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Mar 30, 6:39 AM
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In the beginning of the story, he was a pretty normal isekai MC. He was curious about the new world, he was hopeful, and he was eager to learn how to fight (spells and sword). The difference was that he was a pervert (which some other characters are too) and he clearly was a pedophile too (which is something new, albeit not a good trait to have).

With Rudeus being so good at magic, the story made me believe that Rudeus would be trying to learn or create new spells and fight his way through life until he found the "last boss" of the story. It has not been like that at all...

After he learned a saint water spell from Roxy at 5 years old, he basically never learned anything else until he was 15 (yes, he also learned one spell after a certain fight while he was still a child) and this was many volumes of the LN. Worse yet, he didn't even care about learning anything else anymore after Ruijerd left him. He even thought there was no reason to learn higher level healing spells (which i found beyond stupid).

Every time something bad happened to him, he basically ceased to function as a human being. There was plenty of time this had happened, and "the diary of the old man" showed this even more.

Every time one of his girls say something slight bad (like..."i don't know if this is good, Rudy") he starts to panic, thinking it was over, and she might leave him. I understand his past, but fuck, can't he see how much they like him? They would never leave him unless he did something really terrible.

When he went to fight that "strong guy", i knew things would not go his way. Still, i thought maybe he would deal with the situation in someway, but no, he started to beg and cry. He was so stupid, he was told to just go and talk with the guy, but nope the idiot decided to go fight. Why not go and ask him to help first? Beyond hopeless.

I'm reading volume 15 of the LN and i can't stand him AT ALL. I kept thinking...he will improve, he will get stronger, he will get smarter, but nope. He is the same idiot, the same pathetic weakling that he was in his previous life.

I'm still having SOME hope that he will improve, but at this point i should probably accept that he is a pathetic MC, and he won't ever change.

The only reason i don't say he is THE MOST useless MC i've seen is because Gakuen Tengoku's MC exists.
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Mar 30, 8:40 AM
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what about Subaru?
Mar 30, 8:49 AM
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nobody reading all that
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my guy nothing better to do in life? Classic aah ragebait
Mar 30, 11:27 AM
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my guy nothing better to do in life? Classic aah ragebait
@deadxyz What? Everything i wrote were facts, albeit, from my perspective. Still, i didn't lie a single time.

How is that ragebait?
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Mar 30, 11:36 AM
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what about Subaru?
@Yantama I don't consider Subaru pathetic. Sure, he has no way to fight in a world filled with strong people, but he does what he can.

Rudeus is different. He can fight. He could be stronger at this point of the story where i am reading (LN volume 15 chapter 10) if had worked harder in learning/creating more spells, but he has a loser mentality. Once he reached a certain point, he didn't put much effort into it anymore, cause he felt he was strong enough.

Subaru went through so much shit while dying. Rudeus would have lost his mind if it was him.

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Mar 30, 12:10 PM
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KaeUBW said:
In the beginning of the story, he was a pretty normal isekai MC. He was curious about the new world, he was hopeful, and he was eager to learn how to fight (spells and sword). The difference was that he was a pervert (which some other characters are too) and he clearly was a pedophile too (which is something new, albeit not a good trait to have).

With Rudeus being so good at magic, the story made me believe that Rudeus would be trying to learn or create new spells and fight his way through life until he found the "last boss" of the story. It has not been like that at all...

After he learned a saint water spell from Roxy at 5 years old, he basically never learned anything else until he was 15 (yes, he also learned one spell after a certain fight while he was still a child) and this was many volumes of the LN. Worse yet, he didn't even care about learning anything else anymore after Ruijerd left him. He even thought there was no reason to learn higher level healing spells (which i found beyond stupid).

Every time something bad happened to him, he basically ceased to function as a human being. There was plenty of time this had happened, and "the diary of the old man" showed this even more.

Every time one of his girls say something slight bad (like..."i don't know if this is good, Rudy") he starts to panic, thinking it was over, and she might leave him. I understand his past, but fuck, can't he see how much they like him? They would never leave him unless he did something really terrible.

When he went to fight that "strong guy", i knew things would not go his way. Still, i thought maybe he would deal with the situation in someway, but no, he started to beg and cry. He was so stupid, he was told to just go and talk with the guy, but nope the idiot decided to go fight. Why not go and ask him to help first? Beyond hopeless.

I'm reading volume 15 of the LN and i can't stand him AT ALL. I kept thinking...he will improve, he will get stronger, he will get smarter, but nope. He is the same idiot, the same pathetic weakling that he was in his previous life.

I'm still having SOME hope that he will improve, but at this point i should probably accept that he is a pathetic MC, and he won't ever change.

The only reason i don't say he is THE MOST useless MC i've seen is because Gakuen Tengoku's MC exists.

The whole point of the damn story is that Rudeus isn't strong, though? He says it multiple times himself. He isn't the strongest person in that world, and he isn't even trying to be. Why do you think the story so adamantly focuses on his family life more than the main plot? It's because that plot does not drive him at all. His daily family life does.

He ceases to function when something traumatic happens. Having had zero connections in his previous life, he panics when he feels like he's going to lose one in this life. The problem here is...him reacting like a regular human would? It's the most natural thing in the world to do. To a person like him, how much they love him would hardly matter because his panic is not under his control.

The fight with the "strong guy" is literally the catalyst to why he becomes like he is. It's his wake-up call. It changes how Rudeus sees the world around him. He believes he can fight through his anger and problems, but he fails. He never makes these rash, rage-fuelled decisions again. He actively stops other people from making them later in the story.

I feel like your issues just stem from not understanding the intention of the story. Don't look here if you're trying to find a cool, strong, smart, perfect protagonist. Rudeus is not that. He's a broken, depressed man trying his best to hang on to life when given a second chance. He's rarely a proactive character unless the situation demands it. He does not go looking for fights because he can see that he has things he isn't willing to lose.

Hate to pull this card but it's probably because you might not get exactly what he's going through. I hardly care what opinions people have on fiction, but this is kinda annoying. Rudeus is far from a pathetic person. He's much, much stronger than you think for reaching where he does. Just not physically.
Mar 30, 12:26 PM
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KaeUBW said:
@Yantama I don't consider Subaru pathetic. Sure, he has no way to fight in a world filled with strong people, but he does what he can.

Rudeus is different. He can fight. He could be stronger at this point of the story where i am reading (LN volume 15 chapter 10) if had worked harder in learning/creating more spells, but he has a loser mentality. Once he reached a certain point, he didn't put much effort into it anymore, cause he felt he was strong enough.

Subaru went through so much shit while dying. Rudeus would have lost his mind if it was him.


Subaru have an idiot mentality.
Mar 30, 3:17 PM
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If what you are saying is true then you think him creating fucking Ironman armor in a fantasy world is pathetic just because he got rolled by the most OP character in the series at that point.

The mere fact that he didn't get oneshot like in turning point 2 is testament to how far he has gone. It has been some time since I read this part in the WN so I might be misremembering but either he shot a Nuke level spell or tanked one from Orstred during this fight. Yeah the whole moment where the armor broke and he had to be saved by Eris was a bit too much but he was basically fighting the Al or the Reinhard of his verse if we are gonna get into the age-old R:Z comparison so fair game.

Character wise, he will always have some petty moments but because of this fight it started feeling kind of earned and even then they are not to this level.



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Mar 30, 11:32 PM
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Dear MAH user,

I believe you're opinions are bad. Mushoku Tensei isn't your typical Isekai story, the characters portray real human emotions, they are flawed and have limitations. their ambitions go beyond simply "getting strong". He simply wished to live a happy life with his family, not to banish some demon king you see. Unfortunately his destiny didn't align with his goals. When he senses his life is in danger, he becomes irrational and afraid, like any real human would. He's not "pathetic", rather he is "real". You're problems with the novels honestly seem to be that it is different from what you wanted to read, so if you don't like it, don't read it <3.
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I ain't reading all that but I agree that he is one of the most pathetic MC in one of the most pathetic story ever.
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I would say he's objectively a shitty person, he does become somewhat better and the whole premise is him getting a second chance at life

It's fine if you hate him, but how the hell did you reach Vol 15 and somehow overlook his development?? Rudeus has become strong asf and matured a lot. He fought damn well against the strongest character in the series and that setup was genius. How would Rudeus ask Orsted for help when Man-God convinced him his family would die unless Orsted was killed?

I think you've completely missed the point of the story, this isn't a LN for Shonen meatheads who crave action and development every opportunity
Apr 1, 9:19 AM

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KaeUBW said:
In the beginning of the story, he was a pretty normal isekai MC. He was curious about the new world, he was hopeful, and he was eager to learn how to fight (spells and sword). The difference was that he was a pervert (which some other characters are too) and he clearly was a pedophile too (which is something new, albeit not a good trait to have).

With Rudeus being so good at magic, the story made me believe that Rudeus would be trying to learn or create new spells and fight his way through life until he found the "last boss" of the story. It has not been like that at all...

After he learned a saint water spell from Roxy at 5 years old, he basically never learned anything else until he was 15 (yes, he also learned one spell after a certain fight while he was still a child) and this was many volumes of the LN. Worse yet, he didn't even care about learning anything else anymore after Ruijerd left him. He even thought there was no reason to learn higher level healing spells (which i found beyond stupid).

Every time something bad happened to him, he basically ceased to function as a human being. There was plenty of time this had happened, and "the diary of the old man" showed this even more.

Every time one of his girls say something slight bad (like..."i don't know if this is good, Rudy") he starts to panic, thinking it was over, and she might leave him. I understand his past, but fuck, can't he see how much they like him? They would never leave him unless he did something really terrible.

When he went to fight that "strong guy", i knew things would not go his way. Still, i thought maybe he would deal with the situation in someway, but no, he started to beg and cry. He was so stupid, he was told to just go and talk with the guy, but nope the idiot decided to go fight. Why not go and ask him to help first? Beyond hopeless.

I'm reading volume 15 of the LN and i can't stand him AT ALL. I kept thinking...he will improve, he will get stronger, he will get smarter, but nope. He is the same idiot, the same pathetic weakling that he was in his previous life.

I'm still having SOME hope that he will improve, but at this point i should probably accept that he is a pathetic MC, and he won't ever change.

The only reason i don't say he is THE MOST useless MC i've seen is because Gakuen Tengoku's MC exists.

The whole point of the damn story is that Rudeus isn't strong, though? He says it multiple times himself. He isn't the strongest person in that world, and he isn't even trying to be. Why do you think the story so adamantly focuses on his family life more than the main plot? It's because that plot does not drive him at all. His daily family life does.

He ceases to function when something traumatic happens. Having had zero connections in his previous life, he panics when he feels like he's going to lose one in this life. The problem here is...him reacting like a regular human would? It's the most natural thing in the world to do. To a person like him, how much they love him would hardly matter because his panic is not under his control.

The fight with the "strong guy" is literally the catalyst to why he becomes like he is. It's his wake-up call. It changes how Rudeus sees the world around him. He believes he can fight through his anger and problems, but he fails. He never makes these rash, rage-fuelled decisions again. He actively stops other people from making them later in the story.

I feel like your issues just stem from not understanding the intention of the story. Don't look here if you're trying to find a cool, strong, smart, perfect protagonist. Rudeus is not that. He's a broken, depressed man trying his best to hang on to life when given a second chance. He's rarely a proactive character unless the situation demands it. He does not go looking for fights because he can see that he has things he isn't willing to lose.

Hate to pull this card but it's probably because you might not get exactly what he's going through. I hardly care what opinions people have on fiction, but this is kinda annoying. Rudeus is far from a pathetic person. He's much, much stronger than you think for reaching where he does. Just not physically.
RandomPerson9348 said:
The whole point of the damn story is that Rudeus isn't strong, though? He says it multiple times himself. He isn't the strongest person in that world, and he isn't even trying to be. Why do you think the story so adamantly focuses on his family life more than the main plot? It's because that plot does not drive him at all. His daily family life does.


