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Aug 11, 2010 2:50 PM

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alyssav said:
I'd rather be alone, so I watch Anime.
Yeah ^^
Well, I like to be alone more than hanging out. Sometimes, I go to socialize with friends but often I just turn them down when they call me to some party. If going out already, I would rather go sit in a nice cafe and have a chat with them...
Aug 11, 2010 4:15 PM

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Both, sometimes I like being alone and other times I really enjoy being around friends.
Aug 11, 2010 7:48 PM
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I prefer to be with friends as much as I can when I can. All of my friends now live in a different state since I moved away. So whenever I can I go back home to visit and am with them non stop. Good times =)
Aug 11, 2010 10:34 PM

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It really depends on if I feel like being with friends or not so ill just say both.
Aug 11, 2010 10:43 PM

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It feels kind of lame saying this, but on most days i would rather be by myself than hanging out with friends. i feel like if i hang out with friends we are usually doing something one of us enjoys or just doing something to pass time rather than having a good time. when i am by myself i can do whatever i want, and i dont have to worry if the other person is having a good time, but i do also think hanging out with friends can be great, some of my best memories have been from hanging out with friends.
Aug 11, 2010 11:25 PM

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Both, I'm independent in the sense that if I were to be alone I could do something productive with my time, but being with friends is nice as well.

I like my friends, but I'm honestly the kind of person that needs alone time, as I have a very clingy best friend.
Aug 11, 2010 11:31 PM

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Believe me when I say I cherish my alone time, but I wouldn't want to be alone forever.

Aug 11, 2010 11:33 PM

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I chose with friends, which is only really part true. The person I really like to spend time with is my girlfriend and we spend most days with just the two of us. So it's like alone with a friend lol
Aug 12, 2010 6:33 PM

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I think i spend most of my time alone...not like every minute but its not like i don't like my friends...it would more be that most of my friends and I have different interests and although i love being together with them to laugh and joke...they would rather go out drinking and clubbing...where as i would rather watch anime and chill out
...i think if i had a friend that shared a love of anime/manga/cosplay Japan and such then i would spend more time with them...but i don't really know anyone :(
...tho i really do like being alone to daydream and ponder things >< i woulnt say i socialize a great deal with family either sooo =|

Aug 12, 2010 10:51 PM

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It depends on my mood and which friends to but I like having a good time with my close friends, and also I like having 'me' time.
Aug 13, 2010 8:11 AM

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Let see, I enjoy my time alone very much but I don't like to be stay away from my best friends for a long time. I don't like to see my best friends be friend with others. So I guess, I'm really protective about my best friends and won't allow them to leave me.
Aug 13, 2010 9:28 AM

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umm.. both. but most of the time i spend alone.. i wish i had friends who wanted to do some other stuff too rather than gossip and shop.! TT
Aug 13, 2010 10:32 AM

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I choose both I dont think i can live without one or the other
Aug 13, 2010 10:49 AM
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I like being alone, it's more comfortable for me. Being around people makes me nervous. Do I like being alone? That's a different matter.
Aug 13, 2010 10:54 AM

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It depends what mood I'm in. I love being alone and being independant but I also love my family and friends. I rarely feel lonely.
My friends are pretty laid back so if we just spend time together not talking it doesn't get awkward. I'm a lucky girl xD
Aug 13, 2010 12:49 PM

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I don't think I've answered this question yet.

I would be happy as a clam if I could hang out and communicate with my friends as frequently as possible. Now I'm looking at many of these posts and I'm kinda surprised that so many people would prefer to have more alone time. I mean I don't usually have the privilege to hang out with my friends because either none of our schedules match or I would feel too busy/stressed/tired from school or work. Sometimes my friends would have their own plans on days I feel like would be a good opportunity to hang out. I also seem to be the only one of my friends to usually take the extra mile in terms of arranging hangs, figuring out where to meet, when to meet, and even finding ways to get everyone to assemble.

