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Whats your sexuality/sexual orientation? (Sorry if i miss out some, really sorry - I'm dumb...)
May 6, 2013 11:05 AM
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I hope none of this offends anyone in any kind of way, and I'm sorry if it does and if I do anything wrong I'm sorry I'm just you know... dumb and so I've made this post for people to just in general discuss it or to share their problems about their sexuality, I know there is plenty of people with problems and this is a just something that people can participate in or just read that might help them. Just tell anything you want if you feel comfortable with it, age, sexuality, first experience, thoughts, problems etc.... and I'd be happy If you took the poll, your choice, so yeah, sorry if anyone gets annoyed with something because I've done or is offended...
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
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May 6, 2013 11:10 AM
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I'm straight.

I don't have problems with it.
May 6, 2013 11:10 AM
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Ah sorry about that, I forgot to put that option in. And yeah I get where you coming from.
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
May 6, 2013 11:12 AM
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For anyone who is unsure or something else i haven't listed as an opinion in the poll, just state it in a comment or just don't take the poll, I'm very sorry about forgetting that option and maybe some other ones.
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
May 6, 2013 11:14 AM
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Battlechili1 said:
Like, I usually think of myself as straight, but things like this make me wonder.
For some reason I find this fanart of Inuyasha slightly attractive, and it worries me:

You know you can find other dudes attractive, and still be straight, right? :P
May 6, 2013 11:14 AM
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Battlechili1 said:
There should be a "I don't know" button.
As for myself, I'm straight, or at least I like to think of myself that way, but sometimes I'm unsure and think I might be bi. However, regardless of whether or not I would have an attraction to other guys, I would refuse to ever date or be with a guy in that aspect, so even if I would have an attraction to another male, I would refuse to date or be with a guy, so it would almost be like I would be straight anyway.
Basically, I'm either straight or bi, I don't know, but I don't want to be bi and I wouldn't date other males anyway. So consider me straight.
I suppose.


How old are you? It's probably just hormones, I experienced the same thing (I'm straight).

Anyway, as a heterosexual, the only problem I've encountered is being approached by a few too many homosexuals for my liking. Girls like me aswell, but I still find it a bit of an issue.
May 6, 2013 11:15 AM
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Battlechili1 said:
Like, I usually think of myself as straight, but things like this make me wonder.
For some reason I find this fanart of Inuyasha slightly attractive, and it worries me:



Yeah I think its attractive too xD mm inuyasha and yeah sometimes people get confused as to what their sexuality is, I don't think it matters of course, but its always nice to be sure of it. I have that problems like this too.
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
May 6, 2013 11:18 AM
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I tend to think of myself as pansexual but heteroromantic.
May 6, 2013 11:26 AM
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Scud said:
I tend to think of myself as pansexual but heteroromantic.


Thats fine too.
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
May 6, 2013 11:30 AM

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Anyone having sexuality problems of any kind?
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
May 6, 2013 11:33 AM
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I'm...idk.
May 6, 2013 11:35 AM

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i get girl-crushes sometimes but when it comes down to it, i'm straight as a pin. i can like a girls personality a lot, and cock my head to the side, but when i think of getting in bed with her, nuh uh
May 6, 2013 11:37 AM

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Straight don't have a problem with that I don't think it would matter much if I were gay I would just keep it to myself.
May 6, 2013 11:40 AM

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daintybiscuit said:
i get girl-crushes sometimes but when it comes down to it, i'm straight as a pin. i can like a girls personality a lot, and cock my head to the side, but when i think of getting in bed with her, nuh uh



Yeah I see what you mean, so its just a thought, nothing has actually happened, might change in the future or just wash over and realise it was just a phase of some sort.
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
May 6, 2013 11:50 AM

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I'm mostly straight. Totally. Yeah.

daintybiscuit said:
i get girl-crushes sometimes but when it comes down to it, i'm straight as a pin. i can like a girls personality a lot, and cock my head to the side, but when i think of getting in bed with her, nuh uh


heh! Freud will say...
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May 6, 2013 11:53 AM

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Battlechili1 said:
Another problem I have is that there's this gay guy who keeps sending me messages on Facebook trying to get me to be with him.
dankickyou said:
I'm mostly straight. Totally. Yeah.

daintybiscuit said:
i get girl-crushes sometimes but when it comes down to it, i'm straight as a pin. i can like a girls personality a lot, and cock my head to the side, but when i think of getting in bed with her, nuh uh


heh! Freud will say...

