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| Sometimes I just think it stems from people that are too embarassed, or too self conscious. The whole, "I'm afraid to do those things, so you're not allowed to do them" mentality. Not that it's bad to be embarassed or self conscious--I'm talking about people who would couple that with a need to control others. Oh look, another bi-boy ^.^ I was starting to think it was mostly bi-girls around here.... |
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| One single word comes to mind when i here bi-girls.... giggety.... i need to stop watching TV its corrupting my mind again. ill think ill make a Zombie barricade and listen to Some System of a Down or something... Sorry if i got off topic but yes more people are opening up to the homosexual community we can break the ignorant barricade... not my zombie-cade... and see why they have such a big problem |
Misa_Ryuuguu said: Sometimes I just think it stems from people that are too embarassed, or too self conscious. The whole, "I'm afraid to do those things, so you're not allowed to do them" mentality. Not that it's bad to be embarassed or self conscious--I'm talking about people who would couple that with a need to control others. Oh look, another bi-boy ^.^ I was starting to think it was mostly bi-girls around here.... maybe because people dont look to much at a girl being bi >_> |
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| There are more bi-guys here :P but as far as I know, most of them have posted in de first 5 pages ... |
| Ah. I'm more used to hearing about bi-girls. It depends on what you see and hear for yourself of course, but it seems like they're more socially accepted. It's the same with crossdressing. Dress a girl up in boy's clothes, and she's cute. Dress a boy up in girl's clothes, and he's looked at funny -_-;;; |
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| Indeed, but still cute XD ((I'm not into crossdressers, but sometimes I can go "squee" over people who look cute ;P)) |
| I have a friend who keeps offering to dress me in her gothic lolita, but I must admit, I'm becoming sorely tempted to accept the offer. Maybe I'd look good in a corset... XD |
hirahira said: it's the other way around for me. I am female and I am sexually attracted to females more than to males. But at the same time, I really hate girls and can never get along with them. I've only ever had crushes on males. I can't imagine you hating every single girl in existence, so I'll ask, what trait(s) do you not like? Cause there are all kinds out there. Personally I seriously dislike it when people try to convert me to "girly girl"-ism or ask stupid questions like 'why do you wear baggy pants' (it's comfortable, duh). But at the same time I love elegant beauties and don't mind if they're overly feminine and flaunting it. I adore them in fact. :D It's just not for me, I would feel terribly uncomfortable. Misa_Ryuuguu said: Ah. I'm more used to hearing about bi-girls. It depends on what you see and hear for yourself of course, but it seems like they're more socially accepted. It's the same with crossdressing. Dress a girl up in boy's clothes, and she's cute. Dress a boy up in girl's clothes, and he's looked at funny -_-;;; "Bi-girls" are mostly regarded as indecisive or just fooling around. Like, she just doesn't find the right guy. So I deduce it's not that great to be a bi girl, either, with these common perceptions. Also, tomboys are largely tolerated up to a certain age but at least when they're high school age they're expected to stop the silliness and become a proper girl. :/ Of course I agree that a boy should be able to be himself and free to do things such as crossdressing, but that likely won't be accepted all too soon. That said the girl counterpart isn't exactly appreciated either, think man-hating lesbian stereotype. It has to do with the fact that the concept of masculinity still goes largely unchallenged. Actually gender roles in general do. Everything that doesn't go along the traditional views is considered 'feminazi' nonsense. Biological determinism for the fail, I say! We're individuals, not constituted merely of our genitals. |
niwasatouDec 11, 2008 3:46 PM
| niwasatou "Bi-girls" are mostly regarded as indecisive or just fooling around. Like, she just doesn't find the right guy. So I deduce it's not that great to be a bi girl, either, with these common perceptions..... I don't really agree with you, cause i'm 'Bi' and I've known since I was younger and I'm still am. For me it's not because I can't decide it's just that I'm attracted to both, but never at the same time. But then again there are people who are 'Bi' only because they want to experiment or something, so yeah. |
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| I don't think that, people around me have given me the impression that they're of that opinion. |
| Oh, well that's just my opinion and how I am. I guess "Whatever floats your boat,"..hha. |
