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Apr 5, 2021 2:29 PM
#51
commonxreaction said: Crow_Black said: commonxreaction said: I had a teacher in high school who encouraged me to let other people copy my work, because reasons. Really pissed me off. That really has to be the most cringiest teacher i ever heard of in my life. They clearly didn't want to be a teacher. They started that year and quit at the end of it, moving on to other things. I think it was just something for them to do while they were in transition. That class was a literal joke. No shit on time we took a "field trip" to the girl's bathroom because she had to use the toilet... we literally were standing outside waiting for her because she didn't want to leave our class alone in the classroom. What class did you take that you saw as a joke? |
Apr 5, 2021 2:51 PM
#52
ManWild said: I don't think I've ever been asked to but if I did, I'll probably reject "probably" you should reject and put them on blast on sight if you had to do that. |
Apr 5, 2021 3:01 PM
#53
Crow_Black said: commonxreaction said: Crow_Black said: commonxreaction said: I had a teacher in high school who encouraged me to let other people copy my work, because reasons. Really pissed me off. That really has to be the most cringiest teacher i ever heard of in my life. They clearly didn't want to be a teacher. They started that year and quit at the end of it, moving on to other things. I think it was just something for them to do while they were in transition. That class was a literal joke. No shit on time we took a "field trip" to the girl's bathroom because she had to use the toilet... we literally were standing outside waiting for her because she didn't want to leave our class alone in the classroom. What class did you take that you saw as a joke? All of high school. The actual class was like, Physical Rehabilitation, something like that. It wasn't quite called that. But it was studying the body and such. I went to a technical high school, so iniitially I thought I'd go into counciling but ended up switching out of that particular path into something else. |
"...Is your mother worried? Would you like us to assign someone to worry your mother?" |
Apr 5, 2021 3:08 PM
#54
commonxreaction said: Crow_Black said: commonxreaction said: Crow_Black said: commonxreaction said: I had a teacher in high school who encouraged me to let other people copy my work, because reasons. Really pissed me off. That really has to be the most cringiest teacher i ever heard of in my life. They clearly didn't want to be a teacher. They started that year and quit at the end of it, moving on to other things. I think it was just something for them to do while they were in transition. That class was a literal joke. No shit on time we took a "field trip" to the girl's bathroom because she had to use the toilet... we literally were standing outside waiting for her because she didn't want to leave our class alone in the classroom. What class did you take that you saw as a joke? All of high school. The actual class was like, Physical Rehabilitation, something like that. It wasn't quite called that. But it was studying the body and such. I went to a technical high school, so iniitially I thought I'd go into counciling but ended up switching out of that particular path into something else. Yeah you're right that all of school in general is just a complete joke. |
Apr 5, 2021 3:53 PM
#55
Immortal05 said: Nah man,me and my homies didn't finish homework together. fuck homework all my homies hate homework. |
Apr 5, 2021 4:12 PM
#56
Lithal said: When it comes to light homework I help them with great pleasure but when I stay at least 2 hours on a homework I just prefer to help them with ideas, I don't like to work hard and others to write the same thing in 10 minutes. I tried giving them pointers and ideas but they wanted more out of me in an greedy manner and well its what caused a falling out. |
Apr 5, 2021 4:25 PM
#57
Crow_Black said: Monotonous said: The one that I remember the most is when my then boyfriend practically begged me to write an essay review of their museum trip for a minor course/subject. We are from different universities, different majors, and I've never been to that museum they went in to. But still, I managed to create a three-page essay based on what I saw on the pictures on Google. He got a passing mark for that output. Similar thing happened to me on the situation i had with my former discord/mal friend. You did the right thing by cutting off communication, because if such behavior persists then you will just become an enabler to her cheating problems in the long run. Those people who's never willing to at least learn and embrace the help people are willing to give them, are just a hundred times worse than those born with learning difficulties. |
もろともに 哀れと思へ 山桜 花より外に 知る人もなし. On a mountain slope, Solitary, uncompanioned, Stands a cherry tree. Except for you, lonely friend, To others I am unknown. |
Apr 5, 2021 4:27 PM
#58
