not_a_peep said: haisaki said: Craziie_Munkiiez said: Smart funny nice yet still looking guys are the best, hard to find, but the best If you find one, ask if they're gay. :DD So true :P Not actually True ... entropy13 said:  This is why I'm trying to run away from Girls/Women ..... |
TK-Onii-Sama said: not_a_peep said: haisaki said: Craziie_Munkiiez said: Smart funny nice yet still looking guys are the best, hard to find, but the best If you find one, ask if they're gay. :DD So true :P Not actually True ... entropy13 said: This is why I'm trying to run away from Girls/Women ..... shit that is so true !! xD |
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| Interesting is what is mysterious, unknown, surprising, not reachable. I think that's what makes a "bad guy" attractive and that's what we're looking for.. It also depends on how you define a "bad guy". I'm not interested in someone who was imprisoned [...] |
Tricia said: Interesting is what is mysterious, unknown, surprising, not reachable. I think that's what makes a "bad guy" attractive and that's what we're looking for.. Except there's a survey recently (I think 2 years old already, but most probably still applies) that there are more "bad guys" than "nice guys" today. So it's the latter now which applies to your "standard" of being interesting. |
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| I don't "bad guys". Nice sensitive friendly guys for me thanks :) |
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entropy13 said: LOL, perfect. |
Craziie_Munkiiez said: Cause their sexy. But only for the moment. Smart funny nice yet still looking guys are the best, hard to find, but the best Those are usually the closet homosexuals who do Meth *cough* Ted Haggard *cough*. |
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| Honestly...I'm not really sure. I'm a girl and I have NEVER been interested on the "bad guys" as you categorize them. But I know what you mean by that. I just...I don't know, no offense to anybody...but they disgust me and are the main reason why I hate anything related with men or even dating. My theory is that some women prefer bad guys over nice guys because they are usually more talkative and honest than the nice guys that wear a mask, feel unnatural and just makes the girl feel suspicious...not knowing if his just a player. |
| What do you mean bad guys? The ones who every weekend drunk and having sex with different woman, or do not have any manners? If u r talking about these, then idk what kind of girl/woman would like to have any kind of relationships with such a guy. She simply should be stupid. But there are and other kind of "bad" guys. If he respects and cares about me, if a like to be with him, then i don't care if he has an illegal job, breaks all the fuc*ing rules ant other ppl think he is some kind of bastard. And now about the "nice" guys. There is one question: "how much he is nice?" If the guy can't satisfy his girl (i don't mean only sex, don't get me wrong), then screw him. The same goes to girls, which one of guys would like to have super shy and "nice" girl? The answer - 1 of 100000, maybe even less. Thats why middle is the best. I think it's a bad opinion that girls like bad guys, everyone like that golden middle. |
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entropy13 said: LMAO I see it all the time |
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| LMAO I love that comic strip XDD So true. Nice guys finish last, unfortunately. I learned that the hard way. Women don't know what they want or they want something impossible. Sure I want a nice sweet guy, but he can't always be nice and he can't be too bad either (wtf?) It's all confusing you can't be too direct and you can't be to concealing. AHHH blows brains is out x.x is dead GG |
| They are so bad that they want to turn them to a good one or.. for protection purposes. |
| You must know your own personal reality, That way you will discover your ability. |
| Women like confident men. The 'nice guy' you are talking about very likely isn't confident and thus most women would not find them attractive. Its not about being a bad guy its about having balls to go up to a girl and talk to her, the average 'nice guy' may not be confident enough to do so..... Anyway in general that is highly generalised. Depending on the girls age as well, that contributes to what kind of guy a girl likes. |
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flyingeagle666 said: Women like confident men. The 'nice guy' you are talking about very likely isn't confident and thus most women would not find them attractive. Its not about being a bad guy its about having balls to go up to a girl and talk to her, the average 'nice guy' may not be confident enough to do so..... Anyway in general that is highly generalised. Depending on the girls age as well, that contributes to what kind of guy a girl likes. Except the "nice guy" already confessed to the girl in the second frame, only to be promptly rejected. Pointless to have some "confidence" then. |