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niwasatou said: Misa_Ryuuguu said: Ah. I'm more used to hearing about bi-girls. It depends on what you see and hear for yourself of course, but it seems like they're more socially accepted. It's the same with crossdressing. Dress a girl up in boy's clothes, and she's cute. Dress a boy up in girl's clothes, and he's looked at funny -_-;;; "Bi-girls" are mostly regarded as indecisive or just fooling around. Like, she just doesn't find the right guy. So I deduce it's not that great to be a bi girl, either, with these common perceptions. But Bi-guys aren't indecisive? just5 said: I can't decide it's just that I'm attracted to both, but never at the same time. But then again there are people who are 'Bi' only because they want to experiment or something, so yeah. I'm actually attracted to both genders, even at the same time. I have to include the fact that I always have my phases where I prefer the one gender over the other, but that doesn't mean I don't like both of them. |
| I'm bisexual as far as sex/fooling around goes, but emotionally I'm more inclined towards other girls, and maybe the occasional guy if he manages to woo me. So I guess I'm a bisexual lesbian. XD I'm also Polyamorous as well. |
| I think a lot of people, rather, a lot of lesbians, are sick of bisexual women because 9/10 of the time they're "college bisexual" or just horny and confused. Not that there aren't real bi chicks out there, but I understand people's frustration with them. Speaking for myself, I hate it when people think that just because they have no gender preference they can date one of each at the same time without telling either and it's fine. |
| Ah, I'm not confused at all. I just love sex, lol. And I'm the type that would prefer my lovers to know about each other, and make sure they're okay with me having multiple relationships. If not, then it's not like I'd do it behind their backs. But yes, I'm not horny and confused. I'm just horny. XD |
MistressSheena said: Ah, I'm not confused at all. I just love sex, lol. And I'm the type that would prefer my lovers to know about each other, and make sure they're okay with me having multiple relationships. If not, then it's not like I'd do it behind their backs. But yes, I'm not horny and confused. I'm just horny. XD Yeah, I actually meant horny or confused, but I just woke up, bah. |
| I don't say I'm not horny, but I believe that you should care for one another, not just fuck them and never call them again ((Which is way too much of a cliché btw.)) But I want some more love. ((Not that I wouldn't want to just once hit it, and then leave it behind me, but I can't do that all the time)) |
| As far as emotions go im definitely bisexual but when it comes to that "between the sheets"-activity I don't know since I haven't experienced it with either. |
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| I didn't really understand the question as asked, I thought when usually someone says sexual orientation is it how you were introduced to sex, not what you currently are. My sexual orientation was gay, too young and non-con, but I remained gay anyway throughout my life so far. |
ShySorrowMar 10, 2009 7:06 AM
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| I don't know what I am. I've never dated a guy before, but I wouldn't mind if given the opportunity. Most people online think I'm a girl anyway, and I don't blame them. |
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| Well, one vote cast for" strait but open minded." I'm ever so secure in my sexuality, and as of late I've been in rather deep introspective thought as to what I could and would be willing to do with other males. I have a dear friend to thank for this new found awareness, although she may never know it. Oddly enough, the character Soubi, of Loveless fame, has played a central role in my exploration as well. Funny life, and all that giggly stuff. Oh, and hi, I'm new. |
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Neue7 said: Well, one vote cast for" strait but open minded." I'm ever so secure in my sexuality, and as of late I've been in rather deep introspective thought as to what I could and would be willing to do with other males. I have a dear friend to thank for this new found awareness, although she may never know it. Oddly enough, the character Soubi, of Loveless fame, has played a central role in my exploration as well. Funny life, and all that giggly stuff. Oh, and hi, I'm new. Well, hello friend! Welcome to the fold. And I have never watched Loveless, but I hear it is good. |
lizguana said: Neue7 said: Well, one vote cast for" strait but open minded." I'm ever so secure in my sexuality, and as of late I've been in rather deep introspective thought as to what I could and would be willing to do with other males. I have a dear friend to thank for this new found awareness, although she may never know it. Oddly enough, the character Soubi, of Loveless fame, has played a central role in my exploration as well. Funny life, and all that giggly stuff. Oh, and hi, I'm new. Well, hello friend! Welcome to the fold. And I have never watched Loveless, but I hear it is good. Thanks for the welcome! Neither have I, I'm referring to the Manga. I do plan to pick up the boxed set, though. |