I never said he needed to be the strongest. You seem to think i'm complaining about him not being strong, but the problem is his attitude, not his power. The story wouldn't work if he was the strongest so early. Still, he needs power to protect himself and his family, and he knows it.

RandomPerson9348 said:
He ceases to function when something traumatic happens. Having had zero connections in his previous life, he panics when he feels like he's going to lose one in this life. The problem here is...him reacting like a regular human would? It's the most natural thing in the world to do. To a person like him, how much they love him would hardly matter because his panic is not under his control.


What do you mean "regular human being? Not every one becomes useless when hit with adversity. Quite the contrary, many humans face disasters head on. Different people react different...and yes i know you are going to send this exact phrase back to me, but my point is, strong people won't act like he does. He is just weak willed.

RandomPerson9348 said:
I feel like your issues just stem from not understanding the intention of the story. Don't look here if you're trying to find a cool, strong, smart, perfect protagonist. Rudeus is not that. He's a broken, depressed man trying his best to hang on to life when given a second chance. He's rarely a proactive character unless the situation demands it. He does not go looking for fights because he can see that he has things he isn't willing to lose.


I understood that Rudeus was a broken human from the beginning. He has lived decades as a hikikomori so of course he is not normal, but so what?
If a man kills and rapes dozes of young girls and people find out they will all hate that man and demand that he is sent to jail or even killed, but let's say that the police discovers that this man was actually a victim of a horrible abuse by his family for something like 10 years. People would feel some pity of him, but do you think they would forgive him? No, they would not.
The past of a character matters, for sure, but it won't completely change how people view the character. If the character is a loser now, but was badass before, people will still think is a loser.

RandomPerson9348 said:
Hate to pull this card but it's probably because you might not get exactly what he's going through. I hardly care what opinions people have on fiction, but this is kinda annoying. Rudeus is far from a pathetic person. He's much, much stronger than you think for reaching where he does. Just not physically.

This ties to what i wrote before. I DON'T HAVE to get what he is going to through. I still think he is pathetic. Likewise, I understand he suffered and all that, but what does that change? You say he went really far, but that's mostly because he got a shit ton of mana.

When he was young, he was very different. He tried his best, both at magic, at sword, at helping Ruijerd, at teaching Eris. He wans't perfect and made many mistakes, but he was doing all he could with what he had and had a positive outlook of things (just go back to see how he thought he could help Ruijerd with his big problem, but now he has doubts about everything he does).

What about now? When he reunited with Eris he wasn't even able to talk to her properly and kept delaying for days. The first thing he did was grope her. Are you serious? It was she who talked to him (and this was not easy for her either, but she still did) and in the end he even got some push from Ghislaine. All his wives jumped on his lap. Silphie all of that, Roxie went to bed with him AND (very important) Elinalise had to lie to him saying Roxy was pregnant. He relies on everyone else to do anything at this point of the story. He wasted one month doing nothing instead of going there to talk with Ariel and only took action when another character came talk to him.

Even his future self said that when he was young, he used to do things by himself and didn't rely on others. After Eris left him, his character went completely downhill and so far has yet to recover.



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If what you are saying is true then you think him creating fucking Ironman armor in a fantasy world is pathetic just because he got rolled by the most OP character in the series at that point.

The mere fact that he didn't get oneshot like in turning point 2 is testament to how far he has gone. It has been some time since I read this part in the WN so I might be misremembering but either he shot a Nuke level spell or tanked one from Orstred during this fight. Yeah the whole moment where the armor broke and he had to be saved by Eris was a bit too much but he was basically fighting the Al or the Reinhard of his verse if we are gonna get into the age-old R:Z comparison so fair game.

Character wise, he will always have some petty moments but because of this fight it started feeling kind of earned and even then they are not to this level.
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If what you are saying is true then you think him creating fucking Ironman armor in a fantasy world is pathetic just because he got rolled by the most OP character in the series at that point.

The mere fact that he didn't get oneshot like in turning point 2 is testament to how far he has gone. It has been some time since I read this part in the WN so I might be misremembering but either he shot a Nuke level spell or tanked one from Orstred during this fight. Yeah the whole moment where the armor broke and he had to be saved by Eris was a bit too much but he was basically fighting the Al or the Reinhard of his verse if we are gonna get into the age-old R:Z comparison so fair game.

Character wise, he will always have some petty moments but because of this fight it started feeling kind of earned and even then they are not to this level.


He didn't created the armor by himself. He mostly did the body parte while the magic circles were done by his friends. Sure in another timeline he did it, but that would be an older quite different Rudeus.

I'm not saying he is pathetic because he is weak, i'm saying he is pathetic because of how he acts.
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Dear MAH user,

I believe you're opinions are bad. Mushoku Tensei isn't your typical Isekai story, the characters portray real human emotions, they are flawed and have limitations. their ambitions go beyond simply "getting strong". He simply wished to live a happy life with his family, not to banish some demon king you see. Unfortunately his destiny didn't align with his goals. When he senses his life is in danger, he becomes irrational and afraid, like any real human would. He's not "pathetic", rather he is "real". You're problems with the novels honestly seem to be that it is different from what you wanted to read, so if you don't like it, don't read it <3.
GBA_Emulator said:
I believe you're opinions are bad. Mushoku Tensei isn't your typical Isekai story, the characters portray real human emotions, they are flawed and have limitations. their ambitions go beyond simply "getting strong". He simply wished to live a happy life with his family, not to banish some demon king you see. Unfortunately his destiny didn't align with his goals. When he senses his life is in danger, he becomes irrational and afraid, like any real human would. He's not "pathetic", rather he is "real". You're problems with the novels honestly seem to be that it is different from what you wanted to read, so if you don't like it, don't read it <3.


Fine, i agree that i had preferred the story focusing much more on other stuff instead of how he plans to touch his wives during the day. It still doesn't change the things i said and i still think he is pathetic. Even worse, as i read more chapters he seems to be getting dumber and dumber. He couldn't even figure out that the one Luke was talking with was Eris even though Orsted told him that Luke was going to fall for her at first sight.

I read that and facepalmed hard.

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I would say he's objectively a shitty person, he does become somewhat better and the whole premise is him getting a second chance at life

It's fine if you hate him, but how the hell did you reach Vol 15 and somehow overlook his development?? Rudeus has become strong asf and matured a lot. He fought damn well against the strongest character in the series and that setup was genius. How would Rudeus ask Orsted for help when Man-God convinced him his family would die unless Orsted was killed?

I think you've completely missed the point of the story, this isn't a LN for Shonen meatheads who crave action and development every opportunity
Euroqean said:
It's fine if you hate him, but how the hell did you reach Vol 15 and somehow overlook his development?? Rudeus has become strong asf and matured a lot. He fought damn well against the strongest character in the series and that setup was genius. How would Rudeus ask Orsted for help when Man-God convinced him his family would die unless Orsted was killed?

I think you've completely missed the point of the story, this isn't a LN for Shonen meatheads who crave action and development every opportunity

What development? I already said this on my other reply, but when he was a child he way better than now. Sure he made mistakes, but he still makes mistakes so that doesn't matter. Yes, you're going to say that he grew as a character, but did he really? When he was young he was not that afraid of talking to people and was more confident, but after Eris left he got super afraid of getting reject and tried to not have any kind of conflict. Once he got married, he went back to his normal self...in other words, he went back to how he was as a child (kind, not good enough). How come anyone call this character growth?

He still fears his wives will leave him and if he so much step of their toes (low confidence).

He delays facing problematic situations (like talking with Eris or Ariel) just like he did with he met Sara again. It would have been very nice if he had truly learned something here. He'd saw how bad and uncomfortable things got by ignoring Sara so i thought he later would think ("i don't want to talk with Eris right now, but i don't want a situation like that with Sara happening again, it's better to face this head on"), but nope he still acts like an idiot.

There was nothing "genius" about what he did against Orsted. A mage launching powerful spells at distance is something even a child could think of, c'mon dude.
He got the idea for the armor from the diary, so it doesn't count either.
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RandomPerson9348 said:
The whole point of the damn story is that Rudeus isn't strong, though? He says it multiple times himself. He isn't the strongest person in that world, and he isn't even trying to be. Why do you think the story so adamantly focuses on his family life more than the main plot? It's because that plot does not drive him at all. His daily family life does.


I never said he needed to be the strongest. You seem to think i'm complaining about him not being strong, but the problem is his attitude, not his power. The story wouldn't work if he was the strongest so early. Still, he needs power to protect himself and his family, and he knows it.

RandomPerson9348 said:
He ceases to function when something traumatic happens. Having had zero connections in his previous life, he panics when he feels like he's going to lose one in this life. The problem here is...him reacting like a regular human would? It's the most natural thing in the world to do. To a person like him, how much they love him would hardly matter because his panic is not under his control.


What do you mean "regular human being? Not every one becomes useless when hit with adversity. Quite the contrary, many humans face disasters head on. Different people react different...and yes i know you are going to send this exact phrase back to me, but my point is, strong people won't act like he does. He is just weak willed.

RandomPerson9348 said:
I feel like your issues just stem from not understanding the intention of the story. Don't look here if you're trying to find a cool, strong, smart, perfect protagonist. Rudeus is not that. He's a broken, depressed man trying his best to hang on to life when given a second chance. He's rarely a proactive character unless the situation demands it. He does not go looking for fights because he can see that he has things he isn't willing to lose.


I understood that Rudeus was a broken human from the beginning. He has lived decades as a hikikomori so of course he is not normal, but so what?
If a man kills and rapes dozes of young girls and people find out they will all hate that man and demand that he is sent to jail or even killed, but let's say that the police discovers that this man was actually a victim of a horrible abuse by his family for something like 10 years. People would feel some pity of him, but do you think they would forgive him? No, they would not.
The past of a character matters, for sure, but it won't completely change how people view the character. If the character is a loser now, but was badass before, people will still think is a loser.

RandomPerson9348 said:
Hate to pull this card but it's probably because you might not get exactly what he's going through. I hardly care what opinions people have on fiction, but this is kinda annoying. Rudeus is far from a pathetic person. He's much, much stronger than you think for reaching where he does. Just not physically.

This ties to what i wrote before. I DON'T HAVE to get what he is going to through. I still think he is pathetic. Likewise, I understand he suffered and all that, but what does that change? You say he went really far, but that's mostly because he got a shit ton of mana.

When he was young, he was very different. He tried his best, both at magic, at sword, at helping Ruijerd, at teaching Eris. He wans't perfect and made many mistakes, but he was doing all he could with what he had and had a positive outlook of things (just go back to see how he thought he could help Ruijerd with his big problem, but now he has doubts about everything he does).

What about now? When he reunited with Eris he wasn't even able to talk to her properly and kept delaying for days. The first thing he did was grope her. Are you serious? It was she who talked to him (and this was not easy for her either, but she still did) and in the end he even got some push from Ghislaine. All his wives jumped on his lap. Silphie all of that, Roxie went to bed with him AND (very important) Elinalise had to lie to him saying Roxy was pregnant. He relies on everyone else to do anything at this point of the story. He wasted one month doing nothing instead of going there to talk with Ariel and only took action when another character came talk to him.

Even his future self said that when he was young, he used to do things by himself and didn't rely on others. After Eris left him, his character went completely downhill and so far has yet to recover.



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KaeUBW said:
but my point is, strong people won't act like he does. He is just weak willed.

KaeUBW said:
but he was doing all he could with what he had and had a positive outlook of things

KaeUBW said:
After Eris left him, his character went completely downhill and so far has yet to recover.


