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Nov 26, 2018 10:38 AM

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HeroicIdealism said:

There is a statistic that shows everyone could fit in Texas. It would be extremely uncomfortable, yet it'd be possible. Now, there is tons of barren land in USA, lots in Australia, lots in Russia, etc. There is a lot of room to fit more humans.


I don't think you understand something very basic - society needs to function. I don't think you understand that you need to feed, make jobs, make public transportation for people. Do you actually ever get out of the house?

Resources are not infinite, I know that, and I never once stated that they were infinite.. I said that we have plenty.

Tell that to these people starving in Africa.

Homosexuality is attraction to same sex. When it comes to men, anal sex is very, very common, for it is the only sort of intercourse a man can have with another man. This should not have to be pointed out to you.

OK, so? Literally irrelevant to the argument at hand. I claimed that not all gay men enjoy anal, which is something very true. You keep moving the goal posts and shifting the argument.

You have this weird obsession with buttsex.
Nov 26, 2018 10:43 AM
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Bernrika said:
HeroicIdealism said:

There is a statistic that shows everyone could fit in Texas. It would be extremely uncomfortable, yet it'd be possible. Now, there is tons of barren land in USA, lots in Australia, lots in Russia, etc. There is a lot of room to fit more humans.


I don't think you understand something very basic - society needs to function. I don't think you understand that you need to feed, make jobs, make public transportation for people. Do you actually ever get out of the house?

Resources are not infinite, I know that, and I never once stated that they were infinite.. I said that we have plenty.

Tell that to these people starving in Africa.

Homosexuality is attraction to same sex. When it comes to men, anal sex is very, very common, for it is the only sort of intercourse a man can have with another man. This should not have to be pointed out to you.

OK, so? Literally irrelevant to the argument at hand. I claimed that not all gay men enjoy anal, which is something very true. You keep moving the goal posts and shifting the argument.

You have this weird obsession with buttsex.


Haha, I have no such obsession with buttsex. Those who were very offended over me saying that I have a distaste for sodomy and promiscuity and who defend shoving things in your ass? These are the people obsessed with buttsex. Unfortunately, I am obsessed with arguing, it's why I keep replying to this godforsaken thread.
I only ever made the true claim that gay men who have intercourse (probably the majority of them) have buttsex. You are saying that I am ignorant. I am just defending my claim.

Society does needs to function and, despite my ills with society, it is functioning great on a base level. Poverty is shrinking all over the world, for example. More and more people are getting electricity and internet. Things are going great in that respect. Overpopulation is not an issue in most countries.
Nov 26, 2018 10:45 AM
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HeroicIdealism said:
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No I completely agree. While I do think the experience can be enhanced by doing it with someone you deeply love, it's not at all necessary to have a good time. I'm with you completely. Which is where a lot of this "gay sex isn't sacred" bs is falling short for me, cause I don't find goody-goody, pure, heterosexual baby making sex to be sacred either. Sure, having a kid is awesome and it's a big deal for a couple to conceive. But the act in it of itself is just sex minus birth control. I've always found that putting sex on a pedestal as this holy thing not to be spoken of and only to be done with your one true love is what's led society to be all awkward about sexual content. We can play a game or watch a movie in which countless people are slaughtered without mercy, but throw a boob on the screen and suddenly everyone gets uncomfortable. It's baffling to me how such a natural, mundane act of indulgence is so taboo to speak about or to portray in entertainment. And it's 100% cause people like this dude over here who sees sex as some sorta godly gift bestowed upon us for the sake of two people deeply and madly in love to combine their souls with.


If sex was everywhere it'd make everyone horny all the time and that is not a good state. This is why we wear clothes, even when it is scorching hot outside.
I quit watching porn because I don't want to feed my lust for random people. Sex is "sacred" in that way - it shouldn't be done with those you don't love. I wouldn't like it if my gf/wife had many sex partners, it'd show she wasn't able to be committed to one man, for example.
I don't believe that I mentioned that babymaking sex is the only sex that should be acceptable. I don't know why sex in a loving relationship, "two souls as one flesh" is so horrible a concept to you.