Monotonous said: Crow_Black said: Monotonous said: The one that I remember the most is when my then boyfriend practically begged me to write an essay review of their museum trip for a minor course/subject. We are from different universities, different majors, and I've never been to that museum they went in to. But still, I managed to create a three-page essay based on what I saw on the pictures on Google. He got a passing mark for that output. Similar thing happened to me on the situation i had with my former discord/mal friend. You did the right thing by cutting off communication, because if such behavior persists then you will just become an enabler to her cheating problems in the long run. Those people who's never willing to at least learn and embrace the help people are willing to give them, are just a hundred times worse than those born with learning difficulties. I see your point and had i did helped her cheat, i would have only encouraged her more to cheat in the future. |
Apr 5, 2021 4:31 PM
#59
ichigoisbae said: yeah, i used to do that when i was in secondary school It sounds like you must have gotten caught then? |
Apr 5, 2021 5:18 PM
#60
Kyotosomo said: Yeah I've had a lot of people copy my answers during tests or copy my homework or have me singlehandedly do all the work for a group project but I never really cared because it's not like it negatively impacted me. The only people getting hurt were the cheaters because they were screwing themselves in the long term since they probably failed to learn fundamentals that they would need for higher level classes later down the line. Yeah there has to be alot inept people at work who got jobs unfairly because of that. |
Apr 5, 2021 5:26 PM
#61
Logarithmano said: Back in my school days, I would do that all the time with my classmates. Sometimes I was the one copying, sometimes I was the one allowing them to copy. Same with group projects, I would do all the work and give them credit or they would do all the work and give me credit, no big deal to me. Sounds like one big circle fuck of copying if you ask me. |
Apr 5, 2021 5:40 PM
#62
I've always been a friendship > law guy during school. Well, it was only about homework and letting my best friend copy during middlle school once. |
There is only one truth in this world かわいいは正義 Also, robots are your friends ✿❀(*ᴗ͈ˬᴗ͈)ꕤ*.゚⋆˚✿˖° Check our anime affinity, Senpai! Fellow cute girl lovers FR accepted. Watch NGNL, ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ you bastard~~desu Yuri is life. Now, break a sweat. ★May the stars shine upon you.★ |
Apr 5, 2021 5:40 PM
#63
I used to be the top grades in my class, I also used to help my classmates a ton, nothing wrong with it. School is overrated and the way they teach things is anything but teaching. Dumping info =/= teaching but I digress. |
“There is something in this world which no one has ever seen. It is soft and sweet. If it is spotted, I'm sure everyone will want to have it, Which is why no one has ever seen it. For this world has hidden it quite well, so that it is difficult to obtain. But, there will come a day when it is discovered by somebody, And only those who should obtain it will be able to find it. That is all.” Yuyuko Takemiya |
Apr 5, 2021 5:41 PM
#64
Kayleah said: I used to be the top grades in my class, I also used to help my classmates a ton, nothing wrong with it. School is overrated and the way they teach things is anything but teaching. Dumping info =/= teaching but I digress. You must have had really bad teachers. |
There is only one truth in this world かわいいは正義 Also, robots are your friends ✿❀(*ᴗ͈ˬᴗ͈)ꕤ*.゚⋆˚✿˖° Check our anime affinity, Senpai! Fellow cute girl lovers FR accepted. Watch NGNL, ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ you bastard~~desu Yuri is life. Now, break a sweat. ★May the stars shine upon you.★ |
Apr 5, 2021 5:43 PM
#65
Eldinis said: I've always been a friendship > law guy during school. Well, it was only about homework and letting my best friend copy during middlle school once. Why even attend law school if that doesn't subscribe to your own personal morality? |
Apr 5, 2021 5:48 PM
#66
Eldinis said: Kayleah said: I used to be the top grades in my class, I also used to help my classmates a ton, nothing wrong with it. School is overrated and the way they teach things is anything but teaching. Dumping info =/= teaching but I digress. You must have had really bad teachers. Not really, I always found the way schools taught to not be the best and it's not just from the country I'm from, it's in pretty much every part of the globe. I've learned a lot more by studying and learning things by myself but hey.. that's me. Not everyone has that ability nor drive. I still maintain my opinion that dumping info is not a good way of teaching, then again I have absolutely no idea about your experiences nor fields of knowledge. I think the only field I've studied and had someone helping me learn was programming and even then it varied HIGHLY from each teacher/programmer. |
“There is something in this world which no one has ever seen. It is soft and sweet. If it is spotted, I'm sure everyone will want to have it, Which is why no one has ever seen it. For this world has hidden it quite well, so that it is difficult to obtain. But, there will come a day when it is discovered by somebody, And only those who should obtain it will be able to find it. That is all.” Yuyuko Takemiya |
Apr 5, 2021 5:52 PM
#67