That's a vast generalization of what 'strong' even means. What do you even seem to constitute as strong?

You have somehow missed the entire arc of Rudeus' development. And if multiple people seem to be telling you that, maybe try to reflect on the entire thing once more? He is a happier person before because he genuinely believes he is an overpowered person in this new world. All of his cockiness and confidence comes from his lack of personal connection to the world he is in. It is nothing more than a playground for him to act out his fantasies. But when he meets Orsted for the first time and then Eris leaves him, he is thrown back into his previous mentality. Even with all the damn power and confidence in the world, he isn't able to stay close to the one person who mattered to him.

That is why he starts spiraling downwards. That is why he is unable to maintain that confidence once more. His ED is quite literally a metaphor for him not having the will to get close to another person because he is scared of losing them again. He needs to be supported by people like Soldat and Sylphie for him to start believing in himself once more. But once that happens, he needs to be careful to not cross that line into supreme confidence once more. Having that ego is what brought him down, so he is unwilling to return to being that person. He is focused on trying to maintain what he has right now.

Despite everything in his life, from his perspective, going downhill, he manages to persevere. He pushes through the depression he gets after Eris leaves him, manages to at least try once more with Sara, tries to kill himself but listens to Soldat's advice, shifts his focus on studying to get better and ultimately manages to not only get back together with Sylphie but save his own sister from the same hellhole. If you call that a weak willed person, then I'd say I'm happy you cannot relate. It is a horrible spiral to be stuck in, and he manages to break out of it by a sheer will to better himself and take care of the people around him. Rudeus has more than recovered. He has grown beyond himself into a person he could hardly dream of being when the show started.

Who cares about the shit ton of mana? What I said above is what I mean by he gets very far. Again, all of this seems to stem from the fact that you do not understand what the author is trying to show. And there's nothing wrong with that. But you seem to deny everyone who is trying to make you understand just how realistic a portrayal of depression and anxiety the show has. Not everybody in this world has the strength to just brush off bad things and move on. MT tries to show a man like that who still makes something of himself and fights back to live a better life.

I'll just repeat myself. Rudeus is not a pathetic MC at all. You just seem to be blindly comparing him to other popular but rather boring, cliche, overpowered fantasy/isekai MC's. Try to situate your argument in the context of the story's themes and ideas. Rudeus' mental strengh is absolutely insane.
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1. Rudeus' Growth is Psychological, Not Just Power-Based
The expectation that Rudeus should constantly be striving for more power ignores that Mushoku Tensei is more of a character-driven story than a power-fantasy isekai. His development is not about learning stronger spells but about overcoming his past traumas, forming genuine relationships, and finding purpose in life.

His breakdowns and insecurities stem from real psychological scars from his previous life, making him more human rather than just a power-scaling protagonist.
The "diary of the old man" is not a weakness—it’s a realistic depiction of depression, PTSD, and emotional baggage from his past. Instead of dismissing these moments as pathetic, they should be seen as essential steps in his long, nonlinear journey toward self-improvement.
2. His Learning Plateaus for a Reason
Rudeus' initial obsession with learning magic was fueled by the novelty of his new world. Once he hit the limits of what he could do alone, he had to focus on other aspects of life: survival, relationships, and responsibilities.
His decision not to learn higher healing magic isn’t just "stupid"—it reflects his priorities at the time. Not every powerful character needs to min-max all abilities, and his intelligence is shown in his adaptability rather than raw power.
His later magical advancements, including his mastery of void magic and his unique approach to spellcasting, prove that he still has untapped potential but is progressing at a realistic pace rather than instantly gaining new abilities.
3. His Emotional Insecurity is Realistic, Not Weakness
His fear of abandonment makes perfect sense given his past trauma. He isn’t just irrationally paranoid—his previous experiences (both in his past life and his new one) reinforce this fear.
The fact that he struggles with self-worth despite others loving him is a deeply relatable flaw, not bad writing. Many real-life people suffer from imposter syndrome and anxiety, so expecting him to just "get over it" ignores how personal growth actually works.
4. The "Strong Guy" Fight Shows His Humanity, Not Patheticness
The moment being criticized (his encounter with Orsted) is actually a pivotal scene. Rudeus had no way of knowing Orsted’s power level and acted impulsively based on the situation.
His reaction—begging and crying—was realistic. Orsted was an insurmountable force, and Rudeus facing pure despair for the first time was a key turning point. It wasn’t about being "pathetic"—it was about showing that there are beings beyond his comprehension, something most overpowered MCs never experience.
Later in the story, Rudeus grows into someone who can stand up against powerful enemies, but his initial reaction to Orsted makes his later growth feel earned rather than forced.
5. Long-Term Character Development Over Instant Gratification
The biggest flaw in this critique is the assumption that Rudeus needs to undergo rapid, obvious improvements in strength and confidence to be a good protagonist. Mushoku Tensei is a long-term character study.

His growth is about overcoming his inner demons, learning responsibility, and becoming a better person, not just a stronger fighter.
By the end of the series, he is one of the most respected and powerful figures in the world, but his journey to that point is what makes his story compelling.
Unlike many isekai MCs who are just instantly good at everything, Rudeus' progress is earned through genuine struggle, which makes his victories feel far more rewarding.
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@Yantama I don't consider Subaru pathetic. Sure, he has no way to fight in a world filled with strong people, but he does what he can.

Rudeus is different. He can fight. He could be stronger at this point of the story where i am reading (LN volume 15 chapter 10) if had worked harder in learning/creating more spells, but he has a loser mentality. Once he reached a certain point, he didn't put much effort into it anymore, cause he felt he was strong enough.

Subaru went through so much shit while dying. Rudeus would have lost his mind if it was him.

@KaeUBW Subaru also have some kind of weakness for YOU to consider him pathetic, while have a double standard while critize Rudeus?
1. Overconfidence and Recklessness
Subaru often rushes into situations thinking he can solve everything on his own, even when he lacks the power, knowledge, or allies to do so.
This overconfidence leads to him making mistakes that get himself or others killed, requiring painful resets.
2. Emotional Instability
Subaru is highly emotional and prone to breaking down when things go wrong. While this makes him relatable, it also means he struggles with maintaining composure under pressure.
His mental state deteriorates throughout the series, especially when he experiences traumatic deaths and betrayals.
He can become desperate, which clouds his judgment and makes him act irrationally.
3. Lack of Physical Strength and Combat Ability
Unlike most isekai protagonists, Subaru has little to no fighting skills.
Even when he tries to learn basic self-defense, he remains weak compared to other characters, forcing him to rely entirely on Return by Death, strategy, and luck.
4. Dependence on Others
Subaru’s strength often comes from the people around him rather than his own abilities. He relies on Emilia, Rem, Roswaal, and others to do the actual fighting.
While he is resourceful, his ability to succeed often hinges on manipulating others into doing what he cannot do himself.
5. Self-Destructive Behavior
Subaru repeatedly pushes himself beyond his limits, even when it causes immense physical and emotional harm.
He has a tendency to ignore his own well-being, focusing entirely on saving others while neglecting his own mental health.
This leads to moments of despair, like when he completely breaks down in Re:Zero Season 2 and loses all hope.
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The whole point of the damn story is that Rudeus isn't strong, though? He says it multiple times himself. He isn't the strongest person in that world, and he isn't even trying to be. Why do you think the story so adamantly focuses on his family life more than the main plot? It's because that plot does not drive him at all. His daily family life does.


I never said he needed to be the strongest. You seem to think i'm complaining about him not being strong, but the problem is his attitude, not his power. The story wouldn't work if he was the strongest so early. Still, he needs power to protect himself and his family, and he knows it.

RandomPerson9348 said:
He ceases to function when something traumatic happens. Having had zero connections in his previous life, he panics when he feels like he's going to lose one in this life. The problem here is...him reacting like a regular human would? It's the most natural thing in the world to do. To a person like him, how much they love him would hardly matter because his panic is not under his control.


What do you mean "regular human being? Not every one becomes useless when hit with adversity. Quite the contrary, many humans face disasters head on. Different people react different...and yes i know you are going to send this exact phrase back to me, but my point is, strong people won't act like he does. He is just weak willed.

RandomPerson9348 said:
I feel like your issues just stem from not understanding the intention of the story. Don't look here if you're trying to find a cool, strong, smart, perfect protagonist. Rudeus is not that. He's a broken, depressed man trying his best to hang on to life when given a second chance. He's rarely a proactive character unless the situation demands it. He does not go looking for fights because he can see that he has things he isn't willing to lose.


I understood that Rudeus was a broken human from the beginning. He has lived decades as a hikikomori so of course he is not normal, but so what?
If a man kills and rapes dozes of young girls and people find out they will all hate that man and demand that he is sent to jail or even killed, but let's say that the police discovers that this man was actually a victim of a horrible abuse by his family for something like 10 years. People would feel some pity of him, but do you think they would forgive him? No, they would not.
The past of a character matters, for sure, but it won't completely change how people view the character. If the character is a loser now, but was badass before, people will still think is a loser.

RandomPerson9348 said:
Hate to pull this card but it's probably because you might not get exactly what he's going through. I hardly care what opinions people have on fiction, but this is kinda annoying. Rudeus is far from a pathetic person. He's much, much stronger than you think for reaching where he does. Just not physically.

This ties to what i wrote before. I DON'T HAVE to get what he is going to through. I still think he is pathetic. Likewise, I understand he suffered and all that, but what does that change? You say he went really far, but that's mostly because he got a shit ton of mana.

When he was young, he was very different. He tried his best, both at magic, at sword, at helping Ruijerd, at teaching Eris. He wans't perfect and made many mistakes, but he was doing all he could with what he had and had a positive outlook of things (just go back to see how he thought he could help Ruijerd with his big problem, but now he has doubts about everything he does).

What about now? When he reunited with Eris he wasn't even able to talk to her properly and kept delaying for days. The first thing he did was grope her. Are you serious? It was she who talked to him (and this was not easy for her either, but she still did) and in the end he even got some push from Ghislaine. All his wives jumped on his lap. Silphie all of that, Roxie went to bed with him AND (very important) Elinalise had to lie to him saying Roxy was pregnant. He relies on everyone else to do anything at this point of the story. He wasted one month doing nothing instead of going there to talk with Ariel and only took action when another character came talk to him.

Even his future self said that when he was young, he used to do things by himself and didn't rely on others. After Eris left him, his character went completely downhill and so far has yet to recover.



@KaeUBW Your criticisms of Rudeus focus on his perceived weaknesses, lack of initiative, and reliance on others. However, many of these points either misunderstand the story’s themes, ignore Rudeus’ character development, or hold him to an unfair standard. Here’s a counter-argument addressing each of your main points:
1. "Rudeus’ past suffering doesn’t change the fact that he’s pathetic now."
Counter:

Trauma doesn’t just disappear. You acknowledges that Rudeus was broken from the start, yet you act as if he should simply "get over it" and behave like an ideal hero. That’s not how recovery works.
Comparing Rudeus’ struggles to a hypothetical criminal (the rape/murder example) is a false equivalence. Rudeus is not committing atrocities—he's dealing with severe trauma that affects his actions and confidence.
Character growth isn’t always linear. After Eris leaves him, he regresses emotionally, but this is realistic. He does eventually recover, but it takes time, just like it would in real life.

2. "He had so much motivation before, but now he doubts himself and hesitates."
Counter:

This is a deliberate part of his character arc. Early Rudeus was naïve, ambitious, and full of hope. But real life doesn’t work that way—his experiences have made him more cautious and self-doubting.
He lost important people, got humiliated in battle, and faced true powerlessness. If he didn’t change after all that, then he would be an unrealistic character.
You says he "relied on no one before," but that’s false. He always relied on others—Roxy, Paul, Ruijerd, Orsted, etc. The difference is that now he has more to lose, so he’s more careful about how he acts.