Sorry, I realize re reading that particular post that I came off much more aggressive than necessary. Look man, I don't have anything at all against monogamy. And I think sex (as I said) is definitely something which can be more enjoyed by two people in love. But I don't think it's *required* for it to be held in such the high regard that it is. Nor do I think there's anything wrong with indulging sexual desire. I understand there's a reason people don't just walk around completely naked. But I also think we as a whole society could stand to be much less squeamish about sex as a concept. And your fear about the deterioration of monogamy... I mean, its undeniable that sexuality has become more of a celebrated thing in recent years, but I seriously don't think you need to worry about everyone saying fuck monogamy and sleeping with anyone they find attractive. Sex is a neat thing. But thats all the action in it of itself is in my eyes. Just an indulgent activity people do to feel good. More often than not deep passionate love making isn't whats gonna happen, and while those sexual experiences are wholesome and great, I don't think it's fair to write off people who have sex just for the fun of it.
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Nov 26, 2018 11:16 AM

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HeroicIdealism said:
Bernrika said:


I don't think you understand something very basic - society needs to function. I don't think you understand that you need to feed, make jobs, make public transportation for people. Do you actually ever get out of the house?


Tell that to these people starving in Africa.


OK, so? Literally irrelevant to the argument at hand. I claimed that not all gay men enjoy anal, which is something very true. You keep moving the goal posts and shifting the argument.

You have this weird obsession with buttsex.


Haha, I have no such obsession with buttsex.

Yes, you absolutely do. Not many people are so obsessed with other men's anuses. Heck, I read gay porn and not even I know people so obsessed with anal.

I only ever made the true claim that gay men who have intercourse (probably the majority of them) have buttsex. You are saying that I am ignorant. I am just defending my claim.

Because you are. Not all gay men have anal sex. This whole statement throws you in confusion because you have built this whole narrative in which being gay=doing anal, discharging everything else. Homosexuality is being attracted to the same sex and developing feeling for the same sex. That's all there is.

Society does needs to function and, despite my ills with society, it is functioning great on a base level.

Wait, I thought buttsex was going to destroy the world!?

Poverty is shrinking all over the world, for example. More and more people are getting electricity and internet. Things are going great in that respect. Overpopulation is not an issue in most countries.

"Is not an issue" doesn't change that we have 7 billions of people on a planet with finite resource, several governments that ignore global warming and several countries with massive unemployment rates. But we are getting off topic.
Nov 26, 2018 12:08 PM

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Bourmegar said:
Well to be honest.
NOT adapting Good BL Mangas (and others ofc) is just like Ignoring the big pot of gold that is in front of you.
I mean there is a demographic that is just hungry for good BL Material (The Fuyoshis are most liky to watch and spread it) and willing to pay for it, why ignore them?

Good BL Anime can shatter the negative image that Yaoi has, And If it is good then Word of mouth will do its Job (Like with Made in Abyss). heck Yuri on Ice qas very well recieved so why not make more good BL Anime?

The Anime industry seems to be playing way to safe, not taking any risks whatsoever.

While I do think industry is playing safe on many things I don't think this particular case can be applied to it. I'd guess one of the reasons is how short BL stories are, they rarely are long running and thus don't need anime adaptation for commercial reasons. It's not every decade you get series as long as From Eroica with love with it's 39 volumes.

Pullman said:
I'm just not sure that the majority fujos even want what we'd call 'good' BL. That's the thing. Just like ecchi fans will usually not share the same concept of 'good ecchi series' that non-ecchi fans might wish for. There's a demand for smut and fetishization that's probably bigger than for sensibly-written same-sex romance. At least in Japan. Otherwise those types of manga wouldn't mostly be the only BL manga that get popular enough to get an adaption. The success of those titles compared to the other kind speaks volumes.

I'm of that opinion even smutty fiction can be written with somewhat standards and have even something of value beyond sexual interest. Ai no kusabi is straight out just erotica fiction but it did include interesting sci-fi world, that gets more covered in LN. So I'm not really against stuff like that getting adaption.

