| i was in love for about 1.5 years at first it feels like that is the only thing in the world that matters then it becomes your life then you get heartbroken and now i feel like i never want to have any of those feelings again :| |
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Meokii said: yeah because if it exceeds that, it's gonna be called obsessionIt's only good for the first few months. |
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| I've never been in love, but I have deeply liked people before romantically, and I didn't really like it because it made me feel odd and distracted a lot. |
| When it's mutual, it feels your life has meaning and you look forward to spending time with them. When it's one-sided, or you never confessed, or unrequited, it's overall apprehensive and quite emotionally draining. |
| It sucks when you can't contact the person because you refuse to use any form of social media and go to a different school than that person. *sigh* |
Immahnoob said: They say Jesus walked on water. People are made out of 79% water. I can walk on people. So I am 79% Jesus. Sourire said: I once fucked an apple pie. |
| ive been in love. not a big fan. i like being alone. |
| It's an overblown experience |
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Spiffytease said: simonephone said: ive been in love. not a big fan. i like being alone. ^ It is emotionally draining to say the least. It's far better just having a few good friends and enjoying life. Love tends to get in the way of those things. Love gets in the way of a lot of things you want to do. Depending on the person it would work out and they'll understand. Although love itself is a really good experience. Like two people in love with each other. But stuff gets complicated with life... |
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| I have never really "loved" someone, besides family members. There have been people I have had crushes on though. Its a weird feeling. |
| its nice |
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html said: How?u guys are way too edgy |
Tachii said: When it's mutual, it feels your life has meaning and you look forward to spending time with them. When it's one-sided, or you never confessed, or unrequited, it's overall apprehensive and quite emotionally draining. My thoughts exactly. You're so understanding <3 |
I luv u |
| Love doesn't seem to approach me the way I want it to be. |
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geniobastardo said: lel in 4th grade I suppose I had a crush. But that was crushed. Never had any other crush ever in my life. That's quite poetic. |
| Even when I was in crowd, I was always alone |
Spiffytease said: adeptbro said: Love gets in the way of a lot of things you want to do. Depending on the person it would work out and they'll understand. Although love itself is a really good experience. Like two people in love with each other. But stuff gets complicated with life... Aye it is a good experience; I've had both the typical teen infatuation love and the adult "I wan't to spend the rest of my life with you" love. The problem as you mentioned is life. People and life are so complex that you frankly can't "calculate" it all... It's just such a gamble to place your odd's on one person out of 7 billion to be there for you your ENTIRE life, and even more importantly love them being there that whole time. Note if that bet pays off it's the best experience ever, but if it doesn't it can be a nightmare. I'm probably being a cynical bastard, but all it takes is one bad bet to ruin your life savings, and I've made lots of bad bets over the years... Live and learn. Love yourself; and love others. Just don't hope for the jackpot, and if you hit it be sure you're grateful as fuck. I wonder how many people get to experience that their entire lives... One out of 7 billion people to be with you till death sounds very rare from reading that. Making me all sad thinking about love now and life things like that... Is it really as rare as people make it out to be? I don't hear much of people talking about how long their themselves and their SO have been together for. Only the sad stories of relationships ending over someone falling for someone else or some other shit. True love is rare? |
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| I take back what I said earlier. I fucking hate it. |
| I haven't been in love for a long time but yes. That feeling is amazing. |
 one day I'll be a champion at shitposting! |
| Love is a fire that burns unseen, a wound that aches yet isn’t felt, an always discontent contentment, a pain that rages without hurting, a longing for nothing but to long, a loneliness in the midst of people, a never feeling pleased when pleased, a passion that gains when lost in thought. It’s being enslaved of your own free will; it’s counting your defeat a victory; it’s staying loyal to your killer. But if it’s so self-contradictory, how can Love, when Love chooses, bring human hearts into sympathy? |
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| Falling in love and being in love is beautiful, but the falling-out (if you have one) is terrible. |
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| Dunno, since the most I had were crushes. |
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| Fell in love once, Got cheated on. But I do want to feel love again. |
