| I recently fell in love, rather fast and hard I might add. I feel as though I'm more motivated to improve myself now, I'm more motivated to get be more social and do more things with my life, I'm more motivated to actually start living. I'm 22 and not getting any younger, love appears to be my great motivator. Do you agree that love is the/a great motivator in life? Do you think something else, say money for instance, trumps love as a motivator? What is your great motivator? Talk amongst yourselves. As a mood setting, my favorite song about love: |
ThrashMattoNov 13, 2015 1:43 AM
 I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
| I think love is definitely a huge motivator. it's one of the most amazing and overwhelming feelings. It definitely trumps over money as a motivator at least for me. |
| Who/what did you fall in love with? Anyway, I'm afraid it's the opposite for me. Falling in love just successfully makes me feel even worse about myself, since it's always of the unrequited kind. I'm not sure what my biggest "motivator" is, probably just getting enjoyment out of something, above all else. |
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| I'm so sorry. You will now be a slave to chemical overdoses in certain parts of your brain making you think irrationally. |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: I could say it if you really want me to.Who/what did you fall in love with? Pacifica_Ocean said: I am too buddy, believe me, I am too.I'm so sorry. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
| Love is what got me into music. I was picking between taking music or art as an elective for high school. I was pretty good at both but leaned more on art as I wasn't really into band at the time. The guy I loved told his friend that he'd pick music so I did the same and ended up loving music. |
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ThrashMatto said: SnugglyWhuggly said: I could say it if you really want me to.Who/what did you fall in love with? What's that supposed to mean? lol Lemme guess, Mayukachan? :P |
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| I think the only thing that could match love would be ideals as many aren't as fierce as a man fighting for them. “At one time I had given much thought to why men were so very rarely capable of living for an ideal. Now I saw that many, no, all men were capable of dying for one.” I'd say close third would be revenge as a man with nothing to lose, but everything to gain is equally as dangerous. |
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mayukachan said: The guy I loved told his friend that he'd pick music so I did the same I had no idea you were a 13 year old school girl. |
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Pacifica_Ocean said: I used to be.mayukachan said: The guy I loved told his friend that he'd pick music so I did the same I had no idea you were a 13 year old school girl. |
mayukachan said: Pacifica_Ocean said: I used to be.I had no idea you were a 13 year old school girl. Weren't we all. |
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-YunoGasai said: We'll see you again in a couple of months OP, when you discover what it's like to have that love destroyed. Yeah, the feeling of love is like a high, and then the other person finds someone else or grows bored of you, and you're left in perhaps the most painful of emotional pains you'll ever feel. Life's a bitch, and then you die, as the saying goes, lol. |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: Goddamn you're jaded.-YunoGasai said: We'll see you again in a couple of months OP, when you discover what it's like to have that love destroyed. Yeah, the feeling of love is like a high, and then the other person finds someone else or grows bored of you, and you're left in perhaps the most painful of emotional pains you'll ever feel. Life's a bitch, and then you die, as the saying goes, lol. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
ThrashMatto said: SnugglyWhuggly said: Goddamn you're jaded.Yeah, the feeling of love is like a high, and then the other person finds someone else or grows bored of you, and you're left in perhaps the most painful of emotional pains you'll ever feel. Life's a bitch, and then you die, as the saying goes, lol. "Love" will do this to you. |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: Yes, but "Love" can also restore your hope.ThrashMatto said: Goddamn you're jaded. "Love" will do this to you. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
Rat said: Love is the best kind of drug, I never want to go to rehab.I'm a love addict Matto. Love and lust drive me far and wide. Go with it. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
| Impressing the attracting sex is a great motivator, yes. It can also fuck you up. It's okay to care about being appealing, but stay on guard. You don't want to live an unenjoyable lifestyle just so females will approve of your existence. |
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Rat said: lol, think he are talking about two different types of love here buddy.ThrashMatto said: Share you love with as many girls as you can. Spread it around. Feel the thrill of of having one girl while another one is waiting for you. Dedicate a corner in your brain to store all their smells and when you walk the street feel your spine tingling as you catch a whiff of one you're so familiar with !Love is the best kind of drug, I never want to go to rehab. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
