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May 11, 2013 3:48 PM
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Have you ever known someon who agreed with you to call your relationship something like "undefined"? How was it?

Just wondering.
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May 11, 2013 3:51 PM
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the sex was beyond amazing couldnt even properly define it
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May 11, 2013 3:53 PM
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Yeah - we eventually became boyfriend girlfriend it was just a way of gradual easing in to it - she knew I'd probably bolt lol.

Cant say for sure it will be the same in your case but the fact you felt it needed to be classified means that it is something. Good luck buddy
May 11, 2013 3:54 PM
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Undefined? This is new to me.
May 11, 2013 4:00 PM
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Anyways it's not undefined if you define it.
May 11, 2013 4:13 PM
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Lol. What's with all these relationship threads?

On topic : Yes. Someone I sort of dated for almost two years, but who refused to "label" the relationship as anything. According to him, we weren't a couple, but we weren't just friends either. It was weird. He was weird. He stalked me for a while after I decided to put an end to it.
May 12, 2013 2:56 AM
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I had a female friend like that,however she was a vocalist in a punk rock band,and on a concert someone pushed me on stage twice.Haven't heard from her since then.Maybe she resents me from that.What do you think?
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May 12, 2013 11:16 AM
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I could understand why someone doesn't really like "official" labels like boyfriend or girlfriend. As in they don't want to say "be my boyfriend" or whatnot because they might think it feels silly and unnecessary to "validate" it like that. Maybe because they feel as though a relationship can just happen progressively without that little (imo) silly declaration of "we're a couple now".
May 12, 2013 2:39 PM
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Or mabe they are just inviting unpredictability.
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May 12, 2013 2:44 PM

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MellowJello said:
Undefined? This is new to me.


Same here, I am clueless :P
May 12, 2013 7:04 PM
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Smeithan said:
MellowJello said:
Undefined? This is new to me.


Same here, I am clueless :P


Is it something like friends with benefits?
May 13, 2013 10:15 AM

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TehBlindSamurai said:
Smeithan said:
MellowJello said:
Undefined? This is new to me.


Same here, I am clueless :P


Is it something like friends with benefits?


No.But it could become something like that.The whole point of it that it is something you don't know what it is.The real question is what it might become.
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May 13, 2013 10:20 AM

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Maybe they're just not very good with words.
May 13, 2013 10:21 AM

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This thread is very undefined.
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May 13, 2013 10:22 AM

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dankickyou said:
This thread is very undefined.

Your face is undefined.
May 13, 2013 10:24 AM

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InfiniteRufus said:
dankickyou said:
This thread is very undefined.

Your face is undefined.

Your mama is undefined.
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May 13, 2013 10:40 AM

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When I saw this thread I thought it was going to be about how division by zero isn't undefined but is actually infinity (False).

Anyway, I wouldn't know.
May 13, 2013 11:18 AM
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If you say your relationship is undefined then there is no relationship, lol.
May 13, 2013 11:31 AM

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Lienn said:
If you say your relationship is undefined then there is no relationship, lol.


There is why wouldn't it be?Just because you can't or don't want to describe it it doesn't mean it's nonexistent.
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May 13, 2013 12:28 PM

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I have a relationship you might say is undefined! Though we just say that we are friends... that's easier, isn't it?
May 13, 2013 12:40 PM

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bluedragon777 said:
TehBlindSamurai said:
Smeithan said:
MellowJello said:
Undefined? This is new to me.


Same here, I am clueless :P


Is it something like friends with benefits?


No.But it could become something like that.The whole point of it that it is something you don't know what it is.The real question is what it might become.


Jeez I thought it was just not labelling it.
May 13, 2013 12:45 PM
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dankickyou said:
InfiniteRufus said:
dankickyou said:
This thread is very undefined.

Your face is undefined.

Your mama is undefined.


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May 13, 2013 2:16 PM

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SlothNamakemono said:
bluedragon777 said:
TehBlindSamurai said:
Smeithan said:
MellowJello said:
Undefined? This is new to me.


Same here, I am clueless :P


Is it something like friends with benefits?