"Lelouch, do you know why snow is white? Snow is white, because it's forgotten what color it's supposed to be."  |
Spiffytease said: You're young. Don't be that negative lol Unless you want to live alone just because you're scared of what might happen in the future. And what you previously went through should be a learning experience to prevent that in the future as much as possible.Xari said: Falling in love and being in love is beautiful, but the falling-out (if you have one) is terrible. Exactly, personally the loss in my opinion is worse and outweighs the feelings of being in love. Not really a risk I'm willing to take anymore. |
| I'm in love and it sucks sometimes considering my girlfriend can overreact or a single misunderstanding can lead to fighting. We probably argue more than we should but at the end of the day we understand each other and know exactly what to do to keep both of us happy. She knows she is irreplaceable to me and I will always take care of her, but she is still a female and everyone knows how they can be. So yeah, it can suck but it's worth it if it is true love. |
| It's amazing until it ends. |
| I guess I can say i have. I liked this girl and she liked me. She was kind of bullied and ended up in a fight then left our school. I saw her later at a concert with her dad so I just didn't say anything to her. |
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| Love would make me less efficent. If I wasn't aromantic I would probably have failed most of my goals, then I'd commit suicide and therefore I hate love. |
Wecc said: All hail HaXXspetten king of the loli traps!  |
| I probably would like it, if I didn't fall in love with the wrong person, like I Always do. Then it's mostly just painfull... |
| nah... |
Tachii said: Spiffytease said: You're young. Don't be that negative lol Unless you want to live alone just because you're scared of what might happen in the future. And what you previously went through should be a learning experience to prevent that in the future as much as possible.Exactly, personally the loss in my opinion is worse and outweighs the feelings of being in love. Not really a risk I'm willing to take anymore. I just have no desire to look for a girl. I feel like I'll find her one day even when I'm not searching for her. It'll just be a spur-of-a-moment type of thing. |
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| I fell in love once, and I deeply regret it. When I confessed to my friend, everything went downhill, and despite of that I stubbornly pursued her, and that is when she started to show a different side of her that I wished I didn't see. It was very painful for me. I shouldn't have mistaken her kindness for anything else. #friendzoned |
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 Kirsten Ledlow #THIRST |
| Dr. Sheldon Cooper " It is no way to make new humans. People coming out of people. Some kind of dirty magic show. |
| Hmm, I think it's great feeling, especially if it's your first time. But it makes you depressed after some time... JD2411 said: I've never loved anyone or been loved by anyone It means you do not love yourself also. That's quite sad. |
| Depends on who the love interest is. |
| Too me it's always like being depressed, no sleep or food, but than with delisunal happy feelings mixed with depression.. So no. ALso costs too much money |
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| Id rather love someone i dont have than i would dating someone i dont love. I prefer to love someone rather than love no one. |
mapleslattes said: Says the person who has a boyfriend going to China?I fell in love once, and falling out of love makes falling in love completely not worth it. 0/10 would not recommend. Sounds legit. |
| Just having a crush is enough, I think relationships are stupid right now |
| lol |
| I actually try to avoid that feeling. It's almost never returned, so it's usually just pain. ;) |
epicm14 said: Just having a crush is enough, I think relationships are stupid right now issact said: I actually try to avoid that feeling. It's almost never returned, so it's usually just pain. Flowing said: Dunno, since the most I had were crushes. Gotsupermilk said: I have never really "loved" someone, besides family members. There have been people I have had crushes on though. Its a weird feeling. PointOne said: Love doesn't seem to approach me the way I want it to be. ha |
| being in love is the best!! i remember when i met my bf and i was all the time thinking about him, sending messages, dreaming about him, writing letters. your heart thumping hard when you're close to him, IT'S BEAUTIFUL!! but um yeah, i tend to fall in love with pretty boys/men who talk to me nicely >_< |
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| At the beginning of a relationship, it's a wonderful relationship filled with lust. After years have past, the feeling of love settles in because the mediocre things subside. Love is beautiful yet ugly . |
OtakuAthenaSep 27, 2014 1:03 PM
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| Personally never been in love but I don't like the idea of loving someone to the extent that I can't function properly without them - something books and movies like to lead me to believe. |
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