Rat said: lol typo, meant we instead of he. You're referring to lust, I'm talking about love. Two different things.ThrashMatto said: lol, think he are talking about two different types of love here buddy. ? Edit: Holy fuck, my English is failing. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
Rat said: Not necessarily, I do actually put romantic love above physical appearance. I can love somebody romantically for their personality.ThrashMatto said: lol type, meant we instead oh he. You're referring to lust, I'm talking about love. Two different things. Wait you don't mean love for you parents and pets right? If it's a girl you're talking about then lust is a Major factor. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
Rat said: I don't see the disconnect here, and who said I love somebody who's online?ThrashMatto said: Not necessarily, I do actually put romantic love above physical appearance. I can love somebody romantically for their personality. How do you get to the point of analysing her personality if you're not physically attracted to her? By reading her online posts? Edit: So you can actually be romantically in love with someone and not want to have sex with her? Sure, I can love somebody romantically without wanting sex constantly. Love is deeper than just fucking. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
Rat said: ThrashMatto said: I don't see the disconnect here, and who said I love somebody who's online? Sure, I can love somebody romantically without wanting sex constantly. Love is deeper than just fucking. Well you already had an incident so I assumed... So how do you get to know you actually love her if there's no attraction to spark the love? Well... It's like eating tasteless food. You get the nutrition but you miss the taste. That "incident" as i've clearified before was meant to test how far I could push CD and Mayuka before I became a pariah around here, nothing more. I don't and never have loved her. Attraction isn't just physical, I think you're missing that. I think that analogy is wrong. The look of the food is equivalent to the looks of the person. The complex taste of the food is equivalent to the complex personality of the person. Personality > Looks |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
ThrashMatto said: I don't see the disconnect here, and who said I love somebody who's online? So you don't love Mayukachan then? Why? :p |
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What was your question? oh come on, that example is retarded. Of course physical attraction is important but I can overlook it too a degree if they have an exceptional personality. SnugglyWhuggly said: No, because I can't love somebody that self-absorbed.ThrashMatto said: I don't see the disconnect here, and who said I love somebody who's online? So you don't love Mayukachan then? Why? :p |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
ThrashMatto said: No, because I can't love somebody that self-absorbed. Then what was with all your "I luv you" posts related to her about then? |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: I literally just explained that...ThrashMatto said: No, because I can't love somebody that self-absorbed. Then what was with all your "I luv you" posts related to her about then? |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
ThrashMatto said: ayyy lmaoNo, because I can't love somebody that self-absorbed. |
ThrashMatto said: SnugglyWhuggly said: I literally just explained that...Then what was with all your "I luv you" posts related to her about then? 'Kay, so then why did you want to "see how far I could push CD and Mayuka" then? I don't get this. |
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Rat said: Hey girls stop distracting Matto, please. But I'm curious. :c |
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Rat said: As I said, of course physical attraction has to be there but it's more of a base level thing. lets use bernkastel theory of love here.ThrashMatto said: What was your question? oh come on, that example is retarded. Of course physical attraction is important but I can overlook it too a degree if they have an exceptional personality. How do you get to the point where you judge a girls personality (and as a result falling in love with her) if you feel no physical attraction? No it's not. It's a perfect example... It maybe a little too hard on you yet it serves the purpose of optimizing the situation to your analogy. The "food" looks bad so you're not attracted to it yet it has a very unique and complex taste. Physical Attraction sets love at a base of 0, it's neither positive or negative. Just means I want to fuck. Mental Attraction is what makes the bar go up or down. If somebody is physically attractive but the most dull person ever I have absolutely no interest in them, If somebody is physically attractive and they have a complex and interesting personality, I'm more likely to be attracted to them on an emotional level rather than just a primal (sex) one. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