Crow_Black said: Eldinis said: I've always been a friendship > law guy during school. Well, it was only about homework and letting my best friend copy during middlle school once. Why even attend law school if that doesn't subscribe to your own personal morality? .... I never attended law school... |
There is only one truth in this world かわいいは正義 Also, robots are your friends ✿❀(*ᴗ͈ˬᴗ͈)ꕤ*.゚⋆˚✿˖° Check our anime affinity, Senpai! Fellow cute girl lovers FR accepted. Watch NGNL, ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ you bastard~~desu Yuri is life. Now, break a sweat. ★May the stars shine upon you.★ |
Apr 5, 2021 6:38 PM
#68
Crow_Black said: Logarithmano said: Back in my school days, I would do that all the time with my classmates. Sometimes I was the one copying, sometimes I was the one allowing them to copy. Same with group projects, I would do all the work and give them credit or they would do all the work and give me credit, no big deal to me. Sounds like one big circle fuck of copying if you ask me. I can't deny that. Still, cronyism is part of human society and, to me, social interaction is the most valuable skill one can learn at school. No amount of homework can teach you that. |
Apr 5, 2021 6:39 PM
#69
Logarithmano said: Crow_Black said: Logarithmano said: Back in my school days, I would do that all the time with my classmates. Sometimes I was the one copying, sometimes I was the one allowing them to copy. Same with group projects, I would do all the work and give them credit or they would do all the work and give me credit, no big deal to me. Sounds like one big circle fuck of copying if you ask me. I can't deny that. Still, cronyism is part of human society and, to me, social interaction is the most valuable skill one can learn at school. No amount of homework can teach you that. Cronyism/Nepotism is the biggest causes of downfalls in humanity and i have no patience at all for those who support it. |
Apr 5, 2021 6:45 PM
#70
Crow_Black said: Logarithmano said: Crow_Black said: Logarithmano said: Back in my school days, I would do that all the time with my classmates. Sometimes I was the one copying, sometimes I was the one allowing them to copy. Same with group projects, I would do all the work and give them credit or they would do all the work and give me credit, no big deal to me. Sounds like one big circle fuck of copying if you ask me. I can't deny that. Still, cronyism is part of human society and, to me, social interaction is the most valuable skill one can learn at school. No amount of homework can teach you that. Cronyism/Nepotism is the biggest causes of downfalls in humanity and i have no patience at all for those who support it. I agree with you as I don't support it as well, but I can't change it either. It is what it is. |
Apr 5, 2021 6:45 PM
#71
I don't even know why I bother with your thread sometime, when the replies look like they are encouraging confessions that didn't happen, sounded like how the church use to sell repentances to people. Beside, no one really have time to be doing others' work if it's a solo assignment. In fact, I used to have a period of time when we were bombarded with an overload of assignments even our fellow teachers know that we will never finish them all. Helping your friends out is almost key to finishing anything as getting stuck on a question for hours isn't fun when you have so much to do. Problem is, most people at that age don't understand that. When you grow older, a lot of the work and study you do require co-ordination and everyone's life have responsibilities and are too busy to even find time to meet with their friends. It's understandable that you have to fill the gap somewhere when you have the time. Even if they share the same grade as you, anyone can tell who did most of the work. And if they are the type of people who just want to breeze through life, their attitude, beliefs and their personalities show. If I have to compare being in a class full of people who aren't willing to help and one that does. I rather be in the later. I do know people who just want others to do their work or those who are too busy and can't even finish their own assignments. Sometime, it's just that they are weak at a particular subject so they might be relying on others. Tbh, work ethics is quite obvious and as much as you think it is easily hidden, it is not. I am of the belief that I should help whenever I can, because the whole team matters. I already experienced first hand, how oblivious some people can be and how cold it all seems to be in a place of people who doesn't care about others and doesn't help. You don't succeed alone in life. |
Butterfly_WhiteApr 5, 2021 6:49 PM
Apr 5, 2021 6:49 PM
#72