Not that sure Japan fanbase would desire only your standard rape yaoi fest. A Cruel God Reigns won an Osamu Tezuka Culture Award 1997 and ML series My Brother's Husband has won Japan Cartoonist Association Award and Japan Media Arts Award, it got even live action adaption.
Nov 26, 2018 12:34 PM

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konkelo said:
Bourmegar said:
Well to be honest.
NOT adapting Good BL Mangas (and others ofc) is just like Ignoring the big pot of gold that is in front of you.
I mean there is a demographic that is just hungry for good BL Material (The Fuyoshis are most liky to watch and spread it) and willing to pay for it, why ignore them?

Good BL Anime can shatter the negative image that Yaoi has, And If it is good then Word of mouth will do its Job (Like with Made in Abyss). heck Yuri on Ice qas very well recieved so why not make more good BL Anime?

The Anime industry seems to be playing way to safe, not taking any risks whatsoever.

While I do think industry is playing safe on many things I don't think this particular case can be applied to it. I'd guess one of the reasons is how short BL stories are, they rarely are long running and thus don't need anime adaptation for commercial reasons. It's not every decade you get series as long as From Eroica with love with it's 39 volumes.

Pullman said:
I'm just not sure that the majority fujos even want what we'd call 'good' BL. That's the thing. Just like ecchi fans will usually not share the same concept of 'good ecchi series' that non-ecchi fans might wish for. There's a demand for smut and fetishization that's probably bigger than for sensibly-written same-sex romance. At least in Japan. Otherwise those types of manga wouldn't mostly be the only BL manga that get popular enough to get an adaption. The success of those titles compared to the other kind speaks volumes.

I'm of that opinion even smutty fiction can be written with somewhat standards and have even something of value beyond sexual interest. Ai no kusabi is straight out just erotica fiction but it did include interesting sci-fi world, that gets more covered in LN. So I'm not really against stuff like that getting adaption.

Not that sure Japan fanbase would desire only your standard rape yaoi fest. A Cruel God Reigns won an Osamu Tezuka Culture Award 1997 and ML series My Brother's Husband has won Japan Cartoonist Association Award and Japan Media Arts Award, it got even live action adaption.


Okay two things:

1. For me smut goes hand in hand with fetishization and while you're right, that can still happen in an interesting setting etc... it is hardly possible to combine fetishization with actually thorough, in-depth takes on the exact topic that is being fetishized. Either you fetishize homosexual relationships like the majority of Yaoi especially all the ones that get anime adaptions OR you try to explore the topic of homosexuality in a more thorough, detailed and holistic way. I was just talkiing about the representation of homosexuality, not about having cool settings or anything like that. Of course you can combine fetishization with any number of external factors, but you can't combine it with a good, realistic exploration of homosexuality and homosexual relationships. You need to drop the fetishization and idealizations for that to be an option and by doing that you lose a lot of appeal regarding fujos who are used to the stereotypes, the horrendously binary seme/uke dynamics, the romantication of non-con and all the other tropes that prevent an actually accurate, realistic or believable take on the topic of homosexuality but are successful in arousing the interest of fujos.

2. I think you're mixing up acclaim with popularity. I've seen tons of manga get awards and accolades without ever reaching anything close to mainstream Otaku popularity that would get them an adaption so I assume it is not very different with Yaoi. I know and repeatedly said that there is probably a bunch of good stuff in manga, but there's a reason only the fetishizing ones get anime adaptions. That's what the fujos want and as far as anime is concerned they are the driving force of the female fandom. The entirety of the existing yaoi anime is proof of that so I don't think it's really arguable. I'm just giving an explanation.

Giving something a live-action adaption simply means they think it has enough sophisticated mainstream appeal to warrant it rather than targeting it at fujos specificially like an anime adaption would. They might not appreciate it as much. The fact that there are good stories about homosexuality out there, but they get live-action rather than anime, just further proves my point. For the most part it isn't necessarily the fujos that are interested in those kind of more in-depth explorations, but it's other people who just want to see it being treated like any other interesting topic. People like me who have no interest in the fetishizing kind. That's why they get targeted at a general live action audience rather than a niche fujotaku audience.