mayukachan said: No offense intended, your "woe is me, everyone hates me, everyone look at how hated I am" shit while a circle jerk is happening tends to annoy me.ThrashMatto said: ayyy lmaoNo, because I can't love somebody that self-absorbed. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
ThrashMatto said: You haven't been in the community long enough to see everything that's happened. mayukachan said: No offense intended, your "woe is me, everyone hates me, everyone look at how hated I am" shit while a circle jerk is happening tends to annoy me.ayyy lmao But yeah, I'm not thick skinned at all. Shit hurts when it happens. |
Rat said: SnugglyWhuggly said: But I'm curious. :c You don't believe he's going to actually provide you with a satisfying answer you would be able to understand and relate to, right? I'm not looking for an answer I can "relate to", I'm just curious about the whole "I wuvs Mayuka" thing. I don't know whether or not he can provide an answer I can understand until he gives me an answer. |
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mayukachan said: It's okay, we're all emotionally fragile. I don't dislike you, it's just that one personality flaw of yours really gets to me. We are all flawed in some way, some more than others.ThrashMatto said: You haven't been in the community long enough to see everything that's happened. No offense intended, your "woe is me, everyone hates me, everyone look at how hated I am" shit while a circle jerk is happening tends to annoy me. But yeah, I'm not thick skinned at all. Shit hurts when it happens. SnugglyWhuggly said: Fuck sakes Snuggly, I gave you the damn answer already. Rat said: You don't believe he's going to actually provide you with a satisfying answer you would be able to understand and relate to, right? I'm not looking for an answer I can "relate to", I'm just curious about the whole "I wuvs Mayuka" thing. I don't know whether or not he can provide an answer I can understand until he gives me an answer. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
ThrashMatto said: Fuck sakes Snuggly, I gave you the damn answer already. Yes, and I asked literally just a few minutes ago why you wanted to "see how far I can push CD and Mayuka". What was your intent behind that? Giggles? Boredom? I don't get it... |
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Rat said: ThrashMatto said: As I said, of course physical attraction has to be there but it's more of a base level thing. lets use bernkastel theory of love here. Physical Attraction sets love at a base of 0, it's neither positive or negative. Just means I want to fuck. Mental Attraction is what makes the bar go up or down. If somebody is physically attractive but the most dull person ever I have absolutely no interest in them, If somebody is physically attractive and they have a complex and interesting personality, I'm more likely to be attracted to them on an emotional level rather than just a primal (sex) one. That's a perfect explanation and a good example. I can feel Bernkastel's hand there. Yet it You caim you can love someone romantically without any physical attraction. So you haven't set to bar to 0 to begin with... 0 is base attraction on the most primal level, physical. If you are not physically attractive you start as a negative, doesn't mean you can't be in the positives once I get to know you, just means you have a big handicap. The girl I currently love is already physically attractive, but it's her personality and mind that I'm most attracted to. SnugglyWhuggly said: Self-destruction due to depression, happy now?ThrashMatto said: Fuck sakes Snuggly, I gave you the damn answer already. Yes, and I asked literally just a few minutes ago why you wanted to "see how far I can push CD and Mayuka". What was your intent behind that? Giggles? Boredom? I don't get it... |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
ThrashMatto said: Self-destruction due to depression, happy now? Nope, I still don't get it, but okay. I guess Rat was right, you provided an answer I couldn't understand in the slightest. :p Oh well, I'll leave you alone now. Best of luck with your new(?) romantic interest. |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: I swear god, snuggly, you're such a fucking troll.ThrashMatto said: Self-destruction due to depression, happy now? Nope, I still don't get it, but okay. I guess Rat was right, you provided an answer I couldn't understand in the slightest. :p Oh well, I'll leave you alone now. Best of luck with your new(?) romantic interest. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
ThrashMatto said: I swear god, snuggly, you're such a fucking troll. Sure, I can be a bit of a shitposter at times, but what's that got to do with this? I wasn't the one who "trolled" Mayuka for a month or two, after all. ;P |
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Rat said: I don't fucking know, this shits too complicated. Anyway, no I'm not going to follow your advice and "Share you love with as many girls as you can. Spread it around. Feel the thrill of of having one girl while another one is waiting for you.". I believe in monogamy and commitment, goddamn.ThrashMatto said: 0 is base attraction on the most primal level, physical. If you are not physically attractive you start as a negative, doesn't mean you can't be in the positives once I get to know you, just means you have a big handicap. The girl I currently love is already physically attractive, but it's her personality and mind that I'm most attracted to. Self-destruction due to depression, happy now? Then why deny lust in the 1st place? Just add a layer of "deeper" emotions and cognitive appreciation of her qualities? |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
