aremarf said:
Yes, strokes first, like verticals, horizontals, (plus those that have a little "jump" in them at the end of the stroke), diagonals (with a particular curve), then "corners" - horizontals which then turn downwards (either vertically or as a curve), etc.
By putting these together in various configurations, you make simple kanji. And simple kanji are often then combined with other simple kanji to make words - when they do this they are often called "radicals", from Latin "radix" meaning "root" I guess - similar to how we think of "rootwords" in English? ... so...
As I kept writing, I realised lots of "components" are just repeated across characters. So it's like, you just have to learn to write it well once in your life, and you can then use it in dozens or even hundreds of other characters.
It's like Lego, basically.
For example, this is rain: 雨
And it appears like this in weather-related words: ⻗ (with another kanji below it to suggest a sound)
You can see a whole list of characters that make use of it here:
https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/Appendix:Chinese_radical/%E9%9B%A8
Hmm.
I guess it still looks pretty scary... but I wanted to say this so it looks less intimidating. You can have faith that as you practice and master the simple elements, they will help you tremendously with writing complicated-looking things!
(and I must emphasise again - I'm not good at calligraphy! I'm just dabbling and having fun! there are so many masters of the art and I am really, really, just messing about!)
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About pencils, I don't use the fancy stuff too. I love traditional wooden ones. They're lighter in my hand. And I find them very expressive. if I apply more force when using a relatively blunt pencil with soft lead, I get a darker, thicker line. If I lighten up on my touch, I get thinner, wispier lines - in fact they're quite similar to brushes. Can't do this with a pen or mechanical pencil - well, maybe with some really expensive fine fountain pens it can be done, but why do that when the humble pencil works just great? ;-) I only mentioned the kurutoga because it's nerdy fun to look at cool instruments... but in the end, old is gold!