| Not red unless the violin has a human face stretched over it Desperately searches for new partners while confessing their love to you |
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| red short |
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| How dare they ! Sq nishant0 said: how much? Youre literally 140cm nishant0 said: bro im not a toddler Prove it, stop stealin my stuff from the fridge ! .. ok ig youre a teen at least 😒🤣 Food monsters 🗿 |
DostojevskijDec 26, 3:46 AM
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| how much? Dostojevskij said: bro im not a toddler Youre literally 140cm sq |
nishant0Dec 26, 3:27 AM
| plin plin plon |
| No Same |
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| Yes please stop being short ! Do better ! Tall |
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| That's a green flag innit, or rather, it doesn't matter Has a collection of spiders and snakes in their room |
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| Once they creeped me out ! They sent me picture of a baby python on their bed (never talked to them after that) so VENOMOUS RED ewwww unhealthy hobby Has a collection of dead butterfly |
| Well i kinda liked looking at them, but knowing they were alive when pinned later makes me think mmmm nah. Like i get it but id feel guilty. I dunno. Like i liked people that did and theyd been really good people too but they were also red in other areas that broke my heart so probably red? I mean the mentality behind it is red no ? Like aquarering live ones to pin thats a red... but the ones already made and bought at a thrift thats not really red. Like its already dead itd be a pity to just throw it away... i prefer posters tho. The kids and museums can keep the real ones. Sq |
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| Collecting dead animals or trophies is the reddest kind of red Having minor forms of self-harm |
 watching, waiting, commiserating |
| mental self-harm most of the time is difficult to control like negative self-talk or harmful thought patterns...but slightest of physical self harm is obvious RED I mean you really need help. same |
| Yeah I have minor cases of self harm as well when that pizza is too hot but damn am I hungry. On a serious note, what is a minor form of self harm? Is it scratching? Honestly like, I don't think self harm says a lot about a person...? I'd not call it a red flag per se...? Hates the idea of having pets. |
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| No. I love dogs and cats myself but some people are worried about the prospect of veterinary bills and all the other various expenses/responsibilities that come with pet ownership. Sq |
| and if you find you're not the kind to face the pain of reality stay by my side and we will find a place to stay in all its splendid beauty  |
| no same |
| .... |
| No i get it sometimes its responsible too Like hating the idea of having pets isnt the same as hating pets and animals. It might even be the complete opposite. And a sign of selfawareness, care and responsibility. Putting what they deserve, needs, care etc above your own irresistable incredibles need for their lovely lovely fluff if you know the conditions and your current situation, wants and goals atm doesnt add up with what a fluff or other would need. Sq |
DostojevskijDec 27, 2:24 PM
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| Yes. Gtfo Sq |
| Huge red flag! Ignores their kitty to watch anime. |
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| Yes very red :[ Sq |
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| Animal cruelty basically (joke) Sq |
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| Ignore when the kitty needs help, then it's a red flag, but if she just wants attention for the 15th time that day, then it can wait for 20 minutes >:3 Ignores you to watch anime |
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| As a cat id be allowed to at least claw out their face fo da audacity ! desu ! Lol It depends im not having no communication and passive aggression that is. If i dont give them their private space and breaks at times or crosses laid down boundaries thats on me. Id like to think i wouldnt do that tho. If they wont communicate and treats me like that then yeah thats a red flag. But im not gonna be friends or date a person that would ignore me like that nuh uh. You either communicate in a healthy way or you out. If its like... i dunno like it depends... im just used to bad behaviour way where people do mindgames with other stuff so im gettin TRIGGERED lol. Its not a red flag but can literally be a defense against boundary crossing and bombarding behaviour too. Or to people that try to do mindgames WITH YOU. Like nothing works and they only pretend to learn, understand and listen but keep fcking you up every time you try to trust so then you have to not be open and keep the wall up around them to protect yourself. And stand by your boundary or need for space. And not give in when they act up. So i dubno its fcking complicated. But ok out of the blue toward me, yes, thats a red. Healthy people communicate. Sq |
DostojevskijYesterday, 2:22 AM
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| depends how frequently but prolly not a red flag. people should have time to be alone. hates ur family |
