Are Girls in Real Life more Perverted than Boys Like in Anime?

Jul 12, 2020 4:27 PM

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I guess both are "perverted" but most of the times in different ways. Society teaches us that boys need to be more "sexual" active to prove their masculinity, while girls should be pure and "respect themself". Basically we girls usually dont show our sexual desires, or even dont allow ourselfs to have it, since in some ppl's minds it would mean that we are "hoes".
Most of my girl friends (including me) are interest on sexual stuff as much as the boys I know. It depends on the person and the culture too

Jul 12, 2020 4:47 PM

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obviously not all women are the same, but in geral ive realized that girls do think about it more than guys think they do

Jul 12, 2020 10:18 PM

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allypsa said:
obviously not all women are the same, but in geral ive realized that girls do think about it more than guys think they do

Finally, A Normal Answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jul 12, 2020 10:45 PM

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No disrespect to the OP. I'm not trying to dump my thinking all on him.

But is there anyone else out there that feels either alienated or uncomfortable when someone makes a comparison between real life and anime? Like, it kinda breaks the fourth wall between daily life and entertainment since I try to keep the two seperated, and it's not comforting thinking about the people whose outlook on life is based on anime.

Anyway: It depends. Sometimes fixation exaggerates reality, sometimes the truth is stranger than fiction, and sometimes fiction is a reflation of reality.

Jul 12, 2020 11:24 PM

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NexivSelecaf said:

But is there anyone else out there that feels either alienated or uncomfortable when someone makes a comparison between real life and anime? Like, it kinda breaks the fourth wall between daily life and entertainment since I try to keep the two seperated, and it's not comforting thinking about the people whose outlook on life is based on anime.

I wasn't really trying to Compare Real life and Anime...It was just a Casual Question in Casual Section.
You can ignore the "Like in Anime" from the Topic
I Just wanted to know that my assumption on the basis of real facts was true or not...

Jul 13, 2020 10:48 AM

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Peaceful_Critic said:
Generally, the sex drive of guys is found to be greater, as another user mentioned, testosterone does play a role in this, but culture is also a factor. Girls typically, in contrast, to guys are seen as more valuable the more "pure" they are. Virginity and sexual purity are pretty important for a lot of guys. And there tends to be a lot of myths going around about a certain sexual part when it is used by so many people. Guys are kind of socially expected to be sex addicts as normal behavior, but girls are named "sluts" or "whores" for the same types of actions. So girls typically act purer then they are to avoid those bad labels that both other girls and guys would throw at them. Meanwhile, guys might lie about being more sexually active, to avoid the stigma that comes with being a "virgin" or "incel".

This causes the differences between the sex drives of both genders to be more exaggerated then it actually is.

And who is purer than you? You are one of the purest gals on mal. That means you have a greater chance of finding your Disney prince than these other bitches and you can actually wear white with pride at your wedding.

Jul 13, 2020 11:09 AM

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And who is purer than you? You are one of the purest gals on mal. That means you have a greater chance of finding your Disney prince than these other bitches and you can actually wear white with pride at your wedding.

I get that was a compliment, and I thank you for that. But I don't really want to reinforce the idea that "purity" is anything, but a neutral trait for both genders.

Jul 13, 2020 12:28 PM

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gintokisbicep said:
i mean western females are different than eastern, plus anime girls arent realistic lol

depends i guess. ive been told im perverted as hell

I don't think so. How high your sex drive is depends on your personality or better saying: on your inherent traits.
People, especially girls and women, from conservative societies are in general more ashamed about it and they try to hide it... doesn't make them less or more horny.
I'm pretty sure sex drive and orientation is inherent.

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Depends on the individual and depends what you consider perverted. I don't think it's necessarily one way or the other.

Also this. To me, pedophiles, zoophiles and other immorals paraphilias are "perverted". Most other stuff isn't.
Some kinks are very weird, but they are just weird and, well... kinky. They are not actually perverted in my eyes.

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Jul 13, 2020 2:37 PM

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_Maneki-Neko_ said:

I don't think so. How high your sex drive is depends on your personality or better saying: on your inherent traits.
People, especially girls and women, from conservative socities are in general more ashamed about it and try to hide it... doesn't make them less or more horny.
I'm pretty sure sex drive and orientation is inherent...

yeah i realised i came off a lil bit stupid but what i meant is that girls in eastern cultures don't tend to be as open and make as many jokes as western because it's not really viewed positively and well.... sexism i guess lol??

Yes, I guess it's more like you talk about it behind closed doors, if they even do at all. As long as someone isn't asexual, everyone is curious and all. Some more, some less, but western women are more likely to express their interest and wishes more openly.

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Jul 13, 2020 2:44 PM

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Well, I think everyone is more perverted than me, since all of my horny time is restricted to a couple of hours either in the morning or evening. So I can honestly say I don't really get sexual thoughts during the day when out and about, only when extremely drunk would I think about kissing someone.

Everyone's different, some girls willbe more perverted, some boys will be, we're all our own selves!

Jul 14, 2020 4:22 AM

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Well, I think everyone is more perverted than me, since all of my horny time is restricted to a couple of hours either in the morning or evening. So I can honestly say I don't really get sexual thoughts during the day when out and about, only when extremely drunk would I think about kissing someone.

Everyone's different, some girls willbe more perverted, some boys will be, we're all our own selves!