SnugglyWhuggly said: -_- what the fuck Snuggly, what the fuck? You know what, fine fuck it, go keep believing whatever warped reality you want. I explained it to you and yet you don't get it. Maybe I was wrong about you...ThrashMatto said: I swear god, snuggly, you're such a fucking troll. Sure, I can be a bit of a shitposter at times, but what's that got to do with this? I wasn't the one who "trolled" Mayuka for a month or two, after all. ;P |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
ThrashMatto said: SnugglyWhuggly said: -_- what the fuck Snuggly, what the fuck? You know what, fine fuck it, go keep believing whatever warped reality you want. I explained it to you and yet you don't get it. Maybe I was wrong about you...Sure, I can be a bit of a shitposter at times, but what's that got to do with this? I wasn't the one who "trolled" Mayuka for a month or two, after all. ;P I seriously don't even know what it is you're even talking about here, lol. "Wrong about me" how? What did you think of me beforehand? Sorry if I've disappointed you in some way... |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: Please. I wasn't trolled. I never expected anyone on the internet to like me more than friends. It just sounds silly to like someone without knowing how they look like.ThrashMatto said: I swear god, snuggly, you're such a fucking troll. Sure, I can be a bit of a shitposter at times, but what's that got to do with this? I wasn't the one who "trolled" Mayuka for a month or two, after all. ;P |
SnugglyWhuggly said: ThrashMatto said: -_- what the fuck Snuggly, what the fuck? You know what, fine fuck it, go keep believing whatever warped reality you want. I explained it to you and yet you don't get it. Maybe I was wrong about you... I seriously don't even know what it is you're even talking about here, lol. "Wrong about me" how? What did you think of me beforehand? Sorry if I've disappointed you in some way... Okay, let's lay this out easily. 1. I intentionally fucked with Mayuka and CD because my depressed was fucking with me, so I didn't really care about anyone else at the time. So I decided to push this board as far as I could to see how much people could hate me. I do not believe this was the right thing to do and I am deeply sorry to everyone involved. 2. I believed you were intelligent, I still do, I just don't see why you can't grasp this simple concept seeing as you yourself have been depressed. You haven't disappointed me in any way... |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
Rat said: ThrashMatto said: I don't fucking know, this shits too complicated. Anyway, no I'm not going to follow your advice and "Share you love with as many girls as you can. Spread it around. Feel the thrill of of having one girl while another one is waiting for you.". I believe in monogamy and commitment, goddamn. I don't think it's as complicated as you think it is (unless we go down to the chemical level). Well... You can't say I haven't tried. Good luck with that. And good luck with your life of casual fucking, Rat. I hope it's fulfilling in some way. We're so off topic now that I don't even know anymore. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
mayukachan said: SnugglyWhuggly said: Please. I wasn't trolled. I never expected anyone on the internet to like me more than friends. It just sounds silly to like someone without knowing how they look like.Sure, I can be a bit of a shitposter at times, but what's that got to do with this? I wasn't the one who "trolled" Mayuka for a month or two, after all. ;P I don't know everything that happened, but I assumed that was the case. I think it's possible to "like" someone even if you don't know what they look like, their personality anyway. But "love"? Nah... ThrashMatto said: Okay, let's lay this out easily. 1. I intentionally fucked with Mayuka and CD because my depressed was fucking with me, so I didn't really care about anyone else at the time. So I decided to push this board as far as I could to see how much people could hate me. I do not believe this was the right thing to do and I am deeply sorry to everyone involved. 2. I believed you were intelligent, I still do, I just don't see why you can't grasp this simple concept seeing as you yourself have been depressed. You haven't disappointed me in any way... This is what I don't get though: How is claiming "love" for someone on the internet supposed to get people to "hate you"? And why do even want people to hate you anyhow? I guess we all go through depression differently, and personally I wouldn't fuck with other people the way you did (even if it was rather innocuous) no matter how shitty I felt about myself. So I do find it hard to understand where you're coming from. Believing I'm intelligent must means you're not too bright yourself, to be frank. :p And yeah, I've been depressed myself as well, but as aforementioned, how you "handled" depression is bizarre to me. |
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