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Aug 1, 2013 9:38 AM

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Karpman said:
Next thing you know people are going to start asking if they are getting insulted when a girl waves at them.

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Aug 1, 2013 11:18 AM

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yeah it is. at least we mean it as a compliment. i usually call guys cute, i don't ever recall calling a guy "hot" or something along those lines.
Aug 1, 2013 12:15 PM

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It depends on how they say it but generally I will take what I can get.
Aug 1, 2013 12:38 PM

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Lord_Joshua said:
if a girl calls you cute


your gona get stuck in the friendzone forever


Happened to me.
Aug 1, 2013 12:55 PM

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A girl called me cute when I did a certain thing. That's not really a compliment or an insult. It wasn't friendzoning because I made it pretty clear that I'm not looking for a relationship. It's a good thing she wasn't either. I would have felt harsh otherwise.
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Aug 1, 2013 1:04 PM
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I take it as a compliment.
Aug 1, 2013 3:20 PM

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IRenegade said:
Lord_Joshua said:
if a girl calls you cute


your gona get stuck in the friendzone forever


Happened to me.


Either you didn't get your desires across to her or she didn't see you as a sexual partner. I don't think it was just because she called you cute. Friendzoning is common, we do it and it happens to us.
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Aug 1, 2013 4:21 PM

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ZooCrew said:
IRenegade said:
Lord_Joshua said:
if a girl calls you cute


your gona get stuck in the friendzone forever


Happened to me.


Either you didn't get your desires across to her or she didn't see you as a sexual partner. I don't think it was just because she called you cute. Friendzoning is common, we do it and it happens to us.


I think what I desired was clear to everybody.
Little too young for us to be in a sexual relationship, unless she's that type of girl.. In that case, I'm glad I was rejected.
Aug 1, 2013 4:25 PM

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Depends on the context, like anything else, but in most situations I'd say it would be a compliment.
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Aug 1, 2013 4:26 PM

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Oh right, I'm probably older than a fair amount of the people on here.
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Aug 1, 2013 4:29 PM

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ZooCrew said:
Oh right, I'm probably older than a fair amount of the people on here.


Not sure if this was aimed at me since you didn't quote..
Anyway, yeah. I'm only 14.
Aug 1, 2013 4:31 PM

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IRenegade said:
ZooCrew said:
Oh right, I'm probably older than a fair amount of the people on here.


Not sure if this was aimed at me since you didn't quote..
Anyway, yeah. I'm only 14.


Oh , yeah it was haha. I can see where your coming from now ah.
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Aug 1, 2013 4:50 PM

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SlothieSloth said:
Not as bad as one of your friends telling you you would've been a pretty girl.


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Aug 1, 2013 5:10 PM

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I wouldn't really call it as an insult, but I think it's their other term of telling a male they "look nice" or something... I've never been called cute; only "You look nice" and other basic things a girl would tell other guys. I would kinda say it would be a compliment, but I think it's either both an insult or a compliment, depending how they say it and the situation. I dont know much really about that... just my thought on it.

Aug 1, 2013 5:17 PM

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If a girl calls you cute she actually means "damn u ugly" and when she calls you handsome she actually means "damn u not that ugly". Trust me I'm a girl I know these things.
Aug 1, 2013 7:40 PM

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kstadtfeld said:
If a girl calls you cute she actually means "damn u ugly" and when she calls you handsome she actually means "damn u not that ugly". Trust me I'm a girl I know these things.


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Aug 1, 2013 8:43 PM

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Goryo said:
kstadtfeld said:
If a girl calls you cute she actually means "damn u ugly" and when she calls you handsome she actually means "damn u not that ugly". Trust me I'm a girl I know these things.


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Aug 1, 2013 9:04 PM

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kstadtfeld said:
If a girl calls you cute she actually means "damn u ugly" and when she calls you handsome she actually means "damn u not that ugly". Trust me I'm a girl I know these things.

how do you know these things
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Aug 1, 2013 9:34 PM

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well for me it depends on the situation.
It's a compliment unless she has the D.
Aug 1, 2013 9:35 PM

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It could be:
You're cute but too childish to be my boyfriend.
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Aug 1, 2013 9:51 PM

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I had a bad falling out with the last girl who called me cute. Maybe that's a sign of something...

Aug 1, 2013 10:03 PM

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It's obviously a compliment. "Look at that cute guy over there" translates to "I'd take his D".

At least where I live..

Oh, and this may seem a bit conceited, but every time I go on Chatroulette, I get people who say I'm cute. And they always stick around to chat or... do other things with me. Sooo... I don't think it's a particularly a bad thing.

And I'm going to make an assumption, call bullshit if you want, I don't really care, but I have a suspicion that half the people here have never even been called cute by a girl. And are thus creating some sort of subconscious distaste and qualm with the term out of jealousy and disappointment, putting up a mental negative bias in order to make themselves feel better about not ever being called cute.

Sour grapes, if you will.
Aug 1, 2013 10:05 PM

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Because every time a girl calls a guy cute they only think the exact same thing right?
No man its solely depends on the situation. It can be used to imply she wouldn't fuck you but it could just as easily mean something else....
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Aug 1, 2013 10:12 PM

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If by cute she means she'd like to sit on my dick, then yes, it's a compliment.
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Aug 2, 2013 12:44 AM

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IRenegade said:
SlothieSloth said:
Not as bad as one of your friends telling you you would've been a pretty girl.

Worst feeling in the world.