No.But it could become something like that.The whole point of it that it is something you don't know what it is.The real question is what it might become.


Jeez I thought it was just not labelling it.

It is also that.In fact screw it,it is whatever you want it to be.
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May 13, 2013 5:38 PM
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I find it hard that there's a thing called "UNDEFINED RELATIONSHIP", I mean, sure you might not now how to call it but you never know until you've asked other people about it.
May 13, 2013 5:57 PM

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I had this crush on a girl at school

She was very quiet

but she looked at me every day, I saw her in the corner of my eye

we even did a group project together once

I guess you could say our status was "undefined"
May 13, 2013 6:01 PM
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Lol, you guys were merely staring at each other, I dont see the relationship there. Sorry?
May 13, 2013 6:02 PM

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TimeTerrorist said:
I had this crush on a girl at school

She was very quiet

but she looked at me every day, I saw her in the corner of my eye

we even did a group project together once

I guess you could say our status was "undefined"


Still a Better Love Story than Twilight.
May 13, 2013 6:02 PM

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Lienn said:
Lol, you guys were merely staring at each other, I dont see the relationship there. Sorry?


YOU WEREN'T THERE

You weren't there, man.
May 13, 2013 6:03 PM

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TimeTerrorist said:
I had this crush on a girl at school

She was very quiet

but she looked at me every day, I saw her in the corner of my eye

we even did a group project together once

I guess you could say our status was "undefined"


You should've asked her out.
May 13, 2013 6:04 PM
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TimeTerrorist said:
Lienn said:
Lol, you guys were merely staring at each other, I dont see the relationship there. Sorry?


YOU WEREN'T THERE

You weren't there, man.


Yeah, I dont see a relationship here.
May 13, 2013 6:06 PM

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VictorVonDoom said:
TimeTerrorist said:
I had this crush on a girl at school

She was very quiet

but she looked at me every day, I saw her in the corner of my eye

we even did a group project together once

I guess you could say our status was "undefined"


You should've asked her out.


I was too paralysed by her gaze to think about it

Lienn said:
TimeTerrorist said:
Lienn said:
Lol, you guys were merely staring at each other, I dont see the relationship there. Sorry?


YOU WEREN'T THERE

You weren't there, man.


Yeah, I dont see a relationship here.


That's because you're not looking over there.
May 13, 2013 6:25 PM
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TimeTerrorist said:
VictorVonDoom said:
TimeTerrorist said:
I had this crush on a girl at school

She was very quiet

but she looked at me every day, I saw her in the corner of my eye

we even did a group project together once

I guess you could say our status was "undefined"


You should've asked her out.


I was too paralysed by her gaze to think about it

Lienn said:
TimeTerrorist said:
Lienn said:
Lol, you guys were merely staring at each other, I dont see the relationship there. Sorry?


YOU WEREN'T THERE

You weren't there, man.


Yeah, I dont see a relationship here.


That's because you're not looking over there.


Things like that happened to me a lot, I dont recall calling it some kind of relationship. I think you're somehow experiencing "PUPPY LOVE", we've all experienced it, its best not to assume too. Just telling. I wont reply anymore.
May 13, 2013 6:32 PM

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Lienn said:

Things like that happened to me a lot, I dont recall calling it some kind of relationship. I think you're somehow experiencing "PUPPY LOVE", we've all experienced it, its best not to assume too. Just telling. I wont reply anymore.


*was experiencing puppy love

I was just joking about it, not to worry.
May 13, 2013 6:34 PM

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Undefined relationship? Is there even such a thing?
May 14, 2013 6:55 AM

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SlothNamakemono said:
TimeTerrorist said:
I had this crush on a girl at school

She was very quiet

but she looked at me every day, I saw her in the corner of my eye

we even did a group project together once

I guess you could say our status was "undefined"


Still a Better Love Story than Twilight.
This.
May 14, 2013 7:02 AM

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the only person who could be in an undefined relationship is her.

May 14, 2013 7:06 AM

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Jak3 said:
the only person who could be in an undefined relationship is her.


Oh my gawd not her!

But I think in her case its called "unrequited love"

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