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| Yes. I can understand feeling uncomfortable with a few things about them, but full-on hate is a deal-breaker; my family comes first for me. Sq |
| and if you find you're not the kind to face the pain of reality stay by my side and we will find a place to stay in all its splendid beauty |
| Lmao... it depends how its expressed... you can hate and still love and care about people i dunno... To me what people call hate often seen like it needs more nuance to get to the root and whats behind it. Its not very descriptive. Its often more like hurt, pain and frustration. Maybe disbelief and anger. If its outwardly abusive hate that harms or isolates you from your family and friends dwindling your selfeesteem to isolate you for no reason and without consent then yeah thats red. And not just frustated hate then yeah thats a red. Like they shouldnt be escalating things unless you agree and it makes sense or something is harmful to them or others... or like cause the family is being bad and youre not doing ANYTHING to protect or help them rather the opposite pulling them into your familys abuse #toxiic lol..... Or you use them as a tool for your family or your family tries to make them their tool in a bad way tgey do not want. I dunno sometimes if i know someone has repeatedly hurt their partners or others or raped them i find it hard to pretend smile at them unless i know people would be in danger, hurt if i didnt.... i cant just ignore it and pretend everything is fine if theyve just beat someone up or pushed them down the fcking stairs again.... im not gonna be friends with you and pretend its ok and nothing happened like sorry you can remove that smile from your face i dont even wanna fcking greet or be near you to cosy and make nice when i know what you are 🖕. But you gotta be there for the person that was hurt if they still love their family. IF you have the capacity for it that is. Otherwise it could just hurt both people if they dont know how to restrain themself when they need to or the other to accept when the other person cannot accept abuse or whatever from their family. Its about them not you. But family ties is not enough reason to stay with family. If they dont treat you right and damaged, damage and keeps abusing you or fcking you up you dont owe them shit. They decided to bring a human into this world, thats on them. Its not a red flag being unable to accept abuse or dysfunctional patterns in a family. Being unable to compromise at all when its not about you might be tho. Again depends. People need to figure out what they can give, not give, accept and not accept from eachother and their families. Sometimes i feel like if its a red flag or not depends on a lot of factors, expectations, needs, the personalities, boundaries, experiences of the people involved and the severities of stuff and how it affects them and what they want from it all. If you have a good caring family and the person wont compromise or be civil, is very selfish, have weird hate reasons or not theyre basically just being an asshole then yeah that could be red. Also hate is a very strong word. Using "hate" about your family COULD be red too depending on if theyre serious hate hate or what they did. With my own family it would be uncaring and red i feel. Like you can dislike something but dont vent at me about it or treat me like i need to choose between them and you. Yeah thats a red but it really all depends on people situation and things. If a person speaks to you about hating your family and makes it all about them when its got nothing to do with them and youre not getting harmed then yeah thats red. If they just spew hatred hatred and really bad way act out abusive hatred too. Like people can validate but they shouldnt bulldoze you and go all black/white on your family. Making space for nothing but misery and erasing the good parts that can still be salvaged if the person needs it. Depends on capacities. I dunno its complicated it really depends how. Edit: omg Sq |
DostojevskijYesterday, 4:06 AM
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| just like what starflutter said, its fine if they just uncomfortable with or just dont like some of my family behavior, but hate ? red dont want to cosplay as ur favorite waifu/husbu character 😠 |
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| It's okay. I have none. My husbando/waifu is already them. After your first date with them they spend 7 days nonstop reading all of Umineko. |
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| Yes if she doesn't answer my text messages at least once a day to let me know she is still alive Occasionally wears an "awesome asexual" pin badge v It's just the fact that she explicitly tells others that "don't even try" |
tinshardYesterday, 4:34 AM
| ^^This surely sounds red man ^I dunno, it doesn't sound too bad, maybe cringey at best They are @DropOfLove |
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| Yes They think frightning animals is funny |
"It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities" - HP1 forever fave quote //This was quoted in the year of 2009 |
| Hell yes Sq |
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| Nah Is a Greek polytheist |
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