Kiarika said:
But isn`t Futaba`s fault for going with the flow? I mean, aren`t both of them abusing the situation eachother are put in?
As I said before, that's up to debate and how each one of us interpreted the situation. In my case, I think she was force, I mean, he didn't really let her answer without any influence at that time, right before she said anything, he reinforced that the answer he wanted was yes. At that time she was vulnerable and he took advantage of that, can't you really blame Futaba for trying to please him. Also, IMO I don't really feel that Futaba is using him to forget about Kou, is more like she feels sorry for him and she is trying her best to please him (I don't even feel that she trying to be happy, but rather she is only looking for his happiness)
Kiarika said:
I never said he wasn`t taking advantage of her situation (he himself said so?). The thing is, that does not make him dishonest. No, what I (tried) to ment is, that is not exactly a bad thing. Both Futaba and Touma are trying to do the best for themselfs and what they believe is the best for the other one too. Can we really condem it?
I see you mean business. But seriously, at least the way I see it, in this situation him talking advantage when she is vulnerable, is not an honest act. But then, him recognizing himself that he is taking advantage of the situation, I guess is honest.
Kiarika said:
Yeah, I get the Suzaku feeling. Well, I`m not really sure about Touma`s mind but for me it just seems like he does not want to lose her + he think Kou is not being serious about her.
I get he might think Kou is not serious about futaba, but how does he know that he is right. What gives Touma the right to be judge, jury and executioner. Kou might argue as well that Touma is not serious about Futaba with the events on this chapter. Is he doing that?... he couldn't care less, he is well aware that Futaba is the one that will decide.
Kiarika said:
In the first time I see it as perfectly normal. He wants her to be with him, apart from it I think he thinks its better for her not to be with Kou (from at what he knows about Kou at that moment).
Once again, What gives Touma the right to be judge, jury and executioner.
Kiarika said: Also think that in the second time its still perfectly normal. He got sad that people tought that, and wouldn`t you? Mainly when you are insecure about your relationship?
I would laugh. However, if I weren't sure about her feelings for me, sure it wouldn't be so funny, but why would I even date her (Am I that desperate..... NTR fetish maybe.....)
Kiarika said: In the third time Kou did not helped her. He tricked her into the room and THEM he helped both of them. Futaba wasn`t even supossed to be there in first place so he just made up for his mess. And Touma did not seemed to mind this, actually.
Well, I think he did mind cause the day after that he confronted Kou, and Kou came up with the "So you are not confident" remark.
Kiarika said:
Oh, and the flirting
IMO, Not sure that is flirting, more like then longing to be together, and would actually make me feel like an asshole knowing I am keeping then apart, but since I also love her, and I know I am better for her, is alright (sarcasm).
Kiarika said:
Do I really sound like it? D:
I`m really sorry if sounded rude. That`s not what I wanted.
I just wanted to defend Touma a little bit.
Nooooo, why would you write that........Now, I feel like an asshole cause I might the one being a bit rude.
Anyway, All I am trying to say is that he is not better than Kou, and that I would hate if he is seemed as a martyr, the victim who got hurt at the end. |