Aug 2, 2013 1:43 AM

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Erm, it can mean quite a few different things, cute doesn't have to mean anything to do with looks.

But it's not really something I'd ever say to a guy, it's more something I'd say about a guy to one of my girlfriends.
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Aug 2, 2013 2:48 AM

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Nicole said:
But it's not really something I'd ever say to a guy, it's more something I'd say about a guy to one of my girlfriends.


So how would you complement a guy?
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Aug 2, 2013 2:55 AM
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To all the girls. Guys do not like being called cute so please never say that.
Aug 2, 2013 2:57 AM

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Radiation_ said:
To all the girls. Guys do not like being called cute so please never say that.


I actually don't mind because I'm not insecure with myself.
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Aug 2, 2013 4:25 AM

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Goryo said:
Radiation_ said:
To all the girls. Guys do not like being called cute so please never say that.


I actually don't mind because I'm not insecure with myself.


Exactly, if you can't take a girl calling you cute as a compliment or use it as a link to a more 'highstakes' conversation (so to speak) then your definitely insecure.
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Aug 2, 2013 4:46 AM

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I only call a guy cute on occasion, but usually the guys I refer to as cute are a lot younger than me anyway so I'd be surprised if they thought I was flirting with them .______. but I never mean it in a degrading way.
Aug 2, 2013 5:42 AM

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Girl: "You're cute"
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Aug 2, 2013 6:44 AM

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aspampanzer said:
Nicole said:
But it's not really something I'd ever say to a guy, it's more something I'd say about a guy to one of my girlfriends.


So how would you complement a guy?


If I wasn't in a relationship with him, I probably wouldn't compliment him, at least not to someone I didn't know very well, even if I felt that he was good-looking etc etc.
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Aug 2, 2013 10:08 AM

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I actually read some posts in here. Seriously, mal, wtf?
Aug 2, 2013 10:16 AM

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Shoryuuken said:
I actually read some posts in here. Seriously, mal, wtf?
Why post this? If you want a decent response, say why you think that the posts are bad. The previous posts are a lot better than ones like yours.
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Aug 2, 2013 12:29 PM

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Nicole said:
aspampanzer said:
Nicole said:
But it's not really something I'd ever say to a guy, it's more something I'd say about a guy to one of my girlfriends.


So how would you complement a guy?


If I wasn't in a relationship with him, I probably wouldn't compliment him, at least not to someone I didn't know very well, even if I felt that he was good-looking etc etc.


I wish to have a girlfriend like you. Atleast your guy will live having a peace of mind even if you both aren't together.
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Aug 2, 2013 12:32 PM

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Shoryuuken said:
I actually read some posts in here. Seriously, mal, wtf?

what did you expect from this topic?
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Aug 2, 2013 2:16 PM

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If you get called cute you probably either did something funny or sweet or you are friend zoned.

Probably friend zoned. Congrats!
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Goryo said:
Radiation_ said:
To all the girls. Guys do not like being called cute so please never say that.


I actually don't mind because I'm not insecure with myself.


I just don't like being called cute. Quit speculating bud.
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Radiation_ said:
Goryo said:
Radiation_ said:
To all the girls. Guys do not like being called cute so please never say that.


I actually don't mind because I'm not insecure with myself.


I just don't like being called cute. Quit speculating bud.
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Aug 2, 2013 3:42 PM

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oh man. I haven't heard anyone told me I'm good looking. All just cute, so it proves I'm really ugly then. </3
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Nicole said:
aspampanzer said:
Nicole said:
But it's not really something I'd ever say to a guy, it's more something I'd say about a guy to one of my girlfriends.


So how would you complement a guy?


If I wasn't in a relationship with him, I probably wouldn't compliment him, at least not to someone I didn't know very well, even if I felt that he was good-looking etc etc.


Alright, so assuming you did know him well, what complement would you give?

Good on you for not complementing people you don't know btw
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I'm glad you shared some of your intelligence with us. Was that directed at yourself, to the OP, to everyone on MAL, or to the topic herein?
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Yeah, I wouldn't see how that would be an insult.
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If a girl calls a guy cute, is it a compliment?
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Aug 3, 2013 6:15 PM
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Cute?!!! Zehahahahahaha


It means he is more like a toy to her.

I mean it she is fooling YOU niqqa!
Aug 3, 2013 7:43 PM

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Radiation_ said:
Goryo said:
Radiation_ said:
To all the girls. Guys do not like being called cute so please never say that.


I actually don't mind because I'm not insecure with myself.


I just don't like being called cute. Quit speculating bud.


Quit making generalizations pal.
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Aug 3, 2013 8:03 PM

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Generally not, unless said girl is into cute > hot.

Being called cute as a guy is like being call handsome to a girl. I'm sure handsome is the least favorable compliment a girl would like to receive.
Aug 3, 2013 8:09 PM

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"cute" in what aspect, it depends. Some dont like being called cute, but some are just "okay".
But as long as I live here, guys here are okay and take it as compliment if I say anything good about them, whether it's cute, handsome, hot, clever, etc
Even when I call them assholes tho, but it's just sometimes.
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Sure is a whole lot of jealousy or paranoia in this thread.

Some guys are just cute; it doesn't mean I think they're ugly, and it doesn't mean I wouldn't date them. It isn't something I would actually use as a compliment directly to a person though. It's kind of an awkward compliment due to people using it as an insult, and even when in a friendly context, it's still awkward to properly say.

Take Hao for example, he's a professional Dota 2 player.

He's cute, and I would totally do him.
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