So.. someone I used to work with hit me up online on a "dating" website (ok, ok, it's usually a hookup site). Problem is, he's a married man and I've met his wife.. and daughter. He was all like "Is it weird to see me on here? I totally want to meet up with you still though.. Was always into you when we were at work.." Eww.. eww eww eww.. And his poor wife. *sigh* Now if I was at all into him physically/sexually i'm not sure it would be different. I've had offers to be a third or to be a side-thing with the other spouse consenting but never jumped at the opportunity. Would you? Would you knowingly be "the other woman?" Just curious. |
| you a woman OP? |
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| Hell no |
| I don't know if you know this but mal is also a hook up site ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) OT: No I wouldn't |
Dojourei said: you a woman OP? Nope. |
| Never. There's plenty of other available men out there Especially with kids, that's just wrong on all levels |
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| No. |
| ewwwww I'd rather be the main one or none. Oh well I'm a male... |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
| I was this girl's surrogate boyfriend one time. It was unpleasant. So no. |
| Better title: Are you a slut? |
| No. |
| Better pay up for all dis |
   I envy your delusion; I wish I could live in it  |
aloricg said: I'm lost here, might wanna edit the OP . . . It makes it sound like you are a girl, and some married dude with a kid hit you up saying he used to be attracted to you. Maybe make this a hypothetical situation?So.. someone I used to work with hit me up online on a "dating" website (ok, ok, it's usually a hookup site). Problem is, he's a married man and I've met his wife.. and daughter. He was all like "Is it weird to see me on here? I totally want to meet up with you still though.. Was always into you when we were at work.." Eww.. eww eww eww.. And his poor wife. *sigh* Now if I was at all into him physically/sexually i'm not sure it would be different. I've had offers to be a third or to be a side-thing with the other spouse consenting but never jumped at the opportunity. Would you? Would you knowingly be "the other woman?" Just curious. |
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Fo-Fai said: Better title: Are you a slut? Fuyukai desu. |
Pirating_Ninja said: aloricg said: I'm lost here, might wanna edit the OP . . . It makes it sound like you are a girl, and some married dude with a kid hit you up saying he used to be attracted to you. Maybe make this a hypothetical situation?So.. someone I used to work with hit me up online on a "dating" website (ok, ok, it's usually a hookup site). Problem is, he's a married man and I've met his wife.. and daughter. He was all like "Is it weird to see me on here? I totally want to meet up with you still though.. Was always into you when we were at work.." Eww.. eww eww eww.. And his poor wife. *sigh* Now if I was at all into him physically/sexually i'm not sure it would be different. I've had offers to be a third or to be a side-thing with the other spouse consenting but never jumped at the opportunity. Would you? Would you knowingly be "the other woman?" Just curious. LOL. |
mayukachan said: Hell no But the responses are so much fun to watch, no? |
| So, just to clarify.. Do you all really think "straight" married men don't go on gay hookup/cruising/dating websites..? Cuz it's pretty common. |
aloricg said: So, just to clarify.. Do you all really think "straight" married men don't go on gay hookup/cruising/dating websites..? Cuz it's pretty common. MHmmm, more options |
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| Aww man you about to get some man ass OP |
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| Do you mean Side-Waifu Mistress or S&M Mistress? :O |
| End Zionazism |
| Not a chance. If I'm going to take part in an affair, I'm taking the woman to be mine and mine alone. |
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Ratohnhaketon said: Not a chance. If I'm going to take part in an affair, I'm taking the woman to be mine and mine alone. Then how is it an affair...? |
aloricg said: Cheating is for bottom of the barrel scum. That's as close as I'll get to being a pile of donkey feces. I believe in ending a relationship before starting a new one. You don't want to hurt your husband's feelings? You don't want to destroy your marriage? Then stay faithful.Ratohnhaketon said: Not a chance. If I'm going to take part in an affair, I'm taking the woman to be mine and mine alone. Then how is it an affair...? |
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| Being a mistress/whateverthemaleformofmistressis has the implication that you are not important enough to be the person's primary relationship interest. It's fine if both parties are purely interested in the physical (and are willing to ignore the moral implications, obviously) but if you're looking for a serious relationship? Yeah, not so much |
| well it would surely be interesting. being "accidentally" extra clingy. watching their relationship fall apart could be interesting yes |
If life ain't just a joke Then why are we laughing? If life ain't just a joke Then why am I dead? |
| No way in hell. I value commitment and being faithful 100%. |
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| Na, I shall not degrade myself to that of "side ho". |
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| I hope you are talking about an S&M mistress because being a cheating type of mistress is wrong. |
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Hoppy said: What if he wants to be both?I hope you are talking about an S&M mistress because being a cheating type of mistress is wrong. |
 Nico- said: Conversations with people pinging/quoting me to argue about some old post I wrote years ago will not be entertained@Comic_Sans oh no y arnt ppl dieing i need more ppl dieing rly gud plot avansement jus liek tokyo ghoul if erbudy dies amirite |
| 1. Is this on eharmony, match, Christian mingle or the like? Or are we talking tinder? 2a. If the answer is eharmony etc then that is a lot of effort the guy went through. 2b. If the answer is tinder etc then the real issue is why old people are allowed to be on tinder in the first place 3. Just no. |
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| This sounds like the plot of a shitty sitcom. OT: I wouldn't. |
| Already messed up everything sleeping with a married man. (I had no fucking idea idea he was married until he told me later on). So hell no. Never ever. As someone said above, there's plenty available men out there. |
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| What if I were really rich, would you ladies be my mistress if I gave you money |
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| I've dated a couple of women who were already in a serious relationship, but their partners knew about me, and I even met them. Hell, one joined us for a threesome. xD But ultimately the relationships all ended because of their partner being jealous. =/ Oh well. Was fun while it lasted. |
BunnyMe said: vokisa said: I've dated a couple of women who were already in a serious relationship, but their partners knew about me, and I even met them. Hell, one joined us for a threesome. xD But ultimately the relationships all ended because of their partner being jealous. =/ Oh well. Was fun while it lasted. How old were they? =o One was 22, the other was 34. :D |
gissellebatista said: Already messed up everything sleeping with a married man. (I had no fucking idea idea he was married until he told me later on). So hell no. Never ever. As someone said above, there's plenty available men out there. Did wife chase you with a knife? That would be fun as hell |
| End Zionazism |
otakuloserperson said: vokisa said: I've dated a couple of women who were already in a serious relationship, but their partners knew about me, and I even met them. Hell, one joined us for a threesome. xD But ultimately the relationships all ended because of their partner being jealous. =/ Oh well. Was fun while it lasted. Were they originally okay with it because you're a woman or were they cuckolds? They were ok with it because I was a woman, and their girlfriends were bi. But then they realized that their gfs preferred women and that became a problem... Lol. |
| you have my blessing |
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silversongwriter said: What if I were really rich, would you ladies be my mistress if I gave you money No |
| lmao no way in hell. i don't want to be inside this weird relationship thing between two people. i totally for the whole sub/dom mistress thing. that's hot. i wanna try it (oops) |
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aloricg said: Do you all really think "straight" married men don't go on gay hookup/cruising/dating websites..? from reading a lot of doujins and BL manga, yeah it's possible. idk what the stats are in real life tho. |
Aijsaka said: Morgan said: No way in hell. I value commitment and being faithful 100%. |
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