IceySongstress said: I don't even know why I bother with your thread sometime, when the replies look like they are encouraging confessions that didn't happen, sounded like how the church use to sell repentances to people. Beside, no one really have time to be doing others' work if it's a solo assignment. In fact, I used to have a period of time when we were bombarded with an overload of assignments even our fellow teachers know that we will never finish them all. Helping your friends out is almost key to finishing anything as getting stuck on a question for hours isn't fun when you have so much to do. Problem is, most people at that age don't understand that. When you grow older, a lot of the work and study you do require co-ordination and everyone's life have responsibilities and are too busy to even find time to meet with their friends. It's understandable that you have to fill the gap somewhere when you have the time. Even if they share the same grade as you, anyone can tell who did most of the work. And if they are the type of people who just want to breeze through life, their attitude, beliefs and their personalities show. If I have to compare being in a class full of people who aren't willing to help and one that does. I rather be in the later. I do know people who just want others to do their work or those who are too busy and can't even finish their own assignments. Sometime, it's just that they are weak at a particular subject so they might be relying on others. Tbh, work ethics is quite obvious and as much as you think it is easily hidden, it is not. I am of the belief that I should help whenever I can, because the whole team matters. I already experienced first hand, how oblivious some people can be and how cold it all seems to be in a place of people who doesn't care about others and doesn't help. I don't why i even read this word salad either like seriously this is way too wordy and it kind of steers off topic as well too. |
Disapeared_GhostApr 5, 2021 7:00 PM
Apr 5, 2021 7:05 PM
#73
Apr 5, 2021 7:18 PM
#74
squished_lemon said: no normally im the friend who needed help to cheat. Plus i normally use my phone so :/ I'm not going to lie, i don't think you could last a single sec in a real world job because of a habit like that. |
Apr 5, 2021 7:20 PM
#75
Yes, helping idiots is one of my many virtues |
oh snap |
Apr 5, 2021 7:22 PM
#76
I'm pretty smart so this has occurred to me on several occasions |
Apr 5, 2021 7:23 PM
#77
Crow_Black said: not gonna lie you right. I don't do the work either. My grades aren't doing to wellsquished_lemon said: no normally im the friend who needed help to cheat. Plus i normally use my phone so :/ I'm not going to lie, i don't think you could last a single sec in a real world job because of a habit like that. |
Apr 5, 2021 7:23 PM
#78
squished_lemon said: Crow_Black said: not gonna lie you right. I don't do the work either. My grades aren't doing to wellsquished_lemon said: no normally im the friend who needed help to cheat. Plus i normally use my phone so :/ I'm not going to lie, i don't think you could last a single sec in a real world job because of a habit like that. I would have expected as much your grades will suffer because of this negligance. |
Apr 5, 2021 7:43 PM
#79
Crow_Black said: yep i got a bit of a cell phone dependence :/ I just cant put it down >.< In high school my moms gonna put me in a program to help with itsquished_lemon said: Crow_Black said: squished_lemon said: no normally im the friend who needed help to cheat. Plus i normally use my phone so :/ I'm not going to lie, i don't think you could last a single sec in a real world job because of a habit like that. I would have expected as much your grades will suffer because of this negligance. The covid thing made it alot worse |
Apr 5, 2021 7:49 PM
#80
squished_lemon said: Crow_Black said: yep i got a bit of a cell phone dependence :/ I just cant put it down >.< In high school my moms gonna put me in a program to help with itsquished_lemon said: Crow_Black said: not gonna lie you right. I don't do the work either. My grades aren't doing to wellsquished_lemon said: no normally im the friend who needed help to cheat. Plus i normally use my phone so :/ I'm not going to lie, i don't think you could last a single sec in a real world job because of a habit like that. I would have expected as much your grades will suffer because of this negligance. The covid thing made it alot worse Damn now thats really rough best of luck overcoming your cellphone addiction. |
Apr 5, 2021 7:51 PM
#81
Crow_Black said: Thank you so much!!! I'm just glad its my cellphone and not something elsesquished_lemon said: Crow_Black said: squished_lemon said: Crow_Black said: not gonna lie you right. I don't do the work either. My grades aren't doing to wellsquished_lemon said: no normally im the friend who needed help to cheat. Plus i normally use my phone so :/ I'm not going to lie, i don't think you could last a single sec in a real world job because of a habit like that. I would have expected as much your grades will suffer because of this negligance. The covid thing made it alot worse Damn now thats really rough best of luck overcoming your cellphone addiction. |
Apr 5, 2021 7:53 PM
#82
we do it back in middleschool on a weekly basis its part of my country's culture |
Apr 5, 2021 7:55 PM
#83
What kind of country you living in doing that? Let me guess America am i right? |
Apr 5, 2021 8:31 PM
#84
pretty often, I help them do their work, they help me do mine, so we benefit each other |
just a weeb wandering around. |
Apr 5, 2021 9:10 PM
#85
Weeb-R said: pretty often, I help them do their work, they help me do mine, so we benefit each other Are you referring to cheating or just general help? |
Apr 5, 2021 9:12 PM
#86
Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: pretty often, I help them do their work, they help me do mine, so we benefit each other Are you referring to cheating or just general help? Well my teacher doesn't allow anyone to help each other, they have to do it their own, so it's cheating I guess |
just a weeb wandering around. |
Apr 5, 2021 9:13 PM
#87
No. I telling people who ask for help in school "you should've studied you fucking bozo" |
Apr 5, 2021 9:29 PM
#88
AmityBlight said: No. I telling people who ask for help in school "you should've studied you fucking bozo" I spent most of my time studying during school and that friend collector spent more time just going around collecting "friends" so she can use them for favors. She got mad when i called her out but not like i lost any sleep over her feelings getting butt hurt. |
Apr 5, 2021 9:35 PM
#89
squished_lemon said: Crow_Black said: Thank you so much!!! I'm just glad its my cellphone and not something elsesquished_lemon said: Crow_Black said: yep i got a bit of a cell phone dependence :/ I just cant put it down >.< In high school my moms gonna put me in a program to help with itsquished_lemon said: Crow_Black said: not gonna lie you right. I don't do the work either. My grades aren't doing to wellsquished_lemon said: no normally im the friend who needed help to cheat. Plus i normally use my phone so :/ I'm not going to lie, i don't think you could last a single sec in a real world job because of a habit like that. I would have expected as much your grades will suffer because of this negligance. The covid thing made it alot worse Damn now thats really rough best of luck overcoming your cellphone addiction. Anything not done in moderation, could lead to an issue so my advice is to just take it one step at a time. Also off topic i've sent you an fr as well too btw. |
Apr 5, 2021 9:35 PM
#90
Weeb-R said: Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: pretty often, I help them do their work, they help me do mine, so we benefit each other Are you referring to cheating or just general help? Well my teacher doesn't allow anyone to help each other, they have to do it their own, so it's cheating I guess Thats probably just for one certain teacher, and not an entire school depending on your area. |
Apr 5, 2021 9:51 PM
#91
xx-ludis said: no i'm usually the one who copies other people's homework You are really not going to last a single sec in a irl job. |
Apr 5, 2021 10:08 PM
#92
Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: pretty often, I help them do their work, they help me do mine, so we benefit each other Are you referring to cheating or just general help? Well my teacher doesn't allow anyone to help each other, they have to do it their own, so it's cheating I guess Thats probably just for one certain teacher, and not an entire school depending on your area. well, maybe. I'm not brave enough to take the risk to cheat on exam or anything |
just a weeb wandering around. |
Apr 5, 2021 10:10 PM
#93
Weeb-R said: Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: pretty often, I help them do their work, they help me do mine, so we benefit each other Are you referring to cheating or just general help? Well my teacher doesn't allow anyone to help each other, they have to do it their own, so it's cheating I guess Thats probably just for one certain teacher, and not an entire school depending on your area. well, maybe. I'm not brave enough to take the risk to cheat on exam or anything You may as well talk to your classmates outside of class to help each other out pointers and how to solve problems not necessarily giving the answers flat out. |
Apr 5, 2021 10:26 PM
#94
Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: pretty often, I help them do their work, they help me do mine, so we benefit each other Are you referring to cheating or just general help? Well my teacher doesn't allow anyone to help each other, they have to do it their own, so it's cheating I guess Thats probably just for one certain teacher, and not an entire school depending on your area. well, maybe. I'm not brave enough to take the risk to cheat on exam or anything You may as well talk to your classmates outside of class to help each other out pointers and how to solve problems not necessarily giving the answers flat out. The thing is you're not allowed to leave the class in the middle of the exam, and you're only allowed to leave if you need to go to the toilet and you can't hold it anymore, and only one person is allowed to do it at the same time, but well my school is doing the exam in online, so there's no need to cheat with a friend |
just a weeb wandering around. |
Apr 5, 2021 10:27 PM
#95
Weeb-R said: Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: pretty often, I help them do their work, they help me do mine, so we benefit each other Are you referring to cheating or just general help? Well my teacher doesn't allow anyone to help each other, they have to do it their own, so it's cheating I guess Thats probably just for one certain teacher, and not an entire school depending on your area. well, maybe. I'm not brave enough to take the risk to cheat on exam or anything You may as well talk to your classmates outside of class to help each other out pointers and how to solve problems not necessarily giving the answers flat out. The thing is you're not allowed to leave the class in the middle of the exam, and you're only allowed to leave if you need to go to the toilet and you can't hold it anymore, and only one person is allowed to do it at the same time, but well my school is doing the exam in online, so there's no need to cheat with a friend I was refering to before exams but yeah i keep thinking schools are open in some areas depending on how the pandemic cases are going. Strange to have it half in class and other half at home it should be entirely at home if you ask me. |