3. "He relies on everyone else to do anything at this point in the story."
Counter:

Learning to rely on others isn’t a weakness—it’s maturity.
Early Rudeus did try to do everything alone, but he learned that wasn’t always the best path. Now, he has built meaningful relationships and trusts others to support him.
Every great leader or strategist in history relied on others. Expecting Rudeus to do everything alone is unrealistic.

4. "He wasted a month doing nothing instead of going to talk with Ariel."
Counter:

This is another moment of emotional realism. His hesitation isn’t because he’s lazy—it’s because he’s dealing with a complex political situation and his own insecurities.
He’s not an unstoppable hero who charges into every problem. He’s a person who hesitates, makes mistakes, and sometimes needs a push. That’s called being human.

5. "When he reunited with Eris, he couldn’t even talk to her properly, and all his wives came to him instead of him taking action."
Counter:

His struggle with Eris is completely understandable—she broke his heart. He isn’t some emotionally invincible protagonist who can just brush that off.
His relationship with his wives isn’t as passive as you suggests. Yes, they took steps toward him, but relationships are mutual, and they wouldn’t have stayed with him if he were as pathetic as you claims.

6. "Even his future self said he was more proactive when he was young. His character went downhill."
Counter:

His future self is commenting on how his priorities changed, not saying he became useless.
Young Rudeus was trying to find a place in the world; older Rudeus is trying to protect the life he has built. That’s not "going downhill"—that’s shifting focus based on experience.

Final Counter:
Your argument boils down to: "Rudeus used to be more motivated and independent, now he hesitates and relies on others, so he’s pathetic." This is a shallow reading of his character.

Growth isn’t just about power or independence—it’s about learning when to act, when to rely on others, and when to be cautious.
Rudeus’ hesitation and struggles make him realistic. Not everyone faces adversity head-on without fear—many people, even strong ones, doubt themselves and need support.
He’s still growing, and by the end of the story, he becomes a respected, influential figure. His "downhill" period is just part of his journey, not the end of it.
Ultimately, you seems to want a more traditional, confident, and proactive MC. But Mushoku Tensei is about something different—how a broken person rebuilds himself, makes mistakes, and slowly finds his own kind of strength.
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I believe you're opinions are bad. Mushoku Tensei isn't your typical Isekai story, the characters portray real human emotions, they are flawed and have limitations. their ambitions go beyond simply "getting strong". He simply wished to live a happy life with his family, not to banish some demon king you see. Unfortunately his destiny didn't align with his goals. When he senses his life is in danger, he becomes irrational and afraid, like any real human would. He's not "pathetic", rather he is "real". You're problems with the novels honestly seem to be that it is different from what you wanted to read, so if you don't like it, don't read it <3.


Fine, i agree that i had preferred the story focusing much more on other stuff instead of how he plans to touch his wives during the day. It still doesn't change the things i said and i still think he is pathetic. Even worse, as i read more chapters he seems to be getting dumber and dumber. He couldn't even figure out that the one Luke was talking with was Eris even though Orsted told him that Luke was going to fall for her at first sight.

I read that and facepalmed hard.

@KaeUBW “He’s getting dumber because he didn’t realize Luke was talking about Eris."
Counter:

1. First, not immediately realizing something doesn’t make someone dumb—it makes them human. People don’t instantly make connections, especially when dealing with their own issues.
2. At that moment, Rudeus wasn’t focused on Luke’s love life—he had bigger concerns.
3. Just because the reader can connect the dots quickly (thanks to outside knowledge and narrative hints) doesn’t mean Rudeus, as a character, should be expected to immediately figure it out.
4. Intelligence isn’t just about instantly solving every mystery—it’s about making the right choices when it matters, and Rudeus has shown intelligence in many other situations.
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It's fine if you hate him, but how the hell did you reach Vol 15 and somehow overlook his development?? Rudeus has become strong asf and matured a lot. He fought damn well against the strongest character in the series and that setup was genius. How would Rudeus ask Orsted for help when Man-God convinced him his family would die unless Orsted was killed?

I think you've completely missed the point of the story, this isn't a LN for Shonen meatheads who crave action and development every opportunity

What development? I already said this on my other reply, but when he was a child he way better than now. Sure he made mistakes, but he still makes mistakes so that doesn't matter. Yes, you're going to say that he grew as a character, but did he really? When he was young he was not that afraid of talking to people and was more confident, but after Eris left he got super afraid of getting reject and tried to not have any kind of conflict. Once he got married, he went back to his normal self...in other words, he went back to how he was as a child (kind, not good enough). How come anyone call this character growth?

He still fears his wives will leave him and if he so much step of their toes (low confidence).

He delays facing problematic situations (like talking with Eris or Ariel) just like he did with he met Sara again. It would have been very nice if he had truly learned something here. He'd saw how bad and uncomfortable things got by ignoring Sara so i thought he later would think ("i don't want to talk with Eris right now, but i don't want a situation like that with Sara happening again, it's better to face this head on"), but nope he still acts like an idiot.

There was nothing "genius" about what he did against Orsted. A mage launching powerful spells at distance is something even a child could think of, c'mon dude.
He got the idea for the armor from the diary, so it doesn't count either.
@KaeUBW Your argument relies on three main points, and each has flaws:

"Rudeus hasn’t really developed because he was more confident as a child."
"He still fears rejection and avoids conflict, so he hasn’t grown."
"His battle against Orsted wasn’t genius, and the armor idea doesn’t count."
Let’s break these down:

1. "Rudeus hasn’t really developed because he was more confident as a child."
Counter:

Confidence as a child isn’t the same as maturity. Young Rudeus was naive, inexperienced, and had an idealistic view of the world. His confidence came from ignorance of how things really worked.
After experiencing real hardships—losing family, failing in battle, and facing true powerlessness—his confidence took a hit. That’s natural. Growth isn’t just about gaining confidence—it’s about learning how to deal with failure, doubt, and responsibility.
The fact that he regains confidence after settling down proves that he grew. He learned how to handle his fears, build relationships, and move forward despite his trauma.

2. "He still fears his wives leaving him and avoids conflict, so he hasn’t grown."
Counter:

Growth doesn’t mean erasing fear—it means learning to live with it. Rudeus doesn’t overcome his insecurities in a single moment; he gradually learns to trust the people around him.
Avoiding conflict doesn’t mean he hasn’t grown—it means he values relationships. If anything, his hesitance shows emotional depth. He isn’t just charging into situations blindly; he wants to handle things carefully.
The Sara situation did teach him something. He may still hesitate, but he does eventually take action. The fact that he later manages to face Eris and Ariel proves that he’s capable of confronting difficult situations.

3. "His fight against Orsted wasn’t genius, and the armor idea doesn’t count."
Counter:

It absolutely was a well-thought-out fight. Rudeus wasn’t just "launching powerful spells"—he was using advanced tactics, feints, and a strategic combination of techniques to last against the strongest being in the world.
Even if the idea for the armor came from the diary, execution matters. Having an idea and actually implementing it effectively are two different things. Plenty of people know about great strategies, but not everyone can pull them off.
The fact that Rudeus was even able to survive against Orsted—who outclasses him in every way—is proof of how much he’s grown as a fighter.

Final Counter:
Your main issue is seeing growth as a straight line—you expect Rudeus to get stronger, smarter, and more confident without setbacks. But Mushoku Tensei is about realistic development.

Rudeus doesn’t "return to how he was as a child"—he grows into someone who understands both his strengths and his limitations.
He still has fears, but he learns to manage them instead of letting them define him.
His fights are strategic and show real improvement—not just in power, but in how he thinks and reacts under pressure.
Your argument ignores nuance and expects a traditional power fantasy. But Mushoku Tensei is about emotional and psychological growth, not just physical strength.
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I think the side story of Rudeus might be the author life story. Hikikomori phase, Anxiety disorder and The lack of support from those around them
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KaeUBW said:
but my point is, strong people won't act like he does. He is just weak willed.

KaeUBW said:
but he was doing all he could with what he had and had a positive outlook of things

KaeUBW said:
After Eris left him, his character went completely downhill and so far has yet to recover.


That's a vast generalization of what 'strong' even means. What do you even seem to constitute as strong?

You have somehow missed the entire arc of Rudeus' development. And if multiple people seem to be telling you that, maybe try to reflect on the entire thing once more? He is a happier person before because he genuinely believes he is an overpowered person in this new world. All of his cockiness and confidence comes from his lack of personal connection to the world he is in. It is nothing more than a playground for him to act out his fantasies. But when he meets Orsted for the first time and then Eris leaves him, he is thrown back into his previous mentality. Even with all the damn power and confidence in the world, he isn't able to stay close to the one person who mattered to him.

That is why he starts spiraling downwards. That is why he is unable to maintain that confidence once more. His ED is quite literally a metaphor for him not having the will to get close to another person because he is scared of losing them again. He needs to be supported by people like Soldat and Sylphie for him to start believing in himself once more. But once that happens, he needs to be careful to not cross that line into supreme confidence once more. Having that ego is what brought him down, so he is unwilling to return to being that person. He is focused on trying to maintain what he has right now.

Despite everything in his life, from his perspective, going downhill, he manages to persevere. He pushes through the depression he gets after Eris leaves him, manages to at least try once more with Sara, tries to kill himself but listens to Soldat's advice, shifts his focus on studying to get better and ultimately manages to not only get back together with Sylphie but save his own sister from the same hellhole. If you call that a weak willed person, then I'd say I'm happy you cannot relate. It is a horrible spiral to be stuck in, and he manages to break out of it by a sheer will to better himself and take care of the people around him. Rudeus has more than recovered. He has grown beyond himself into a person he could hardly dream of being when the show started.

Who cares about the shit ton of mana? What I said above is what I mean by he gets very far. Again, all of this seems to stem from the fact that you do not understand what the author is trying to show. And there's nothing wrong with that. But you seem to deny everyone who is trying to make you understand just how realistic a portrayal of depression and anxiety the show has. Not everybody in this world has the strength to just brush off bad things and move on. MT tries to show a man like that who still makes something of himself and fights back to live a better life.

I'll just repeat myself. Rudeus is not a pathetic MC at all. You just seem to be blindly comparing him to other popular but rather boring, cliche, overpowered fantasy/isekai MC's. Try to situate your argument in the context of the story's themes and ideas. Rudeus' mental strengh is absolutely insane.
RandomPerson9348 said:
That's a vast generalization of what 'strong' even means. What do you even seem to constitute as strong?

I knew using the word strong would not be a good idea, but it's hard to write concisely while being lazy too.

RandomPerson9348 said:
You have somehow missed the entire arc of Rudeus' development. And if multiple people seem to be telling you that, maybe try to reflect on the entire thing once more? He is a happier person before because he genuinely believes he is an overpowered person in this new world. All of his cockiness and confidence comes from his lack of personal connection to the world he is in. It is nothing more than a playground for him to act out his fantasies. But when he meets Orsted for the first time and then Eris leaves him, he is thrown back into his previous mentality. Even with all the damn power and confidence in the world, he isn't able to stay close to the one person who mattered to him.

That is why he starts spiraling downwards. That is why he is unable to maintain that confidence once more. His ED is quite literally a metaphor for him not having the will to get close to another person because he is scared of losing them again. He needs to be supported by people like Soldat and Sylphie for him to start believing in himself once more. But once that happens, he needs to be careful to not cross that line into supreme confidence once more. Having that ego is what brought him down, so he is unwilling to return to being that person. He is focused on trying to maintain what he has right now.