What would Freud say?

Your Mother.
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May 6, 2013 11:54 AM

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Battlechili1 said:
Another problem I have is that there's this gay guy who keeps sending me messages on Facebook trying to get me to be with him.

Do him .
May 6, 2013 12:01 PM

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"Demisexual" is as accurate as I can find.. my problem is that I don't know how to explain to people what turns me on.. since it's an abstract/virtual thing..
GhostonyMay 6, 2013 12:04 PM
sexual incest in nisomonogatari - no one bats an eye
romance incest in SAO - everyone loses their minds
May 6, 2013 12:01 PM

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Battlechili1 said:
Another problem I have is that there's this gay guy who keeps sending me messages on Facebook trying to get me to be with him.


Tell him to stop harassing you if you don't like him.
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
May 6, 2013 12:03 PM

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I'm not really sure if I'd be considered asexual or heterosexual. I find women attractive, but I have no interest in having any sort of intimate relationship.
May 6, 2013 12:04 PM

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@Random_Girl:
Welcome to MAL, by the way.

Thank you :)
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
May 6, 2013 12:05 PM

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No homos here? I'm disappointed.
Well, I'm bisexual, and I don't have problems with it. At least I have a bigger range of people I can choose from. The only problem is people might think that such person is actually promiscuous, but well...
although it seems pansexuality fits too. I can't really comprehend the difference though.
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May 6, 2013 12:08 PM

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Bi-sexual, I've been attacked to both sexes, and I wouldn't mind fucking with either of them. However, I'd say my attraction lies more towards men though. But I can picture myself in a relationship with the both of them.
May 6, 2013 12:09 PM

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Bisexual, i'm open to relationships with either gender...

Narmy said:
I'm not really sure if I'd be considered asexual or heterosexual. I find women attractive, but I have no interest in having any sort of intimate relationship.


what.....

lol @ img bbcode not working, mal is such a great site
May 6, 2013 12:10 PM

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KingLear said:
No homos here? I'm disappointed.
Well, I'm bisexual, and I don't have problems with it. At least I have a bigger range of people I can choose from. The only problem is people might think that such person is actually promiscuous, but well...
although it seems pansexuality fits too. I can't really comprehend the difference though.


Yeah I agree, and i was kinda disappointed there were no homosexuals either xD but whatever people are is fine ofc and yeah I agree with the wider range thing.
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
May 6, 2013 12:19 PM

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Anyone having problems telling friends or family about your sexuality or something?
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
May 6, 2013 12:28 PM

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biitchstick said:
Bisexual, i'm open to relationships with either gender...

Narmy said:
I'm not really sure if I'd be considered asexual or heterosexual. I find women attractive, but I have no interest in having any sort of intimate relationship.


what.....



What's wrong with what he said? If I interpreted what he said correctly, he has a sexual attraction towards women, but doesn't want the time and effort that comes with having a relationship. Isn't that normal?
May 6, 2013 12:29 PM

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Whats the best way to tell your family and friends about your sexuality? Suggestions anyone?
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
May 6, 2013 12:31 PM

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Random_Girl said:
Whats the best way to tell your family and friends about your sexuality? Suggestions anyone?


Depends on your age. If you're under 18, I wouldn't tell anyone yet.
May 6, 2013 12:31 PM

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Random_Girl said:
Whats the best way to tell your family and friends about your sexuality? Suggestions anyone?

'I'm gay'.
'I'm bi'.
'I like dogs in a different way to most'.

That kind of thing I imagine.
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Random_Girl said:
Whats the best way to tell your family and friends about your sexuality? Suggestions anyone?