Apr 5, 2021 10:31 PM
#96
Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: Crow_Black said: Weeb-R said: pretty often, I help them do their work, they help me do mine, so we benefit each other Are you referring to cheating or just general help? Well my teacher doesn't allow anyone to help each other, they have to do it their own, so it's cheating I guess Thats probably just for one certain teacher, and not an entire school depending on your area. well, maybe. I'm not brave enough to take the risk to cheat on exam or anything You may as well talk to your classmates outside of class to help each other out pointers and how to solve problems not necessarily giving the answers flat out. The thing is you're not allowed to leave the class in the middle of the exam, and you're only allowed to leave if you need to go to the toilet and you can't hold it anymore, and only one person is allowed to do it at the same time, but well my school is doing the exam in online, so there's no need to cheat with a friend I was refering to before exams but yeah i keep thinking schools are open in some areas depending on how the pandemic cases are going. Strange to have it half in class and other half at home it should be entirely at home if you ask me. ah, I thought you meant in the middle of the exam, well I guess you can still study together with your friend before the exam, but I guess that's just the same with studying on your own, and I'm quite a bum myself, I'm too lazy to study at all, as long as I graduated I guess that's all that matters |
just a weeb wandering around. |
Apr 5, 2021 11:07 PM
#97
lulio3000 said: Yeah, all the way up to college, no shame on it. I even did tests for my schoolmates, I remember that back in school I did like 3 tests at once. We switched our tests back and forth and they both got enough marks to pass, felt great. If I felt that I was being used i stopped doing it though. In college it was quite different because blatant copy is punished without exceptions, so I tried to help instead of giving them the answers, which is normally ok. If they dont get it I just make up an answer that is kinda different if I'm not bothered about it Basically you were being used and you should never have done it from the get go. |
Apr 6, 2021 12:13 AM
#98
Crow_Black said: lulio3000 said: Yeah, all the way up to college, no shame on it. I even did tests for my schoolmates, I remember that back in school I did like 3 tests at once. We switched our tests back and forth and they both got enough marks to pass, felt great. If I felt that I was being used i stopped doing it though. In college it was quite different because blatant copy is punished without exceptions, so I tried to help instead of giving them the answers, which is normally ok. If they dont get it I just make up an answer that is kinda different if I'm not bothered about it Basically you were being used and you should never have done it from the get go. WARNING OF RANT Of course they used me, but it was kinda expected at my school sadly. The enviroment of my school was kinda toxic because of the expectations of being able to get into the tops colleges of my country without being students that are worth of the tops colleges (Not because they were dumb, but because they werent as hard workers as they should). My schoolmates, which weren't as competent in academic aspects, were left behind, but since grades are an important and a permanent record to get into college most of them did anything to rise them, including copying. If you didn't help you would get a "negative" reward by the community, which is kinda like a "negative" wage, which was of course extremely stupid and I knew that even then since I'm not that dumb, but it was just a consequence of people caring about grades over process. And I'm not saying so because I had some irrational fear, they literally kicked 2 guys out of our year's whatsapp because they exposed them, I wasn't into that kind of bs and I'm not going to teach them basics morals that they already probably learned anyways So instead of trying to fight some nonsense, I just helped them if i could, have a good time in my free time without having dumbasses guilt tripping me or excluding me like they did with those who didnt cooperate and came back to my home and play videogames all day. It was worth it in restrospective since I don't see my high school days as a bad experience, and helping them just assured me that i was capable academically. And they did bad anyways in the entrance exams so it's not like i got the better out of it in those terms |
𝕔𝕙𝕚𝕝𝕝𝕚𝕟𝕘 |
Apr 6, 2021 5:07 AM
#99
Apr 6, 2021 5:11 AM
#100
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