| Not red unless the violin has a human face stretched over it Desperately searches for new partners while confessing their love to you |
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| How dare they ! Sq nishant0 said: how much? Youre literally 140cm nishant0 said: bro im not a toddler Prove it, stop stealin my stuff from the fridge ! .. ok ig youre a teen at least ๐๐คฃ Food monsters ๐ฟ |
DostojevskijDec 26, 2024 3:46 AM
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| how much? Dostojevskij said: bro im not a toddler Youre literally 140cm sq |
nishant0Dec 26, 2024 3:27 AM
| No Same |
| Yes please stop being short ! Do better ! Tall |
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| That's a green flag innit, or rather, it doesn't matter Has a collection of spiders and snakes in their room |
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| Once they creeped me out ! They sent me picture of a baby python on their bed (never talked to them after that) so VENOMOUS RED ewwww unhealthy hobby Has a collection of dead butterfly |
  Have courage, be kind and occasionally believe in magic CINDERELLA ๐ |
| Well i kinda liked looking at them, but knowing they were alive when pinned later makes me think mmmm nah. Like i get it but id feel guilty. I dunno. Like i liked people that did and theyd been really good people too but they were also red in other areas that broke my heart so probably red? I mean the mentality behind it is red no ? Like aquarering live ones to pin thats a red... but the ones already made and bought at a thrift thats not really red. Like its already dead itd be a pity to just throw it away... i prefer posters tho. The kids and museums can keep the real ones. Sq |
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| Collecting dead animals or trophies is the reddest kind of red Having minor forms of self-harm |
 watching, waiting, commiserating |
| mental self-harm most of the time is difficult to control like negative self-talk or harmful thought patterns...but slightest of physical self harm is obvious RED I mean you really need help. same |
Have courage, be kind and occasionally believe in magic CINDERELLA ๐ |
| Yeah I have minor cases of self harm as well when that pizza is too hot but damn am I hungry. On a serious note, what is a minor form of self harm? Is it scratching? Honestly like, I don't think self harm says a lot about a person...? I'd not call it a red flag per se...? Hates the idea of having pets. |
  ๐๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ก๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ก, ๐ฆ๐๐ค๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ฆ ๐ง๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐ . |
| No. I love dogs and cats myself but some people are worried about the prospect of veterinary bills and all the other various expenses/responsibilities that come with pet ownership. Sq |
| no same |
| No i get it sometimes its responsible too Like hating the idea of having pets isnt the same as hating pets and animals. It might even be the complete opposite. And a sign of selfawareness, care and responsibility. Putting what they deserve, needs, care etc above your own irresistable incredibles need for their lovely lovely fluff if you know the conditions and your current situation, wants and goals atm doesnt add up with what a fluff or other would need. Sq |
DostojevskijDec 27, 2024 2:24 PM
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| Yes. Gtfo Sq |
| Huge red flag! Ignores their kitty to watch anime. |
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| Yes very red :[ Sq |
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| Animal cruelty basically (joke) Sq |
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| As a cat id be allowed to at least claw out their face fo da audacity ! desu ! Lol It depends im not having no communication and passive aggression that is. If i dont give them their private space and breaks at times or crosses laid down boundaries thats on me. Id like to think i wouldnt do that tho. If they wont communicate and treats me like that then yeah thats a red flag. But im not gonna be friends or date a person that would ignore me like that nuh uh. You either communicate in a healthy way or you out. If its like... i dunno like it depends... im just used to bad behaviour way where people do mindgames with other stuff so im gettin TRIGGERED lol. Its not a red flag but can literally be a defense against boundary crossing and bombarding behaviour too. Or to people that try to do mindgames WITH YOU. Like nothing works and they only pretend to learn, understand and listen but keep fcking you up every time you try to trust so then you have to not be open and keep the wall up around them to protect yourself. And stand by your boundary or need for space. And not give in when they act up. So i dubno its fcking complicated. But ok out of the blue toward me, yes, thats a red. Healthy people communicate. Sq |
DostojevskijDec 28, 2024 2:22 AM
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| depends how frequently but prolly not a red flag. people should have time to be alone. hates ur family |
  ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐๐๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฒ๐ ๐ช๐๐ก๐ข ๐ฑ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฐ ๐ฃ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ช ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฑ, ๐ฆ ๐๐ช ๐ ๐ฌ๐ซ๐ฑ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ถ ๐ฌ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ค๐๐ฑ๐ข๐ก ๐ฑ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐๐ฑ๐ข ๐ฑ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฐ |
| Yes. I can understand feeling uncomfortable with a few things about them, but full-on hate is a deal-breaker; my family comes first for me. Sq |