Despite everything in his life, from his perspective, going downhill, he manages to persevere. He pushes through the depression he gets after Eris leaves him, manages to at least try once more with Sara, tries to kill himself but listens to Soldat's advice, shifts his focus on studying to get better and ultimately manages to not only get back together with Sylphie but save his own sister from the same hellhole. If you call that a weak willed person, then I'd say I'm happy you cannot relate. It is a horrible spiral to be stuck in, and he manages to break out of it by a sheer will to better himself and take care of the people around him.



You make it seem like Rudeus grew as character and became a much better person, but i disagree with that notion completely. You called Rudeus cocky before, right? Well, i call him a coward now.

When Rudeus was defeated by Orsted this impacted him and he learned that there were stronger people than him out there. Yes, but what did with that information? Nothing. Rudeus knew his life could be in danger if he met stronger people than him, but he STILL believed that not getting stronger was fine. This is as dumb as it could be.

I was fine with him getting depressed when Eris left him, it was understandable, but then he started to act like a completely different person than when he was a child, being overly submissive to everyone. Many people pointed that out to him, but it didn't matter.

Rudeus after he grew up became a character that mostly goes with the flow of things.

Rudues tried to with Sarah because she trew herself at him. He didn't try to get her.

He started to study because the mangod told him too. He didn't do it because he wanted and, in fact, he thought he didn't need to learn more magic. (which is one of the reasons i think he is stupid. The fight against Orsted didn't teach him anything.)

He got together with Sylphie because she tried. She put all the effort for them to get together. Why, you are making it seem like Rudeus did anything here? The woman fell to his lap.

Yeah, he saved his sister, but he didn't do much either. He just sat there, and she worked everything in her mind by herself. It was so anti-climatic, to tell you the truth. I thought he would do much more there. This is one of the things that makes me think he is so pathetic after he grew up...he never do something cool or finish something by himself. He just does a little and things resolve by themselves or by someone else.

Rudeus didn't manage to "he manages to break out of it by a sheer will", WTF are you talking about? Without Sylphie he would still be there. He is THAT pathetic.

RandomPerson9348 said:
Rudeus has more than recovered. He has grown beyond himself into a person he could hardly dream of being when the show started.

No, i disagree. You said a bunch of things, but when he was a child, he was doing stuff by himself. "All of his cockiness and confidence comes from his lack of personal connection to the world he is in. It is nothing more than a playground for him to act out his fantasies" Bullshit. Just because he was a little overconfident and made mistakes doesn't mean he had to change completely into a guy who is always afraid. I can't understand why you think he is better now.

Sure, his experiences changed him. There was a character development here. I'M NOT SAYING IT DIDN't OCCUR. What i'm saying is that these changes were NOT for the better. Rudeus became a pathetic guy who depends on everyone for most things and is always afraid of everything. How is this better than what he was before?

RandomPerson9348 said:
I'll just repeat myself. Rudeus is not a pathetic MC at all. You just seem to be blindly comparing him to other popular but rather boring, cliche, overpowered fantasy/isekai MC's. Try to situate your argument in the context of the story's themes and ideas. Rudeus' mental strengh is absolutely insane.


What is the growth you see here?

Rudeus got Roxy, because of Roxy herself and Elinalise. He himself didn't do anything to get her.

Rudeus got Eris because of how he was when he was a child (he would never be able to get her if he were like this back then)
and because Eris did all the job again. He spent DAYS without being able to talk to her and she was the one who had to do it after he grabed her breasts. Holy shit dude.

Most of the things just fall on his lap without him having to do much.

After he came back from some missions for Orsted and found Aisha was walking with a bunch of shady guys, he went there and his legs started to shake when a guy talked to him. Rudeus said he already knew he was stronger than that guy, but still got afraid of him.

The fact that he gets so afraid of killing people despite knowing he already killed a few is beyond stupid.

During the war in Shirone he was so scared of the war. Roxy was calm, but he was scared shitless of the fight. He is always scaredy. It's depressing.

He is also dumb as fuck. Julie hiding her figurine from Zanoba is just because she is in her puberty, even though she was naked in front of Zanoba a few days ago just fine. The idea of she was wanting to make a surprise for Zanoba never occurred to him.
He always thinks about stupid stuff and stick with that idea. He is incapable of thinking about two different things when a problem occurs.

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1. Rudeus' Growth is Psychological, Not Just Power-Based
The expectation that Rudeus should constantly be striving for more power ignores that Mushoku Tensei is more of a character-driven story than a power-fantasy isekai. His development is not about learning stronger spells but about overcoming his past traumas, forming genuine relationships, and finding purpose in life.

His breakdowns and insecurities stem from real psychological scars from his previous life, making him more human rather than just a power-scaling protagonist.
The "diary of the old man" is not a weakness—it’s a realistic depiction of depression, PTSD, and emotional baggage from his past. Instead of dismissing these moments as pathetic, they should be seen as essential steps in his long, nonlinear journey toward self-improvement.
2. His Learning Plateaus for a Reason
Rudeus' initial obsession with learning magic was fueled by the novelty of his new world. Once he hit the limits of what he could do alone, he had to focus on other aspects of life: survival, relationships, and responsibilities.
His decision not to learn higher healing magic isn’t just "stupid"—it reflects his priorities at the time. Not every powerful character needs to min-max all abilities, and his intelligence is shown in his adaptability rather than raw power.
His later magical advancements, including his mastery of void magic and his unique approach to spellcasting, prove that he still has untapped potential but is progressing at a realistic pace rather than instantly gaining new abilities.
3. His Emotional Insecurity is Realistic, Not Weakness
His fear of abandonment makes perfect sense given his past trauma. He isn’t just irrationally paranoid—his previous experiences (both in his past life and his new one) reinforce this fear.
The fact that he struggles with self-worth despite others loving him is a deeply relatable flaw, not bad writing. Many real-life people suffer from imposter syndrome and anxiety, so expecting him to just "get over it" ignores how personal growth actually works.
4. The "Strong Guy" Fight Shows His Humanity, Not Patheticness
The moment being criticized (his encounter with Orsted) is actually a pivotal scene. Rudeus had no way of knowing Orsted’s power level and acted impulsively based on the situation.
His reaction—begging and crying—was realistic. Orsted was an insurmountable force, and Rudeus facing pure despair for the first time was a key turning point. It wasn’t about being "pathetic"—it was about showing that there are beings beyond his comprehension, something most overpowered MCs never experience.
Later in the story, Rudeus grows into someone who can stand up against powerful enemies, but his initial reaction to Orsted makes his later growth feel earned rather than forced.
5. Long-Term Character Development Over Instant Gratification
The biggest flaw in this critique is the assumption that Rudeus needs to undergo rapid, obvious improvements in strength and confidence to be a good protagonist. Mushoku Tensei is a long-term character study.

His growth is about overcoming his inner demons, learning responsibility, and becoming a better person, not just a stronger fighter.
By the end of the series, he is one of the most respected and powerful figures in the world, but his journey to that point is what makes his story compelling.
Unlike many isekai MCs who are just instantly good at everything, Rudeus' progress is earned through genuine struggle, which makes his victories feel far more rewarding.
@kryma7 You gave me a spoiler here, so i'm not going to read the rest of this. Although i'm not enjoying the story too much, since i'm already here 'im going to read the rest and i don't want spoilers.
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@KaeUBW “He’s getting dumber because he didn’t realize Luke was talking about Eris."
Counter:

1. First, not immediately realizing something doesn’t make someone dumb—it makes them human. People don’t instantly make connections, especially when dealing with their own issues.
2. At that moment, Rudeus wasn’t focused on Luke’s love life—he had bigger concerns.
3. Just because the reader can connect the dots quickly (thanks to outside knowledge and narrative hints) doesn’t mean Rudeus, as a character, should be expected to immediately figure it out.
4. Intelligence isn’t just about instantly solving every mystery—it’s about making the right choices when it matters, and Rudeus has shown intelligence in many other situations.
kryma7 said:
1. First, not immediately realizing something doesn’t make someone dumb—it makes them human. People don’t instantly make connections, especially when dealing with their own issues.
2. At that moment, Rudeus wasn’t focused on Luke’s love life—he had bigger concerns.
3. Just because the reader can connect the dots quickly (thanks to outside knowledge and narrative hints) doesn’t mean Rudeus, as a character, should be expected to immediately figure it out.


Bullshit, all of this.

It was a very easy connection. There is no way a person with half a brain working would not connect those dots.

Julie hiding her figurine from Zanoba is just because she is in her puberty, even though she was naked in front of Zanoba a few days ago just fine. The idea of she was wanting to make a surprise for Zanoba never occurred to him.

Again, dumb as hell.

He says/thinks dumb stuff all the time, but i forgot about the specifics right now. I had something else i was going to write here, but it slipped my mind.

kryma7 said:
4. Intelligence isn’t just about instantly solving every mystery—it’s about making the right choices when it matters, and Rudeus has shown intelligence in many other situations.

Like what? I seriously want to know in which part Rudeus was really smart. I get angry all the time with the amount of dumb stuff he says or think.

I'm in volume 19 of the LN.
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@KaeUBW Your argument relies on three main points, and each has flaws:

"Rudeus hasn’t really developed because he was more confident as a child."
"He still fears rejection and avoids conflict, so he hasn’t grown."
"His battle against Orsted wasn’t genius, and the armor idea doesn’t count."
Let’s break these down:

1. "Rudeus hasn’t really developed because he was more confident as a child."
Counter:

Confidence as a child isn’t the same as maturity. Young Rudeus was naive, inexperienced, and had an idealistic view of the world. His confidence came from ignorance of how things really worked.
After experiencing real hardships—losing family, failing in battle, and facing true powerlessness—his confidence took a hit. That’s natural. Growth isn’t just about gaining confidence—it’s about learning how to deal with failure, doubt, and responsibility.
The fact that he regains confidence after settling down proves that he grew. He learned how to handle his fears, build relationships, and move forward despite his trauma.

2. "He still fears his wives leaving him and avoids conflict, so he hasn’t grown."
Counter:

Growth doesn’t mean erasing fear—it means learning to live with it. Rudeus doesn’t overcome his insecurities in a single moment; he gradually learns to trust the people around him.
Avoiding conflict doesn’t mean he hasn’t grown—it means he values relationships. If anything, his hesitance shows emotional depth. He isn’t just charging into situations blindly; he wants to handle things carefully.
The Sara situation did teach him something. He may still hesitate, but he does eventually take action. The fact that he later manages to face Eris and Ariel proves that he’s capable of confronting difficult situations.

3. "His fight against Orsted wasn’t genius, and the armor idea doesn’t count."
Counter:

It absolutely was a well-thought-out fight. Rudeus wasn’t just "launching powerful spells"—he was using advanced tactics, feints, and a strategic combination of techniques to last against the strongest being in the world.
Even if the idea for the armor came from the diary, execution matters. Having an idea and actually implementing it effectively are two different things. Plenty of people know about great strategies, but not everyone can pull them off.
The fact that Rudeus was even able to survive against Orsted—who outclasses him in every way—is proof of how much he’s grown as a fighter.

Final Counter:
Your main issue is seeing growth as a straight line—you expect Rudeus to get stronger, smarter, and more confident without setbacks. But Mushoku Tensei is about realistic development.

Rudeus doesn’t "return to how he was as a child"—he grows into someone who understands both his strengths and his limitations.
He still has fears, but he learns to manage them instead of letting them define him.
His fights are strategic and show real improvement—not just in power, but in how he thinks and reacts under pressure.
Your argument ignores nuance and expects a traditional power fantasy. But Mushoku Tensei is about emotional and psychological growth, not just physical strength.
kryma7 said:
1. "Rudeus hasn’t really developed because he was more confident as a child."
Counter:

Confidence as a child isn’t the same as maturity. Young Rudeus was naive, inexperienced, and had an idealistic view of the world. His confidence came from ignorance of how things really worked.
After experiencing real hardships—losing family, failing in battle, and facing true powerlessness—his confidence took a hit.
That’s natural. Growth isn’t just about gaining confidence—it’s about learning how to deal with failure, doubt, and responsibility.