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| Yeah, why don't you stick around, you'll become hard gay in no time... j/k Gotta watch Loveless as well. |
Bere said: Yeah, why don't you stick around, you'll become hard gay in no time... j/k Gotta watch Loveless as well. Oh my, I can't wait! Haha, I do indeed plan to stick around. Thanks for the greeting. |
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| :< Must find place to post this stuff. |
ukonkiviFeb 5, 2009 2:14 AM
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| How does it cover the topic of this thread ? Also, do not want. |
Bere said: How does it cover the topic of this thread ? Well...most probably if you like futa or something something amount of proportion or whatever...I DON'T KNOW. I was trying....D: Bere said: Also, do not want. Which one.:) |
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| I just love being the minority of the minority. <3 |
| We are all elitist bastards. |
| I'm new :o And gay ^_^ |
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Loxaris said: Rocket-fox said: I'm new :o And gay ^_^ Welcome to the club then! ^_^ Hope you'll have a nice time here with us. =) Hey, thanks! ^_^ |
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| Welcome Rocket, I hope you will feel at home here soon. |
Rocket-fox said: I'm new :o And gay ^_^ Hallo Rocket-fox :-) |
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Rocket-fox said: I'm new :o And gay ^_^ Welcome, welcome! The more the merrier. We all seem to be friendly, so just have a good time! |
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Rocket-fox said: I'm new :o And gay ^_^ Excellent. Two wonderful things to be. :3 |
| Hey, Rocket-fox. Welcome. Jump in the insanity that is this group. |
| Insanity sounds good :P And thanks for the greeting y'all :D |
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| i'm BI |
| im bi |
 92% of teens have moved on to rap. If you are part of the 8% who still listens to real music, copy and paste this into your signature.... |
| I'm new here (both this club and this site). My name's Bat or Batch. And I'm a bi girl, who is obsessed with the sexiness of women. ^_^; |
| My sig hates me. Be back soon with one that likes me. |
BatchSan said: who is obsessed with the sexiness of women. ^_^; Nobody likes guys anymore... According to the documentary film I saw we're going extinct with more and more oestrogens in the enviroment, or something. ;0 Anyway, hello newcomers. |
Bere said: Nobody likes guys anymore... According to the documentary film I saw we're going extinct with more and more oestrogens in the enviroment, or something. ;0 Anyway, hello newcomers. ^^; Sorry. However, what I once observed as a fad a few years ago has seem to sprung into an epidemic. I'm a true bi, but I knew alot of girls who were doing it to be cool or sexy or to fit in. -.- Stupid chicks, really. But it does seem that more and more women are finding love and interests in each other. Short of the necessity to reproduce, I dare say the number of bi women would double. It's likely that one day science will make it possible to reproduce without sex between a man and a woman. :\ Really, it seems it's only a matter of time before we have a Vandread situation on our hands. I feel bad for you poor guys. o.o;; ^_^ Hey there, btw. |
| My sig hates me. Be back soon with one that likes me. |
Bere said: BatchSan said: who is obsessed with the sexiness of women. ^_^; Nobody likes guys anymore... According to the documentary film I saw we're going extinct with more and more oestrogens in the enviroment, or something. ;0 Anyway, hello newcomers. Not just the estrogens (funny theory btw - it's the new trend to feel sorry for males, isn't it), it's evolution.. the Y chromosome has been shrinking for ages. :P I don't see any reason to be sorry for mankind though.. I don't believe that anyone who would have been born won't be born. It doesn't make sense. We won't go extinct either. They've already made a pair of female mice reproduce. Successfully. |
| Well that's reassuring... What I've meant is males are going extinct, not humanity. Sorry if you don't care. :< |
| Us fellas are becoming an endangered species |
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Bere said: Well that's reassuring... What I've meant is males are going extinct, not humanity. Sorry if you don't care. :< I mocked the word mankind is all. MAN-kind. For some reason I don't feel like a part of it. |
Rocket-fox said: Us fellas are becoming an endangered species Soon us females will put you on the Endangered Animals list. o.O Or hunt you all into extinction. I would do the former, but I can't speak for the rest of woman-kind. |
| My sig hates me. Be back soon with one that likes me. |
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