| Lmao... it depends how its expressed... you can hate and still love and care about people i dunno... To me what people call hate often seen like it needs more nuance to get to the root and whats behind it. Its not very descriptive. Its often more like hurt, pain and frustration. Maybe disbelief and anger. If its outwardly abusive hate that harms or isolates you from your family and friends dwindling your selfeesteem to isolate you for no reason and without consent then yeah thats red. And not just frustated hate then yeah thats a red. Like they shouldnt be escalating things unless you agree and it makes sense or something is harmful to them or others... or like cause the family is being bad and youre not doing ANYTHING to protect or help them rather the opposite pulling them into your familys abuse #toxiic lol..... Or you use them as a tool for your family or your family tries to make them their tool in a bad way tgey do not want. I dunno sometimes if i know someone has repeatedly hurt their partners or others or raped them i find it hard to pretend smile at them unless i know people would be in danger, hurt if i didnt.... i cant just ignore it and pretend everything is fine if theyve just beat someone up or pushed them down the fcking stairs again.... im not gonna be friends with you and pretend its ok and nothing happened like sorry you can remove that smile from your face i dont even wanna fcking greet or be near you to cosy and make nice when i know what you are ๐. But you gotta be there for the person that was hurt if they still love their family. IF you have the capacity for it that is. Otherwise it could just hurt both people if they dont know how to restrain themself when they need to or the other to accept when the other person cannot accept abuse or whatever from their family. Its about them not you. But family ties is not enough reason to stay with family. If they dont treat you right and damaged, damage and keeps abusing you or fcking you up you dont owe them shit. They decided to bring a human into this world, thats on them. Its not a red flag being unable to accept abuse or dysfunctional patterns in a family. Being unable to compromise at all when its not about you might be tho. Again depends. People need to figure out what they can give, not give, accept and not accept from eachother and their families. Sometimes i feel like if its a red flag or not depends on a lot of factors, expectations, needs, the personalities, boundaries, experiences of the people involved and the severities of stuff and how it affects them and what they want from it all. If you have a good caring family and the person wont compromise or be civil, is very selfish, have weird hate reasons or not theyre basically just being an asshole then yeah that could be red. Also hate is a very strong word. Using "hate" about your family COULD be red too depending on if theyre serious hate hate or what they did. With my own family it would be uncaring and red i feel. Like you can dislike something but dont vent at me about it or treat me like i need to choose between them and you. Yeah thats a red but it really all depends on people situation and things. If a person speaks to you about hating your family and makes it all about them when its got nothing to do with them and youre not getting harmed then yeah thats red. If they just spew hatred hatred and really bad way act out abusive hatred too. Like people can validate but they shouldnt bulldoze you and go all black/white on your family. Making space for nothing but misery and erasing the good parts that can still be salvaged if the person needs it. Depends on capacities. I dunno its complicated it really depends how. Edit: omg Sq |
DostojevskijDec 28, 2024 4:06 AM
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| just like what starflutter said, its fine if they just uncomfortable with or just dont like some of my family behavior, but hate ? red dont want to cosplay as ur favorite waifu/husbu character ๐ |
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| It's okay. I have none. My husbando/waifu is already them. After your first date with them they spend 7 days nonstop reading all of Umineko. |
๐๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ก๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ก, ๐ฆ๐๐ค๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ฆ ๐ง๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐ . |
| Yes if she doesn't answer my text messages at least once a day to let me know she is still alive Occasionally wears an "awesome asexual" pin badge v It's just the fact that she explicitly tells others that "don't even try" |
tinshardDec 28, 2024 4:34 AM
   ______________________ "Fine, I'll use this set properly, hmpf" Also, thank you Viraat ______________________ |
| ^^This surely sounds red man ^I dunno, it doesn't sound too bad, maybe cringey at best They are @DropOfLove |
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| Yes They think frightning animals is funny |
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| Hell yes Sq |
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| Nah Is a Greek polytheist |
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| i'd simply stop ironing my toga and ask if she's been hanging around epicurus again stuffs their dead pets and keeps them around the house |
| i wanted to do that with my bird we had since i was 11 and was rescued a few weeks old that died the day after my 18th birthday. so you know, a lot of emotion there. so i’d say middle ground. i get it but i also get why some people would consider that a red flag regularly insults your taste in shows |
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| Yes redder than abuser Abuses you |
| ^^ No problem, let's insult each other ^ Green flag hit harder please Only watches shounen battle anime |
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| Green Only watches yuri |
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| Orange, I would prefer to be penetrated Only watches yaoi |
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| Green Loud |
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| Red Same |
Have courage, be kind and occasionally believe in magic CINDERELLA ๐ |
| not enough info same |
| Shrill is red cause imma gon loose mio mind eheh ๐คช Also red cause im very jumpy. But like by itself maybe not. Also yeah context ๐ฟ. I try not to gag strangers when i walk da streets ๐๐ Sometimes people are louder when happy or playing too thats ok. But if someone shout or try to intimidate at me they die , desu โค๏ธuwu If singing well... communication Snorring ........ ill cry tears of blood Sq |
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| Depends Extremely lazy |
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| Red if you mean i dont care about anyone but me lazy lazy and not "i cant believe youre not getting things done when youre mentally ill and i beat you into nothing every day for your own good" lazy Lags empathy v . . . @asschewer . . . Beesch is it lack then ? Or its still right spelling ? I like the joke im just wondering... google be SO far away ๐ด |
DostojevskijDec 30, 2024 3:24 PM
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| WEAK clear red you gotta throw those frames ! Or eat them ! Is such a neeeerd uwu |
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| green uwu has a sheep/goat avatar |
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| RED what a WEIRDO !??? SO JUDGY |
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| it's fine, you can't say yes to everyone starts conversations with sexual propositions |
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| Red. Loves to gossip |
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