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entropy13 said: flyingeagle666 said: Women like confident men. The 'nice guy' you are talking about very likely isn't confident and thus most women would not find them attractive. Its not about being a bad guy its about having balls to go up to a girl and talk to her, the average 'nice guy' may not be confident enough to do so..... Anyway in general that is highly generalised. Depending on the girls age as well, that contributes to what kind of guy a girl likes. Except the "nice guy" already confessed to the girl in the second frame, only to be promptly rejected. Pointless to have some "confidence" then. Mistake there is being a friend with her for so long first I get the point of the thread and I get that this happens in real life. The guy didn't have the courage to go up to her sooner, he thought 'o lets get closer as friends first' and then I'll ask her out. I am guessing the OP had something similar happen to him, I'm just trying to say be more confident and get in there sooner rather than later, and also the fact that its not always the case of being a 'bad guy'. Although it is just plain and simple, some girls are just stupid and do only want guys who they know will treat them like fuck. But hey, girls like that aren't work your/OP/guys time, let them get on with it. |
flyingeagle666Feb 20, 2011 5:24 AM
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| Hah, this shit is so true. I've experienced and witnessed this way too much. They always somehow go for the assholes and when they end up getting hurt, they come to me and ask me why all guys are like this. Like c'mon...if your talking to me I must be doing something good right? I never make them cry yet they talk about some random douchebag hurting them. It just makes me wanna...I don't know...maybe smash my own face in at the sight of ignorance. entropy13 said: ^ That's just epic. I wish I could've done something similar. |
RezurrektFeb 21, 2011 11:32 AM
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| I can say the image in the first post is the story of my life T_T They just want to be my friends, later they come crying to me on how he just used her and treated her as an object, after some time they meet someone else and the cycle repeats itself. |
| because they have value lol |
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| If your to nice of a guy, some women think you couldn't do anything spur of the moment or just be a little wild from time to time. You also have to keep in mind that girls mother's tell them "Find a nice guy to settle down with". And what do most children do when their parents tell them to something? Yeap they do the opposite. I asked a couple of my friend that are girl why they do this, and most of then flat out side that "Bad Boys" are just more fun. Most girls look innocent but most of them are hiding and little devil and bad boy's let them bring there devilish side out. You'll will never know the working of a girl's mind, so why try. lol |
| Girls think bad boys are cool, strong, spontaneous etc and good guys are boring and lame but thats mostly directly proportional to the maturity of the girl, the older she gets the less she will like bad boys and would rather want a good man. |
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| It could be a phase or for excitement. It also depends on the environment they were raised in and the people they grew up with. |
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| Also a lot of guys like tsundere type girls, nuff said. |
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AnimeKraze said: Girls think bad boys are cool, strong, spontaneous etc and good guys are boring and lame but thats mostly directly proportional to the maturity of the girl, the older she gets the less she will like bad boys and would rather want a good man. Yeah but they realize this when they're way too old. I hate it when you ask them why they like bad boys and they deny it. |
| Eh, most "bad" boys usually come off as douchebags to me. :/ |
| I'm 16 and a high school student and I learned a while back that jerks/cocky guys get girls probably cause they are more confident than nice guys. But it seems like it's mostly the "party girls" go for the bad boy. I live in Cali btw. I consider myself more of a nice guy and have managed to pull girls since middle school you just have to know your type and what she's looking for. |
| I bet the ratio between Bad boy's getting girls and nice guy's getting girls are the same. It's just bad boys don't complain about it and don't get mad about it. |
EarthAngel8Mar 5, 2011 8:52 PM
| Boy: "Well I grew up here in town. I went to school, got pretty good grades. When I graduated my dad's friend got me my first job helping him stack crates in a warehouse. And after 10 years I'm now regional manager of the 5th largest store in the county." Girl: "Wow... You should write a book." /sarcasm Nice guys aren't interesting. They never have any stories about how they dented a cop-car with their motorcycle, or how they moved all the desks and put them on the roof of the school, or that time they woke up in a phonebooth in Germany with no memory of how they got there. These are the kinds of stories people want to hear. |
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Vinter said: Boy: "Well I grew up here in town. I went to school, got pretty good grades. When I graduated my dad's friend got me my first job helping him stack crates in a warehouse. And after 10 years I'm now regional manager of the 5th largest store in the county." Girl: "Wow... You should write a book." /sarcasm Nice guys aren't interesting. They never have any stories about how they dented a cop-car with their motorcycle, or how they moved all the desks and put them on the roof of the school, or that time they woke up in a phonebooth in Germany with no memory of how they got there. These are the kinds of stories people want to hear. Yeap and then the nice guys have to hear the stories of girls who date bad guys on how they were abused, cheated, beaten, hurt, used, etc..... XD |
