'm probably just going to give short answers.;; Just talk to her more in person. Seriously. |
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