It's a hassle being the walking planner, but I have few friends to hang out with and it's even harder to make friends because I don't seem to be that charismatic of a person. And frankly I'm jealous of peers who have tons on friends and none of them have a problem going anywhere at anytime to have fun. They never seem to have to make any extra effort to plan hangs in order to meet everyone's conditions.
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Aug 13, 2010 2:18 PM

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prefer being alone with peace and quiet
Aug 13, 2010 5:33 PM

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I probably spend most of my time alone, and while that's all well and good, I get pretty bored after a certain amount of time with no one around so I like to see my friends fairly often, although most of the time I manage fine on my own :P
Kind of depends how close I am to the friends in question, too.

But I love spending time with my brothers, too - they live away from home so I don't see them all the time, but I get along with them real well so when they're around, I'd much rather be around them than kill time by myself!
Aug 13, 2010 7:16 PM

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Need a balance of being with friends and being alone. Only being with friends or only being alone would be madness...
Aug 13, 2010 7:42 PM

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Zaikin said:
Need a balance of being with friends and being alone. Only being with friends or only being alone would be madness...


^ same.. i love my friends. but sometimes i just have to be alone..
Aug 13, 2010 7:45 PM

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I prefer being alone, but every couple of days I invite a bunch of friends over.
Aug 13, 2010 8:12 PM

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every person needs a privacy sometimes. so yeah sometimes i like being alone
Aug 13, 2010 8:15 PM

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Depends.

While I am gaming or alike, I'm constantly speaking to another living being over Skype. When it comes to the real life, I'd prefer being alone.
Aug 13, 2010 8:21 PM

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Most of the time I like being alone unless I have a good friend that I share interests with, which I don't, unfortunately. But I have friends to hang out with every other weekend. I'll start to feel a little lonely if I don't go out every so often. So yeah, human contact is good, we're social creatures after all. We'll go insane without it one way or another.




Nov 6, 2010 4:43 PM
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good mood - with friends
bad mood - alone
So i spend more time with friends than alone :D
Nov 6, 2010 4:53 PM

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seishi-sama said:
I'd prefer being with my family. Unlike friends, family members don't require constant interaction, and anything is better than being alone in my opinion.
Nov 6, 2010 4:58 PM
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tehnominator said:
It depends on the friends, really.

Some I'd like to stay with all the time, and others make me want to find the nearest cave and seal myself shut from the inside.


This.
Nov 6, 2010 5:17 PM

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Friends are fun and fascinating, but my privacy and independence are more treasured. Being alone isn't boring and/or depressing at all!
Nov 6, 2010 10:24 PM
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Alone. Most of my friends ignore me anyways... At least when I'm alone I can do whatever I want.
Nov 9, 2010 3:59 AM

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I prefer with my friends because I spend most of my time with them :P


Nov 9, 2010 4:59 AM

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I would really prefer being with friends. For me it would be sad to be alone.
Nov 9, 2010 10:41 AM

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Alone

Well , infact I have only 3 friends for alot of years , and I am a loner sometimes when I feel like it , but having a lot of friends (like more then 5) is bad , I mean , when you have a lot of friends , you must have one of them are enemy
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Nov 9, 2010 2:02 PM

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I cherish time with friends, but am more of a loner with my free-time. It seems like no matter what I do someone intervenes with my plans to stay inside and do nothing all day :p.
Nov 9, 2010 2:12 PM

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I love being with my friends. I try to be with them more then be alone actually. When I'm with my friends I'm happy and outgoing. There are times when I do need my alone time, but whenever I'm alone everything comes back to me and I get really upset.
Nov 12, 2010 1:27 AM

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Three years ago, when I entered a new school, I couldn't seem to get along with them, and they don't like me because of my look : So, I had been alone for one year and six months, not even with my family, I didn't talk to anyone during that time. Starting from June of last year,I changed and started to enjoy being with others. :D But now, I'm starting to feel like being alone again.
Nov 12, 2010 1:42 AM

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Sometimes I'm really enjoying myself when I have friends around, but I need also a time on my own. It's relaxing spend some time alone when you've been hanging with people long time and vice versa.

Like now, I have spent a week at my friends house, today leaving home and I'm so looking forward to have some time to being alone, even I still love my friends over here!

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