'Mum, Dad I like Boys\girls\both genders'
At an appropriate time, of course.
May 6, 2013 12:32 PM

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Scud said:
Random_Girl said:
Whats the best way to tell your family and friends about your sexuality? Suggestions anyone?

'I'm gay'.
'I'm bi'.
'I like dogs in a different way to most'.

That kind of thing I imagine.


I guess so, thats simple but i guess for some people its not easily to tell people because of what they might think, especially family.
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
May 6, 2013 12:34 PM

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Pkmn said:
Random_Girl said:
Whats the best way to tell your family and friends about your sexuality? Suggestions anyone?


'Mum, Dad I like Boysgirlsboth genders'
At an appropriate time, of course.


Yeah, but i guess lots of things top people from telling people, parents & family especially because maybe of culture or just their parents might not accept it in general or you might get kicked out of your house...
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
May 6, 2013 12:47 PM

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I'm afraid I'm just a boring straight guy.
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May 6, 2013 12:52 PM

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2D-sexual> 3D-sexual
May 6, 2013 12:54 PM

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Burna said:
I'm afraid I'm just a boring straight guy.


No. You da best !
May 6, 2013 12:57 PM

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Straight as a rainbow!

I never knew about same-sex stigma in-depth until recently nor can I think of any problems. I guess that happens when you're not pressured into any role.
May 6, 2013 12:58 PM

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dankickyou said:
daintybiscuit said:
i get girl-crushes sometimes but when it comes down to it, i'm straight as a pin. i can like a girls personality a lot, and cock my head to the side, but when i think of getting in bed with her, nuh uh


heh! Freud will say...

What would Freud say?

Something about dicks, I'd imagine.
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May 6, 2013 12:58 PM

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Chakaara said:
Burna said:
I'm afraid I'm just a boring straight guy.


No. You da best !


Yeah its fine being straight
"People accept the eventual pain of a loss when they find something that matters to them. But still... even that being considered... its much better than caring for nothing at all. Being hurt is preferable to never knowing happiness in your life. That holds true even when parting ways hurts and wounds you. If you find a new happiness to heal those old scars, you're not likely to regret it." - If you find someone important to you, cherish them and don't let go, treat them properly.
May 6, 2013 12:58 PM

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I'm a charitable person.
May 6, 2013 12:59 PM

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Guess!
May 6, 2013 12:59 PM

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Random_Girl said:
Chakaara said:
Burna said:
I'm afraid I'm just a boring straight guy.


No. You da best !


Yeah its fine being straight

Did you really just tell somebody with a straight face that their heterosexuality is "ok", as if it hasn't been socially-acceptable for the last ever?
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Negative-Travis said:
Random_Girl said:
Chakaara said:
Burna said:
I'm afraid I'm just a boring straight guy.


No. You da best !


Yeah its fine being straight

Did you really just tell somebody with a straight face that their heterosexuality is "ok"?

I see what you did there.
May 6, 2013 1:01 PM

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biitchstick said:
Bisexual, i'm open to relationships with either gender...

Narmy said:
I'm not really sure if I'd be considered asexual or heterosexual. I find women attractive, but I have no interest in having any sort of intimate relationship.


what.....



What's wrong with what he said? If I interpreted what he said correctly, he has a sexual attraction towards women, but doesn't want the time and effort that comes with having a relationship. Isn't that normal?


You fucking Amoeba (jk jk)
May 6, 2013 1:02 PM

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I'm a lesbian.
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Guess!


Bi !
May 6, 2013 1:09 PM

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dankickyou said:
Battlechili1 said:

What would Freud say?

Your Mother.

I laughed more than I should have.

But anyways, I'm straight and other than a little commitment-phobia, if you want to call it that, my sexuality has never really been an issue for me.
May 6, 2013 1:16 PM

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pink-lemonade said:
I'm straight and other than a little commitment-phobia, if you want to call it that, my sexuality has never really been an issue for me.


Same here except got serious commitment issues, but I don't have a problem with it.
May 6, 2013 1:17 PM

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I am pansexual and panromantic, so I can't really answer that.
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im straight but i have problems with females :/
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