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6th Commandment: "Thou shalt not commit adultery."
9th Commandment: "Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's wife."
These are not just simple pieces of advice.. they are two of the ten commandments, very serious offenses, mortal sins that open the gates of hell for eternal damnation if one does not truly repent.
Lust is one of the seven deadly sins.
If a woman committed these sins, she risked repudiation, exile, and even death.
The Lateran Council established that all the vicars of God could not have sex or marry: priests, friars, cardinals, bishops, the pope, deacons, monks, and then nuns and sisters. This was one of the most important reasons for the split with the Lateran pacts and the Protestant Reformation.
In the early centuries after Christ, monasteries were mixed male and female, but this changed after the discovery of actual graveyards of infants. This issue continued through the centuries, for example, with the Irish Magdalene Laundries, where disenfranchised girls ended up for the usual reasons: prostitution, rape, and sex outside of marriage. Many of them were pregnant and underwent numerous abortions; for their immoral conduct, they were often treated as true slaves, and their lives did not matter much.
The sexual act was strictly allowed only for the purpose of procreation within a marriage blessed by God.
Wealthy families often had the bride's hymen checked to ensure it was still intact.
Chastity belts were very common.
During the Inquisition, one risked being accused and punished for adultery and immoral conduct in general; even just for masturbation, one risked being interrogated, tortured, and pressured to confess falsehoods.
For example, Mary of Brabant was accused by her husband of adultery, along with alleged satanic practices and witchcraft; she was killed.
During interrogations they used tools such as the "breast ripper". Such cases occurred by the hundreds. It was generally believed that sexual desire was far from a miracle of God and life but rather a manifestation of the demon, of lust. All this control only created repression and further depravity that led to delirium and hysteria, hysteria was the illness of that time. The Church decided how and when it was appropriate to have sex, even stating that the only correct position was missionary, while all others were sinful. The Kamasutra arrived very late in Europe, around the 19th century, and was immediately condemned by the Church and censored or banned. Rape, on the other hand, was not seen as that serious; rather, it was often minimized, and victims were blamed for provoking it, perhaps by behaving in certain ways or dressing in certain clothes.
So sexually appreciating an angel would have meant burning at the stake for heresy or blasphemy, but also a demon for that matter because it meant being a follower of Lucifer. The church had the templars massacred by spreading false rumors that they worshipped an androgynous god "the baphomet" the goat god, Satan. During the witch hunt if you hated someone whether it was a queen, a templar or your neighbor you could say he/she was having orgies and his life and honor were at an end.