I agree with you here. My problem is that just because he learned all of this, just because learned more about the world all of that...it doesn't mean he has to become a guy whose legs shake just buy talk to some random shady guy.
Growth does not equate to being stronger, more confident and all of that, but it also doesn't mean the contrary.

Plenty of characters go thought worse than Rudeus and do not become a wimp character like him.

You guys keep saying that just because he faced hardships he has to become someone who is always afraid, always lacking confidence, always being dependant of others and always going with the flow of things. No...just no.

For me, this IS what i would call pathetic.


kryma7 said:
The fact that he regains confidence after settling down proves that he grew. He learned how to handle his fears, build relationships, and move forward despite his trauma.


That would have been cool if he has the merit to all of this was his, but it's not. Everything was done by his wives and friends. Without Sylfie he would still be a guy without any confidence, and who knows what he would be doing?

kryma7 said:
2. "He still fears his wives leaving him and avoids conflict, so he hasn’t grown."
Counter:

Growth doesn’t mean erasing fear—it means learning to live with it. Rudeus doesn’t overcome his insecurities in a single moment; he gradually learns to trust the people around him.


Yeah, after many years, seems like learns his wives won't leave him if he farts near them. So much growth here...
It shouldn't take years for him to learn something so obvious. It's hard to know what Eris has in her mind, but Sylphie is like an open book when it comes to her feelings for Rudeus.

kryma7 said:
Avoiding conflict doesn’t mean he hasn’t grown—it means he values relationships. If anything, his hesitance shows emotional depth. He isn’t just charging into situations blindly; he wants to handle things carefully.


Yeah, so careful that he went to fight Orsted knowing he had a very low chance of winning. Sure, he was afraid of the mangod, but that doesn't change the fact that his plan was bad and if he was killed by Orsted the mangod still would come after his family. So how was this handled carefully?

kryma7 said:
The Sara situation did teach him something. He may still hesitate, but he does eventually take action. The fact that he later manages to face Eris and Ariel proves that he’s capable of confronting difficult situations.

ARE YOU KIDDING ME? He took DAYS to talk with Eris. In fact, he didn't talk to her, instead he grabbed her breasts and got punched by her. Then SHE talked to him. That's VERY DIFFERENT.

He also took a whole month to go talk with Ariel. He went to talk with her only when he was forced too.

How that proves his is capable of handling difficult situations?

kryma7 said:
3. "His fight against Orsted wasn’t genius, and the armor idea doesn’t count."
Counter:

It absolutely was a well-thought-out fight. Rudeus wasn’t just "launching powerful spells"—he was using advanced tactics, feints, and a strategic combination of techniques to last against the strongest being in the world.
Even if the idea for the armor came from the diary, execution matters. Having an idea and actually implementing it effectively are two different things. Plenty of people know about great strategies, but not everyone can pull them off.
The fact that Rudeus was even able to survive against Orsted—who outclasses him in every way—is proof of how much he’s grown as a fighter.


The only thing i agree with you here is that "planing something and executing that plan is not the same thing." Sure, Rudeus did what he had planned there, but the plan itself?

Blast a guy from as far as you can with the strongest attacks you can use. This is a super basic plan that anyone can think of.

He was not using feints or anything else you said. He just use magic as much as he could an tried to keep himself outside of Orsted range. Have played any competitive game? I have done that many time in games. Nothing new here.

And he LOST.

kryma7 said:
The fact that Rudeus was even able to survive against Orsted—who outclasses him in every way—is proof of how much he’s grown as a fighter.


WTF dude? He only survive because Eris saved him and because Orsted thought it would be more beneficial to him to have Rudeus alive instead of dead.

THIS makes sense because Rudeus has never existed in the other loops Orsted lived so him could be a good way for him to change things.

So it makes no sense for you to talk as if this was Rudeus accomplishment. This is nothing, but plot armor.

kryma7 said:
Final Counter:
Your main issue is seeing growth as a straight line—you expect Rudeus to get stronger, smarter, and more confident without setbacks. But Mushoku Tensei is about realistic development.

he grows into someone who understands both his strengths and his limitations.

Two quotes from Rudeus from the LN volume 18...
"Oh crap. Now I’m shaking in my boots.
"It was important to be well-mannered. Even if my power dwarfed this guy completely, there was still protocol to be followed. Part of the secret to my success in making it in this world was being polite to everyone I met for the first time. It most certainly was not because I was intimidated. No, sir."

He sure learns of his limitations and strength. He learned so much that he still crap his pants in front of some random guy, that Rudeus himself realizes he is much stronger.

This is one thing that bothers me about him. He is someone strong, but has the mentality and acts like a weakling.

Just take a look at everyone else around Rudeus and see if they act like him. All the other adventurers that had some power had some backbone.

Growing up doesn't mean you become much more confident, but if you are MUCH stronger than most people you should at LEAST have some confidence, which Rudeus has none.

That's why i say he is pathetic.
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kryma7 said:
1. "Rudeus hasn’t really developed because he was more confident as a child."
Counter:

Confidence as a child isn’t the same as maturity. Young Rudeus was naive, inexperienced, and had an idealistic view of the world. His confidence came from ignorance of how things really worked.
After experiencing real hardships—losing family, failing in battle, and facing true powerlessness—his confidence took a hit.
That’s natural. Growth isn’t just about gaining confidence—it’s about learning how to deal with failure, doubt, and responsibility.

I agree with you here. My problem is that just because he learned all of this, just because learned more about the world all of that...it doesn't mean he has to become a guy whose legs shake just buy talk to some random shady guy.
Growth does not equate to being stronger, more confident and all of that, but it also doesn't mean the contrary.

Plenty of characters go thought worse than Rudeus and do not become a wimp character like him.

You guys keep saying that just because he faced hardships he has to become someone who is always afraid, always lacking confidence, always being dependant of others and always going with the flow of things. No...just no.

For me, this IS what i would call pathetic.


kryma7 said:
The fact that he regains confidence after settling down proves that he grew. He learned how to handle his fears, build relationships, and move forward despite his trauma.


That would have been cool if he has the merit to all of this was his, but it's not. Everything was done by his wives and friends. Without Sylfie he would still be a guy without any confidence, and who knows what he would be doing?

kryma7 said:
2. "He still fears his wives leaving him and avoids conflict, so he hasn’t grown."
Counter:

Growth doesn’t mean erasing fear—it means learning to live with it. Rudeus doesn’t overcome his insecurities in a single moment; he gradually learns to trust the people around him.


Yeah, after many years, seems like learns his wives won't leave him if he farts near them. So much growth here...
It shouldn't take years for him to learn something so obvious. It's hard to know what Eris has in her mind, but Sylphie is like an open book when it comes to her feelings for Rudeus.

kryma7 said:
Avoiding conflict doesn’t mean he hasn’t grown—it means he values relationships. If anything, his hesitance shows emotional depth. He isn’t just charging into situations blindly; he wants to handle things carefully.


Yeah, so careful that he went to fight Orsted knowing he had a very low chance of winning. Sure, he was afraid of the mangod, but that doesn't change the fact that his plan was bad and if he was killed by Orsted the mangod still would come after his family. So how was this handled carefully?

kryma7 said:
The Sara situation did teach him something. He may still hesitate, but he does eventually take action. The fact that he later manages to face Eris and Ariel proves that he’s capable of confronting difficult situations.

ARE YOU KIDDING ME? He took DAYS to talk with Eris. In fact, he didn't talk to her, instead he grabbed her breasts and got punched by her. Then SHE talked to him. That's VERY DIFFERENT.

He also took a whole month to go talk with Ariel. He went to talk with her only when he was forced too.

How that proves his is capable of handling difficult situations?

kryma7 said:
3. "His fight against Orsted wasn’t genius, and the armor idea doesn’t count."
Counter:

It absolutely was a well-thought-out fight. Rudeus wasn’t just "launching powerful spells"—he was using advanced tactics, feints, and a strategic combination of techniques to last against the strongest being in the world.
Even if the idea for the armor came from the diary, execution matters. Having an idea and actually implementing it effectively are two different things. Plenty of people know about great strategies, but not everyone can pull them off.
The fact that Rudeus was even able to survive against Orsted—who outclasses him in every way—is proof of how much he’s grown as a fighter.


The only thing i agree with you here is that "planing something and executing that plan is not the same thing." Sure, Rudeus did what he had planned there, but the plan itself?

Blast a guy from as far as you can with the strongest attacks you can use. This is a super basic plan that anyone can think of.

He was not using feints or anything else you said. He just use magic as much as he could an tried to keep himself outside of Orsted range. Have played any competitive game? I have done that many time in games. Nothing new here.

And he LOST.

kryma7 said:
The fact that Rudeus was even able to survive against Orsted—who outclasses him in every way—is proof of how much he’s grown as a fighter.


WTF dude? He only survive because Eris saved him and because Orsted thought it would be more beneficial to him to have Rudeus alive instead of dead.

THIS makes sense because Rudeus has never existed in the other loops Orsted lived so him could be a good way for him to change things.

So it makes no sense for you to talk as if this was Rudeus accomplishment. This is nothing, but plot armor.

kryma7 said:
Final Counter:
Your main issue is seeing growth as a straight line—you expect Rudeus to get stronger, smarter, and more confident without setbacks. But Mushoku Tensei is about realistic development.

he grows into someone who understands both his strengths and his limitations.

Two quotes from Rudeus from the LN volume 18...
"Oh crap. Now I’m shaking in my boots.
"It was important to be well-mannered. Even if my power dwarfed this guy completely, there was still protocol to be followed. Part of the secret to my success in making it in this world was being polite to everyone I met for the first time. It most certainly was not because I was intimidated. No, sir."

He sure learns of his limitations and strength. He learned so much that he still crap his pants in front of some random guy, that Rudeus himself realizes he is much stronger.

This is one thing that bothers me about him. He is someone strong, but has the mentality and acts like a weakling.

Just take a look at everyone else around Rudeus and see if they act like him. All the other adventurers that had some power had some backbone.

Growing up doesn't mean you become much more confident, but if you are MUCH stronger than most people you should at LEAST have some confidence, which Rudeus has none.

That's why i say he is pathetic.
@KaeUBW 1. "Rudeus Is Overly Dramatic in His Narration"

You cites the line "Oh crap. Now I’m shaking in my boots" as proof of Rudeus’ "pathetic" nature, but this is a misinterpretation due to translation differences.

Original Japanese text: "ヤバイ。怖い。" (Yabai. Kowai.) → "Oh no. It’s scary."
Seven Seas translation: The "shaking in my boots" line is an exaggerated localization—Rudeus is joking about the guy’s intimidating appearance, not literally trembling in fear.
Context: Rudeus knows he’s stronger than the person he’s facing. His inner monologue is self-deprecating humor, not genuine terror. This is consistent with his character—he often downplays his own confidence for comedic effect.
You conflating comedic exaggeration with weakness. Rudeus’ inner voice is frequently sarcastic or hyperbolic, especially in tense situations.

2. "The Eris Reunion Was Poorly Handled"

A claims Rudeus "grabbed her breast and got punched" as proof of his incompetence, but this is a misrepresentation of the scene.

What actually happens: Rudeus accidentally bumps into Eris in the bath (a classic awkward anime trope), leading to her punching him reflexively.
Why this makes sense:
Both are terrible at communication—Eris avoids him out of guilt, Rudeus avoids her out of trauma.
The accidental encounter forces them to talk, which is a realistic way two emotionally stunted people might finally address their issues.
Growth shown: The fact that they eventually reconcile (after years of separation) is a sign of progress, not regression.
You are ignoring the intentional awkwardness of the scene. This isn’t "bad writing"—it’s a deliberate portrayal of two flawed people struggling to reconnect.

