I can't possibly fathom why people would even care so much in the first place? When I see people with a picture of an animal, a car, a celebrity, a character from a cartoon / anime / game / whatever the fuck it's from, etc I just think to myself that they're simply exhibiting one of their favourite hobbies / things / etc. A friend of mine used to be obsessed with Monster Hunter; he posted OSTs from it, pictures from it, had all his profile pictures of it and the like. Never thought anything of it other than that he was a monster hunter fan.
Personally back in my teen years I mostly used it to share songs I was listening to. If you scrolled down my wall it was a mix of comments from other people and tons of Youtube links. Sometimes I used a profile picture of myself, sometimes I used the logo of one of my favourite bands. What did that do? Well, it gave people a lot of insight into my likes and interests without having to delve too deep. As soon as they loaded up my wall they got a good idea of me. I look at profile pictures being of something other than one's own face simply as an extension of their interests. I don't agree with the arbitrary notion that it has to be a picture of yourself.
Social media's a great thing, in the way that you can use it however the fuck you want to use it. Some people upload 50 baby pictures every day. Some people post pictures of them getting smashed every weekend. Some people use it just to keep in touch with friends. Some use it to share funny pictures and videos. I really couldn't care less about the ways other people use it, nor do I see why I should even care in the first place.
I mean, if people seriously have a problem with you not using your own picture and speak out about it, thank them. Thank them for showing themselves up to be judgemental pieces of shit who aren't worth your time. Thank them because they made it very easy to filter out some of the filth clogging up your so-called 'friend' list. If someone's on your friend list purely because they're the friend of your 3rd sister's ex-boyfriend from 4 years ago who she met through someone else....Well why would you even give a shit in the first place? But aside from that, just remove them. Same for all the other people on your list who're there just because you shared a class with them that one time. You can break your list down into 3 general groups - people you know, your actual friends, and your relatives (this is predicated on the idea that you don't just add fucking every person there is on Facebook and have 1k + 'friends').
People who start giving you shit for such trivial matters are not your friends, so you can safely remove them. I don't see someone's family doing it, but even if they did, just block them too. You're left with just your friends, who, surprise surprise, probably know what you look like and therefore have no need for you to have a profile picture of yourself.
I dunno, I think the entire thing's a load of bollocks. I do not understand why people should be crucified for expressing their hobbies. Bunch of cunts, really. You shouldn't care, period. |