You have daily horny time in the morning or evening? That explains why you are able to go about the rest of your day without sexual thoughts. A lot of people don’t get sexual gratification on a daily basis. Let me use myself as an example - if I masturbate everyday then when it’s time for real sex I won’t be able to stay hard long enough to perform well. But if I refrain from porn and masturbation for a few days to a week then when it time for real sex I will be able to perform well. The downside is that I will have a lot of sexual energy on those days when I refrain and this energy can manifest in different ways such as sexual thoughts, lewd behaviour, stress, enhanced focus on non-sexual stuff, higher testosterone levels making me more confident, assertive, aggressive etc.

Jul 15, 2020 2:22 AM

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I'm hiding this comment behind a spoiler because it gets pretty blunt on the terminology, please be advised.

A lot of what you mention doesn't really seem like a correlate to sex drive in my opinion.

For example... I know I have one of the highest sex drives of just about anyone I've ever met. In high school at one point I was jerking off 6 times per day and I maintained this for about two years. My habits now are not particularly different from then.

If anything I think having a high sex drive makes you way more shy in bed and vanilla in bed. The reason for shyness is because you think about it so much that when the time actually comes, its like an athlete who's prepared for a single moment all his life. You get incredibly nervous because you've wanted it so badly for so long that its kind of shocking when you finally get it and you don't know how to process the situation.

As far as weird, kinky stuff goes. Kinky stuff is for people who are trying to boost their interest in sex. For whatever reason they are bored with the normal kind of sex and disinterested in it so they need something more to get interested in it. That's the complete opposite of how high sex drive people behave. If you have a high sex drive, sex is always enough of a motivation in of itself. You don't feel any need to do weird stuff because foreplay alone feels amazing to you.

Think about the way supertasters are vs normal tasters. Supertasters are always the ones who want really plain, simple food and they usually don't like variety much but rather would prefer to keep eating the same meals over and over again. Whereas normal tasters are willing to try pretty much anything are always experimenting with different types of food, and are astonished by supertasters ability to keep eating the same thing over and over again because people with medium ability to taste get bored much more easily whereas supertasters know what they like and keep returning to it time and time again.

It works the same way for sex. I know exactly what I like, and I am very easily satisfied not just by vanilla sex but even through light sexual acts like making out or cuddling. I get surprised when people with medium sex drives don't even consider cuddling to be a sexual act because it brings a lot of sexual pleasure to me. It takes very little stimulation for me to be satisfied, and I have basically no desire to be promiscuous at all.

Its like, I've noticed that people who are really mild mannered seem way more likely to be super horny people than the loud ones are. I've been roommates with several frat boys and you'd be surprised to learn that they don't really have high sex drives. They are always flabbergasted when I tell them how much I masturbate and this is despite the fact that so many of them live a life of promiscuous sex. But having sex once a week, in their mind, seems like a lot whereas I would happily have sex multiple times a day if a girl would let me.

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Jul 15, 2020 4:58 AM

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Male prostitution is no where as prevalent as female prostitution and I think that indicates women are less drawn towards the casual sex and more into passionate love making with a partner they've emotionally bonded with.

Jul 15, 2020 10:23 AM

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Jul 15, 2020 10:25 AM

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That's a commercial product, such state of affairs. Men like to watch girls doing all kinds of stuff while female prefer steady decent guys.

Jul 15, 2020 10:27 AM

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Katapullt said:
Male prostitution is no where as prevalent as female prostitution and I think that indicates women are less drawn towards the casual sex and more into passionate love making with a partner they've emotionally bonded with.

}:) Women prostitution only means that men are ready to buy it.

Jul 26, 2020 4:57 PM

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I think that's a very...odd question. Because you don't need to take a psychology course to know that men are more sexually driven than women; it's just common knowledge. Not to say that there aren't women who are more sexually driven than men, but generally speaking, it's men who are more sexually driven.
But to answer the question more directly: no, girls in real life are not more perverted than boys in anime.

Jul 27, 2020 2:20 AM

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I think we don't have that social/mental barrier that tells us to not do certain things.

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I think that's a very...odd question. Because you don't need to take a psychology course to know that men are more sexually driven than women; it's just common knowledge. Not to say that there aren't women who are more sexually driven than men, but generally speaking, it's men who are more sexually driven.
But to answer the question more directly: no, girls in real life are not more perverted than boys in anime.

Sometimes common sense means "a myth everybody believes to be true." That myth came simple up, because women were ashamed to admit that they are actually as sexual as men are.
In reality, it's pretty depended on your personality and there are as many sexual women as men.

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Jul 27, 2020 6:03 AM

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The guys in anime are pretty much us males, but this time they can actually 'slay' the thing. I don't see it with the females.

Jul 27, 2020 6:27 AM

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_Maneki-Neko_ said:

AbsurdTurk said:
I think that's a very...odd question. Because you don't need to take a psychology course to know that men are more sexually driven than women; it's just common knowledge. Not to say that there aren't women who are more sexually driven than men, but generally speaking, it's men who are more sexually driven.
But to answer the question more directly: no, girls in real life are not more perverted than boys in anime.

Sometimes common sense means "a myth everybody believes to be true." That myth came simple up, because women were ashamed to admit that they are actually as sexual as men are.
In reality, it's pretty depended on your personality and there are as many sexual women as men.

Of course there are many women as sexual as men. But on average, men are more sexual than women. Consider the difference in how men and women become sexually aroused: men become sexually aroused visually, very simply. But women become aroused through hearing, which is more complex. Women on average place more value on the emotional connection of sex, while men place more value on the physical act of it. Men think about sex more often than women, men seek sex more actively than women.
https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare#
It's just like the saying: men compete, women judge.

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