3. "Rudeus Hesitates Too Much (Ariel, Eris, Sara)"

A argues that Rudeus should have immediately resolved conflicts like Ariel’s political schemes or Eris’ return, but this ignores:

Realistic social anxiety: Rudeus isn’t a natural leader or diplomat—he’s a former shut-in who overthinks every interaction. His hesitation is consistent with his character.
Stakes matter: With Ariel, he’s dealing with royal politics—one wrong move could endanger his family. With Eris, he’s confronting deep emotional trauma. These aren’t things you "rush."
He does act eventually: Yes, he delays—but he still resolves these situations. Growth isn’t about being perfect; it’s about doing the hard thing despite fear.
You expects Rudeus to be a flawless decision-maker, but the story intentionally portrays him as someone who struggles with tough choices—just like real people.

4. "The Orsted Fight Wasn’t Genius"

A dismisses Rudeus’ tactics as "basic," but this overlooks:

Precision planning:
He custom-built armor to counter Orsted’s strength.
He lured Orsted outside to avoid collateral damage.
He used silent casting to bypass Orsted’s precognition.
Survival ≠ victory: The fact that Orsted spared him wasn’t "plot armor"—it was strategic calculus. Orsted recognized Rudeus’ unique value (future knowledge, Hitogami intel).
You reduces the fight to "spam spells," ignoring the tactical depth that makes it one of the best battles in the series.

5. "Other Characters Are More Confident, So Rudeus Is Pathetic"

A compares Rudeus to "backbone-having" adventurers, but this is a false equivalence.

Most adventurers are simple archetypes: They’re brave because they’re side characters—they don’t have the same depth or trauma.
Rudeus’ "weakness" is his strength: His caution, politeness, and reliance on others are what keep him alive in a world where reckless heroes die (e.g., Paul).
You wants Rudeus to be a typical battle-hungry protagonist, but Mushoku Tensei deliberately subverts that trope.

Your Criticism Lacks Nuance

Your arguments boil down to:

Taking Rudeus’ jokes/internal monologues too seriously.
Ignoring the cultural/translation context of key scenes.
Expecting linear, shonen-style growth instead of messy, human development.
Mushoku Tensei isn’t a power fantasy—it’s a character study of a flawed man learning to live with his past. If You can’t appreciate that, they’re simply reading the wrong story.
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kryma7 said:
1. "Rudeus hasn’t really developed because he was more confident as a child."
Counter:

Confidence as a child isn’t the same as maturity. Young Rudeus was naive, inexperienced, and had an idealistic view of the world. His confidence came from ignorance of how things really worked.
After experiencing real hardships—losing family, failing in battle, and facing true powerlessness—his confidence took a hit.
That’s natural. Growth isn’t just about gaining confidence—it’s about learning how to deal with failure, doubt, and responsibility.

I agree with you here. My problem is that just because he learned all of this, just because learned more about the world all of that...it doesn't mean he has to become a guy whose legs shake just buy talk to some random shady guy.
Growth does not equate to being stronger, more confident and all of that, but it also doesn't mean the contrary.

Plenty of characters go thought worse than Rudeus and do not become a wimp character like him.

You guys keep saying that just because he faced hardships he has to become someone who is always afraid, always lacking confidence, always being dependant of others and always going with the flow of things. No...just no.

For me, this IS what i would call pathetic.


kryma7 said:
The fact that he regains confidence after settling down proves that he grew. He learned how to handle his fears, build relationships, and move forward despite his trauma.


That would have been cool if he has the merit to all of this was his, but it's not. Everything was done by his wives and friends. Without Sylfie he would still be a guy without any confidence, and who knows what he would be doing?

kryma7 said:
2. "He still fears his wives leaving him and avoids conflict, so he hasn’t grown."
Counter:

Growth doesn’t mean erasing fear—it means learning to live with it. Rudeus doesn’t overcome his insecurities in a single moment; he gradually learns to trust the people around him.


Yeah, after many years, seems like learns his wives won't leave him if he farts near them. So much growth here...
It shouldn't take years for him to learn something so obvious. It's hard to know what Eris has in her mind, but Sylphie is like an open book when it comes to her feelings for Rudeus.

kryma7 said:
Avoiding conflict doesn’t mean he hasn’t grown—it means he values relationships. If anything, his hesitance shows emotional depth. He isn’t just charging into situations blindly; he wants to handle things carefully.


Yeah, so careful that he went to fight Orsted knowing he had a very low chance of winning. Sure, he was afraid of the mangod, but that doesn't change the fact that his plan was bad and if he was killed by Orsted the mangod still would come after his family. So how was this handled carefully?

kryma7 said:
The Sara situation did teach him something. He may still hesitate, but he does eventually take action. The fact that he later manages to face Eris and Ariel proves that he’s capable of confronting difficult situations.

ARE YOU KIDDING ME? He took DAYS to talk with Eris. In fact, he didn't talk to her, instead he grabbed her breasts and got punched by her. Then SHE talked to him. That's VERY DIFFERENT.

He also took a whole month to go talk with Ariel. He went to talk with her only when he was forced too.

How that proves his is capable of handling difficult situations?

kryma7 said:
3. "His fight against Orsted wasn’t genius, and the armor idea doesn’t count."
Counter:

It absolutely was a well-thought-out fight. Rudeus wasn’t just "launching powerful spells"—he was using advanced tactics, feints, and a strategic combination of techniques to last against the strongest being in the world.
Even if the idea for the armor came from the diary, execution matters. Having an idea and actually implementing it effectively are two different things. Plenty of people know about great strategies, but not everyone can pull them off.
The fact that Rudeus was even able to survive against Orsted—who outclasses him in every way—is proof of how much he’s grown as a fighter.


The only thing i agree with you here is that "planing something and executing that plan is not the same thing." Sure, Rudeus did what he had planned there, but the plan itself?

Blast a guy from as far as you can with the strongest attacks you can use. This is a super basic plan that anyone can think of.

He was not using feints or anything else you said. He just use magic as much as he could an tried to keep himself outside of Orsted range. Have played any competitive game? I have done that many time in games. Nothing new here.

And he LOST.

kryma7 said:
The fact that Rudeus was even able to survive against Orsted—who outclasses him in every way—is proof of how much he’s grown as a fighter.


WTF dude? He only survive because Eris saved him and because Orsted thought it would be more beneficial to him to have Rudeus alive instead of dead.

THIS makes sense because Rudeus has never existed in the other loops Orsted lived so him could be a good way for him to change things.

So it makes no sense for you to talk as if this was Rudeus accomplishment. This is nothing, but plot armor.

kryma7 said:
Final Counter:
Your main issue is seeing growth as a straight line—you expect Rudeus to get stronger, smarter, and more confident without setbacks. But Mushoku Tensei is about realistic development.

he grows into someone who understands both his strengths and his limitations.

Two quotes from Rudeus from the LN volume 18...
"Oh crap. Now I’m shaking in my boots.
"It was important to be well-mannered. Even if my power dwarfed this guy completely, there was still protocol to be followed. Part of the secret to my success in making it in this world was being polite to everyone I met for the first time. It most certainly was not because I was intimidated. No, sir."

He sure learns of his limitations and strength. He learned so much that he still crap his pants in front of some random guy, that Rudeus himself realizes he is much stronger.

This is one thing that bothers me about him. He is someone strong, but has the mentality and acts like a weakling.

Just take a look at everyone else around Rudeus and see if they act like him. All the other adventurers that had some power had some backbone.

Growing up doesn't mean you become much more confident, but if you are MUCH stronger than most people you should at LEAST have some confidence, which Rudeus has none.

That's why i say he is pathetic.
@KaeUBW
KaeUBW said:
Yeah, so careful that he went to fight Orsted knowing he had a very low chance of winning. Sure, he was afraid of the mangod, but that doesn't change the fact that his plan was bad and if he was killed by Orsted the mangod still would come after his family. So how was this handled carefully?


You claims Rudeus’ plan against Orsted was “bad” and that he wasn’t “careful”—but this completely misses the point of the entire arc. Let’s break it down:
1. "His Plan Was Bad" – No, It Was His Only Option

Man God had already betrayed him. Rudeus was told his family would die if he didn’t act.
Oldeus’ warning was contradictory: "Don’t trust him, but don’t oppose him." Rudeus had no clear path—so he chose the only action he thought could save his family: eliminate the threat (Orsted).
The plan wasn’t perfect, but it was his best shot:
He researched Orsted’s abilities.
He built specialized armor to counter his strength.
He fought tactically (silent casting, ranged attacks, terrain use).
Your logic: "He should’ve just talked first!"
Reality: Rudeus believed Orsted would kill him on sight (based on Man God’s lies). He didn’t have the luxury of diplomacy.

2. "If He Died, Man God Would Still Target His Family" – That’s the Tragedy

Rudeus knew the risks. But what was the alternative?
Do nothing? Man God would manipulate events to destroy his family.
Trust Orsted blindly? After being betrayed by Hitogami, why would he?
This was a desperate move by a desperate man—not stupidity.

3. "He Begged and Cried – How Is That Growth?"

This is literally his biggest character moment.

Pre-Orsted Fight: Rudeus clung to pride (like his past life).
Post-Orsted Fight: He abandoned ego to protect his family.
He swallowed his pride and begged for mercy.
He negotiated with his enemy instead of dying pointlessly.
Compare this to:
Eris (pre-development): Would’ve died fighting.
Ruijerd: Would’ve accepted death for honor.
Rudeus chose survival—because his family mattered more than pride.
Your complaint? "He should’ve been a cool, prideful warrior!"
Answer: That’s exactly what Oldeus was—and he failed. Rudeus learned from that mistake.

4. "He Worked with Orsted – That’s Intelligence, Not Weakness"

Even exhausted and defeated, Rudeus:

Realized Orsted wasn’t the real enemy (Man God was).
Formed an alliance on the spot—despite his family’s distrust.
Secured his family’s safety long-term.
This is peak strategic thinking. A calls it "bad planning," but it’s adapting under extreme pressure—something most "smart" characters fail at.

5. Are You Reading With Your Eyes Closed?

A dismisses this entire arc as "bad writing," but:

This is Turning Point 4—the climax of Rudeus’ growth.
He stops being a coward, stops being prideful, and does whatever it takes to protect what matters.
Once again If You can’t see that, You either:
Ignoring the themes (trauma, fatherhood, sacrifice).
Wanting a generic power fantasy where the hero never struggles.

Your argument boils down to:

"Rudeus should’ve magically outsmarted Man God and Orsted with no losses."
"Him begging is pathetic (even though it saved his family)."
"I don’t like that he’s not an invincible genius."
Truth: This arc proves Rudeus’ growth. He’s not a perfect hero—he’s a flawed man who learns. If You can’t appreciate that, you missing the entire point of the story.

(P.S. If "doing everything to protect your family" is "pathetic," then you must hate most real-life heroes too.)
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kryma7 said:
1. First, not immediately realizing something doesn’t make someone dumb—it makes them human. People don’t instantly make connections, especially when dealing with their own issues.
2. At that moment, Rudeus wasn’t focused on Luke’s love life—he had bigger concerns.
3. Just because the reader can connect the dots quickly (thanks to outside knowledge and narrative hints) doesn’t mean Rudeus, as a character, should be expected to immediately figure it out.


Bullshit, all of this.

It was a very easy connection. There is no way a person with half a brain working would not connect those dots.