kalaslsl said: Vinter said: Boy: "Well I grew up here in town. I went to school, got pretty good grades. When I graduated my dad's friend got me my first job helping him stack crates in a warehouse. And after 10 years I'm now regional manager of the 5th largest store in the county." Girl: "Wow... You should write a book." /sarcasm Nice guys aren't interesting. They never have any stories about how they dented a cop-car with their motorcycle, or how they moved all the desks and put them on the roof of the school, or that time they woke up in a phonebooth in Germany with no memory of how they got there. These are the kinds of stories people want to hear. Yeap and then the nice guys have to hear the stories of girls who date bad guys on how they were abused, cheated, beaten, hurt, used, etc..... XD Bad boys aren't always bad people. :p I guess bad is the wrong term to use, it'd be better to describe them as wild. |
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Vinter said: Boy: "Well I grew up here in town. I went to school, got pretty good grades. When I graduated my dad's friend got me my first job helping him stack crates in a warehouse. And after 10 years I'm now regional manager of the 5th largest store in the county." Girl: "Wow... You should write a book." /sarcasm Girl's "bad guy" boyfriend: "That's my boss." |
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| I guess the women that do prefer bad guys think that if they can turn the baddie into a goodie, it must be because they themselves are amazing. Simple self-acceptance through others. |
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entropy13 said: Vinter said: Boy: "Well I grew up here in town. I went to school, got pretty good grades. When I graduated my dad's friend got me my first job helping him stack crates in a warehouse. And after 10 years I'm now regional manager of the 5th largest store in the county." Girl: "Wow... You should write a book." /sarcasm Girl's "bad guy" boyfriend: "That's my boss." Girl's "bad guy" boyfriend is a musician though. That trumps pretty much everything short of King. ^_^ |
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| I think most people are confusing nice with boring. The two are actually very different. entropy13 said: I have been on the recieving end of such devotion and it is suffocating, not romantic. The guy in question was a nice person and popular, however we weren't suited at all. He didn't get my sense of humour. He wouldn't argue with me if we disagreed, just get quietly upset. If he wanted me to change my mind about something, he would put on the guilt trip (a tactic I really hate). He thought giving me presents and love letters would win me over and despite me refusing to accept any of them, would not accept that I did not want to date him. Out of sheer desperation to get him to leave me alone, I humiliated him in front of my family and he still came back begging me to forgive him and apologising for offending me by trying to give me chocolates I didn't like (because that was what upset me, not the fact that he was practically stalking me). I tried being nice, I tried being a bitch and he just wouldn't take no for an answer. I was so happy when my parents told me we were moving (unrelated reasons). I came off as the bad guy over that one as most people did not believe that I was really distressed by him. He had never been violent or threatening but his persistance had me constantly feeling trapped. Vinter said: entropy13 said: Vinter said: Boy: "Well I grew up here in town. I went to school, got pretty good grades. When I graduated my dad's friend got me my first job helping him stack crates in a warehouse. And after 10 years I'm now regional manager of the 5th largest store in the county." Girl: "Wow... You should write a book." /sarcasm Girl's "bad guy" boyfriend: "That's my boss." Girl's "bad guy" boyfriend is a musician though. That trumps pretty much everything short of King. ^_^ Despite having no talent and no motivation to improve his skills or music, the "muscian" boyfriend would rather sit around whining how no one understands him or his music (lets just say that particular relationship was very, very short). |
Cottonrabbit said: Despite having no talent and no motivation to improve his skills or music, the "muscian" boyfriend would rather sit around whining how no one understands him or his music (lets just say that particular relationship was very, very short). Not a real musician then. Speaking from experience a real musician needs no motivation to learn. The act of learning itself is enough motivation to get me to play 5+ hours a day. It's easy to know if someone is a musician or a wannabe. If being a musician is something they chose, then they're not a real musician. Real musicians do it because theres nothing else in the world that can satiate them. I remember when I picked up that guitar 5 years ago, I knew immediately that this is what I want to do for the rest of my life, there was no hesitation. I don't care if I never have a single dime in my pocket as long as I get to play music. So if someone has no talent or motivation for music. They aren't real musicians. Even worse, they're wannabes, and thus not worth the time. |
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Vinter said: Girl's "bad guy" boyfriend is a musician though. That trumps pretty much everything short of King. ^_^ Right. Treekodar said: I guess the women that do prefer bad guys think that if they can turn the baddie into a goodie, it must be because they themselves are amazing. Simple self-acceptance through others. Understandable really, considering this:  |
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entropy13 said: stuff My father was a musician, my sister is a musician/actress, my brother is a painter, and I'm a musician. I might be biased. ;D |
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| what a shit thread, this belongs in CD |
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