| good or bad for breakup recovery? would you recommend? does it matter if one waits one day or one year to date again? |
| Eh, depends on the person. I straight up told the guy he was a rebound and he was fine with it. Just be upfront and I think people can appreciate that. I wouldn't recommend it but I also think people should try things for themselves before taking someone else's advice too seriously. No one can fault someone for dating someone new the same night they break up. They should probably just be aware that they are a pretty garbage human. |
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| I prefer three point relationships, I'm not good in the paint but I can still hit from far away hahah |
| I CELEBRATE myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you. |
| It all depends on what time of person you are. Do you just have move on really quick? Are you truly in a proper relationship? As for if you partner is having a rebound relationship with you, always be careful with it. Make sure they are upfront about it and don't see you as a mere substitute. Of course, you've got to be sensitive and understanding towards them in return as well. |
| If your favourite character is Tsutsukakushi Tsukiko, you are my soul mate. Been a long time since I've been here, I'll continue expressing myself freely and believe everyone should too. My MAL Interview |
| Depends on the reason why you broke up. If two people did it because one had to study somewhere for a long time, then it is better to have space, and see what would happen with both their feelings over time. After a breakup full of screams and pain? Your heart will not tolerate it another time. It will only become an obsession, and obsessions are not necessarily desires. |
"Stand up and walk. Keep moving forward. You've got two good legs. So get up and use them. You're strong enough to make your own path." |
| Who gives a fuck? We all die anyway. Do whatever you want. |
| Can't have an opinion on something you've never experienced. |
I'm a shitposter for fun |
| Rebound relationships work for some people I know, doesn't work for me though. I have to take a bit of time before I can get back into the game again |
| I feel like MAL is slowly, no rapidly becoming MyBlogList. |
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| I've never been in a rebound relationship, but I remember when I broke up with my ex he went in one like a few days later and it was honestly really insulting, the thought that he could get over it so quickly. |
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| I don't even know what a rebound is supposed to be. |
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| i think they could work but it's incredibly unfair to the person you're rebounding with |
| I generally don't agree with them because in a lot of cases it's one person basically using the other for their own selfish needs to fix their emotional trauma, which then can become emotional trauma given to the person you're using when it ends. I was a rebound to someone once.. It was one of my first relationships, so I was more naive. He always vented to me about his problems, or his ex, and seemed only to want comfort from me. He seemed to only talk about himself, and was way less passionate when talking about other people. Ultimately the way this relationship ended was I found out he had been doing the same thing with several other women, basically getting them to mother him, and then use them for sex. It really fucked me up being that this person was someone I use to view very highly, and gave him my first time, and many other first experiences.. So no, I don't agree with rebound relationships. But there are exceptions, like if you tell the person upfront you're using them as a rebound. Therefore you can process it, and make sure to not make yourself too emotionally vulnerable if it ends. After me and that guy ended, one of my very close female friends got flirty with me. She had a very similar experience to mine with another guy, so me and her decided to be flirty with each other, cuddle, go on dates to restaurants and do cute things like that. We're not actually into each other romantically. But it's like we have a relationship just for fun, to help us both recover from the shitty people we were with previously. |
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