Of course there will be some overlap, but for the most part there is a fundamental difference in being interested in fetishized depictions of homosexual men for your own entertainment and being interested in the exploration of homosexuality as a serious topic, and being interested in the former doesn't automatically mean being interested in the latter.
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Nov 26, 2018 1:21 PM

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Pullman said:
Okay two things:

1. For me smut goes hand in hand with fetishization and while you're right, that can still happen in an interesting setting etc... it is hardly possible to combine fetishization with actually thorough, in-depth takes on the exact topic that is being fetishized. Either you fetishize homosexual relationships like the majority of Yaoi especially all the ones that get anime adaptions OR you try to explore the topic of homosexuality in a more thorough, detailed and holistic way. I was just talkiing about the representation of homosexuality, not about having cool settings or anything like that. Of course you can combine fetishization with any number of external factors, but you can't combine it with a good, realistic exploration of homosexuality and homosexual relationships. You need to drop the fetishization and idealizations for that to be an option and by doing that you lose a lot of appeal regarding fujos who are used to the stereotypes, the horrendously binary seme/uke dynamics, the romantication of non-con and all the other tropes that prevent an actually accurate, realistic or believable take on the topic of homosexuality but are successful in arousing the interest of fujos.

2. I think you're mixing up acclaim with popularity. I've seen tons of manga get awards and accolades without ever reaching anything close to mainstream Otaku popularity that would get them an adaption so I assume it is not very different with Yaoi. I know and repeatedly said that there is probably a bunch of good stuff in manga, but there's a reason only the fetishizing ones get anime adaptions. That's what the fujos want and as far as anime is concerned they are the driving force of the female fandom. The entirety of the existing yaoi anime is proof of that so I don't think it's really arguable. I'm just giving an explanation.

Giving something a live-action adaption simply means they think it has enough sophisticated mainstream appeal to warrant it rather than targeting it at fujos specificially like an anime adaption would. They might not appreciate it as much. The fact that there are good stories about homosexuality out there, but they get live-action rather than anime, just further proves my point. For the most part it isn't necessarily the fujos that are interested in those kind of more in-depth explorations, but it's other people who just want to see it being treated like any other interesting topic. People like me who have no interest in the fetishizing kind. That's why they get targeted at a general live action audience rather than a niche fujotaku audience.

Of course there will be some overlap, but for the most part there is a fundamental difference in being interested in fetishized depictions of homosexual men for your own entertainment and being interested in the exploration of homosexuality as a serious topic, and being interested in the former doesn't automatically mean being interested in the latter.

For yaoi titles I never expect a representation of gay men, rarely even characters' sexualities are told or it's a level of "I'm not into guys, I just like you not others". As for BL eh some do go into sexuality part because focus is on romance and in those cases I would be more eager to critique the portray of relationship and sexuality. I view yaoi more so just close to sexploitation/straight out porn, thus I don't hold my breath for realistic portray of couple dynamics when reading yaoi. But then again not even always if I'm reading gay manga, depending who is the mangaka because there's plenty of rape there too. Same way I wouldn't expect "good" representation of transpeople if I looked at hentai tagged as "newhalf".

Those two titles are popular and known even inside fujoshi corners what I have seen, ML/gay manga has also become over time popular among fujoshis so I don't think tropes that yaoi is well known, that also are present in shoujo overall, are anymore what people look for and desire. Having BL/ML series that would attract mainstream audience shouldn't be hindrance for the industry to make anime adaptation, but that's more so just my critique for industry focusing on otakus and not having also media for mainstream audience.
Nov 26, 2018 8:37 PM

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Bernrika said:
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made you post lesbian pictures.

? I don't mind Yuri. I even read it.

BCZ sci-fi is supposed to be full of faggty shit right?

It's a genre that often explores a lot of themes and make dozen of social commentaries. As I said, stick to ecchi or something like that, it's more like up your alley and it doesn't violate your safe space.
EEWWWW echii....

I dont watch that softcore garbage.

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I'll go for yuri but yaoi? No fucking way in hell!!
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