Julie hiding her figurine from Zanoba is just because she is in her puberty, even though she was naked in front of Zanoba a few days ago just fine. The idea of she was wanting to make a surprise for Zanoba never occurred to him.

Again, dumb as hell.

He says/thinks dumb stuff all the time, but i forgot about the specifics right now. I had something else i was going to write here, but it slipped my mind.

kryma7 said:
4. Intelligence isn’t just about instantly solving every mystery—it’s about making the right choices when it matters, and Rudeus has shown intelligence in many other situations.

Like what? I seriously want to know in which part Rudeus was really smart. I get angry all the time with the amount of dumb stuff he says or think.

I'm in volume 19 of the LN.
Rudeus assuming Julie was becoming embarrassed around Zanoba due to puberty makes complete sense. You mention, "even though she was naked in front of Zanoba a few days ago just fine," but have you ever had younger siblings or children of your own? Puberty causes dramatic behavioral shifts - a child comfortable with nudity one day can become intensely shy the next. This is normal development.

Furthermore, this was clearly a lighthearted scene. Rifujin frequently uses Rudeus' exaggerated inner monologues for comedic effect. The Eris/Luke situation similarly employs humorous irony. Would you criticize Frieren for fearing mimics despite her power? These moments are clearly comedic.

If you're combing through the story specifically for "dumb" Rudeus moments to argue about, I suggest stopping. There's no need to "hate read" - enjoy the story without overanalyzing every casual thought.

Rudeus' Demonstrated Intelligence (Vol 1-18):

Magic Innovations:
Invented silent casting as a child
Created powerful original spells (Stone Cannon)
Developed MK armor series through iterative research

Strategic Brilliance:
Survived the Displacement Incident by allying with Ruijerd
Negotiated peacefully with hostile Doldia Village
Secured Ariel's throne through political maneuvering

Adaptive Genius:
Turned Orsted from enemy to ally through negotiation
Developed teleportation magic theory
Created emergency solutions (burning Hydra heads)

Teaching Prowess:
Trained Eris from brat to disciplined warrior
Customized Zanoba's doll-making education
Mentored Julie about magic and other education

Why Intelligence Isn't Perfection:
A fundamentally misunderstands that intelligence manifests through:

Adaptation (MK armor after Orsted defeat)
Learning from failures
Emotional growth (handling Eris' return)
Strategic flexibility
Rudeus outsmarts gods and kings not through flawless logic, but through persistent innovation and understanding his limits. His "dumb" moments are either:
✓ Intentional comedy
✓ Realistic human error
✓ Necessary growth opportunities

The narrative consistently shows his intelligence through results - from child prodigy to respected scholar, warrior, and family man. If You ignores these achievements to focus on exaggerated comic relief, that reflects their bias, not the character's actual competence.

(P.S. The same "flawed" thinking that misses social cues allows Rudeus to see unconventional solutions others dismiss - that's the hallmark of real intelligence.)
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kryma7 said:
1. "Rudeus hasn’t really developed because he was more confident as a child."
Counter:

Confidence as a child isn’t the same as maturity. Young Rudeus was naive, inexperienced, and had an idealistic view of the world. His confidence came from ignorance of how things really worked.
After experiencing real hardships—losing family, failing in battle, and facing true powerlessness—his confidence took a hit.
That’s natural. Growth isn’t just about gaining confidence—it’s about learning how to deal with failure, doubt, and responsibility.

I agree with you here. My problem is that just because he learned all of this, just because learned more about the world all of that...it doesn't mean he has to become a guy whose legs shake just buy talk to some random shady guy.
Growth does not equate to being stronger, more confident and all of that, but it also doesn't mean the contrary.

Plenty of characters go thought worse than Rudeus and do not become a wimp character like him.

You guys keep saying that just because he faced hardships he has to become someone who is always afraid, always lacking confidence, always being dependant of others and always going with the flow of things. No...just no.

For me, this IS what i would call pathetic.


kryma7 said:
The fact that he regains confidence after settling down proves that he grew. He learned how to handle his fears, build relationships, and move forward despite his trauma.


That would have been cool if he has the merit to all of this was his, but it's not. Everything was done by his wives and friends. Without Sylfie he would still be a guy without any confidence, and who knows what he would be doing?

kryma7 said:
2. "He still fears his wives leaving him and avoids conflict, so he hasn’t grown."
Counter:

Growth doesn’t mean erasing fear—it means learning to live with it. Rudeus doesn’t overcome his insecurities in a single moment; he gradually learns to trust the people around him.


Yeah, after many years, seems like learns his wives won't leave him if he farts near them. So much growth here...
It shouldn't take years for him to learn something so obvious. It's hard to know what Eris has in her mind, but Sylphie is like an open book when it comes to her feelings for Rudeus.

kryma7 said:
Avoiding conflict doesn’t mean he hasn’t grown—it means he values relationships. If anything, his hesitance shows emotional depth. He isn’t just charging into situations blindly; he wants to handle things carefully.


Yeah, so careful that he went to fight Orsted knowing he had a very low chance of winning. Sure, he was afraid of the mangod, but that doesn't change the fact that his plan was bad and if he was killed by Orsted the mangod still would come after his family. So how was this handled carefully?

kryma7 said:
The Sara situation did teach him something. He may still hesitate, but he does eventually take action. The fact that he later manages to face Eris and Ariel proves that he’s capable of confronting difficult situations.

ARE YOU KIDDING ME? He took DAYS to talk with Eris. In fact, he didn't talk to her, instead he grabbed her breasts and got punched by her. Then SHE talked to him. That's VERY DIFFERENT.

He also took a whole month to go talk with Ariel. He went to talk with her only when he was forced too.

How that proves his is capable of handling difficult situations?

kryma7 said:
3. "His fight against Orsted wasn’t genius, and the armor idea doesn’t count."
Counter:

It absolutely was a well-thought-out fight. Rudeus wasn’t just "launching powerful spells"—he was using advanced tactics, feints, and a strategic combination of techniques to last against the strongest being in the world.
Even if the idea for the armor came from the diary, execution matters. Having an idea and actually implementing it effectively are two different things. Plenty of people know about great strategies, but not everyone can pull them off.
The fact that Rudeus was even able to survive against Orsted—who outclasses him in every way—is proof of how much he’s grown as a fighter.


The only thing i agree with you here is that "planing something and executing that plan is not the same thing." Sure, Rudeus did what he had planned there, but the plan itself?

Blast a guy from as far as you can with the strongest attacks you can use. This is a super basic plan that anyone can think of.

He was not using feints or anything else you said. He just use magic as much as he could an tried to keep himself outside of Orsted range. Have played any competitive game? I have done that many time in games. Nothing new here.

And he LOST.

kryma7 said:
The fact that Rudeus was even able to survive against Orsted—who outclasses him in every way—is proof of how much he’s grown as a fighter.


WTF dude? He only survive because Eris saved him and because Orsted thought it would be more beneficial to him to have Rudeus alive instead of dead.

THIS makes sense because Rudeus has never existed in the other loops Orsted lived so him could be a good way for him to change things.

So it makes no sense for you to talk as if this was Rudeus accomplishment. This is nothing, but plot armor.

kryma7 said:
Final Counter:
Your main issue is seeing growth as a straight line—you expect Rudeus to get stronger, smarter, and more confident without setbacks. But Mushoku Tensei is about realistic development.

he grows into someone who understands both his strengths and his limitations.

Two quotes from Rudeus from the LN volume 18...
"Oh crap. Now I’m shaking in my boots.
"It was important to be well-mannered. Even if my power dwarfed this guy completely, there was still protocol to be followed. Part of the secret to my success in making it in this world was being polite to everyone I met for the first time. It most certainly was not because I was intimidated. No, sir."

He sure learns of his limitations and strength. He learned so much that he still crap his pants in front of some random guy, that Rudeus himself realizes he is much stronger.

This is one thing that bothers me about him. He is someone strong, but has the mentality and acts like a weakling.

Just take a look at everyone else around Rudeus and see if they act like him. All the other adventurers that had some power had some backbone.

Growing up doesn't mean you become much more confident, but if you are MUCH stronger than most people you should at LEAST have some confidence, which Rudeus has none.

That's why i say he is pathetic.
@KaeUBW You know what? At this point, it’s clear we’re not going to see eye to eye—and that’s fine. You’re free to keep reading Mushoku Tensei through whatever lens helps you cope with your frustration, but don’t expect the story to spoon-feed you the version of Rudeus you’ve built in your head.

I’ve laid out reasonable points, cited clear examples, and tried to highlight the nuance of a flawed but growing character. You’ve responded with knee-jerk dismissals and “LOL he dumb” takes like you're trying to win a comment section speedrun.

Btw, after seeing your favorite characters, now I get it. You’re into Shirou—the king of reckless idealism with zero self-preservation instinct—and Goku, who literally prioritizes fights over family. No wonder Rudeus frustrates you. He actually stops to think, weighs his actions, and tries to grow beyond his mistakes instead of just yelling louder or throwing hands at every problem.

So hey—enjoy volume 19. Maybe you’ll get that lightbulb moment someday. Until then, I’ll leave you to your angry reading and shallow analysis.

No hard feelings, but I’m tapping out of this loop.
Take care, and may your next MC be as perfect and predictable as you apparently need them to be.

Peace.
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You know what? At this point, it’s clear we’re not going to see eye to eye—and that’s fine. You’re free to keep reading Mushoku Tensei through whatever lens helps you cope with your frustration, but don’t expect the story to spoon-feed you the version of Rudeus you’ve built in your head.

I’ve laid out reasonable points, cited clear examples, and tried to highlight the nuance of a flawed but growing character. You’ve responded with knee-jerk dismissals and “LOL he dumb” takes like you're trying to win a comment section speedrun.

Btw, after seeing your favorite characters, now I get it. You’re into Shirou—the king of reckless idealism with zero self-preservation instinct—and Goku, who literally prioritizes fights over family. No wonder Rudeus frustrates you. He actually stops to think, weighs his actions, and tries to grow beyond his mistakes instead of just yelling louder or throwing hands at every problem.

So hey—enjoy volume 19. Maybe you’ll get that lightbulb moment someday. Until then, I’ll leave you to your angry reading and shallow analysis.

No hard feelings, but I’m tapping out of this loop.
Take care, and may your next MC be as perfect and predictable as you apparently need them to be.

Peace.


I can't believe you went to my profile just to try to fish some info about me so you could "win" the argument here.

This is the most pathetic thing i have ever seen. It's no wonder you like Rudeus this much, you are as pathetic as him.

You're trying to look calm and mature while at the same time trying to give some jabs saying things like "Take care, and may your next MC be as perfect and predictable as you apparently need them to be." LoL who the fuck says this kind of thing?

"No hard feelings"...yeah sure, i can see you have no hard feelings HAHAHAHA

You are an idiot.

Peace for you, too.

I despise woke people.
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Yantama said:
KaeUBW said:
@Yantama I don't consider Subaru pathetic. Sure, he has no way to fight in a world filled with strong people, but he does what he can.

Rudeus is different. He can fight. He could be stronger at this point of the story where i am reading (LN volume 15 chapter 10) if had worked harder in learning/creating more spells, but he has a loser mentality. Once he reached a certain point, he didn't put much effort into it anymore, cause he felt he was strong enough.

Subaru went through so much shit while dying. Rudeus would have lost his mind if it was him.


Subaru have an idiot mentality.

well idk bro since I read ln his mentality is certainly not idiot, and ur prolly just hating cause u didn't like the show.
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saketsahu said:
Yantama said:

Subaru have an idiot mentality.

well idk bro since I read ln his mentality is certainly not idiot, and ur prolly just hating cause u didn't like the show.

I like the show but not the MC because a lot of stupid things he did.
like he dies three times to know that he go back in time.
what do you call that?

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